Designer123:
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.

What a pity for them! When there are many opportunities here in Nigeria

sexylassie2:


ubu.nja well done...you tried, just what i expected.

we are not stalking you rather exposing you for the fraud you are

That is why you are using my phone number in your profile?

Sister reason am well, who is the real fraud here.

Giving people my discounted phone number as your own, is that not impersonation of character?

Who is the fraud.

Are you so ugly and unattractive that you are too ashamed of yourself in public.

Prove me wrong?

https://www.nairaland.com/5783016/dedicated-lonely-nigerian-girls-canada

Follow this thread!!

If you're in diapora and you need someone that will cure your boredom lol contact me sorry, I am not ready for marriage but I will cure....

BestAccessories:


You are better off with gf and baby mamas there than getting married.

Half of your networth would be gone by the time she decide to leave you or when you wanna move on.

Example: Jeff Bezos paid MacKenzie Bezos $35 billion in 2019 to get a divorce (Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_expensive_divorces)

Below are amount paid to their wives to get divorced

1. Alec Wildenstein and Jocelyn Wildenstein, 1999 $3.8 billion
2. Rupert Murdoch and Anna Torv, 1999 $1.7 billion
3. Bernie Ecclestone and Slavica Radi, 2009 $1.2 billion
4. Steve and Elaine Wynn, 2010 $1 billion
5. Harold Hamm and Sue Ann Arnall, 2012 $975 million
6. Adnan Khashoggi and Soraya Khashoggi, 1980 $874 million
7. Dmitry Rybolovlev and Elena Rybolovlev, 2014 $604 million
8. Craig McCaw and Wendy McCaw, 1997 $460 million
9. Mel Gibson and Robyn Moore, 2006 $425 million
10. Bob Johnson and Sheila Crump Johnson, 2002 $400 million

(Source - https://www.pulse.ng/bi/finance/the-10-most-expensive-divorce-settlements-in-history-total-over-dollar11-billion/g65zsmq)

Remove Amazon founder, theirs was on mutual agreement

lepasharon:


Can't reply pms bro

Wanted to ask a question tho.. but that's fine

Cvesta:


You are wrong bro. A woman like Beyonce has very few men she respects and Jay-Z is one of those few men, he is richer, more powerful and the fact he had the all beautiful Beyonce and still cheated with a less rich and probably less pretty lady is a dent on her Ego.. Just so you know Jay-Z signed a prenup and pays her yearly likewise payment for every pregnancy. I still remember this from those days when I was always listening to Hip hop /entertainment news on Radio

And u think Beyounce isn't rich or powerful? Who is Jay-Z? Isnt he like p didy? Rich bt we still have sultans and billionaires above Jay-Z do pls drop that talk. Jay-Z can't intimidate Beyounce. Never!

Beyounce is not ur average singer and lady. He cheated with a less babe, how is that her business if she can get sm1 better for herself just like that? Wether lower or higher than Jay-Z.

BestAccessories:


On Janet Jackson, She was a submissive wife during the prenup contract but life becomes unbearable immediately (few weeks) after the prenupital agreement. Reason am well. You cope with something for 5 years, but couldn't tolerate it again since you will receive money if you divorce him after 5 years. Why not divorce him the second or third year when she isn't entitled to anything. Why wait for 5 years when you are entitled to his wealth before seeking divorce. Why get pregnant the 4th year, and divorce the fifth year for more divorce settlement money. Sister reason am very well.

Kardashian sister also gain from divorce settlements. That is a fact

You lie.

You don't even know their names but can tell such lies.


I watched keeping up with the Kardashians for years.

Chloe didn't get a dime from Lamar Odom and Kourtney was never married to Lord Disick. Only Kim is married now and her first marriage was in 2001 to an unknown music producer guy. She got nothing but beatings in that marriage. The second one lasted 72 days.


You can't even win that argument.


As for Janet Jackson, you haven't answers my question, why did the man leave all the submissive Arabian women who will remain in the marriage and marry an African American entertainer who was older than him knowing the marriage can pack up anytime? He can even marry four young Arabian wives if he wanted to. He not only proposed to her, he opened his eyes and signed that document before the marriage knowing he would lose money.

The marriage favoured him more than it favoured her in the end. If he didn't sign that document initially for $100M, she would have been entitled to half do his wealth. She lost $220 Million for that your and only got $100M from him.



You people enjoy blaming women for everything.

