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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 04, 2020
choblak:


Lafiya Lau babar mutumina
Ashe Kayi aure fa
Ina Taya ka murna fa
Na yi aure Walahi. ama se ahankali
Taya.? Ban gane Taya fa. Ka sen wei Hausa ba karfi kaman naka. ka pasa mun Dan Allah

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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 9:22pm On Apr 04, 2020
pbreturned:
Na yi aure Walahi. Ama Hmmmm se ahankali
Taya.? Ban gane Taya fa. Ka sen wei Hausa ba karfi kaman naka. ka pasa mun Dan Allah

Lolx nawa zaka biya mun in koya maka?

Ok Bari na gaya ma kowai ya zama Kamar bonus ayau kowai

That "taya" means "join" like I join to celebrate with u in marriage
Ka fahimta?

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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 9:26pm On Apr 04, 2020
choblak:

Lolx nawa zaka biya mun in koya maka?
Ok Bari na gaya ma kowai ya zama Kamar bonus ayau kowai
That "taya" means "join" like I join to celebrate with u in marriage Ka fahimta?
lol na gane grin

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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 9:27pm On Apr 04, 2020
pbreturned:
lol na gane grin

Hahaha
When are we expecting the diary?
Is it new one or still those old ones?
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 9:31pm On Apr 04, 2020
choblak:


Hahaha
When are we expecting the diary?
Is it new one or still those old ones?
Kai koma hausA. Kuma ba na Riga na bude ba? Ka je diaries mana. Shege lol grin kana so Ka ce wei ban iya Hausa ba? Shine Ka koma turanci? Kai ko? Fuckhomophobes I bet you can join in this discussion. grin yeye boy lol

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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 9:44pm On Apr 04, 2020
pbreturned:
Kai koma hausA. Kuma ba na Riga na bude ba? Ka je diaries mana. Shege lol grin kana so Ka ce wei ban iya Hausa ba? Shine Ka koma turanci? Kai ko? Fuckhomophobes I bet you can join in this discussion. grin yeye boy lol

Ban gani diary din kuma ba ai
Hahaha nine shege ko? Ba damuwa Sai na gawa matar ka ai
Akwai gulma Gare ni sosao
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by butterfly777(m): 9:47pm On Apr 04, 2020
This seems deliberately designed to promote gay/lesbianism. It's just done indirectly to deceive people.

May God deliver you in Jesus' name.

You're using your reverse psychology again. Not difficult to spot.

*People are not born gay or lesbian. They are initiated into it.*

Somebody who has been initiated will initiate another person through:
1. Demonic manipulation.
2. Financial inducement.
3. Molestation.( minors, rape)


It is spiritual. Ones you do it with any of them, the demon infects the victim too and starts feeling like that. That's how it spreads.

How to quit?
Go for deliverance. Remember, demons are involved. Go for deliverance and stay away from known gays/lesbians.
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 9:53pm On Apr 04, 2020
choblak:


Ban gani diary din kuma ba ai
Hahaha nine shege ko? Ba damuwa Sai na gawa matar ka ai
Akwai gulma Gare ni sosao
Toh gashi nan https://www.nairaland.com/5774057/poundsboy-returned-bisexual-escapades-18#88103278
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 9:59pm On Apr 04, 2020
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 10:01pm On Apr 04, 2020
butterfly777:
This seems deliberately designed to promote gay/lesbianism. It's just done indirectly to deceive people.

May God deliver you in Jesus' name.

Go and sit pls
Mind ur business pls at least we happy people
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 04, 2020
butterfly777:
This seems deliberately designed to promote gay/lesbianism. It's just done indirectly to deceive people.

May God deliver you in Jesus' name.
You are so obsessed with gay matters. Even the thread you opened on the 3rd of January, 2020 suggests you are a "CHRONIC CLOSET GAY" In hiding. Better deactivate this account and open a new one to express your feelings. meanwhile, enjoy the thread you yourself opened https://www.nairaland.com/5611413/signs-lesbianism-gay-school-hostels
Fuckhomophobes see them o. Choblak gasu nan. Ka zo mu yi musu uuuuuu lol
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 04, 2020
choblak:


Godiya nake fa babar mutum
bar shi ai. Dan liwadi ne. Ka yi mishi wuuuuuuuuuuuuu
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 04, 2020
embarassed
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 10:08pm On Apr 04, 2020
pbreturned:
bar shi ai. Dan liwadi ne. Ka yi mishi wuuuuuuuuuuuuu

