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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pocohantas(f): 1:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
ednut1: Very funny. I used to get linked to Naija guys in the diaspora and na wife all of them dey find. I had to tell my colleagues to stop. I am not single and I not very enthusiastic about relocating abroad. Most of them had one thing in common, “badmouthing the Naija girls there”. I say naso, I am sure they all felt same about the girls back home years back. It is all about the lesser evil at this point. They will be alright. 9 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Amhappy:Okay, but Is he married now..? I said he is not married but not never married. She kept that LADY as partner and he meant it |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Powerintoxicate:Yes go home and get the one that’ll use u for a visa and dump u then being his real girl over as usual. Lmao! 2 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 1:13pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
pocohantas:You make it sound so easy. It's not in the repertoire of the Nigerian girl to reach out or approach a guy. Just as they won't do it in Canada here, they also won't extend it to Nigeria. They have the wrong opinion that it cheapens them. And that's their major failing. Probably why they will remain single for a long, long time. The outlook or thinking needs to change. You just don't stick with those you are familiar with all your life. 15 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by IMASTEX: 1:13pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
BestAccessories:Make it. Even for those in Naija with the way they all live in social media posting all what not. |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Mizwisdom(f): 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Swiitdoll: Hmmm, everybody does things for benefits. The woman importing the guy is doing it to achieve children for herself. That's the main aim because if she's looking for only sex, a friend can supply that so it's children she wants to have from a man who is less likely to demand custody as she is more knowledgeable about the system than him. I'm talking about working class ladies with money. She should prepare her mind that's it's a contract thing na, is she planning to fall in love with an imported husband with his own dreams and aspirations? if it's love she's looking for then she has to relocate to Nja for some time but still settle for less because no time for prince charming to be found 1 Like |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by noblealuu: 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Minxie: Hmm, the focus is this...while pursuing your career, don't neglect marriage especially as an African. I just sent this thread to a friend who will be relocating to Canada this yr after the CoVid19 brouhaha. He had a girl who travelled to Canada for her PG studies in Nursing, (Bsc Nursing in Nigeria). She was just doing anyhow back here, now she's fuckin lonely, and even once contemplated suicide. My guy has moved on with another girl over here. He had advised the Canada girl to visit Nigeria this year or next year which she's obliged just for the sole purpose of "marriage". Me sef get one for Finland wey dey give greenlight. She no too fine sef... 7 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by funshow247(m): 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
contematawa: Nope... |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by oluwableskay(m): 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pocohantas(f): 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
gargoylern: I don’t make it sound easy, I simply said what I will do. Thank you. |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Munzy14(m): 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
gargoylern:Don't allow her blackmail you emotionally...
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by ednut1(m): 1:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Samuels90:telegram. Type it as a message to someone or telegram notification. And click it 2 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
lepasharon:Many mixed race kids do look like their parents, however if you want fully black children there’s more options, how about other african men? Black Canadian men? African American men? Black carribean men? Black british men? Loads of black men of all heritages in the west, why limit yourself to nigerian men that’s a little population of all men in the west? |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 1:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Swiitdoll:You should grow beyond that thinking. It is part of what is causing all this kasala wey dey ground. You don't want to come down from your high horse to get a man without a visa. What's in a visa anyways? 11 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pansophist(m): 1:16pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
fairfora: Not only Canada. I live in Europe and it's the same here. There are lots of factors that cause this. Nigerian men here are hustlers, and wont want a woman that he would be responsible for, something that Nigerian women are used to. So you gotta make your own money, no free ride. Also, there are whites and blacks from other countries, so your options for women are practically wide. But if the woman is good looking, she will definitely have lots of attention from men, but commitment from men is something that is slowly eroding as times goes by, sadly. One word, liberalism. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pocohantas(f): 1:16pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: Thank you. I consider it the highest level of delusion to want to be loved for “yourself”. Nigga who are you? There is always something. Some will claim theirs is not superficial, materialistic, blablabla. Fck that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by kem13287: 1:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 1:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
