EVILFOREST:

That's why you see me supporting this BABY MAMA OPTION for the unfortunate Guys in Naija.
In BABY MAMA, there is no Legal Binding.
With BABY MAMA, the MAN is happier, since it's less of a burden with no In-Laws, Lesser Responsibilities and the LADIES cherish it a lot. They prefer being addressed as BABY MAMAS , Since it guarantees them cheating Freedom.

Hmmm, in a way this baby mama arrangement favors both parties.

But what about the child?

gargoylern:

Lool. You must be a scientist. Which explanation are you trying to find? You just dey try reason am away. This is reality. Though it pains me sha for them, I just kind feel they didn't understand what they were getting into before going to Canada. Some had stable lives and were in some kind of relationship in Naija, even if it was shaky. But now, they can't even figure the direction their live is going. If they were struggling to adapt, that would have been better. But these ladies are molded already, and it will take a lot to do away with the thinking they took with them to CA in order for them to actually see a glimmer of light at the end of the single, lonely tunnel they are looking down.

potent5:

But prenuptial agreement can sort this out if the woman is for real and the man wants it.

Raalsalghul:


Hmmm, in a way this baby mama arrangement favors both parties.
But what about the child?

Minxie:


Social scientist, to be specific.
We theorize so that we can find solutions. Even what you just said is a theory and it's a good one.
So therefore we can suggest the solution of educating people about the differences in culture abroad?
I'm totally on board with that

See? that's why people debate
Anyway, i hope those girls adapt and that they realise that some societies in West demands something different than some African societies.

To be honest, i find dating easier abroad because it's very superficial. Men just ask you out on a date randomly. But in SA people will want to get to know you first. I like our way though

ZINIBANKS:

Guy good or no good there is possibility that through her I will leave this poo-hole and when I reach there am going to make my own decisions

emmaodet:


And this statement is what i have been echoing on this forum for a long time.
NEVER you make the mistake of coming to nigeria to pick a local wife to abroad. 80% of the time, you will regret it.
If you need a woman, marry someone there with you.
Martinez39s - is this not what have always been saying? A brother has got his hands burnt.

gargoylern:


I guessed as much. Wasn't that evident, lol? I agree, it's a theory. And I don't think you'll find significant untruths in this theory if you manage to take it up as a research subject. Honestly, i don't find it bad that they are lonely. I just find it ridiculous that they would want all their wishes (and with a cherry ontop) met like they were in Nigeria. High time waking up to the reality that CA is a different society where man (or woman) has different concerns or demands. Are you SA?

Samo1122:
What's your advice for family (husband, wife & 2 kids) planning to relocate to Canada?

emmaodet:


Generally, even most men are not too are not happy for not getting a good woman or been in a relationship.
That is why we are having high rate of child molestation, masturbation, pornography watching, high number of guys going to prostitutes house, some are even sleeping with animals while some are raping women (even old women are not spared).
The situation on ground now - ara o ro okun, ara oro adiye ni

Deoboss:


My friend lives in Canada, he said life can get quite boring & becomes a routine. He said the weather is not friendly at all.

Food is okay as lots of fish like Salmon etc. Canadians love Poutine a lot as it is eaten every where & cost of living is high especially housing as most Nigerians won’t believe this until they get to Canada.

Homes in Canada cost over C$1million to buy as funny as it might sound (via mortgage of-course).

Nigerian ladies over there know what’s up but just pretend that all is well when they come home for holidays as no much serious relationship there, a lot of Naija guys don’t send Naija babes at all which annoys them other than this he said Canada is a good country to live in if you are not the loud or lousy person

ednut1:
jf your wife is not your best friend or if you also misbehave (cheat, beat, dont help with chores). It will end in tears. U go pay child support and alimony tire

gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny

southniyikaye:
bros abeg pls just mention me here even if it is with a dot or just say yeah.
Na for future reference. I want it to stay in my mention so I can refer to it in the future, he get wetin dey happen right now

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

Minxie:


Shame... but this is interesting though. I've always wondered what the differences were in the dating scenes of countries.

Yes I'm in SA but I work in China. Although now with corona, im back in SA

gargoylern:

if you want a canadian wife and you know (you must know oo, make dem no go slap you) girl wey you sabi before we dey canada. Just pop inside her DM innocently and act gentle. Na she go rush you.

mamapidgin:
Any Nigeria lady in canada that is lonely only wish to be on her own or probably she doesn't understand the African culture....

If you are a Nigerian lady and loneliness is your problem in Canada that means you don't understand or value your Nigerian Culture, call your parent at home in Nigeria and tell them to connect you with their friend children that are responsible at home and start a relationship from there...

Our parent will always find the best for us when it comes to things like this and from there u can work his document for him to come and join u there after the relationship have lead to marriage. Is as simple as ABC

ZINIBANKS:
Guy me self dey Hussle Canadian wife O

mamapidgin:
Any Nigeria lady in canada that is lonely only wish to be on her own or probably she doesn't understand the African culture....

If you are a Nigerian lady and loneliness is your problem in Canada that means you don't understand or value your Nigerian Culture, call your parent at home in Nigeria and tell them to connect you with their friend children that are responsible at home and start a relationship from there...

Our parent will always find the best for us when it comes to things like this and from there u can work his document for him to come and join u there, after the relationship have led to marriage. Is as simple as ABC

A Nigerian lady in diaspora will rather die than come home to marry.

Or how many cases have you seen?

Raalsalghul:


A Nigerian lady in diaspora will rather die than come home to marry.

Or how many cases have you seen?

EVILFOREST:

My WIFE did it and she's not DEAD

There'll always be exceptions.

Raalsalghul:


There'll always be exceptions.

Now you know.
Secondly my BROTHERS WIVES also did so too.
And they are Alive, doing well.
U think those Sound Nigerian Ladies value those guys who take Coke and Sag trousers overseas...??
These are GUYS that will make the POLICE relocate to your apartment, permanently.

WOE be tide you, you dent your IMAGE abroad.
You are FINISHED completely.
No COMPANY will ever hire you.
U can't even be a bouncer...

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

zexy2030:
let's dedicate a thread for lonely single ladies in Canada, island and generally in the diaspora, its faceless..its anonymous, except u put ur pic. no one knows u said it. Tell us how lonely u feel, a problem shared could receive plenty attention thereby tending to be solved.