Powerintoxicate:
thats what I'm saying. Go home but disguise. You don't have to let the man or woman know you have some residence or citizenship till you sure it's true and REAL LOVE. And there are also many guys in Nigeria who wouldn't even want to live abroad. FACT

Can you disguise your accent too?

Women in nigeria struggle to get men..how much more someone from abroad.

There are fuckboys in nigeria too

Inside life

Redpillers will find this thread refreshing. Dream come true

Cc. Martinez39s, ubunja, Ariza, food don ready

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That's terrible, I wonder why. If one can get an African man, that's good enough, no time. I knew it was over selection causing problems for them.

oshaosha2014:
She’ll make you buy a house before divorcing you.

I see

Munzy14:

So what will you say about guys who returned here to pick wife, only for her to come and dump him for some white guys..

You make it sound like it happens to ladies alone.

Mind you my friend spent 35yrs in Baltimore and experienced such with his first wife.

The wife did not actually love him and just used him as a stepping stone or perhaps Greed caused it.
Did he court with her? Or his family just arranged for a wife for him? I have had cases of the latter often times.

Mizwisdom:



Hey ladies in Canada, there are many guys here that are willing to date you, why complain of loneliness when multitudes of young men are here praying for someone to change their destinies?

praying seriously

Zeinymira:

Whatever

No ma’am.. Wasn’t really trying to sound not straight.

What I’m trying to say is that UAE isn’t that easy like you believing it to be.. Arabs men sees their women, white and Europe girls as queen... You see black women? They believe they’re low class women that can be used for anything aside from dating. I have girls that travelled to Arab countries but couldn’t cope and eventually came back home. I can tell you more, just for you to learn so as to know whatsup before heading there..

Op, it's a kind of complicated situation.
Firstly, there are some Nigerian guys that are stiff-minded to be single rather than marry foreigners. If you are the type that doesn't want your children never to forget their roots(Nigeria), it's advisable to go for Nigeria girls (Africans). Unfortunately, many of our women that were taken to abroad made life more miserable for their husbands.

Let's look at this situation, I have a very good friend of mine in Europe right now, he was earning about 2500 euro (1m naira) before he brought his wife from Nigeria. The guy came to Nigeria 4 times within 2.5 years after the marriage and he eventually took his wife with him to Europe after succeeded in a very long, expensive and difficult immigration processes.

He has been living for several years in a 2 bedroom shared apartment with another guy, so they were dividing the monthly rent into two. So, when his wife joined him in Europe, he got another 2 bedroom apartment so as accommodate expecting kid(s). My friend's house rent jumped up by over 250%.

To cut my story short, the wife started getting some money here and there in Europe, instead for her to help my poor friend in supporting atleast house rent, she said if they are in Nigeria, my friend can't be asking her to support house rent. Meanwhile, for the fact that the wife was living with him, the guy had intentionally reduced his working hours so as to spend more time with her. He was earning about 1500 euro (600k naira) when the wife came to Europe. Unfortunately, they had divorced as I am talking to you right now. There are tons of this situation overseas.

Someone mentioned here that, any man that meet a good wife should always give thanks to God everyday.

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

omale88:
been reading the comments so far and i must say i commend the mature manner in the replies and comments on this thread.

Seconded. For a very longtime I am seeing a thread devoid of childish mentions. Guess those kids didn't notice it or matured men dominated hence they stod off.

Belafonte:


By keeping the children away from him? Wonderful

Nope, by continuing the marriage or not.

He can't force her to accept/ condone/overlook adultery; he can however enforce shared custody of his kids except the wife can prove he has not been a good father.

Nuel4:
can you explain to me how women were oppressed by our ancestors?
Celebration of LGBT is an aberration of societal norms and values.

Why waste your energy on these ignoramus that parrots foreign culture without an adequate understanding of its unsiutability to our values and beliefs?

In few years time they will transform to headless lady boss and eventually for a frustrated and dejected old maid.

Arguing or reasoning with them is an exercise in futility because their reasoning faculties have been outsourced to a culture that is neither workable or beneficial to their existence.

Their stubbornness on ignorance is to them a badge of honour

About their foolishness God Himself is hopelessly HELPLESS

RaptorX:
You people should stop asking to be hooked up with women in Canada, this is getting annoying.

Why not? Don't be angry please

Mizwisdom:



That's terrible, I wonder why. If one can get an African man, that's good enough, no time. I knew it was over selection causing problems for them.

