Oyindidi:
Go and settle with him

madridguy:
Do you want him back? If yes, do you know his favorite food?

habsydiamond:
With all his attributes, praise e come end like that.... I can see fish here. Is there something u are not telling us... For a caring individual to leave just like that no common...pls wetin cause the break up...I wan understand

kushercain:
My sista if you ask me na who I go ask

HopeLoveLife:


It's very complicated hun....feelings have been fizzled out and it's best not to wake sleeping dogs...but I'd gladly say yes if he walked up to me one day and ask me to be his wife, if I'm single... otherwise no, but this I doubt.

SmellySperm:
Love don chop dis one sense finish

Auladimeji1:
Broccoli? Are you a Nigerian because we no dey eat am for here

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why didn't you Atleast arrange your goals to align with his? I'd drop everything if it means being with the one I truly love.

Anyways if you are lucky, d love might rekindle.

HopeLoveLife:

Lol


I never cheated on him, and as far as I know he was very faithful...


Religion was number 1....he stopped believing in the Bible, Christianity and became agnostic sort of... We used to argue about everything in the Bible, even though he just gave his life to Christ when I met him because he was formerly an atheist.


2ndly....age ain't on my side, but marriage ain't on his mind for now as he wants to be a billionaire..so to say lol and wants us to travel the world, enjoy life together before bringing in kids... How long do I wait for such? Such isn't even guaranteed as anything could happen in the future and I'd have wasted so many years on him....

I mean he loved me so much, so why can't we just get married? He is very scared of commitment and children responsibilities because everyday he talked about how he pities his friend who is a baby daddy and who has two jobs, work so much just to meet his daughter needs and that scared him a lot as he only worked on weekends then, which he was comfortable with ...a good job... then during the week he works on forex trading etc.... He hates working for people.


Anyways, he thought this through after I gave him an ultimatum, otherwise we'd still be together with me hoping for a surprise proposal not knowing none is coming soon, even though he told me several times how he'd be so happy when I become his wife.


I don't understand this my self.... Looks strange.

habsydiamond:
this guy really loves u...in the aspect of diverting from the religion u guy can work on it....sit him down tell him if he loves u he must remain a church goer or believer of Christ.. secondly, commitment aspect...this guy is afraid of failing in marriage that's the reason why he can't commit himself to u for marriage...he wants a better future for both of us...but his mistake is that God has plan for everybody....it can even be after the wedding that wonders will start happening.... Since u are saying u don't think u can get a man like him, it's better u go back to him and amend ur errors.

HopeLoveLife:


Thank you so much....


When the break up occurred, I honestly thought he was kidding lol I thought he couldn't do without me hehe anyways, well I tried talking him out of his decision but his mind was made up as he doesn't wants even his kids to be brought up in a Christian way, knowing fully well how much I love God.

I told him things will work out after marriage as God always opens doors of blessings for married couples, but all were on deaf ears especially for someone who really didn't believe in God.

We both cried once, we were so in love but letting things go was the only way out. I really do not want to hurt my self by hoping he'd change his mindset about Christianity and all....i just want God's will to be done in my life and if we don't eventually end up together, I'd still be happy he crossed my path.

habsydiamond:
maybe he is not ur man then.....u don't know what will happen if u end up marrying him.... I don't know if God used this as an opportunity to push away an evil on ur way in the future.. take heart.. and pray for a better man... I won't lie to u, he may not be like this one o... It also seems u had a sexless relationship with him... If it's so, don't be surprised that, the reason behind him being jovial, caring and all sort was to go down on u... It part of the strategy men use on ladies oo

HopeLoveLife:


That's my thought too... We might click so much but he just ain't mine... so sad... Yeah who knows, maybe a divorce in the future and God doesn't wants that for me. Yeah, I'm not keeping my hopes high to meet someone like him or better, just someone God has ordained for me....


About sex, I don't think anyone would keep such an act of 24hours of being romantic for almost 3 years just to lure me into having sex with him...there was no pressure at all... I'd ask him several times, he told me he loved me beyond sex and I think the hand thing helps him at times lol anyway he is not really a sex freak, he is more of caring, being sweet, kind, loving, business type of person... Just wanting to please you.

