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Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
abbatoir: Sorry bro. I am not one for many friends or contacts. Interacting on NL is sufficient. Don't vex. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 1:38pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Amanda4life: 1:40pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
I prefer a husband to marry second wife instead of sniffing around. So I can have freedom to face my life as a single married woman. You know what that means? The week I'm not on duty to warm your bed I will resume my connection with my man friends. No vacum in life.. Enough fun. Chatting cheating While you still carry your responsibilities as a figure head husband. It wouldn't be easy for you to monitor your wives unless you want to die untimely. And I will become the happiest widow I'm loving it already 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by hush15: 1:41pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
barnny: There is no problem marrying more than one woman. That has always being there since caveman days. The problem is that values, norms and culture are lost. The only reason why a woman is intolerant to a fellow woman is because most women nowadays lost the proper home training and become intolerable. Then men too have become ignorant and look for the wrong things in women. Coupled to the misinterpreted bible stand of one man and one woman. Since the advent of one man, one wife, the rate of divorce has increased, incest skyrocketed, rape rampant. Now immorality is second to none. Not to digress much, the advantage of marrying more than one wife since immemorial has always been to expand horizon, it used to be sign of affluence, it used to sign of strength and growth. Today, as sure it won't be much different but pls don't bite more than you can chew. 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Amanda4life: 1:43pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
The person that posted this topic really want to marry a second wife. This lockdown is bringing out so many thing's. Well, I will advice you to marry more than one . Experience is the best teacher. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Tranquility4u: 1:45pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Smartbrainfix: You completely got it wrong. You are trying to mislead others. Having more than one wife is better and safer than you keeping to those mistresses. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Munzy14(m): 1:45pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
mignone:Some who keep only one wife, still cant get peace of mind. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by bizhop01: 1:45pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Extra pussy makes man happier |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by DanZubair(m): 1:48pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Everything in life has advantages and disadvantages but if you mention of polygamy the disadvantages in it surpasses the advantages. I was born into polygamy, my mother was third wife to my father and was the one to begat him three sons, this sparked hatred in the extended family that even the family members of my step-mothers became jealous of my mother till date, and they pass it to my step-brothers and step-sisters to inherit against us. If you want competition you can go into it...If it is peace of mind that you wanted, I should advise you marry only one wife which is enough for an average man. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Munzy14(m): 1:48pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
barnny:Polygamy is tough, but if u want to, do 3 Two will gang up. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Unik3030: 1:49pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:though it's your life m whatever you choose to do with it is nobodys biz but let me give u two experiences about polygamy Right now my landlord is frustrated because he is a polygamist n the Corona lockdown has brought his children together under one roof n it's war everyday even the man is tired of it right now The second example was when I was in school,we had a rich man in our area who married 4 wives n had 17 children with them,one of the children died n b4 u knew it d wives started pointing accusing fingers at each other thereby every wife had to tell her children to leave d house. when d man was bedridden none of the children came around cos of fear n even the wives were partially present n absent at d same time.At d end of d day d rich man died without none of his children around n to make it worse they didn't come for his burial cos of fear of the unknown.oga all these things might not happen in a monogamous setting 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by wisdomkid: 1:49pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
barnny: One of the worst decisions. Your children will forever hate you (if they are educated oh), because of the rivalry between them and their mothers. There won't be peace in your home as the children grows older. There will be huge jealousy, competition and comparison between both wives and their children. Not worth a dime. Get peace of mind. 4 Likes |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Tylerbreeze(m): 1:54pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
U will taste different types of kpekus , one from a fair , complexioned woman, one from chocolate complexioned woman and one from a very dark complexioned woman |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Unik3030: Remember that I made the maturity, strength and sensibility of the man a pre-condition. I also stated clearly that he must be capable and willing to take adequate care of his homes. To give you an analogy, look at each wife like a business, if you are an ignorant, immature or weak manager, you will struggle to manage even one business, talkless of many. It doesn't mean that having many businesses is bad... it is certainly not; a savvy strong businessman will have many businesses and will run them well. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
abbatoir: Yet people are beaten in churches and mosques to avoid infecting people in God's house? |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by drmikeadams(m): 2:07pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
chinyce:[center][/center]. This is where the problem is,,when they die off like chickens then the real problem starts,then the man who started d whole problems will be no where to be found |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by favour32(m): 2:07pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Anyone wey sweet you,you do. Most domestic violence for Nigeria na from monogamy. Who nor get money to buy meat go say teeth dey pain am. Who dey manage e rickety car, go say why you throw away money go buy that expensive Benz. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by googi: 2:07pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
The most important thing here is to limit your responsibilities to what you can carry in terms of children, women or men in your lives. I was searching for one problem that exists in polygamy that does not exist in serial monogamies be it envy, greed, competition or rivalry. Nobody mentioned one. Please, can anyone tell me anywhere in the world where the desire for more than one woman or man does not exist. In whatever we do, character is the key. Character has nothing to do with polygamy or serial monogamies. Do not blame the behavior of rapists, abusers and hedonists on whatever marriage is in your culture. Reform bad ones e.g parading virgins for king to marry. Who wants the left overs, unless you're desperate? 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by AmazonHippolyta(f): 2:14pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
