History001:
HARDDON The Don, I need your help here.

I met this new hottie about a month or so. She walked passed me and after she had passed and i turned back that was when i saw how endowered she was from behind. Before i could blink she had hopped into a vehicle and left. At this moment i accepted the challenge and set out to hunt her. After a week, i finaly got her contact from someone who happens to work with her. Then i put a call through and we eventually met. She try to know how i got her contact before speaking further,but i guess my respond was convincing enuf so she relaxed and we became friends. After then we had met twice. On both occasions, i neva told her what i wanted from her. Note she live not too far frm my place so occassionally i do see her from a distance and from my observation she has alot of toasters or wud i say boyfrends. Summary what i want from her is just to to flirt and nothing more oo. I cant date her cos shes too exposed for my liking, however, i love her shape and wud want to get down with her. Cos of this corona lockdown she had to go back to her family house which is in a different town so i havent seen or met with her for over 2 wks now. 4days ago we got chatting and suddenly i just told her i was attracted to her. Maybe to cut long story short, I will paste our chat here for easy comprehension and for your advice.


ME: How today na

[b][/b]Babe: Fine

[b][/b]Babe: How are you doing?

ME: Doing great

ME: Babe am crazy about u. Really.

[b][/b]Babe: Okay

ME: Wen u walked passed me d oda day, i tot, well it's one of those days wen u get to see a pretty babe and dats all.

ME: After that moment, was wen it dawned on me how much i felt about the lady that walked past me. And i started regretting not making use of d opportunity

ME: And that was when i set out to find you.

ME: Took me quite alot of effort

ME: Quite a lot

ME: It was crazy. But i guess dat best describes how i felt

[b][/b]Babe: Woow

ME: Naturally i wouldnt come at you this way. But can't help it anymore

ME: Its not everyday one gets to meet a gal as hot as you are.

[b][/b]Babe: For real?

ME: Absolutely

ME: Like i have tried to forget about u. But ur tot keep flashing my head.

ME: Everytin is on a whole new scale..esp after the couple of meetings

ME: Mehn babe u ar super hot and attractive

ME: Hav tried to get u out of ma head but. D more i try, d more i possible it get

ME: Babe am attracted to you. Damn right i am. I won't be so wrong if i say its love.

[b][/b]Babe: Arhh

ME: Sounds crazy. But i dont no wat to say or how to say it again

ME: Hello Babe you aren't saying anything?

[b][/b]Babe: I don't have anything to say

ME: Ok. I understand

ME: Lets see tommorrow then

[b][/b]Babe: I am not around. I went home to my family

ME: Really. How did u do that

ME: I tot the roads are closed

[b][/b]Babe: It's open somehow

ME: wow. Ok. Looking forward to your return

NOTE: After this chat, i called her 2days after and we spoke about this same conversation and all she could say was that she doesnt know what to say oo. And like it ended in the chat I jus said i understand but will be holding on till we see next week when she returns (she told me she will be returning next week during our fone conversation).

I am still at lost how to approach her when we get to meet next week. My primary objective is to nail this babe and not a relationship..i know she has guys dats for sure but am looking for a way to put it to her that i jus want us to be fuckers and not lovers. Please Don HARDDON, Guide me on the next steps abeg before i go go flop. Looking forward to your response. Thanks

Before they tell you to start reading from the first page, do this first;

Go to that table over there and lie down flat lemme use cane and redesign ya brain to default factory settings.

Even on default factory settings, this kind of wussieness is not possible sef.

@ History 001
Mehnnn.....i guess u dint follow this thread frm the beginning...
See bro, all those things u r telling her, she hears it 10,000 times a day..we said at the start of the thread that you shouldnt do what other regular guys do.thats why she told you she doesnt knw what to say...
Instead of all those praises, u shuld hv told her of how nobody is even talking about her like b4, everyone is now talking of ur hot chick u brought to stay with u for d lockdown nd if she sees ur chick, she'll be wowed( in general, things that would make her curious to come bck nd branch to ur syd)...from there, u can enter dirty talks( dont sound needy...talk like u'v had enuf nd u wont even agree if she wants it)
Tease Tease Tease....stop praising them
My 2 cents tho
Harddon would talk more
GL

