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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by charvick(m): 3:12am On Apr 09, 2020 |
I'll keep preaching this, avoid dating a single mom and never take a cheating gf back. Hustle ooooooo Elimon: 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Sommydisaster(m): 3:14am On Apr 09, 2020 |
@Tankunland you're strong and would oblige you not to change for anyone But in all your doings of being kindhearted, use 99.9% of your wisdom Always let your instincts work for you I pray the good lord guides you and make you bigger in all your endeavours You thought half of the forum, if not all with your piece of writing check out my signature, we deal on smart TVs and sound bar 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Throwback: 3:16am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Jimbadly: Tankunland, please take this advice very seriously. His thoughts were my same thoughts about this your life story. Your story can be your breakthrough. It could rank in the same category with movies like: Life of Pi Slumdog Millionaire Beast of no Nation Atonement Acrimony Titanic The Pursuit of Happyness Such engaging life account is what the academy awards (Oscar) are made for. 9 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ayodejioak(m): 3:17am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland: How can I reach you bro? Let's connect |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by dayorich: 3:23am On Apr 09, 2020 |
You are wise. Felicity0001: 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by stanliwise(m): 3:28am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Rawhumper:you may need to see beyond her beauty, if you can’t then you haven’t seen anything yet! 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by boborneyor(m): 3:35am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Wow , your story inspires me , I am awake around this time because of insomnia as a result of excessive thinking and I decided to check nairaland business section maybe i will see any money making opportunity from the business section but only for me to see this story on front page and later found myself glued to it. I have been searching for job with no success , went to into coding when jobs are not forthcoming but cost of data alone to watch videos from free online courses has been a huge hindrance for me to achieve my goals and the future looking so bleak Thank you for sharing this story because you just rekindle someone's hope with it . May God replenish your losses in multiple folds Again , I am using this opportunity to ask for help from any anonymous helper that is viewing this thread , kindly assist me in getting a job with any of the below application ID : Customs: NCS/C08/674688 Nscdc : NSCDC-2019-3325597 Immigration : NIS/ASI-08/504484 Inec : IR0000002232 Ndlea: NDLEA I really hope to share my success story soon......Thanks in anticipation and May God bless you Sir/Ma 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kemi59870: 3:52am On Apr 09, 2020 |
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by AreaFada2: 3:56am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Wow! |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Leebeedo(m): 4:00am On Apr 09, 2020 |
What an experience ! Thanks for making me appreciate the little I have. After reading this thought provoking piece, I realised that I've not been appreciative for the little I have and once again, thanks for making me realise that. I know you have a good heart, please continue with such acts, God will see you through. Please, take care of your kids (note I used KIDS not kid ), they are God's blessing to us. God bless you bro. Please, PM me if you dont mind. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Openbusiness: 4:01am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Best post on Nairaland Romance section. Somebody needs to do a movie with this story. OP hold on to your son very well, takw care of him. He's the future governor of Lagos State. God bless you more. And may your "wife" (Shola) rest in peace, the merciful God have mercy on her soul |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Openbusiness: 4:04am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Throwback:Swear down, as a movie, with the right set of passionate actors and actresses, this OP story movie go win Oscars, win globe, win anything winnable |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Openbusiness: 4:05am On Apr 09, 2020 |
AY as OP, Omotola as Shola, Patience Nzokwor as Shola mother...em who did I miss? The movie don complete. OSCAR winner straight or we burn down Hollywood. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:06am On Apr 09, 2020 |
OKOATA: Being mean to women will not help you The key to dealing with women is to "use your number 6" There are certain hard decisions you may be faced with concerning women... And you have to damn all consequences and take them Regardless of how you think. The OP failed in taking the hard decisions when it mattered most And that cost him dearly I hope you have learnt 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by wollexie1106: 4:06am On Apr 09, 2020 |
You just saved a soul bro. [21quote author=Tankunland post=88215811] When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again. Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head. I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine. I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine. Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you. and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things. To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one. I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming. To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go. And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you. I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE[/quote] |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Thane(m): 4:08am On Apr 09, 2020 |
studentofTruth:So Europeans and Asians don't get involved in rituals and blood money? Wallow in ignorance 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:08am On Apr 09, 2020 |
charvick: Never take a cheating woman back I can agree to that But as for single mothers They come with their peculiarities And most men cant deal with it. If you are in that bracket It's best you stay away Single mothers have their category And its 9/10 not for young men coming up Not that single women are by default terrible But it's just the situation they are in 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Openbusiness: 4:09am On Apr 09, 2020 |
