Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Very touching, peace be unto you brother

Deeply touching and most inspiring story I’ve read on this platform.

I learned a lot and I believe you learned a lot more from the whole experience.

Oh Shola! RIP.

You can write and publish this story. Everyone alike will learn a thing and you’ll make money.
When you’re seriously ready with the book and need funding, you can reach me.

Beware of every other Sholas that can drag you to point zero again

Never give up! You’re so close!

Tankunland:



To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

Thank you for this advice. It will be cherished!

OP thanks for sharing your story,so touching and inspiring,I like the fact that you avoided mr Greg and ijebu guy

ODB2:


What are the chances that that simp that came to your lab had a son that looked exactly like his next door neighbor but had his DNA.

This is real. In the old days women or girls who lost their virginity where considered tainted and impure and carrying the genes of their sex mates.

Naa!
It doesn't work like that. The accuracy of every positive paternity test is 99.999%. That's how we write our reports.

No chance for a mix of other 'foreign genes' if the test is a true Positive.

Hmmmm the story pass seasonal film oooooo
Well I do not have anything to say but to read the most inspiring comments

guy you dey make me fear women more

One of the best peice i have ever read in Nairaland... so inspiring

seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry .. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland

Especially that 13 and 15 very important

Thanks for sharing. You're a good man and have endured a lot. God will continue to see you through.

LabDNA:


Naa!
It doesn't work like that. The accuracy of every positive paternity test is 99.999%. That's how we write our reports.

No chance for a mix of other 'foreign genes' if the test is a true Positive.

Listen, you don't get the article.

It states that the woman's DNA is altered by her sex mates


When you test for DNA paternity, you test the chances of one of either of the parents' parental claims.

You test for the man's paternity claims based on his genes being present and not that of the woman.

Have you also read on how long term couples end up looking like each other.

The woman basically transforms after years of sex to look like the man

This is pure flesh of my flesh stuff and is why God hated adulterer because it turned the women to globs of DNA soup.

to become a man is not easy o.i hv seen guys who has everything but die young thank God you still alive vanity upon vanity is vanity.

Veryfoolishboy:
I SAY SOME BODY SHOUT HALELUYAAAAA

you are a very foolish boy

U write well my brother... Ur story is full with lessons, inspiring and education... Try to consider writing as a career... U never know it might be ur calling... Never give up pple no matter the condition of things... Situation get better as we match forward in faith and hope... I learned so many things from ur story ... Never to regard every one seeking for help on social media as scam... To read more of pples post and thread instead of skipping on them... God bless ur hustle and keep the faith alive

Tankunland:
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AJ, I fit connect you to importer wey go dey give you complete CCTV Kit 4Cam/500GB or 8Cam/1TB. I go fit surety for you. If you get job, him go release complete kit for you to go instal. After installation you pay am.

The price go be at wholesale price even if na one piece you wan collect from warehouse. I go surety for you.

Thank God for your life.

I respect your life values. You're surely making your late mother smile in heaven.

Your future is bright.

seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry .. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland

Messi married his childhood friend. Best time to meet a genuine girlfriend is when you have only dreams not when you have consolidated.....that happens when you are still tender.
Make mistakes, learn from them......never miss out all these at your tender age.

you just made my day

Motivational and inspiring!! I read from page one to this very one.. Its a sure read for every young man out there!!

It's good you shared your encounter with us. A lot of points to pick from it with lots of lessons to learn. I am particularly glad u were able to overcome the temptation to take the offer of the native doctor and also the fact that you weren't interested in the offer you had from that your gay customer who only picks interest in guys. The story would have been different now and perhaps(just perhaps) your case irredeemable. Well am thankful to God with the decisions you made at the end which led to the life you presently live. My take home is never to get your hands soiled. Our God is not asleep.
Keep your hustle clean and you will continue to testify. Cheers

me. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS[/quote]


Stsr

heniford2:
Reading this stuff really made me have hope last year here i asked for help from pals cause i was going through hell could not feed nor do anything people said i was scam Buh someone here helped me by giving me 5k dat 5k saved me from killing myself even know I'm still struggling its hard Buh i want to thank that beautiful woman who transfered that money to me she never called me to check if i have gotten the money i swear within me that day to always help people in mad situation bros am proud of you once again thanks for sharing i can't help it i just shared tears know. lol

But why do people always think of killing themselves when they are struggling and things are hard?