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Zabiboy:
@ History 001
Mehnnn.....i guess u dint follow this thread frm the beginning...
See bro, all those things u r telling her, she hears it 10,000 times a day..we said at the start of the thread that you shouldnt do what other regular guys do.thats why she told you she doesnt knw what to say...
Instead of all those praises, u shuld hv told her of how nobody is even talking about her like b4, everyone is now talking of ur hot chick u brought to stay with u for d lockdown nd if she sees ur chick, she'll be wowed( in general, things that would make her curious to come bck nd branch to ur syd)...from there, u can enter dirty talks( dont sound needy...talk like u'v had enuf nd u wont even agree if she wants it)
Tease Tease Tease....stop praising them
My 2 cents tho
Harddon would talk more
GL

pls ..Boss HARDDON...Is it compulsory to read all 248 pages of this thread...
I'm in page 48 and I'm wondering if I should rest

ayoola27:
pls ..Boss HARDDON...Is it compulsory to read all 248 pages of this thread...

I'm in page 48 and I'm wondering if I should rest

I think they would serve you well. Because they handle different aspects of this drill....

What is 248 pages to the wealth of knowledge you would garner?

a lil side note; don't read the pages like a novel or newspaper. Give them a practical approach.

Whether it takes you one year to cover up is of no consequence, what matters is that at the end of it all, you would become a better man in Life , love and with ladies..

A man sure of his steps, certain of his future and in absolute control of his balls.

See you on the other side

she asked me on WhatsApp today
"So u think about me '
Then I told her.
Nope...Don't get ur hopes high Someone reminded me of U
Then she asked who the person was...
I told her that she wouldn't know the gal
She replied ok..

pls how did I do

ayoola27:
she asked me on WhatsApp today

"So u think about me '

Then I told her.

Nope...Don't get ur hopes high
Someone reminded me of U

Then she asked who the person was...

I told her that she wouldn't know the gal

She replied ok..


pls how did I do

Lol if I were you.

So you think about me.

Why will I think about you..? Are you Beyonce or Nicki Minaj..?� � �

That's more fun that what you typed.

ayoola27:
she asked me on WhatsApp today

"So u think about me '

Then I told her.

Nope...Don't get ur hopes high
Someone reminded me of U

Then she asked who the person was...

I told her that she wouldn't know the gal

She replied ok..


pls how did I do

Just start from the beginning and read bro. You need it badly.

ok

Donzie1995:
Lol if I were you.
So you think about me.
Why will I think about you..? Are you Beyonce or Nicki Minaj..?� � �
That's more fun that what you typed.

thanks biss

Good Hardon and other gurus.

I think I have repeated the same mistake again. I find it hard to follow the rules in here.
There's this girl I met December 2019. We ve been getting along real fine but I noticed this worse she's friend zoned me.
Tho we call n commicate real fine... The signs are there already. She doesn't want it known to anyone we are dating...
I think she might be a virgin or so. And a full time Christian.
I don't even know how I got in here...
I understand her values. But I think she's only keeping arnd.

What can I do here

derrick015:
Good Hardon and other gurus.

I think I have repeated the same mistake again. I find it hard to follow the rules in here.
There's this girl I met December 2019. We ve been getting along real fine but I noticed this worse she's friend zoned me.
Tho we call n commicate real fine... The signs are there already. She doesn't want it known to anyone we are dating...
I think she might be a virgin or so. And a full time Christian.
I don't even know how I got in here...
I understand her values. But I think she's only keeping arnd.

What can I do here

oh you are dating her..? You think she's a virgin..? You understand her value..?
You don't understand your value yet and you dare to understand another person value. Okay if I were you, I will leave her alone in order to reset her settings as least that will show that she's losing me instead of me losing her.

Dis drills are good but I don't think they will work on teenage gals(16-19 yrs)..wat do u guys think

Johnwick64:
Dis drills are good but I don't think they will work on teenage gals(16-19 yrs)..wat do u guys think

It depends. But mostly it doesn't work on them cos they ain't expose yet.

Guys what about opinion openers. Who's tried them before?

derrick015:
Good Hardon and other gurus.

