Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Maryy her now before she start scholl,morover she can run part time school and still be a graduate if you want her to scchool,

Guy i dont buy the idea of traininh her in school of full time,she might find her lover at schoolog full time

Just execute what is in your mind. No need to seek for advice here that you will not even make use of. Bible rightly put, " as a man thinketh in his heart so he is"

Let see her picture and her number

Why do I feel this has made FP last year or two years ago

If u dnt want to kill ur business, i repeat dnt date her,,,,,, instead Marry her straight to avoid plenty gist, since u already know her and she is the kind of lady u want....



I repeat, dnt date her marry her instead....


Note:it will do u more good to marry her quick dan dating her....



Once una marry pls let me Know

Ishitinyourlife:

That's a new one,thanks bro

You are welcome. A good woman is hard to find these days. Love, just as life, is a risk, it is a chance that is worth taking no matter how it turns out. In the worst case scenario, you learn a new thing out of it that will be useful for you later in life.

chronique:


This is where it all starts from. You got to be very careful. She can make or mar you. Before falling in love with your staff, do a due diligence check on her properly. You can arrange with someone she doesn't know to come and act like your boss and be giving you instructions and treating you like a boy boy. He can even insult you and ask you to kneel down for one offence or the other. Basically just let him reduce you to the level of the other staffs and then, you'd confess that you are not the owner of the business and that it belongs to this your boss. Do it and find out how she reacts to you. Even if it takes six months of playing the game, do it and observe her behavior. The rest is left for you to decide after you have made your discovery.

na 40 years old man wey u dey tell make ein kneel down dey act nollywood movie

Msheeew

moyin2009:
The best advise is to pray about it and makes some findings about her and her background. Don't be fooled by her behaviour she must have done her own findings about you and makes up her mind to give it what it will take to win your heart. From the scriptures " the heart of a man/woman is desperately wicked only God can know. Go ask God about her. Getting married to her might end your business also the other way she might be an helpmeet for you from God.

Mine own advise. Thanks

Ishitinyourlife, this is another good advice.

If u re going too emotional with the girl and wants to ask her out, no problem, but make sure she doesn't work in ur organization again.
Either u set her up somewhere else or ... for the sake of ur business

Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

I tire o

Please let her focus on her studies, asking her out now will distract her.

Why won't he be in love, after eating her free food. 3/2 of men's problem will be solve if they mind how they eat from women

myfan:
Let me hear from others

I haven't even read it but this your fact isn't always entirely true.
If it's a genuine love and not "do me I do you make no one hear", believe they could both take the stuff to heights.

Everything we see on the screen doesn't mean it'll all turn out like that.

All that is needed is THIS (Trust, Honesty, Integrity, Sincerity in character)

ProfDview1:
I didn't bother to read all that u wrote but I know one thing for certain



It will always end in tears.

Pls guys, share this post incase of next time


He will come back to talk abt how a lady ruined his business..

Who has watched Money heist?

Professor mixed business with pleasure and things turned upside down...

The truth is whenever u mix business with pleasure, pleasure takes over... Emotion isn't a good thing for a good business man



Having said this,

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Someone already helped with me 500 naira airtel... Thanks sir yommen.. I am most grateful.

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I haven't even read it but this your fact isn't always entirely true.
If it's a genuine love and not "do me I do you make no one hear", believe they could both take the stuff to heights.

Everything we see on the screen doesn't mean it'll all turn out like that.

All that is needed is THIS (Trust, Honesty, Integrity, Sincerity in character

krozay:
na 40 years old man wey u dey tell make ein kneel down dey act nollywood movie

Msheeew

I didn't even see the age...lol. And when I said kneel down, I didn't mean that literally. I was just trying to point out to him how humble he should get so the girl thinks he's actually working for the new oga so he can see if she would stay by him or extend this her nice gesture to the new boss.

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Keep watching her and stop showing affection to her it seems you are already leading her on and giving her false hope, be an asshole to her sometimes and see if she would still take you and your business serious or she would turn against you, stop being deligent and secretly or openly sabbotage your business, you are showing a lot of affection and that is not good

Las las if she still maintain her good character and work ethics, get to know about more about her and her family backaground and deduce if that is the kind of fam you want in your life conclude and shóooot your shot she could be a very good catch, shoot and over shoot you go dey alright.

What advice do you still need, when you have swallowed the love potion she prepared for you?

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Blu3ray:


Why? Almost all your followers are m!

Lol na dem they rush Me....

emmy4life02:

U too wicked. Na wow for some of una for NL. U don't even consider the trauma she will pass true. To some of you guys every decent girl want to take advantage of u. OP forget about age, boundary, looks & their so called pretence. If u truely love the girl, from the little things u have said here. I will just tell u to go ahead and ask her out, try to know more about her beyond work, u can invite her over with the consent of her family before u ask her to marry u.

dating ur worker is bad for bizness

Man up and do the needful.

