Stats: 3,189,659 members, 7,937,966 topics. Date: Monday, 02 September 2024 at 02:54 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide (141799 Views)
Man Wins $30.5 Million Lottery 24 Hours After His Girlfriend Dumped Him (Video) / My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good / She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) ... (40) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by target100: 11:11pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Contact me tankunland, 7 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by OlawaleBammie: 11:12pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
1x2x3: Sir pls come again @ur last input. I tink i can relate |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Zeinymira(f): 11:13pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
I kept ignoring this story until I saw it on FP. Thanks S.eun for bringing it on FP. It's been a while I read a touching story. I'm glad you survived it. Nigeria is hard, it's harder when you do not have relatives/friends to support you. Being an orphan in this country is something else. You're a good person, smart and also contented with the nothings you had. I hope greedy ladies will learn that greediness ruin lives. Here's a guy who had 3 mouths to feed, still he didn't prostitute himself (Mr Greg), didn't push drugs, didn't do ritual. Yet a lady will sleep with men to buy vanity things. I hope we learn to value and appreciate the little we have. Keep surviving OP 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by deavicky(m): 11:13pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
This is the most lengthy article I have ever read on Nairaland however it's worth it. And I also like the way u connect the story. 13 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by jojogirlx: 11:14pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Apologies on behalf of the myopic young lad. God gat you, Bro! Every situation in life that doesn't break you makes you stronger! Believe me you will be great! Humans/Life Experiences makes it really difficult to help people especially on social media, i seldomly assist people on SM but your story today has made me to think differently. God bless you Tankunland: 4 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Miakellz: 11:14pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland: is this your whatsapp number? 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ODB2: 11:15pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
The sound track to this thread must be by a solo violinist. Depression is no joke. Thank God you are picking your life back together and you now have Samuel as an inspiration to have someone to live for. But, your Shola no try. God took her away from you so you can survive the temptations she laid for you. I am sorry to say this and also sorry to judge, but Shola would have made your life a living hell. She drove you on three occasions into desperate situations. And when you overcame those situations, she left you. In my book she was the architect of your problem and not some one to cherish. I have been in your shoes once and had a girl I cherished, loved and did all in my power to take care of. But she cheated on me. I broke up with her immediately I sensed her cheating on me. Note: I did not catch her with any man but knew things had changed and that she was seeing some one else in my back while still pushing me to get married to her. I even met her folks and was planning on the traditional wedding when I realized she was cheating. I called it quits immediately. She went apeshit after that and did all she could to smear me before her's and our friends as well as her family. I was busy drinking and partying to let it bother me until one day I got sick of hanging out and banging oloshos. It is that time of quiet I began to miss her. I started to have doubts in what I knew where my gut instincts which later held up less than a week of our break up when she began openly dating some guy and posting pics with him from vacation in Obudu ranch. All this and I still wanted her back. You know why so... because when you truly love some one just as you loved Shola, it is almost never easy to walk away from them. I started to review every moment I had with her, every kiss, every laughter and every fight we had and began to think maybe I did not give it my best. Maybe I wasn't caring or passionate enough. Maybe she deserved more than what I had to offer. At this point I got depressed not from losing her but over my self perceived failures. It took me 5 years after breaking up with her to get into a fully commited relationship again which led to marriage. Do I still think of my ex.... yes I do. Every other 3 or 4 days she comes to my mind. It could be a song playing on the radio or a familiar scent or perfume, a bust of laughter... just reminds me of her. Do I still love her... maybe. Remember you never ever fall out of love with some one. Do I still want her.... never. If anything my ex thought me to love myself. Now that I am married, I am commited to my wife and my kids and will not trade them for anything in the world. tl;dr: Forget Shola. It will be hard, painful and slow. You will get someone who deserves you. Remember that every breakup is one jerk away from your true love. Good luck. 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by NumbEmotions(m): 11:15pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Sad bro but I think you are or rather were too emotionally available ![]() |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 11:15pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
xrayj:Don't quote me if you can't read and comprehend 9 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by gowonmaharajah(m): 11:15pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
wow,the world is so messed up. I read widely and I can sure tell who a person is just by reading your words. the OP is meek,gentle,however he's equally weak at heart. 9 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Wow... ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by goldiam(f): 11:16pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