See when people call you with strange voice, that sluggish voice like someone with 3% battery left, abeg no matter the sin dem offend you, don't brush them off because that might just be the last time you ever speak to the person again. This life na to live dey hard but to die is very easy. May God help us to learn forgiveness. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:10am On Apr 09, 2020 |
dayorich: Very wise |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Thane(m): 4:11am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland: If you are still living in that apartment, kindly try to pack out 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:13am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Felicity0001: I like the way you think |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by saajus: 4:15am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Thanks for sharing your life story. This will change many lives. Nuggets: - Young people should invest in their lives first, like getting good education, skills, investments, etc - You are not rich until you can make passive income. Passive income means money coming in without you really getting involved. Like real estate, stocks dividends, stable businesses. - Spend wisely. Don't waste money on weddings, burial or birthday. You can marry with just 30k Naira. If glam is ur problem, do it during normal Sunday Church service. Nobody expects food on Sunday Service. Your Pastor will call both of you out in-between the service and bless you. People will dance and your video will look good for your Instagram followers that don't really care about you. Take good care of your parents when they are alive, once they are gone, don't waste any money to bury them. I love how Muslims do their burial. Just wrap the thing and drop inside the grave. I think they understand the concept of body and Spirit better. - Don't be emotional while dealing with ladies, be realistic. The majority of Ladies rarely cheat by mistake, they get emotionally connected before going down with you. Cheating-wise, men are even more redeemable than women. Once she left, think twice before taking her back. Also, the initial kindness of the girl na calcu. Ladies are very wise and they can predict your future more than you. All the initial caring of the lady was about his football career. She thought he will make it to Europe. For Op: We thank God for your life. Thank God you are still young and can pick up the pieces. Important things in your life now are investing in yourself, find a job and provide for your boy. -When life returns to normalcy after Coro, you can be a danfo/Uber driver. Go to nairaland Uber page, many people are looking for responsible guys that can drive their cars. Now that you are a popular jingo here, people will easily trust you. You can be making 30k-40k Naira/week. Also, record your story into like 10-series video and put it on Youtube. Monetize it and that can generate something small for you forever. If you are lucky, your story goes viral and get millions of views, you may be able to afford your own small car for Uber. I am not saying you should become a Youtuber if that is not in you, just let your story reach more people. While you are blessing them, you are also making something little from it. -Be more prudent this time around. No give away to any family or friends. No spending on burials, wedding, birthdays, Aso Ebi, etc -Save good money. Get a degree or a viable skill. You can teach yourself IT, like app development, software dev, movie editing, graphics designing. If IT is ur interest, reach out to me, I can bombard you with books, materials, advice and raise a Laptop purchase funding for you here on Nairaland if we discover you are serious. You can even learn mechanic. All I care about is that you get an education or learn any viable skill cos danfo/Uber driving is just a stop-gap. -Take care of your boy. When you start making money, do a DNA test just for future reference. -Marriage/girlfriend should not be in your dictionary until 5 yrs time. 10 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Bbbwings: 4:16am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:There is something called inflation. 1500 is nothing in lagos 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:17am On Apr 09, 2020 |
cyprus000: You dont have to talk that way You wont understand When you dont have a father figure in your life to guide you..... Mistakes like the ones he made are inevitable We need more father figures in the lives of our young men Cos as it stands We are failing woefully in that regard 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Bbbwings: 4:18am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Felicity0001:As usual, the nutjobs are here. 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Angelacruz: 4:23am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Na button fone OlawaleBammie: |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:27am On Apr 09, 2020 |
digitalman: Another good advice |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Emmyk(m): 4:36am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Wow! What an emotional story. I love your writing technique too. The way you left a part, to give us a background from another part, and then another. Till you finally unified everything. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by pnarthanyl: 4:38am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland: You should learn from your past and get closer to God (someone PROBABLY dropped sorrow into your life out of envy. Your mom who supported you spiritually is dead, so that made the arrow enter well.) Don't let oyinbo deceive you ooo !!! Africa is wicked 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Cowbell521: 4:41am On Apr 09, 2020 |
SKhanmi:My guy! Na so! I don tell them. Den no dey hear |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DexterousOne(m): 4:41am On Apr 09, 2020 |
ODB2: All ye wannabe "red pill" fellows in Nigeria are just ridiculous mehn I laugh everytime I read una comments 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 4:41am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Veryfoolishboy:Who is this mad man. |
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