I think I have repeated the same mistake again. I find it hard to follow the rules in here.
There's this girl I met December 2019. We ve been getting along real fine but I noticed this worse she's friend zoned me.
Tho we call n commicate real fine... The signs are there already. She doesn't want it known to anyone we are dating...
I think she might be a virgin or so. And a full time Christian.
I don't even know how I got in here...
I understand her values. But I think she's only keeping arnd.

What can I do here

Guys please I need suggestions. She's a good person like I said... She doesn't ask me for money even I when offer to she declines...

derrick015:



Guys please I need suggestions. She's a good person like I said... She doesn't ask me for money even I when offer to she declines...

Have you made a move? Anything sexual in your conversations or body language?

ayoola27:
she asked me on WhatsApp today

"So u think about me '

Then I told her.

Nope...Don't get ur hopes high
Someone reminded me of U

Then she asked who the person was...

I told her that she wouldn't know the gal

She replied ok..


pls how did I do

Wrong answer to a perfectly served meal!
What was the aim of your response? arrrhhhhh.

just killed the vibes of a cool comvo flow

Compare your response to these;

1. nopes I don't. but YOUUUU can't help but keep running through mi mind trying to get my attention. are you lonely? ( if you want her as a gf)

2. Yea, alot. How your nose twitch when you talk, Your small eyes twinkle when you smile, your tiny hands and legs and above all, how annoying you can be. And I came to the conclution that This relationship would not work. ( aim: GF)

3. ofcourse I think about you alot; if you would know how to take care of a guy like me; On and off the bedroom ( aim: FFB)

4. All I think about is your lips and booty. but I don't know if you even know how to use them( FFB)

Sense Pill:
Good hunters always have an aim. they don't just throw bullet randomly hoping to hit a target.

Donzie1995:
Lol if I were you.

So you think about me.

Why will I think about you..? Are you Beyonce or Nicki Minaj..?� � �

That's more fun that what you typed.

Too tacky. Vibe killer.

Don't ever forget the 50:50 portion

You have to be sassy and funny

derrick015:
Good Hardon and other gurus.

I think I have repeated the same mistake again. I find it hard to follow the rules in here.
There's this girl I met December 2019. We ve been getting along real fine but I noticed this worse she's friend zoned me.
Tho we call n commicate real fine... The signs are there already. She doesn't want it known to anyone we are dating...
I think she might be a virgin or so. And a full time Christian.
I don't even know how I got in here...
I understand her values. But I think she's only keeping arnd.

What can I do here

That is what happen when you don't have what you want from a gurl before you even talk to her the very first time.

Having an aim in mind help you to gear all your energy and words towards that singular aim.


You can't randomly shoot shoots.

Sense Pill
ladies are like scalar quantities(magnitude but dormant direction) men are like vector quantities( magnitude blended with supposedly active direction). When combined, the scalar quantity automatically take on the direction of the vector quantity.
However, with ladies, if the vector quantity does not direct, they activate thier dormant direction ( friendzoning, mugu, maga, assignment bf, side guy etc).
Nature abhors a vacuum.


Never get to that point where a lady just now assume your responsibility of Just keeping you around.

Go bro, pack your bags and go.

Johnwick64:
Dis drills are good but I don't think they will work on teenage gals(16-19 yrs)..wat do u guys think

Well served, it works on all. these ones are even more susceptible.

But errmmmm bro, hope it's not what I'm thinking
AVOID TEENAGES OOOO. no matter how seemingly exposed they are. even if they throw themselves at you.
Ruuuuuuunnnnnnn!!!!

Why?

When the chips are down, they would go with their parents' scripts and label you a Rapist.
You know what that means don't you?

Nturguy1122:
The one she likes more

Yeah...Yeah

Nturguy1122:
The one she likes more

OK

HARDDON:


Wrong answer to a perfectly served meal!
What was the aim of your response? arrrhhhhh.

just killed the vibes of a cool comvo flow

Compare your response to these;

1. nopes I don't. but YOUUUU can't help but keep running through mi mind trying to get my attention. are you lonely? ( if you want her as a gf)

2. Yea, alot. How your nose twitch when you talk, Your small eyes twinkle when you smile, your tiny hands and legs and above all, how annoying you can be. And I came to the conclution that This relationship would not work. ( aim: GF)

3. ofcourse I think about you alot; if you would know how to take care of a guy like me; On and off the bedroom ( aim: FFB)