1x2x3: |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nephilim: 11:16pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Na wa o! So Shola was use as a yahoo yahoo scapegoat ![]() Not only Shola, many ladies have been used and their soul caged in spiritual darkness and their spirit wandering over the earth. My younger bro also venture into yahoo and because he wasn't making much, he went to meet one baba, who asked him to buy goat, if not for God, even as he stepped out of the babas place it wasn't long that he was caught by police and those ones started calling us from there, we bailed him and he himself went to meet one of our pastor for deliverance due to some other things he had done. Unmhm beware of flashy flashy o! Not all that glitters is gold. Even my Heavenly papa knows I'm easily influenced by friends so He took them away from me, and blessed me in his own way. Ladies stay contented o, he's yahoo and you like it cos he's spending the money for you, unmh! One day one day, he won't have choice than to use you o! So beware. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by 1x2x3: 11:16pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
OlawaleBammie: Yes bro the moment you are entangled you will find it difficult exiting. I've gone through that and it took a 3rd party to forcefully pull me out. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Freshlap: 11:16pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Life continue my broda |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by goldiam(f): 11:17pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
[quote author=goldiam post=88240460][/quote] Enough of all these bullshits talks of women being the downfall of men most men also bring bad luck to their women 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by xrayj(m): 11:17pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
IdreamOfUnicorn:Shut up! This is how u people mislead soft & innocent men. What was the meaning of that nonsense u wrote? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ghettochild(m): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland:You weren't smart then.. How can she be remorse when she realized her baby daddy is still d person he has always been... She played on ur feelings knowing u loved her.. There r so many of this girl out there. Do u know why they make this mistakes.. They do so all in d name of first love or he is my babydaddy 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland: May the Lord strengthen and favour you. May He bless the work of your hands. Thanks for sharing BUT WORK ON YOUR CHRISTIAN LIFE . And ladies, you have a lot to learn from here. The man you are pushing harder to make money, has a lot of things he's avoiding just to protect you and lastly becareful who you date. 9 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
xrayj:Go back and read what I wrote again, this time slowly. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Dukeolumidemans(m): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland: I remember u. I told u to create a job instead of looking for one. Thank God u are alive and kicking...never give up!!! 11 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kema01(m): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
God bless u �... Thanks for dis piece of advice. D God u serve wil lead ur path ijn. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by goldiam(f): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
1x2x3: Enough of all these bullshits talks of women being the downfall of men most men also bring bad luck to their women 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ODB2: 11:21pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
gowonmaharajah: Most likely a Taurus. They are sooo sensitive and loyal to a fault. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Jojujewel(f): 11:21pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
What a sad ending for Shola. I wish you all the very best in life. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by tunize(m): 11:21pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Thanks for sharing with us o.p you're a great man. This story is so emotional that i almost wanted to cry while forming hard man especially wen u said shola died.Rip to her and i learnt lots of morals from ur life experience." Our priorities should be set right in life, contentment and we value ourselves while we still have breath in us, in all control our anger and forgive. Ladies look before u leap not the opposite. GOD BLESS YOU BRO.!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by tayooluwole: 11:21pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
And at the end, Shola died...think about this guys, life should be taken as a play ground not meant to be stiff about... Your story inspires me, what ran me into depression sometimes ago is just a fraction of your own story...I am now more resilient and more like my hustle henceforth will rest on d standard of your story...cheers 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by jaxxy(m): 11:22pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Quite an inspiring story or not giving up and I hope u get to the top. What diffreciates us from our aspirations In life is mostly our choices. Endeavour to make the right choices and with God and sm faith in urself u will be exactly where u want to be. Going through ur story there are several things and at several times u cud have done things differently or better. Bt we all learn. U don't have to compromise ur principles to succeed. Cheers |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Abidec76: 11:22pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
God is your strength Bro. May God open the door of success for you and everyone else. You can also make use of Facebook for your business advert. Just join lots of Business Groups on Facebook as possible. People respond well there too. All the best Bro. Tankunland: 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ODB2: 11:22pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland, how did shola die |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Oblongata: 11:22pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
RIP Shola May God uplift and bless you... Please learn how to repair/install Ac also, na hot cake... |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ubongga(m): 11:23pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Read through your story and am so inspired.... You really need to organize a mentorship program.... Its a nice and inspiring story.... God bless you for sharing such a story... |
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) ... (40) (Reply)
Photos Of Male Sex Dolls For Women / True Dirty Sex Stories.. / Inside The Factory Where Sex Dolls Are Made (Photos)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 71 |