Happyguy201:


it has everything to do with it , because they raised a sissy and a pussified boy

Erediauwa see ur life
I don dey tell ya since but you no hear, but another person don tell you

Eeeyaaaahhh

SweetCunt97:
Twisting it to suit yourself huh? Stay there and form stingy and a better caring man will take her away.

...and tomorrow another better caring man will take her away again.

See, women are the ones that made themselves as an object for sale.

Vikky014:
Is that why you dont want to give me money_? okay thankioToks2008

Hahahaha! See me see trouble o...

We no dey date Nah! So why I no go give if I get and even if we dey date I go still give as long as I fit afford am.

How you dey Barbie?

Toks2008 may God bless you more for this beautiful piece. In fact, i have been in this shoe on several occasions with deferent Exes. Looking back now, i keep wondering how come i spent so much on those bitches when i could have used those money to better my life and even care for my parents. Its really sad buh i thank God for the wisdom now. I cant be a fool to no woman now. Never!

Please give us o

Erediauwa:
I don't have a pussy bro.... Don't let the picture decieve you.


I am Jason.

You mean Jason the scammer

Ariza:
Oga Toks is barely trying to build a castle in the air by dishing out this advice.

Take Money and Sex out of Nigerians relationship and watch it fall. Men spend to show affection and feel complete while women open legs to show affection and feel complete in Nigerian relationship. Now advising one to withdraw which isn't even possible is like suggesting to the other to close legs. Lol

Until Nigerians get the true meaning and purpose of relationship, they may never get it right.

...excellently summarized.

OpinionCounts:


Welldone oo....as women are now take away products for the highest bidder...after objectifying yourself today and proudly placing yourself beneath a man, tomorrow u guys will still come here to shout feminism.

When u say "proudly placing yourself beneath a man", are you referring to sex? What if it's only girl on top I do? That or nothing? Anyways, I really don't see what the ideology "Feminism" got to do with anything.

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

This one na ash....

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

Making serious sense!!!

Erediauwa:
I don't have a pussy bro.... Don't let the picture decieve you.


I am Jason.

You can still sell your Anus.

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

like say it is only guys that enjoy the sex abi? If u don't give him the pussy, u are also punishing yourself na

Newmanluckyman:
...and tomorrow another better caring man will take her away again.

See, women are the ones that made themselves as an object for sale.

Or you men love to go for what you love? If men respected the fact that their fellow G is dated a lady, I doubt cheating would be high.

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

Abeg make una give this guy a bottle of beer ...abi na malt you dey take ?Give him a crate of maltina.Do you also know that sending a lady airtime does not mean she will call you with that airtime ? But do you know something, we are the ones spoiling the ladies .When a guy does not give her ,another guy will give her .That is the problem we are having .She will start comparing the two guys

comshots:
After you don give gels money tire the gels don break your heart you go come here dey advise us not to give.Na who say make you use your house rent do benevolent?Abeg na money wey no go hurt me if the gel dump me I go dey give her.And e no dey pass #2k every month.I try Abeg.

I guess you just joined Nairaland recently else you suppose know that the OP is on one of the prominent and decent guys here that post reasonable things more than a decade now.

Oops! I just discovered you are a kid still squatting under your parents roof. Only your poor English shows that you haven't see the 4 wall of university.
I guess you are the same age mate with my nephew. My kid of 3 years even have sex more than you.

Sense

IbrahimSkiba:




I must comment syndrome


How on Earth is he a weakling?


Grow up and stop being a BITÇH

got no time for hungry cuntsss

But how can a woman raise a son who refers to females as "Bitches"? I see a mass failure in upbringing of boys. It shows no iota of respect for females and everything begins in your families. Mothers have failed

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

oh boy your head they there,you hit the nail on the head,I don't know why guys always afraid to spend for a lady they're dating? what's money? is only stack poor guys afraid to spend for lady's. with your money you can get the best lady's in the world.let them enjoy your money and they shower you with there love.



N.B:
my only advice for you is to spend wisely.any lady's that try to play smart with your money dump her and move on, there are so many fishes in the river....only stingy and poor guy find it difficult to get babe.

Ariza:
Lots of Sense!

Which sense you think if guys plan no sex ladies won't protest and soapy won't increase?

One of the best threads I’ve ever encountered on nairaland.

Never knew toks had sense like this

ngwababe:


The way some of you guys talk sometimes eh!

Go to all brotels, hotels, bars, restaurants, eateries,etc., na men full am, with which people, babes. So I'm still wondering where these ones in Nairaland came from.

Guys dey go abroad come back, come they Bleep girls anyhow with money. Then you wonder what really happened to them in that abroad they came from. Are the girls over there not cheap like Nigerian girls?

Finally, why men too dey talk wetin dem no dey do?

One oloshow sported that always took her customers to hotels ..even
Self she get room for one brothel like that . Oloshow how
Work

Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS... TRUE AND HERE THEY ARE

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...

What ! Is she so poor that she cannot afford to buy a popcorn on her own ? Babes una too dey beg..It irritates me

You prefer to see them suffer?
Just say give reasonably don't give foolishly.
Just make sure you make enough money before saying this.
Spending on your woman not bitch isn't a wrong one.
Me.. I'll take care of my woman

I don't know why guys always afraid to spend for a lady they're dating? what's money? is only stack poor guys afraid to spend for lady's. with your money you can get the best lady's in the world.let them enjoy your money and they shower you with there love.



N.B:
my only advice for you is to spend wisely.any lady's that try to play smart with your money dump her and move on, there are so many fishes in the river....only stingy and poor guy find it difficult to get babe.

elyonchee:
stop passing wrong messages. You are the type, that will not give your wife money even though, she works.

As old as you are why are you complaining? Evening news paper sported

Toks2008:


In other words, Your Psy is for sale.

You can only give out what u have,u can't give out what u dont.pussy is all they have to offer men awon oloshoo

Crazychris:
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..

uncle , it is your duty as a man to pamper the women in your life .. Your mother , your sister , your wife , and your girl friend ( whether you marry her or not ) if your r broke don't even think of having a girl friend, go and look for a source of income, women were created to be pampered , if you can not afford that now or you begin to count the cost when you give .. Then be patient ... ( please stop this trash talk )

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

VERY SENSELESS

SweetCunt97:
When u say "proudly placing yourself beneath a man", are you referring to sex? What if it's only girl on top I do? That or nothing? Anyways, I really don't see what the ideology "Feminism" got to do with anything.

Ok...now I understand.

Cheers.

comshots:
After you don give gels money tire the gels don break your heart you go come here dey advise us not to give.Na who say make you use your house rent do benevolent?Abeg na money wey no go hurt me if the gel dump me I go dey give her.And e no dey pass #2k every month.I try Abeg.

2k ? Is it for recharge card or for her cream,soap or undies? You be 18years old?