| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Magnoliaa(f): 12:29pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
That's my thought too... We might click so much but he just ain't mine... so sad... Yeah who knows, maybe a divorce in the future and God doesn't wants that for me. Yeah, I'm not keeping my hopes high to meet someone like him or better, just someone God has ordained for me....
About sex, I don't think anyone would keep such an act of 24hours of being romantic for almost 3 years just to lure me into having sex with him...there was no pressure at all... I'd ask him several times, he told me he loved me beyond sex and I think the hand thing helps him at times lol anyway he is not really a sex freak, he is more of caring, being sweet, kind, loving, business type of person... Just wanting to please you.
Our love was rare, super rare! You know when I see people loving up, I'd be like... Theirs ain't even up-to 20% of ours... It was too much!I haven't even met anyone who has experienced what we had... It's all good...
Thank you so much....i really haven't been able to express myself this much after the break up... bottled it all up and cry once in a while. It's nice expressing my self here... Thank you so much. lol  1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Magnoliaa(f): 12:30pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
dhebo:
...see this negative energy...not everyone will be like you It's possible that could be the reason... |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Magnoliaa(f): 12:32pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Woooow!!!!! This thread really proves that God exists and answers prayers!!! I’m now married to the most amazing, romantic and religious man and also most extremely handsome man in the world! He is x2 of my first post and I’m super grateful to God for How He proved Himself in my life!!! Please always look up to God for a spouse and never compromise with anything that’s not of God!!!
Praise the Lord!!!
Thanks to everyone too!!!  what a turnaround. 2 Likes |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 12:34pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:
Religion can be such a huge deal breaker... Lol true but that’s in my past now ooo lol mortal me thought I couldn’t find a better man, but my Immortal God said no, He is the creator of the Universe and gave me someone 200% better.  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 12:35pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:
what a turnaround. Yes oooo! God is very very very awesome! He made the impossible to become possible! Trust in Him always!!! |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Magnoliaa(f): 12:36pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Yes oooo! God is very very very awesome! He made the impossible to become possible! Trust in Him always!!! Well, congratssss 1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 12:39pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
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| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Woooow!!!!! This thread really proves that God exists and answers prayers!!! I’m now married to the most amazing, romantic and religious man and also most extremely handsome man in the world! He is x2 of my first post and I’m super grateful to God for How He proved Himself in my life!!! Please always look up to God for a spouse and never compromise with anything that’s not of God!!!
Praise the Lord!!!
Thanks to everyone too!!! Congratulations. I went back and read your older story, and I don't think you were going anywhere with the white guy. His favorite food is Broccoli?? Pukes  I share his views on religion Sha. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 12:49pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Rgade:
Congratulations.
I went back and read your older story, and I don't think you were going anywhere with the white guy.
His favorite food is Broccoli?? Pukes
I share his views on religion Sha. Hahaha broccoli is an healthy food tho lol Thank you so much and about the religion thing, I don’t know what must have triggered you in not believing In God because I’m certain you were brought up in a religious home, my prayer is that you find your way back to God as He is SUPER REAL and He loves you so much!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 1:03pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Hahaha broccoli is an healthy food tho lol
Thank you so much and about the religion thing, I don’t know what must have triggered you in not believing In God because I’m certain you were brought up in a religious home, my prayer is that you find your way back to God as He is SUPER REAL and He loves you so much!!! Healthy but gross like every other veggie. Yeah I was brought up in a religious home, my mum is a "true believer"; if she couldn't convince me, I don't know who will. But I do like the idea of religion without the accompanying hypocrisy and extremism we see today. If you take away religion from man, many will become hopeless and loose every will to move on. My mother is an example. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
It's over a year now and I can't t get him off my mind... 
My sweetheart, my partner, the one who I thought was my soul mate...mehn we clicked like capsules
It's so difficult finding or loving another man, after spending almost 3 years with a man I prayed for to come into my life, it happened and now we no longer together.
