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Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by EJanni(f): 12:16pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:Oliver twist ngwanu o! Na you go still tire! 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by DaddyGngeess(m): 12:17pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Michelle55: So I was planning for two b4, so I will make it 3 then, good one from u.. Thanks..� |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by don4real18(m): 12:17pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Michelle55:A man will be in best position to answer this because there's hardly any woman who will want her man to marry another whether it's advantageous or not |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Mizwisdom(f): 12:17pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
It's very dangerous for your life, your wive's life and your children's life. In a whole day you can lose all you think you have accumulated due to Polygamy. It's not today it started but since the beginning of the world. Gideon had 70 sons but one from his concubine, Abimelech killed them all in one day. Remember David and his son who raped Tamar? what about queen Athaliah who killed all her husband's kids so she can rule? there are several examples around us, people who can't progress, those who die untimely, so many examples of waywardness due to polygamy. It's just like a deathtrap for many who get involved in it 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by leonn(m): 12:18pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Bro I completely disagree with you, sometimes a nagging and disrespectful wife can lead a man into polygamy, when the woman discovers there is a rival especially when the rival also have kids for you, they tend to behave so she doesn't get thrown out..... drmikeadams: |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
akan102: His mummy probably told him so. And the lady he is aspiring to make his his gf doesn't support it. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by akan102: 12:19pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Smartbrainfix: Please are you trying to say that the only reason men marry more than one wife is because of the sex? |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by bomsilaga(m): 12:20pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:IMO marrying an even number of wives portends its own problems as they will constantly be on eachothers necks. The ideal number should be 1,3,5 and so on. This allows for rotational gang up amongst them and free you from excessive headaches. You sef think am. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
EJanni: That is why I am managing only one for the meantime. I want to lay a solid financial foundation. According to plan, my wife has me to herself for just 4 more years. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by pocohantas(f): 12:22pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
It is very good if the woman has her own money and can milk enough from the man. Taking care of a grown man alone is too much stress. If you have co-wives to share it with, you can have enough time for yourself and sideguys. He wouldn’t be looking for you upandan, because the other wives would be at his beck and call. 4 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
bomsilaga: Nah it doesn't really matter. What matters is that you control your household. Whether one or one hundred, if they see you are in control, they will not dare to cause trouble. Women are natural troublemakers, but they know their limits very well. You only have to ensure that you set those limits from day 1 of marriage. The problem is that in modern society, from day 1 to after one child, the men are still doing love love while their wives are the one setting limits for them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by jaxxy(m): 12:24pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
It's a mentality thing.. atleast 60% of married men have side chicks even with the hardship so ![]() |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Mizwisdom(f): 12:24pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Ned is not clean, but won't go further. I pray we will witness what will happen in his household when he departs. You're joking with polygamy? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by DexterousOne(m): 12:24pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Apart from those who desire a large family, which one woman cannot exactly give you There is mo other TANGIBLE ADVANTAGE OF POLYGAMY That's my view anyways It's for those who want the kids |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Mydazz(m): 12:25pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
party at least, if it's one of your fantasy |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: [b]Paint it all you want, justify it with Islam or any other religion if u like, use the adjective “responsible” to make it look good all you want....if u like, even say polygamy is reducing the number of single women...to make it look like a humanitarian stunt. Take it or leave it...you cannot marry many wives and not be greedy... weda u are keeping them outside under adultery like some men do, or u formally bring ur greed home and add more to the women in the name of polygamous marriage.... it doesn't change the fact that u had a wife at home and u were lusting after another outside...until u formalized ur lust and added more lust later... Wait how do U people even do it if you are polygamous anyway....does it even look right or feel right?? Entering one pvssy today, enter another tomorrow, enter the next perhaps the same the day.....looks like a script from a highly corrupt film writter..... How do women even cope psychological receiving dic from another pvssy...when it’s not pornographyy...[/b] 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by mignone(f): 12:28pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:Who says? |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
mignone: I said Dangote and Atiku and u are still asking who says....don’t u know them? |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by sunky4sly(m): 12:32pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Having more than 1 wife is a good thing if only the man will be able to take care of them both equally without being partial. Look around in your area, find me like 5 men that married more than 1 wife and died young....Men with more than one wife tend to live long.... |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: No I am not an adherent of any organized religiosities, but I believe that Islam has a lot more good about it than polygamy, which prejudiced bigotry may not let you see. And muslim extremism has nothing to do with polygamy. Polygamy existed long before Islam or Christianity and was the norm. It was the Church that unnaturally proscribed it. Those who oppose polygamy can not usually find any logical reason for doing so. Perhaps you can do the honour? And I no longer believe in the truth of your bible so please don't quote the 'one flesh' verse that christians always rely on. 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by mu2sa2: 12:33pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
tete7000:That's why i cautioned against long grammar. The verse you qouted, does it unequivocally say you cannot marry two wives? 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by mechanics(m): 12:33pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
It does not have at all, infact it's unscriptural. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Wow. Bolding your pointless assertion makes it so very convincing. I have seen the light. Now please go away. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by drightguy(m): 12:35pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Certainly as the saying goes, "To every disadvantage there is a corresponding advantage" but I haven't given it any thought though. Haven said that, destiny certainly defers; it might be of great advantage to one and.... Y'know. But due to our African women's attitude there tend to be more known disadvantages of polygamy than advantages. Like my guy up there said.... Better have mistress than second wife. (That saying comes with lot of real life experience) Even Jesus never had any wife; talk more having 2wives.... My brother I will like to be your lawyer! |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by enemyofprogress: 12:36pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:with more than one wife is not extra abi? 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
enemyofprogress: I didn't say extra. I said extra marital. "Extra marital"; outside the confines of a legally and/or culturally acceptable marriage contract. Polygamy is a legally and/or socially acceptable marriage to more than one spouse. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Liposure: 12:38pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
in case u dont know, polygamy breeds jealousy, conflict, discord, hatred among families involved. dis in itself hinders u from enjoying benefit of marrying more dan one wife 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by EJanni(f): 12:39pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:oga live me alone! Whatever you choose for yourself is non of my business. Meanwhile, more strength to your amu |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by lielbree: 12:39pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
NextD18:Rich men don't have nagging wives bruh... 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Pointless....?? I know ur kind...it’s better not dialogue with you as u have suggested...peace man 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Mizwisdom(f): 12:40pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Yes, agreed most of us including myself have grandparents who were polygamous, I must tell you it isn't something pleasurable in most cases but if you feel that's the best life for you please go ahead ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by franchasng: 12:40pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
barnny:Yes oh. We should be asking: Are there advantages in marrying more than 2 wives because more than 1 is every man's wish and calling ![]() ![]() |
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