Look at what you've achieved on your own as highlighted by you - whoever you decide to marry must also be supportive to expand more than what you have on ground as investment.

So, if your choice is this young girl then you as a man MUST make her understand your vision in clear terms and what you want to achieve in the union.
And please, stop talking too much about her physical features else you'll fall too deep into her and become her play book when she realizes it (women are very smart).

Good luck but

FOCUS!

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Cholls:
my brother this message is not for you ooo. So ignore if your feelings say you should.


Hmmm!!! Women! Women! Women! always on a mission to hunt a Beta(Gamma) provider....Hmmm! Women their Modus Operandi is to first act as if they are not with you for your money....try given or paying for something on her behalf,she will decline as if she's not interesting in your money....wait till she go for the kill when make you fall in love....you're trapped (screams) Gbeseeee!.....come and see the way she go start Demand from her Maga left to right knowing fully well Brother wey mumu don fall in love no where to go.

Sharp nigga wey Sabi d game,the op go soon wreck him business like person wey lose bet for bet naija shop he no get sense

Lamanii22:



Lol na dem they rush Me....

But you like am, in short you love am

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

If you truly like her n u want to get along with her
Talk to her
Show her u truly wanna b with her and let her not think u wanna play with her heart she will understand

Flywheel212:
Why won't he be in love, after eating her free food. 3/2 of men's problem will be solve if they mind how they eat from women

Lol. I remember how I was always dodging food prepared by females when I was writing a professional course one time like that. It always felt like they were about to poison me and I was rejecting food right, left and center. One of them came from home one day and brought big cat fish for me(i did not ask for it o). Before I knew anything, babe has gone to use the thing to cook pepper soup for me and brought it to me. I stylishly collected and kept it somewhere. In the night when everybody had gone to bed, I went to pour out in the gutter. After escaping all those ones, I now went to follow my bestie to take a bet on who will get a particular girl that just came around. In the process of doing fast guy and every, babe fell in love with me and started cooking and I started eating. This na babe wey done do runs tire and had weird family happenings. To cut a long story short, one smallie wey I de take care of as younger brother wey I meet for the same place told me something one day. He said bros, you never notice say since you begin date this girl, you always de dey broke. Me sef been done reason the matter initially but I couldn't say it out. When I discussed it with a friend that was squatting with me and was joining me to eat her food, dude said I should forget about it, nothing will happen. Eventually, na so I see say I done de derail, things started going left and right. I had to bail out and moved away from the place. Several years later, I ran into her somewhere and it felt like I should disappear. Babe asked for my digits and I gave her an old line I wasn't using regularly. I got home and blocked her on whatsapp and removed the SIM from my phone so she could not reach me by calls, text or chats...lol. I can laugh about it now but it wasn't funny back then.

nwaimoroseyaho:
Monitor her very well without her knowledge and if satisfied marry her. My brother getting a good wife now is becoming difficult. If you see one don't let anything stop you.

I believe getting a good wife is currently harder than getting a good job

ProfDview1:
I didn't bother to read all that u wrote but I know one thing for certain



It will always end in tears.

Pls guys, share this post incase of next time


He will come back to talk abt how a lady ruined his business..

Who has watched Money heist?

Professor mixed business with pleasure and things turned upside down...

The truth is whenever u mix business with pleasure, pleasure takes over... Emotion isn't a good thing for a good business man



Having said this,

Somone shud pls subscribe airtel for me


1500 for 6gb

0904 403 5200


God bless the cheerful giver.. God bless u


Someone already helped with me 500 naira airtel... Thanks sir yommen.. I am most grateful.

I am very very much grateful sir... Very Grateful sir yommen.. Thanks very much


Let someone help mi.. Remain 1k... My number is there.. I Wan use am subscribe for data

Let me advise u..
Don’t try it
It’s a taboo
It’s a no no
Only if u sack her first and then ask her out but still pray about it cause that might end ur business

hermesprogidy:
For those saying dating this girl may ruin his business. Do you know Melinda Gates was Bill's secretary before the inevitable happened?
Life is not black and white... Just saying

Bill and Melinda first met in 1987, when she joined Microsoft as a product manager. Source

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/bill-and-melinda-gates-marriage-2017-11%3famp

xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

Very sound advice. Op you should consider this advice.

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Anu e s'emi.

bcbones:


But you like am, in short you love am

Abi... Mo n hot lowo (I'm hot ATM) loooool.. KO EASY RARA

God bless you for the advice below.

Very apt and real.

However, if you can hold your emotions until after she is through with School and NYSC. Her current level of exposure may be the factor she is still acting that way.

Keep observing your instincts will guide you to the right path.

nwaimoroseyaho:
Monitor her very well without her knowledge and if satisfied marry her. My brother getting a good wife now is becoming difficult. If you see one don't let anything stop you.