Please, guys am I really the only one going through this? Have you ever imagined your partner to look in a way , still be responsible and love you like crazy? You Prayed and your prayer was answered and everyday of your life you feel you dreaming because you wake up to your dream man loving you like his life depends on it?
Who is going to tell me "Baby I love you so much and forever" 10times in a day?
Who is going to hide secret love letters in my stuff, some I found after so many months of being hidden by my man? I had over 100 of those love hidden letters... Last one read " Baby, I love you so much...you + me = Forever.... Oh my, I'm in tears!!! Found it in my glasses case*** Lord please help me!!!
Who is going to call me so often texts me often, video call me often, talk to me for hours?
Who is going to hug and kiss my forehead?
Who is going to love me this way without sex?
Who is going to be so responsible, respectful, friendly even with his great looks like him?
Who is going to risk anything just for me like him?
Who is going to tickle me and chase me round just to see me laugh?
Who is going Tobe so pissed at me for my wrongs, but lowers his voice while talking calmly to me? Dude never yells or get angry!
Who is going to act childish like him?
Who is going to always shout "baby I love you" from the sitting room to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking?
Who is going to hold me so tight while walking in public?
Who is going to tell me he misses me every single time I go out to the next street to get something without him?
List is endless.... I know I shouldn't be doing this to my self... I know... I don't even need any man to meet up because that'd be asking for too much! It just hurts that I'm no longer with the man that did all these for me... It hurts so much....
Our break up was healthy, because we were both perfect for each other but along the line we figured we got different goals, so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially.
I envy his future wife already....
Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love.
Right now, to be honest I don't have any feelings towards him anymore, but I miss him and I'm grateful. I ON THE OTHER HAND PITY HIS FUTURE WIFE.It is this type of messed up relationship like yours that RUINS others happiness in marriage. AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE!!! Keep Self deceiving yourself that you don't have any feelings towards him anymore. Even with all you have written?!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 1:19pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
WORDWORLD:
I ON THE OTHER HAND PITY HIS FUTURE WIFE.
It is this type of messed up relationship like yours that RUINS others happiness in marriage. AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE!!!
Keep Self deceiving yourself that you don't have any feelings towards him anymore. Even with all you have written?!!!
Oh no I don’t and we are all different! Trust me it is all gone...and I wouldn’t jeopardize my marriage for such, I don’t take nonsense too besides that was in the past. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 1:23pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Rgade:
Healthy but gross like every other veggie.
Yeah I was brought up in a religious home, my mum is a "true believer"; if she couldn't convince me, I don't know who will.
But I do like the idea of religion without the accompanying hypocrisy and extremism we see today.
If you take away religion from man, many will become hopeless and loose every will to move on.
My mother is an example. Oh I see....it’s one thing to be a religious person an another thing to serve God in truth and in spirit. Once you have the Holy Spirit, religion is nothing as you can easily deduce what is wrong and right and not being hypocritical about it. It is not too late, to turn back to God though and you can do that with the Holy Spirit as you really don’t need anyone except Him. 2 Likes |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Tosin17(m): 1:24pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
[ You didn't even say why you guys broke up. Any man that comes your way now will suffer because you will always compare and contrast quote author=HopeLoveLife post=74114305]It's over a year now and I can't t get him off my mind... My sweetheart, my partner, the one who I thought was my soul mate...mehn we clicked like capsules It's so difficult finding or loving another man, after spending almost 3 years with a man I prayed for to come into my life, it happened and now we no longer together. Please, guys am I really the only one going through this? Have you ever imagined your partner to look in a way , still be responsible and love you like crazy? You Prayed and your prayer was answered and everyday of your life you feel you dreaming because you wake up to your dream man loving you like his life depends on it? Who is going to tell me "Baby I love you so much and forever" 10times in a day? Who is going to hide secret love letters in my stuff, some I found after so many months of being hidden by my man? I had over 100 of those love hidden letters... Last one read " Baby, I love you so much...you + me = Forever.... Oh my, I'm in tears!!! Found it in my glasses