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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Skyfornia(m): 9:22am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Following... interesting 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:24am On Apr 08, 2020 |
After that experience on nairaland yes it was 9k that I got but the many ideas I was given and the encouragement to live on really pushed me to give life another chance. I was crying while writing that epistle and putting it on nairaland and even having to comvince some guys to understand I was real and not a scammer was tough on it self but that night that depression left because of the calls and encouragement I got from nairaland and the next day I sold something at home and paid to learn how to fix CCTV camera instead of just been at home wallowing in self pity or doing jobs that was killing instead of bringing in money. I began learning how to fix CCTV and by November because I took it so serious and with lot of determination to learn it i was done learning and someone told me to take my job to social media that I could get more clients and thanks to Joe Abah on Twitter he was so gracious enough to help me retweet my pinned tweet on my Twitter handle and I got lot of views that day and some potential clients, yes I haven't done a big job yet but there is now a reason to live and smile again and be a better man January 1st my shola called me to wish me happy new year and I wished her as well and i asked about Samuel and she said he misses me and from her voice I could tell she wasn't feeling too fine because that wasn't her normal voice but I decided not to care again, how I wished I pushed to know what's was wrong with her She told me she would like to see me for something inportant but I said we weren't gonna see until I get a car and make money again how foolish I was and she said no wahala and that she would always love me no matter what and I just waived it aside and moved on with life until the 25 of February i think when I got a call as early as 6am by her friend that knew we were dating and she asked me if I had heard, I asked her heard what and she said Shola is death. I asked Esther if she was mad what kind of dirty joke is that and she swore it to me that it was true and immediately my heart sank again and those sleep in my.eyes vanished into thin air and I immediately dropped the call with Esther I called Shola's line and it was switched off, i went to her WhatsApp to chat hwr up but her last seen was January 8 and I called her Mom and the Mom confirmed it. Oh goodness my heart was broken, I cried, I cried, i cried oh I cried that morning again. And i began to reminisce of how she helped me during those times I was still playing football, her laugh, our pictures together, those times we made love, those times we took our kids to the eatery together, those times we planned to get old together, those times she helped me press my hip with hot water, those times she would steal her mom's 1k or 2k to give to me to travel to play football, those times she was there when my mom died, those times i was sick and she would stay with me till I get better, those times she would fight anyone and everything for me and during this moment I didn't think about her hurting me again, I didn't think about her dumping me or cheating on me, I even blamed my self that if I hadn't rented that apartment she could still have been alive and while still mourning her a few days later her Mom called me and asked me those questions 252 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by coronavirus19: 9:34am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Very foolish boy Veryfoolishboy: 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by konkonbilo(m): 9:36am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Angelacruz: 9:57am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Baba abeg no quote d guy again,if u wat to comment go to reply.Some f us were d use nokia x2 are not finding it funny Rawhumper: 200 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 10:10am On Apr 08, 2020 |
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again. Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head. I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine. I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine. Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you. and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things. To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one. I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming. To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go. And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you. I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE 2653 Likes 337 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by JustPerpetual(f): 10:16am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Thanks for sharing. Inspired me 317 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Usmanzy(m): 10:18am On Apr 08, 2020 |
God bless u for sharing 124 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Angelacruz: 10:21am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Abeg cum continue 5 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by prince2pac(m): 10:23am On Apr 08, 2020 |
It's never easy.... Sometimes you look back and wonder how you got where you are today... We must overcome 228 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by sageb: 10:26am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Quite an interesting story. Even though you have to work and walk in the dark alone, don't give up. There is light at the end of the tunnel. 281 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Drince: 10:27am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Nice
Rip shola.
A lesson to one is a lesson to all.
I learnt one or two things in your life story..
I pray each step i take works for me. 181 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kevsmart88(m): 10:28am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Lots of lessons to extract from this piece, enough of the threads on nairaland bashing women all the time. We need more of this to serve as life lessons to the younger generation. Seun if you're reading this, it's high time you put a stop on so many denigrating threads flooding nairaland about our women cos that's all we read on romance sections these days. Be strong fella, keep the hustle real and diversify, be present in that young hommies life cos that's the perfect gift she left you painful you didn't call back to hear her affirm the legitimacy herself. Finally when the time is right, find a woman that will give you the peace you seek and fill the void shola left....peace bro! 417 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by shamsin6300(m): 10:29am On Apr 08, 2020 |
[quote author=Tankunland post=88215811] When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again. I almost cry on this last part. Even though I am just a student datx struggling to survive,,,,,,, I really regret nt helping u with the little I have back then. People tend to used social media to scam people which in turn affect those that are really in need. Wish u the very best in life Sir. 338 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Godsonjolly: 10:38am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Hmm.. Was a nice piece, touching, inspiring, awesome, great and wonderful. Thank God ur days of darkness are over and light has come... All is well that ends well. @ OP, are you Ajayi 41 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by faithfull18(f): 10:39am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Touching. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Eberechi24(f): 10:42am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Aww, what a sad story. RIP shola. Lefulefu, come and cry with me. 10 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 08, 2020 |
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by madampresident(f): 10:45am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Wow! Youngman, the lord is your strength. Have you considered writing as a career, even if it's part time? You write so well. 307 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 10:46am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Godsonjolly:nope you know I wanna keep my animosity right? But my name is close to ajayi but not ajayi 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 10:49am On Apr 08, 2020 |
JustPerpetual:you welcome my lady 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Anonime1105(m): 10:50am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Hmmmmmm! Such a sad story! ThankGod you came out Stronger! 8 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 10:52am On Apr 08, 2020 |
So touching... But why would Shola hide Samuel's paternity from you while you were already taking care of him like a son? That doesn't make sense. Anyways RIP to her. 101 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ThothHermes: 10:53am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Life is spiritual. It is what is on your head that determines what goes on around you. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by heniford2: 10:55am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Reading this stuff really made me have hope last year here i asked for help from pals cause i was going through hell could not feed nor do anything people said i was scam Buh someone here helped me by giving me 5k dat 5k saved me from killing myself even know I'm still struggling its hard Buh i want to thank that beautiful woman who transfered that money to me she never called me to check if i have gotten the money i swear within me that day to always help people in mad situation bros am proud of you once again thanks for sharing i can't help it i just shared tears know. lol 485 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by damtan(m): 10:56am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Eeehya.
It's been long I felt emotional RIP to Shola 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by fredopareto(m): 11:00am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Rawhumper: |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by seanwilliam(m): 11:00am On Apr 08, 2020 |
omo....I learn 15 lessons from this 1. Never have girl friend at tender age 2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling 3. Dont be too generous 4. Dont live beyond your means 5. A man should be strong emotionally 6. Never date a single mother 7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back 8. Have multiple source of income 9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you 10. Your condition is the not the worst 11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second 12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out".. 13.learn a skill no matter what 14. Dont trust people easily 15. Prayer works.... And lastly 16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts Your breakthrough is near Tankunland 1015 Likes 89 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Godsonjolly: 11:02am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland: I know u wanna keep ursef anonymous. But I think I know u. I'm not saying I know u in person or have seen u tho 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Elimon(m): 11:04am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland:Most painful part of the whole story 5 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Godsonjolly: 11:05am On Apr 08, 2020 |
seanwilliam: You very correct. Esp number 1 and 2. Most people fail to realise the concept of doing the right thing at the wrong time. His story just changed my mindset. I'm happy for him cos he was given a second chance to learn and become more sensible. 185 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Anonime1105(m): 11:05am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland: 5 Likes 1 Share |
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