Haha nasan irin su ai
Suna yin ta aboye
Akwaisu a online dayawa sunata damuna Wai su na sona
Amma Bana basu fuska
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 10:14pm On Apr 04, 2020
choblak:


Haha nasan irin su ai
Suna yin ta aboye
Akwaisu a online dayawa sunata damuna Wai su na sona
Amma Bana basu fuska
Kar ka taba ba su fuska fa. Su na yi ama za Su iya Su sa Ka a wahala fa. se Su ce wei Kaa ba Su kudi kuma Su chi Ka kuma fa as in rape. Sun Dan luwadi ne ama Su na de mugunta kuma. Kar Ka taba ba Su fuska Dan Allah
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by flyinnizam(m): 10:17pm On Apr 04, 2020
mrbenjame:
Homosexuality is a big sickness. It could also be spiritual. But I’ve cime to find out that why others flaunt their sexuality in such regards some don’t until you discover on your own by chance. Now have you ever felt this way? Seeing your close babe or gee is a homosexual over the years without your knowledge? Please share.

For me it’s a long story. I’m sharing this based on my real life experience. Please take pains to read it.


I met this course mate in my first year. He doesn’t joke with his properties. He doesn’t even give people so to speak. But each time I ask him to lend me some of his stuffs he gives me with speed. Since I didn’t know him to be gay I just felt it’s God’s Favour in my own sight.



Now fast forward to my Nysc clearance . I was out of school then. But the boy had a little problem in school and had to spend an extra year. I just went to my childhood friends house to squat for the time being of my clearance. (Mind you that this my childhood friend’s house was formerly my room before he moved in since we all lived in the same compound before I graduated)But the problem is that this my childhood friend lives with his girlfriend. Before then he lives alone. But since it was my compound it was nothing new. He even loved my stay.

The problem now was that the girlfriend was always acting funny whenever the guy is not around. The guy noticed it but I just made him feel she’s just being nice. She talks to him in a disrespectful manner but treats me like a king. To be honest I was not comfortable.




As a faithful friend I decided to avoid her. She hardly wears cloths whenever the guy goes to school. She’ll just tie towel and move up and down the house. As a sharp guy, I’d just be fully dressed even with my shoes on. Then I’d stay at the balcony every now and then.



This thing kept repeating until one day this my friend came back and saw me sitting on the pavement in his frontage. He asked me why am I not inside the house? I said I’m fine here. When he entered inside and saw the babe undressed. He got mad and they started quarreling. In a short while they started exchanging blows.


After everything was settled it was getting dark. So I had to leave the place to locate this gay course mate to spend the night.



When I got to his hostel he was very happy. He spent so much that day like a boyfriend came to visit him. I was surprised too. He gave me his assignment to do for him so I told him I’d do it first thing tomorrow morning as at then. He obliged.



While we were sleeping, about 2 am (because it’s a two man room and his room mate was not around, and he convinced me not to lie in the other bed ) I innocently agreed.

he was rubbing my chest and tried touching my d**k. I jumped out of the bed. Turned on the light and asked him what he thinks he’s doing? He blatantly denied. I knew we wanted to do something because I felt it so badly like a woman was touching me.


So because of how terrified I was and how surprised he could touch me in such manner I became more scared and refused to sleep again. I told him to give me the assignment that I want to do it that time. He said it was dark. I insisted. I had to do that assignment with sleep eyes till morning. I didn’t know where else to go. Accommodation was hell for me. I had no option than to sleep in class till I was done. Till today I don’t even mingle with that guy as I speak to you. I was so disappointed.
why did you think I became disappointed?
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 10:27pm On Apr 04, 2020
pbreturned:
Kar ka taba ba su fuska fa. Su na yi ama za Su iya Su sa Ka a wahala fa. se Su ce wei Kaa ba Su kudi kuma Su chi Ka kuma fa as in rape. Sun Dan luwadi ne ama Su na de mugunta kuma. Kar Ka taba ba Su fuska Dan Allah
Karka damu
Akwai hikima Gare ni
Ni Ina da shekara ashirin da biyar ne fa
So na San abinda ketafiaya

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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by butterfly777(m): 6:36am On Apr 05, 2020
pbreturned:
You are so obsessed with gay matters. Even the thread you opened on the 3rd of January, 2020 suggests you are a "CHRONIC CLOSET GAY" In hiding. Better deactivate this account and open a new one to express your feelings. meanwhile, enjoy the thread you yourself opened https://www.nairaland.com/5611413/signs-lesbianism-gay-school-hostels
Fuckhomophobes see them o. Choblak gasu nan. Ka zo mu yi musu uuuuuu lol

You're using your reverse psychology again. Not difficult to spot.