4. All I think about is your lips and booty. but I don't know if you even know how to use them( FFB)

Sense Pill:
Good hunters always have an aim. they don't just throw bullet randomly hoping to hit a target.

so I don fvck up

HARDDON:


Wrong answer to a perfectly served meal!
What was the aim of your response? arrrhhhhh.

just killed the vibes of a cool comvo flow

Compare your response to these;

1. nopes I don't. but YOUUUU can't help but keep running through mi mind trying to get my attention. are you lonely? ( if you want her as a gf)

2. Yea, alot. How your nose twitch when you talk, Your small eyes twinkle when you smile, your tiny hands and legs and above all, how annoying you can be. And I came to the conclution that This relationship would not work. ( aim: GF)

3. ofcourse I think about you alot; if you would know how to take care of a guy like me; On and off the bedroom ( aim: FFB)

4. All I think about is your lips and booty. but I don't know if you even know how to use them( FFB)

Sense Pill:
Good hunters always have an aim. they don't just throw bullet randomly hoping to hit a target.

Mehn I always gave replies like "yeah I couldn't stop thinking of you since you chased me down in a dream last night with a ring to marry you" but this is a whole new level.


My notes in this phone is filled with drills although I haven't really used them because of the isolation stuff

HARDDON:

Sense Pill:
Good hunters always have an aim. they don't just throw bullet randomly hoping to hit a target.

HARDDON the boss i hail thee

pls i am quite new in this whole approach game, i have read from page one to twenty and counting.

can you please proffer a creative way of approaching a girl in this scenario, as i find my self in it almost every day

in a semi busy environment

you see a random girl walking in the opposite direction as you(face to face). and you see shes clearly giving you an invitation to talk to her by the way she looks at you, you're confident with you're eye contact as well
how do you approach and get her number without you not really letting her know you find her attractive.
she may be alone or walking with another female as well


i know of the something on your hair line

Millennialaku:

HARDDON the boss i hail thee

pls i am quite new in this whole approach game, i have read from page one to twenty and counting.

can you please proffer a creative way of approaching a girl in this scenario, as i find my self in it almost every day

in a semi busy environment

you see a random girl walking in the opposite direction as you(face to face). and you see shes clearly giving you an invitation to talk to her by the way she looks at you, you're confident with you're eye contact as well
how do you approach and get her number without you not really letting her know you find her attractive.
she may be alone or walking with another female as well


i know of the something on your hair line

You can tell her that you noticed her eyes were shying away so you decided to come see what type of person she was.

HARDDON:


Too tacky. Vibe killer.

Don't ever forget the 50:50 portion

You have to be sassy and funny

to Okay.

Guys help me out
I can’t stop or chyke a girl on the street or anywhere

I have many crush but I can’t stop them and take their contacts,these shit have been killing me for years

Maybe she will reject or snub me that’s my fears

Please guys give me brains

Cc: Harddon etal

Kaykay999:
Guys help me out
I can’t stop or chyke a girl on the street or anywhere

I have many crush but I can’t stop them and take their contacts, ethese shit have been killing me for years

Maybe she will reject or snub me that’s my fears

Please guys give me brains

I THINK YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM, find out the cause and eliminate it.


look yourself in the mirror: now imagine if you were a girl, would you be willing to listen to the guy you see in the mirror if he approaches you ??

work on making your self look attractive: good perfume, good clothes, nice hair cut, good posture, walk with confidence, STRONG EYE CONTACT(this exudes confidence).

I was in the same shoes as you earlier this year until I cleared my acne


the first time I chyked a girl was on Sunday ( February this year)when going to church. I was passing through this lonely road back in school when I saw a girl coming. I immediately made the decision to approach after watching tons of JAMES TUSK videos on youtube and reading harddons tips as well. I didn't even look at her face well. The environment was perfect too (there was no one to laugh at me in case it turned out bad) so I went in for the approach. .

I noticed she was kind of shy because she was trying to move over to the other half of the road when she saw me.
I would say shes a 7 facially but too slim

I wasn't too smooth, but I did it and got her digit, plus I made her smile too. I felt confident and I was happy throughout that day

LeiderJa:
Guys what about opinion openers. Who's tried them before?

They are super cool when deployed with well thought out plan and procedures.

If not, you soon run outa steam