gargoylern:Nothing in a visa, but past behaviours of Nigerian men shows it’s risky to go back home and marry one. Their visa scam is so common that the home office has increased the duration of marriage for a permanent stay from 5 years to ten years. It sucks being used for a visa and often times left as a single mother too, even further limiting your chances of ever finding a good spouse. 1 Like |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by temielects(m): 1:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
kalufelix:that's why they patronize adults shops |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by uuzba(m): 1:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:This pizza of a thing that you guys are summersulting about is just bread. BREAD! BREAD! Ordinary bread. Take bread, tomatoes, egg, fish, suya.... And you are good. End of story. 9 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by jaxxy(m): 1:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Cvesta: She doesn't need anybodys money. She doesn't even need Jay-Z if not she still likes him. The que of men waiting to scope her is looong bt Beyonce isn't the hopping from man to man type luckily for Jayz. |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nephilim: 1:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
SavageBoy:they should come home. I'm very much available! I'm single and searching. A fine handsome dude, they are even lucky cos I'm blessed in all ramifications...Yes oooooooo! |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Zeinymira(f): 1:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Babatunde40: And the big deal in being an albino is?? Why the hell did you even quote me? And it's not like you said something intelligible. Ok, the albino is going to Dubai to hustle, big deal? Is being an albino not natural human diversities? If you are doing Porta potty in Dubai, congratulations to you! But this albino is a professional Nurse, with other qualifications. And if she decides to go to Dubai, she will work as a nurse. 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Greatelly(f): 1:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
princetaiwo: The truth is that precious gems are hard to find. There are few good, nice & educated women here in naija but they r usually quiet, not flashy, Unfortunately men will not see them, not be committed to marry them. 6 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
pansophist:I concur. My 44-year old friend got married late last year. We had to force him. We used to think he had potency or fertility issues until he finally voiced out to us. He came to lagos for the wedding and left almost immediately. It's not easy over there as many people think. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
pocohantas: People, men and women change when they enter obodo oyibo. I have a story of where they arranged a marriage for the US based babe, and the guy an alfa, comot for closet when he entered the US. Plenty of women also change because the dynamic in the west is different. No one will push you to remain in a marriage. No one will tell you to take infidelity etc. I have an uncle who they arranged one nice chick for. The chick was just biding her time till she entered us. Unfortunately for her the uncle is also very sharp. They came back home and he did the divorce there. Blindsided her with it. No alimony, no support etc. Everybody for obodo oyibo just dey fear because the risks especially for men, are much higher. 8 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Tanascohomem: 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: On your advise for the confused men; I believe that you can only be 100% sure of who you love and not who loves you. If you've invented something for detecting true love ,please share it. Pray to God for YOUR wife not just a woman/partner because YOUR wife won't be wicked to you. My thoughts though. 1 Like |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Zeinymira(f): 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
GeneralPula:Whatever |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Prettiepearlz(f): 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
gargoylern:Iwo gan fc.uk off. Had no intentions to insult you, but you are not a loyal person, I hope someone uses your plight especially the one that makes you cry to trend on a "faceless forum". Then when you read it, you will be probably know how she feels if peradventure she is reading this. Most nigerians abroad visit nairaland and they read stuff, if you have a conscience think about it deeply and give yourself the answer. Back then loyalty used to be a thing, but these days people use other people's personal life to trend and make themselves feel better. 4 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pansophist(m): 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
lefulefu: Of course. Who wants to hustle for years so that a woman will have a free ride to retirement from my sweat? That scam is over. Food for thought. The richest man in the world (Jeff Bezos) made his money doing business, meanwhile, the richest woman in the world (Mckenzie Bezos) made her wealth from divorcing the richest man. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Babatunde40(m): 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Zeinymira: Oya no vex. I have deleted the post. Apologies 2 Likes |
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Bostin(m): 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Swiitdoll:Why did you think I'm fooling you , do you see me as a desperate Person for visa or what . Do you think I'm a blind lover , NO. I 've seen and learned a lot about women and life , I have travel histories . Meeting any woman doesn't mean I would marry her , be poor or rich ,lives in shithole or abroad . Now I choose wisely . Check my profile posts and see when my baby mama left with my daughter . Please don't mention me again I'm not interested in your friend . 7 Likes 1 Share |
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