The thread you're the referring to is a thread to reveal information about gay/lesbianism, especially in schools, prisons, etc. So that authorities can tackle it.

People are not born gay or lesbian. They are initiated into it.

Somebody who has been initiated will initiate another person Through:
1. Demonic manipulation.
2. Financial inducement.
3. Molestation.( minors, tape)

It is spiritual. Ones you do it with any f them, the demon infect the victim too and starts feeling like that. That's how it spreads.

How to quit?
Go for deliverance. Remember, demons are involved. Go for deliverance and stay away from known gays/lesbians.

There is hope for you.
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 10:56am On Apr 05, 2020
butterfly777:


You're using your reverse psychology again. Not difficult to spot.

The thread you're the referring to is a thread to reveal information about gay/lesbianism, especially in schools, prisons, etc. So that authorities can tackle it.

People are not born gay or lesbian. They are initiated into it.

Somebody who has been initiated will initiate another person Through:
1. Demonic manipulation.
2. Financial inducement.
3. Molestation.( minors, tape)

It is spiritual. Ones you do it with any f them, the demon infect the victim too and starts feeling like that. That's how it spreads.

How to quit?
Go for deliverance. Remember, demons are involved. Go for deliverance and stay away from known gays/lesbians.

There is hope for you.

Come and deliver us pls
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by mrbenjame: 11:03am On Apr 05, 2020
Please. I didn’t open this thread for meeting points for gays. You can go form such threads elsewhere. And please don’t try to hijack this thread with your folly that you can’t even defend in public. I’ve told you. Desist from this thread. There’s a topic up there and I think if you’re not cool with it you just leave in peace. What’s that?
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by butterfly777(m): 1:38pm On Apr 05, 2020
choblak:


Come and deliver us pls

Pray to God. He will deliver you.

Come to think of it.
If you died today, where do you want to spend your eternity?
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 1:43pm On Apr 05, 2020
butterfly777:


Pray to God. He will deliver you.

Come to think of it.
If you died today, where do you want to spend your eternity?

If I die today I know God n believe that God will accept me cos I don't hate people
I love everybody and everything
What did the bible said about love?
Love is kindness
Love is patient
Love is generousity
Love is sacrifice
without u showing love to ur fellow human n nature my bro all these ur preaching is nonsense.
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by butterfly777(m): 1:54pm On Apr 05, 2020
choblak:


If I die today I know God n believe that God will accept me cos I don't hate people
I love everybody and everything
What did the bible said about love?
Love is kindness
Love is patient
Love is generousity
Love is sacrifice
without u showing love to ur fellow human n nature my bro all these ur preaching is nonsense.

And what did the Bible say about same sex intercourse?

You have to serve God by following all his instructions. You cannot just choose what you like to obey and do other things God warned against.

God loves you. He will help you out of this thing if you ask him. Just call on Him. He wants to help all those who ask Him for help.
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by FuckHomophobes: 2:02pm On Apr 05, 2020
butterfly777:


And what did the Bible say about same sex intercourse?

You have to serve God by following all his instructions. You cannot just choose what you like to obey and do other things God warned against.

God loves you. He will help you out of this thing if you ask him. Just call on Him. He wants to help all those who ask Him for help.


Osheyyyyyyyy, make way for the deliverance Minister. grin

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Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 5:03pm On Apr 05, 2020
butterfly777:


And what did the Bible say about same sex intercourse?

You have to serve God by following all his instructions. You cannot just choose what you like to obey and do other things God warned against.

God loves you. He will help you out of this thing if you ask him. Just call on Him. He wants to help all those who ask Him for help.