case*** Lord please help me!!! Who is going to call me so often texts me often, video call me often, talk to me for hours? Who is going to hug and kiss my forehead? Who is going to love me this way without sex? Who is going to be so responsible, respectful, friendly even with his great looks like him? Who is going to risk anything just for me like him? Who is going to tickle me and chase me round just to see me laugh? Who is going Tobe so pissed at me for my wrongs, but lowers his voice while talking calmly to me? Dude never yells or get angry! Who is going to act childish like him? Who is going to always shout "baby I love you" from the sitting room to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking? Who is going to hold me so tight while walking in public? Who is going to tell me he misses me every single time I go out to the next street to get something without him? List is endless.... I know I shouldn't be doing this to my self... I know... I don't even need any man to meet up because that'd be asking for too much! It just hurts that I'm no longer with the man that did all these for me... It hurts so much.... Our break up was healthy, because we were both perfect for each other but along the line we figured we got different goals, so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially. I envy his future wife already.... Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love. Right now, to be honest I don't have any feelings towards him anymore, but I miss him and I'm grateful.[/quote] 1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Freelane33(m): 1:27pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Like and quoted . I CANT COME BACK AGAIN .LOL . I’m tired of eating the same thing everyday  HopeLoveLife:
It's over a year now and I can't t get him off my mind...
My sweetheart, my partner, the one who I thought was my soul mate...mehn we clicked like capsules
It's so difficult finding or loving another man, after spending almost 3 years with a man I prayed for to come into my life, it happened and now we no longer together.
Please, guys am I really the only one going through this? Have you ever imagined your partner to look in a way , still be responsible and love you like crazy? You Prayed and your prayer was answered and everyday of your life you feel you dreaming because you wake up to your dream man loving you like his life depends on it?
Who is going to tell me "Baby I love you so much and forever" 10times in a day?
Who is going to hide secret love letters in my stuff, some I found after so many months of being hidden by my man? I had over 100 of those love hidden letters... Last one read " Baby, I love you so much...you + me = Forever.... Oh my, I'm in tears!!! Found it in my glasses case*** Lord please help me!!!
Who is going to call me so often texts me often, video call me often, talk to me for hours?
Who is going to hug and kiss my forehead?
Who is going to love me this way without sex?
Who is going to be so responsible, respectful, friendly even with his great looks like him?
Who is going to risk anything just for me like him?
Who is going to tickle me and chase me round just to see me laugh?
Who is going Tobe so pissed at me for my wrongs, but lowers his voice while talking calmly to me? Dude never yells or get angry!
Who is going to act childish like him?
Who is going to always shout "baby I love you" from the sitting room to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking?
Who is going to hold me so tight while walking in public?
Who is going to tell me he misses me every single time I go out to the next street to get something without him?
List is endless.... I know I shouldn't be doing this to my self... I know... I don't even need any man to meet up because that'd be asking for too much! It just hurts that I'm no longer with the man that did all these for me... It hurts so much....
Our break up was healthy, because we were both perfect for each other but along the line we figured we got different goals, so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially.
I envy his future wife already....
Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love.
Right now, to be honest I don't have any feelings towards him anymore, but I miss him and I'm grateful. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 1:32pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Tosin17:
[
You didn't even say why you guys broke up. Any man that comes your way now will suffer because you will always compare and contrast quote author=HopeLoveLife post=74114305]It's over a year now and I can't t get him off my mind...
My sweetheart, my partner, the one who I thought was my soul mate...mehn we clicked like capsules
It's so difficult finding or loving another man, after spending almost 3 years with a man I prayed for to come into my life, it happened and now we no longer together.
Please, guys am I really the only one going through this? Have you ever imagined your partner to look in a way , still be responsible and love you like crazy? You Prayed and your prayer was answered and everyday of your life you feel you dreaming because you wake up to your dream man loving you like his life depends on it?
Who is going to tell me "Baby I love you so much and forever" 10times in a day?