martinogeenz:It does not stop cheating. Who chooses to cheat will still cheat 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by IMASTEX: 2:18pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Michelle55:Sense will not kill you. The truth is having many children or multiple wives are no longer in line with the dictate of this current world system. Those that did it back then did so majorly out of economic reason. Farming was the major source of income hence more hands equal more income while maintaining less running cost for the family. But now, one will end up breeding crimes even when you have money to care for them, you can't maintain proper control. And at the end, it will be a game of who gets what via the mothers who will be fronting the battle. Las Las na the women go enjoy while the man is abandoned or given less care. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by sowilli: 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
There is no advantage in marrying more than one wife oooo. There isn’t all. It will tell on your children. If you check the records in the Bible, the man who had more than one wife faced some family problems at sometime- Abraham, Jacob, David , Solomon. Isaac married one wife and even when there was problem in his home when Jacob stoke Esau’s blessing, Esau was the one who later went to look for his brother. He forgave. That the power of a single man and woman. Do you think if Job had more than one wife, he wouldn’t curse God. See what happened to Solomon. The devil is able to penetrate the family when a man has more than one wife. I want to believe this is why the New Testament envisages one man, one wife as the family is the foundation for the church. See God’s instruction for kings- Deuteronomy 17:16-17 New International Version (NIV) 16 The king, moreover, must not acquire great numbers of horses for himself or make the people return to Egypt to get more of them, for the Lord has told you, “You are not to go back that way again.” 17 He must not take many wives, or his heart will be led astray. He must not accumulate large amounts of silver and gold. Remember we are redeemed Kings. Stick to the wife of your youth. Prov 31: 3 says do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings. A prudent wife is hard to find to more two. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by excanny: 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Ofcos having more than one woman in your life is advantageous(better behaviours and even better sex). I remember telling one unserious gf I have that one of my baby mothers still trying her best to come live with me permanently but that I've been avoiding her since. You won't believe the kind of sex this my unserious gf have been giving me ever since. But back to ur question, You only need to hold one wife at a time in this modern world. Doesn't mean you can't have previous baby mamas. So many men are in this kind of situations. Look at Tu face, Davido and Wizkid. I have 2 baby mothers myself and I still consider myself single cos I've never found that one ideal woman I'm looking. So if I eventually find her and marry her, would you call me a polygamist. Its not an ideal world, and just do what makes u feel OK. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by abbatoir(m): 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
[quote author=1StopRudeness post=88086454] [b]Paint it all you want, justify it with Islam or any other religion if u like, use the adjective “responsible” to make it look good all you want....if u like, even say polygamy is reducing the number of single women...to make it look like a humanitarian stunt. Take it or leave it...you cannot marry many wives and not be greedy... weda u are keeping them outside under adultery like some men do, or u formally bring ur greed home and add more to the women in the name of polygamous marriage.... it doesn't change the fact that u had a wife at home and u were lusting after another outside...until u formalized ur lust and added more lust later... Wait how do U people even do it if you are polygamous anyway....does it even look right or feel right?? Entering one pvssy today, enter another tomorrow, enter the next perhaps the same the day.....looks like a scrip[/b]t from a highly corrupt film writter..... How do women even cope psychological receiving dic from another pvssy...when it’s not pornographyy...[/quote Well..I am only concern about the bolded Man were designed to exploit..if you know you know.. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by eyebbe: 2:25pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
No advantage. Please note, one woman is enough heart beat. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by abbatoir(m): 2:25pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Vortex369: Well..let me burst your mind... Religions people don't understand what they were doing hence the term..Blind faith If you know you know... |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
abbatoir: Religions are becoming a disgrace to their adherents. Just a waste of time for the wise. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by suratwo62: 2:29pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Michelle55: Excellently said. But Michelle55 na me you de call grandpa? |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by IMASTEX: 2:37pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Punchline33:Good you're happy and the wives are competing to care for you as expected in a polygamous home. But you must continue to fund it evenly. And of course, I pray you aren't also in the boat of those with long term effect. I.e. women strategizing around their children to have their children well fixed before they start manifesting thereby leading to father abandonment or given less care at old age. True, no perfect marriage anywhere but the risk is higher with multiple partners. Stay bless in your home. |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by cococandy(f): 2:38pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Whoever thinks there should be a conversation about a woman letting him do something he won’t allow to be done to him is an idiot. I see polygamists as morons. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Akanoaaa(m): 2:38pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
If I should use my own dad as study case, even to marry just one sef will fear me. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by suratwo62: 2:39pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
hush15: The bible cannot contradict itself. Christianity is founded on the 12 sons of one man from four wives. Jacob had twelve sons by four women, his wives, Leah and Rachel, and his concubines, Bilhah and Zilpah, who were, in order of their birth, Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Dan, Naphtali, Gad, Asher, Issachar, Zebulun, Joseph, and Benjamin,. These 12 sons make up the nation Israel which God says “For you are a people holy to the LORD your God. The LORD your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession. The LORD did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples. But it was because the LORD loved you and kept the oath he swore to your ancestors that he brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you from the land of slavery, from the power of Pharaoh king of Egypt.” (Deuteronomy 7:6- 1 Like |
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