My own take from your story
1, so act broke so you can easy see their true color. In fact they do not even let them know you have money
2, when things are smooth, it is easy to have friends
3. Sometimes it is good to act broke so you can see people true color
4 always have a savings so when things go sour
5 a woman or man who cheat don't really care about you.
6 never treat a gf as a wife because she is not your wife . Your gf or babymama is not a wife because she is not obligated to stay with you. Your wife is,
7, if you going to date a babymama, be a baby daddy. Do not be unequally yoke

CrazyOptimist:
Moral of the story
SAY NO TO PRE-MARITAL SEX.

He would have fared better without Shola in his life. God knows if his misfortunes were transfered from her sef.

Face your career and remain focus. Forget about SEX for now, you will get it non stop in the future when you are settled and married.

I dont care if you believe or not, but Sex is more spiritual than physical. I've read a story somewhere of how yahoo boys sleeps with girls and transfer demons into them, and any boy that sleeps with that girl will have his virtues tapped from him.

These girls are just tools for carrying the demons for the yahoo boys. And these kain girls plenty outside yanfun yanfun.

Oga, sex is basically physical.

It's when human beings involve spiritual or mystical matters in it that it starts having spiritual effects. those Yahoo boys you mentioned, if it's true, must have done something spiritual or mystical for their sex to be having such effects on those girls.

That's how it works.

abeg, Tankunland, what killed Shola? You mentioned something about dating a Yahoo boy.

This really moved me.
Wow
We need more inspirational stories like this here,stories that motivates,I also contemplated suicide in mid 2019 but God saved me.
Suicide is never the answer,nothing lasts forever ,there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
Thanks for sharing ajayi or aj�

ODB2:


Listen, you don't get the article.

It states that the woman's DNA is altered by her sex mates


When you test for DNA paternity, you test the chances of one of either of the parents' parental claims.

You test for the man's paternity claims based on his genes being present and not that of the woman.

Have you also read on how long term couples end up looking like each other.

The woman basically transforms after years of sex to look like the man

This is pure flesh of my flesh stuff and is why God hated adulterer because it turned the women to globs of DNA soup.

You opinion is entirely yours.

You are trying to tell us that the 'neigbhours free DNA' somehow 'incorporated or infused' into the woman's DNA after going through the woman's cell membrane and nuclear membrane, found it's way to the chromosome without going through biological transcription?

You think you can alter the DNA of a subject without causing significant change on the woman herself, biologically, physically or physiologically?
What do you think cancer does to the DNA integrity of subjects? How do you think Cancer does it's damage to cells?

Leave matter abeg, Chief.

Lawsaite:


Divine okafor....uba ...2137069693
I'm in the middle of my own life crisis.. I pray I make it out alive... imagine not eating for two days and your parents are alive..
God deh

please manage it sir and i pray for you tonight god would come through for you amen and giodnigjt

People say that I've missed a lot In life; that my humanity is dead and gone, but I tell you, there's nothing crass in calling this Op a compound fool for venturing into drowning waters by shouldering the cost implications of a family not his, especially when subsisting on what is practically a pittance in Nigerian society.
I could pass off your first naive mistake, but going back to your vomit after her perfidy is untenable and stupid.

So, count me out of your pity party overwhelmed with visceral impulse. If this is how you plan to forge as a person, then you lack what it takes to survive as a man, for until you learn to set aside your little emotional desire or fancy, you'll never understand what life entails.

SKhanmi:


I understand where you are coming from but imagine where you'll be if you had only focused on yourself and not take on the responsibilities of others even if it seems cruel. Loyalty is for men. Invest more in your male buddies. Most will always have your back during hard times. And never ever try to go between a baby mama & her dude, She'll leave you for him EVERY TIME. Glad you're alive though, never stop trying.

You are so right that i cant even think of adding anything to what you just said