Who is going to hide secret love letters in my stuff, some I found after so many months of being hidden by my man? I had over 100 of those love hidden letters... Last one read " Baby, I love you so much...you + me = Forever.... Oh my, I'm in tears!!! Found it in my glasses case*** Lord please help me!!!
Who is going to call me so often texts me often, video call me often, talk to me for hours?
Who is going to hug and kiss my forehead?
Who is going to love me this way without sex?
Who is going to be so responsible, respectful, friendly even with his great looks like him?
Who is going to risk anything just for me like him?
Who is going to tickle me and chase me round just to see me laugh?
Who is going Tobe so pissed at me for my wrongs, but lowers his voice while talking calmly to me? Dude never yells or get angry!
Who is going to act childish like him?
Who is going to always shout "baby I love you" from the sitting room to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking?
Who is going to hold me so tight while walking in public?
Who is going to tell me he misses me every single time I go out to the next street to get something without him?
List is endless.... I know I shouldn't be doing this to my self... I know... I don't even need any man to meet up because that'd be asking for too much! It just hurts that I'm no longer with the man that did all these for me... It hurts so much....
Our break up was healthy, because we were both perfect for each other but along the line we figured we got different goals, so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially.
I envy his future wife already....
Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love.
Right now, to be honest I don't have any feelings towards him anymore, but I miss him and I'm grateful. Not true, I wouldn’t do that and I have no need to do that anymore because I’m now happily married, thank you. I guess my comment on a particular thread on front page drew you all to my profile lol |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 1:45pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Oh no I don’t and we are all different! Trust me it is all gone...and I wouldn’t jeopardize my marriage for such, I don’t take nonsense too besides that was in the past. NOPE! YOU ARE STILL VERY MUCH ATTACHED. THE VERY FACT THAT IT WAS A HEALTHY BREAK UP MAKES IT SO MUCH A GREATER CHALLENGE. THERE IS JUST ONE THING I BEG OF YOU PLEASE DON'T EVER LET THE NEXT MAN WHO CHOOSES TO LOVE YOU KNOW ABOUT YOUR ATTACHMENT TO YOUR SUPPOSED SOULMATE. DON'T EVER LET HIM KNOW SUCH PAST EVER EXISTED PLEASE FOR IF HE DOESN'T KNOW, HE WILL CONTINUE LOVING YOU EVEN IF YOUR OWN LOVE FOR HIM MAY NOT BE GENUINE. PLEASE AND PLEASE ONCE A MAN AGREES TO SETTLE DOWN WITH YOU, PLEASE TELL HIM NOT ABOUT THIS PAST. BLESS HIM WITH A PEACEFUL HEART BY NOT TELLING HIM HOW DEEPLY YOU HAVE FELT LOVE FROM A SUPPOSED SOULMATE WHO YOU SAY "BESIDES THAT WAS IN THE PAST" BUT IN THIS VERY PRESENT STILL WISH THAT PAST IS A DREAM COME TRUE. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Not true, I wouldn’t do that and I have no need to do that anymore because I’m now happily married, thank you.
I guess my comment on a particular thread on front page drew you all to my profile lol You are not HAPPILY MARRIAGE such happiness is only a CARICATURE unless if all that you have written here is but LIES. HopeLoveLife:
It's so difficult finding or loving another man,
so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially.
Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love.
l. RIGHT NOW I FEEL PITY FOR YOU HONESTLY. HopeLoveLife:
It's very complicated hun....feelings have been fizzled out and it's best not to wake sleeping dogs...but I'd gladly say yes if he walked up to me one day and ask me to be his wife, if I'm single... otherwise no, but this I doubt. Your present husband must not be reading this please. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
Woooow!!!!! This thread really proves that God exists and answers prayers!!! I’m now married to the most amazing, romantic and religious man and also most extremely handsome man in the world! He is x2 of my first post and I’m super grateful to God for How He proved Himself in my life!!! Please always look up to God for a spouse and never compromise with anything that’s not of God!!!
Praise the Lord!!!
