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Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 12:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
I'm 32yrs and unable to establish a relationship with any girl
The issue is that I use to see the kind of girls I like once in blue moon and all of them always reject my advances but the girls that are always come to me are really not my specs..
I'm getting old and need a girlfriend
What should I do?
Re: Pls Help by dawnomike(m): 12:05pm On Apr 08, 2020
Well, maybe your spec is difficult to come bye.

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Re: Pls Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
is that not the definition of OJUKOKORO ?!

you wrote you cant get in a r/ship with "any" girls, but yet when girls come to you, you reject them for not being your specs. so rephrase that to...you actually CAN get with girls, but you believe they are not good enough for you.

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Re: Pls Help by Nobody: 3:27pm On Apr 08, 2020
The ones that rejected u are not ur level..... The one dt comes to u are ur exactly level..


Stop looking for wat u can't get

Use the available few resources around u

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Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 4:58pm On Apr 08, 2020
ProfDview1:
The ones that rejected u are not ur level..... The one dt comes to u are ur exactly level..


Stop looking for wat u can't get

Use the available few resources around u
You are right but there's this one that was disgusted when I approached her and she looked down on me and was mad
But today if I flash her number she will go for a thanksgiving in church
I'm such a guy that doesn't show off but ladies always like flashy things
Many girls that do like me are mostly of high quality and class but I wanted girls who are sexually pure
Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 5:00pm On Apr 08, 2020
dawnomike:
Well, maybe your spec is difficult to come bye.
That's it. .
I don't like make ups and I like girls who are virtuous
Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 5:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=88222554]is that not the definition of OJUKOKORO ?!

you wrote you cant get in a r/ship with "any" girls, but yet when girls come to you, you reject them for not being your specs. so rephrase that to...you actually CAN get with girls, but you believe they are not good enough for you.[/quote
That's what I'm saying
Infact some girls will be wondering why I'm not interested in them
But the issue is that if a girl tell me about her ex or present boyfriend I will just get jealous and start avoiding the girl
Re: Pls Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:07pm On Apr 08, 2020
Rutherford2019:
That's what I'm saying
Infact some girls will be wondering why I'm not interested in them
But the issue is that if a girl tell me about her ex or present boyfriend I will just get jealous and start avoiding the girl

well bro, whats more important for you...to play holier than thou while masturbating every night OR to (codedly) use some "facially impaired" women, in order to quench that bastard konji, until you found a proper babe to date properly?!

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Re: Pls Help by Nobody: 5:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
Rutherford2019:

You are right but there's this one that was disgusted when I approached her and she looked down on me and was mad
But today if I flash her number she will go for a thanksgiving in church
I'm such a guy that doesn't show off but ladies always like flashy things
Many girls that do like me are mostly of high quality and class but I wanted girls who are sexually pure

U will find... Sexually pure means u r looking for a virgin abi... Then u r not ready bro

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Re: Pls Help by Freelane33(m): 5:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
Bro I understand you very well okay . The only advise I’m going to give you now is that you should work hard and make money . If you have enough money this problem will
Stop ... check the pics below .. you want something of this nature right ..? Every guys want something good .. Na every guys spec be that . Highly competitive .. work hard , make money . Your spec will come by herself when you have enough

Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 8:39pm On Apr 08, 2020
Freelane33:
Bro I understand you very well okay . The only advise I’m going to give you now is that you should work hard and make money . If you have enough money this problem will
Stop ... check the pics below .. you want something of this nature right ..? Every guys want something good .. Na every guys spec be that . Highly competitive .. work hard , make money . Your spec will come by herself when you have enough
Lol
I have this kind of girls in my disposal but that's not the type I want guy because I know I can't handle her
But I don't know how to describe my dream girl
I have only seen three, one in my village but she thought that she's too big for me, another is my course mate in university but she's of same age with me and the one I met recently in UK
Infact the later told me that I'm not measured to the type of man she wants
I
Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 8:41pm On Apr 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


U will find... Sexually pure means u r looking for a virgin abi... Then u r not ready bro
I'm ready but I'm looking for my type
I'm not saying the person must be a virgin but she should at least demonstrate sexual purity
Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 8:43pm On Apr 08, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


well bro, whats more important for you...to play holier than thou while masturbating every night OR to (codedly) use some "facially impaired" women, in order to quench that bastard konji, until you found a proper babe to date properly?!
Guy I need serious relationship
I don't have time to while away with someone I know I can't settle down with
Re: Pls Help by Nobody: 8:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
Well maybe, just maybe you are not looking for her in the right place and then it also depends on your kind of person and life, the kind of people your life attract etc.
Re: Pls Help by Angelacruz: 9:34pm On Apr 08, 2020
Hw do u dress??hw do u talk?jst package ur self very well n gaals will be mad at u
Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 10:46pm On Apr 08, 2020
Angelacruz:
Hw do u dress??hw do u talk?jst package ur self very well n gaals will be mad at u
That packaging I think has eluded me
I'm always a busy person and I am faced with so many responsibilities
Re: Pls Help by Angelacruz: 4:21am On Apr 09, 2020
Dnt be too busy to take care of ur self.Dress n smell nicely and ur perfect gal will locate u
Rutherford2019:

That packaging I think has eluded me
I'm always a busy person and I am faced with so many responsibilities
Re: Pls Help by Rutherford2019: 5:10am On Apr 09, 2020
Angelacruz:
Dnt be too busy to take care of ur self.Dress n smell nicely and ur perfect gal will locate u
OK
Let me see what I can do
Infact what happened to me last month off me completely
Re: Pls Help by Angelacruz: 6:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Try ur best.Bye!
Rutherford2019:
OK Let me see what I can do Infact what happened to me last month off me completely
Re: Pls Help by Ebenezer2021(m): 1:24pm On Apr 17, 2020
Freelane33:
Bro I understand you very well okay . The only advise I’m going to give you now is that you should work hard and make money . If you have enough money this problem will
Stop ... check the pics below .. you want something of this nature right ..? Every guys want something good .. Na every guys spec be that . Highly competitive .. work hard , make money . Your spec will come by herself when you have enough

Lmao hahaha guy u no get well grin
Mehn
Re: Pls Help by AarewaMafia: 1:31pm On Apr 17, 2020
Rutherford2019:
I'm 32yrs and unable to establish a relationship with any girl
The issue is that I use to see the kind of girls I like once in blue moon and all of them always reject my advances but the girls that are always come to me are really not my specs..
I'm getting old and need a girlfriend
What should I do?

So essentially u want a virgin who doesn't like flashy things.
Re: Pls Help by Dshocker(m): 1:56pm On Apr 17, 2020
Rutherford2019:
I'm 32yrs and unable to establish a relationship with any girl
The issue is that I use to see the kind of girls I like once in blue moon and all of them always reject my advances but the girls that are always come to me are really not my specs..
I'm getting old and need a girlfriend
What should I do?

At this age,you are having the mind set of getting a girlfriend,instead of nurturing to have a wife
Re: Pls Help by tunize(m): 2:03pm On Apr 17, 2020
This o.p funny nor b small u dey reject based on spec and girl dey reject u based on spec too waooo law of attraction. Jst remind me of the saying of "what goes around comes around" bros u need wife sey not girlfriend. BE PATIENT

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