Our love was rare, super rare! You know when I see people loving up, I'd be like... Theirs ain't even up-to 20% of ours... It was too much! I haven't even met anyone who has experienced what we had... It's all good...


Thank you so much....i really haven't been able to express myself this much after the break up... bottled it all up and cry once in a while. It's nice expressing my self here... Thank you so much.

habsydiamond:
maybe he is not ur man then.....u don't know what will happen if u end up marrying him.... I don't know if God used this as an opportunity to push away an evil on ur way in the future.. take heart.. and pray for a better man... I won't lie to u, he may not be like this one o... It also seems u had a sexless relationship with him... If it's so, don't be surprised that, the reason behind him being jovial, caring and all sort was to go down on u... It part of the strategy men use on ladies oo

HopeLoveLife:

Lol

You know when you are romance sick, then you find someone who gives you over doze of "romanticness" if there is any word like that lol

I am a very romantic lady, but when I met him... I realized I was just a learner lol people around me thought I mixed love portions for him lol

solz007:
Wow!! This Post reminds me of this Book I read on how one should do relationship God's way. I really enjoyed the post. it's more practical Thanks for sharing!!

Yo! I really love what you did, a lot of us don't mind putting Money or an individual above GOD but you trusted God by not denying Him irrespective of how deeply you've Loved this guy.
About the guy, keep praying for him God will surely touch his heart and draw him closer to HIMSELF. I kinda feel his really your Soul mate which God made you guys meet each other so you can tell him about God's Love for him. more like that's your Husband in the making all you gotta do is to win him for Christ.
Read books that'll educate you on how to convert him and if possible let him watch Christian Movies like God's Not Dead that's centered on the existence of God.

Finally, Wouldn't you wanna see him in Heaven?? even when you Don't end up with him, Wish him Heaven by working towards winning him for Christ.
there's this book I read The Call Of Emily Evans in one of the chapters this unbeliever that was converted Lost her son and then she stopped going to Church and Believing in God! then Emily Evans the Missionary In that Neighborhood asked her these questions. Do you Believe your son is in Heaven or Hell?? her reply was Heaven Emily was like wouldn't you wanna See him again in Heaven? with this she had a second thought and started coming to Church. guess I've typed a lot, I got little point In this just pick something.
#SaveASoul!

spiralwedge:
HopeLoveLife, please move on.

dhebo:
...see this negative energy...not everyone will be like you

HopeLoveLife:


That's my thought too... We might click so much but he just ain't mine... so sad... Yeah who knows, maybe a divorce in the future and God doesn't wants that for me. Yeah, I'm not keeping my hopes high to meet someone like him or better, just someone God has ordained for me....


About sex, I don't think anyone would keep such an act of 24hours of being romantic for almost 3 years just to lure me into having sex with him...there was no pressure at all... I'd ask him several times, he told me he loved me beyond sex and I think the hand thing helps him at times lol anyway he is not really a sex freak, he is more of caring, being sweet, kind, loving, business type of person... Just wanting to please you.

Our love was rare, super rare! You know when I see people loving up, I'd be like... Theirs ain't even up-to 20% of ours... It was too much! I haven't even met anyone who has experienced what we had... It's all good...


Thank you so much....i really haven't been able to express myself this much after the break up... bottled it all up and cry once in a while. It's nice expressing my self here... Thank you so much.

HopeLoveLife:


Thank you so much....


When the break up occurred, I honestly thought he was kidding lol I thought he couldn't do without me hehe anyways, well I tried talking him out of his decision but his mind was made up as he doesn't wants even his kids to be brought up in a Christian way, knowing fully well how much I love God.

I told him things will work out after marriage as God always opens doors of blessings for married couples, but all were on deaf ears especially for someone who really didn't believe in God.

We both cried once, we were so in love but letting things go was the only way out. I really do not want to hurt my self by hoping he'd change his mindset about Christianity and all....i just want God's will to be done in my life and if we don't eventually end up together, I'd still be happy he crossed my path.