Is it everything u follow in the bible?
Even the said if u tell ursef u re not a sinner then u are a big lier
And not doing it just because anyother person is doing it
Am doing it because I love it and it makes me happy
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 5:09pm On Apr 05, 2020
FuckHomophobes:



Osheyyyyyyyy, make way for the deliverance Minister. grin

I have seen people like him
They will come and forming holy than thou bfore u know it another thing will follow

There was this Sunday in Jos I went to 10am mass in one of the parishes there so bfore 8am mass could finish
There was this guy that came preaching to me about the kingdom
Bfore I knew this guy started acting funny I have to excuse him that my attention is needed at the other side of the church where bulletines are sold. HahAha grin
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by butterfly777(m): 5:33pm On Apr 05, 2020
choblak:


Is it everything u follow in the bible?
Even the said if u tell ursef u re not a sinner then u are a big lier
And not doing it just because anyother person is doing it
Am doing it because I love it and it makes me happy

I can see that you don't understand the Bible.

All *have* sinned. That means every body ha sinned before. It doesn't mean everybody *is* a sinner.

The day anyone decides to change from the sinful way and accept God's way, that day, the person is no more a sinner.

I was a sinner.
I am no more a sinner.

All of us have the chance, including you. Don't let shame of those you are in sin with withhold you from making a decision about your life and eternity. Non of them will be in help you if you go to hell like this. I am not here to act holier than thou.

If I didn't do lesbian/gay before, I fornicated. So I was no better than you. I am just telling the way out.
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by choblak(m): 6:11pm On Apr 05, 2020
butterfly777:


I can see that you don't understand the Bible.

All *have* sinned. That means every body ha sinned before. It doesn't mean everybody *is* a sinner.

The day anyone decides to change from the sinful way and accept God's way, that day, the person is no more a sinner.

I was a sinner.
I am no more a sinner.

All of us have the chance, including you. Don't let shame of those you are in sin with withhold you from making a decision about your life and eternity. Non of them will be in help you if you go to hell like this. I am not here to act holier than thou.

If I didn't do lesbian/gay before, I fornicated. So I was no better than you. I am just telling the way out.

Tank u sir
Bye bye
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by mrbenjame: 7:27pm On Apr 05, 2020
choblak:


Tank u sir
Bye bye


Even if it’s not by force you should listen to us but I think � in your private time you should just have a rethink and know what the Bible says that our body is the temple of the God almighty. If you must make Him dwell in your body then you need to refrain from things like that. No one hates you. No one castigates you. I didn’t condemn my friend because he’s gay. I didn’t make him feel more of a person. I only felt disappointed because he told me long ago how he hated gays but saw him trying it out on me. I can’t change you. And I’m not trying to. I just wish you could see things the other way and see how life turns out for you. Good luck bro.
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by luwiizy(m): 7:36pm On Apr 05, 2020
pbreturned:
A time is coming when this gay thing will become fashionable not just even accepted. Mark my words in the next 5 years or so to come. Straight people will act as gay just to be in vogue cos if you notice, this gay is selling unnoticeably but strongly. They have presented most things to us which we patronize and crave for and of late they have kuku proceeded further to make a show of their sexuality which people will not only accept but make a show of.
Not quite long I remember when boot cut jeans (style) came, people would shout are you gay? God forbid! When they see you wear it cos truly it was worn by not any kind of gays o but the CHRONIC ONES. How e take finish? We all started wearing it. Pencil jeans nko? It was even gayer to wear pencil but how e be now? Fitted shirts nko? The shoes? Jumpe trousers nko? Sexy looking tops nko? Ass down and low waist. ALMIGHTY PINK LIPS Guy just forget. Na 5 years I give Nigerians! 5 solid years. Mark this statement
watin new way man eyes never see...abi you de do your own lowkey you just dey plan the year way you go cast am?
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 06, 2020
mrbenjame:



Even if it’s not by force you should listen to us but I think � in your private time you should just have a rethink and know what the Bible says that our body is the temple of the God almighty. If you must make Him dwell in your body then you need to refrain from things like that. No one hates you. No one castigates you. I didn’t condemn my friend because he’s gay. I didn’t make him feel more of a person. I only felt disappointed because he told me long ago how he hated gays but saw him trying it out on me. I can’t change you. And I’m not trying to. I just wish you could see things the other way and see how life turns out for you. Good luck bro.
It's always like that. People who claim to hate this things as in announcing to whoever that cares to listen that they hate gays are themselves gays in closet. Its a known fact. BTW I feel your pain. It's actually disgusting especially where you are not programmed for it or never saw it coming
Re: How Disappointed Do You Feel Finding Out Your Closest Friend Is GAY Or LESBIAN by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 06, 2020
luwiizy:
watin new way man eyes never see...abi you de do your own lowkey you just dey plan the year way you go cast am?
Na for your front e go kuku happen

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