Thanks to everyone too!!! HopeLoveLife:
It's very complicated hun....feelings have been fizzled out and it's best not to wake sleeping dogs...but I'd gladly say yes if he walked up to me one day and ask me to be his wife, if I'm single... otherwise no, but this I doubt. |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 2:26pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
WORDWORLD:
NOPE! YOU ARE STILL VERY MUCH ATTACHED. THE VERY FACT THAT IT WAS A HEALTHY BREAK UP MAKES IT SO MUCH A GREATER CHALLENGE.
THERE IS JUST ONE THING I BEG OF YOU PLEASE DON'T EVER LET THE NEXT MAN WHO CHOOSES TO LOVE YOU KNOW ABOUT YOUR ATTACHMENT TO YOUR SUPPOSED SOULMATE. DON'T EVER LET HIM KNOW SUCH PAST EVER EXISTED PLEASE FOR IF HE DOESN'T KNOW, HE WILL CONTINUE LOVING YOU EVEN IF YOUR OWN LOVE FOR HIM MAY NOT BE GENUINE. PLEASE AND PLEASE ONCE A MAN AGREES TO SETTLE DOWN WITH YOU, PLEASE TELL HIM NOT ABOUT THIS PAST. BLESS HIM WITH A PEACEFUL HEART BY NOT TELLING HIM HOW DEEPLY YOU HAVE FELT LOVE FROM A SUPPOSED SOULMATE WHO YOU SAY "BESIDES THAT WAS IN THE PAST" BUT IN THIS VERY PRESENT STILL WISH THAT PAST IS A DREAM COME TRUE.
You are free to believe whatever you choose to, I won’t argue with you nor convince you to believe anything, and you obviously generalizing this whole thing as per from your experience, sorry about that, but this is Me and not you. Thanks and have a good day. 1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 3:44pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
You are free to believe whatever you choose to, I won’t argue with you nor convince you to believe anything, and you obviously generalizing this whole thing as per from your experience, sorry about that, but this is Me and not you. Thanks and have a good day. Have a good day too. There is nothing there to argue about the obvious. Your present husband is still not your number one. Such is life. 
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| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 4:32pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
WORDWORLD:
Have a good day too. The is nothing there to argue about the obvious. Your present husband is still not your number one. Such is life. You can’t enforce your bitter beliefs on me! Bye! 1 Like |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 4:44pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
You can’t enforce your bitter beliefs on me! Bye! There is nothing to enforce here. Except if what you have written are just lies. My dear such is life. Only very few people marry the true love of their life. YOU WON'T BE THE FIRST NOR THE LAST WHO WON'T MARRY THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE. That is an irony of life!!! |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 4:50pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
WORDWORLD:
There is nothing to enforce here. Except if what you have written are just lies. My dear such is life. Only very few people marry the true love of their life. YOU WON'T BE THE FIRST NOR THE LAST WON'T MARRY THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE. That is an irony of life!!! You sound really bitter, I hope all is well with you? Secondly, I don’t believe in things as first love or love of my life because I have fallen in and out of love several times, so that’s basically the lies we were made to believe! Once I’m done with you, I close that chapter forever. God Almighty has blessed me with the man of my dreams and I don’t need to proof anything to you. I won’t reply you again, you seem like you need help. Good luck! |
| Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
HopeLoveLife:
You sound really bitter, I hope all is well with you?
Secondly, I don’t believe in things as first love or love of my life because I have fallen in and out of love several times, so that’s basically the lies we were made to believe! Once I’m done with you, I close that chapter forever. God Almighty has blessed me with the man of my dreams and I don’t need to proof anything to you. I won’t reply you again, you seem like you need help. Good luck! . God has blessed you with the man of your dreams?!!! So why all that you have written is not about this man that God has blessed you with?!!! You have not moved on. You are still clinging to that past which I can understand. You becoming EMOTIONAL is a proof on it's own. Love, Tornadoes, And Magikarphttps://thoughtcatalog.com/alfred-macdonald/2014/01/love-tornadoes-and-magikarp/ 1 Like |