They are extremely close minded that’s the problem. It’s even hard to find a Nigerian lady abroad dating a Ghanaian dude that’s just our next door neighbour back home, or a Gambian or a Kenyan. They’d say no only Nigerian men. They’d be lonely for a long time lol.

Swiitdoll:

I maintain my stance. Nigerian women abroad who are looking for a partner should either get with Nigerian men abroad who have their own legal staying documents or marry interracial, to avoid stories that touch. Or he can apply for a visa himself and come join her, if he can. I’ve seen some older interracial couples, though not common but it’s probably because most people marry in their own race. I don’t ever see myself going home to find a man, of all the options, white men, Asian men, mixed race men, black men. I’d leave all those and go home lol never! Haha

I get your point sis. They are just not open minded. If I dey there, I don’t see myself coming back for a homebased, except he has good money sha.

pocohantas:


Thank you. I consider it the highest level of delusion to want to be loved for “yourself”.

Nigga who are you?

There is always something. Some will claim theirs is not superficial, materialistic, blablabla.

Fck that.

Lol there's always something to gain, if I'm bringing in money and opportunities then he has to be bringing in something just as good, no time for love o

pocohantas:


I get your point sis. They are just not open minded. If I dey there, I don’t see myself coming back for a homebased, except he has good money sha.

Haha same. If it’s dangote I’d even relocate lmao haha

madridsta007:


I actually empathise with them.

How can you go to a small very cold town in Saskatchewan because of the job and money, where you don’t have Nigerians and expect to see one magically to form a friendship with?

Eeh go shock you say many Nigerian dey there especially Saskatoon....redeem, winners and omega fire Church plenty there...so if you serious for Church things go click but you see Regina na shithole capital

generationz:


You lie.

You don't even know their names but can tell such lies.


I watched keeping up with the Kardashians for years.

Chloe didn't get a dime from Lamar Odom and Kourtney was never married to Lord Disick. Only Kim is married now and her first marriage was in 2001 to an unknown music producer guy. She got nothing but beatings in that marriage. The second one lasted 72 days.


You can't even win that argument.


As for Janet Jackson, you haven't answers my question, why did the man leave all the submissive Arabian women who will remain in the marriage and marry an African American entertainer who was older than him knowing the marriage can pack up anytime? He can even marry four young Arabian wives if he wanted to. He not only proposed to her, he opened his eyes and signed that document before the marriage knowing he would lose money.

The marriage favoured him more than it favoured her in the end. If he didn't sign that document initially for $100M, she would have been entitled to half do his wealth. She lost $220 Million for that your and only got $100M from him.



You people enjoy blaming women for everything.

Sister, far from it.

I am not blaming any woman here.

Just advising guys based on the subject matter.

What you get away with here, you can't in Europe or America.

That is why guys there prefer baby mamas or just girlfriend instead of actually marrying her.

Guys are protecting their hard-earned money. If you (guy) want to divorce ya wife, you have to be the one to move out of the house for her. Same house that the guy is currently paying mortgage on.

tossedbae:
I kinda like/prefer their social lifestyle abroad than here, nobody gets to snitch or criticise you for staying single or being baby mama etc, every one has a right to live any kinda fvcking life he or she wants except or criminal act

Correct.. I feel your point. You’ll be at peace & at your own with whatever decision..

So you’re in Abroad today and going the baby mama way comes to be the way forward... Would you mind?

fairfora:
I concur. My 44-year old friend got married late last year. We had to force him. We used to think he had potency or fertility issues until he finally voiced out to us. He came to lagos for the wedding and left almost immediately. It's not easy over there as many people think.

Now that you people have forced him, I wonder if you contributed to his wedding bills.

gargoylern:

You didn't get my point. They actually WANT marriage, that's the primary reason they feel lonely and dejected. These are not career women types.

Bros abeg hook me with one na, how woman go dey lonely wey good men like us dey 9ja here.

Donthe hookup abeg Bros.

THUNDER4real:
MARRY A LADY THAT LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HER......Good advice so far....

That's the best. She put all out to make things work while you complement her. And boom! You got a sweet home.

GeneralPula:

Are you in Ca?
Try dating site nah... You’ll see more than what your wanting!

Not in CA, in 9ja. Care to show me any dating site where I can 9ja chicks in CA? Thanks

Swiitdoll:

They are extremely close minded that’s the problem. It’s even hard to find a Nigerian lady abroad dating a Ghanaian dude that’s just our next door neighbour back home, or a Gambian or a Kenyan. They’d say no only Nigerian men. They’d be lonely for a long time lol.

Lol no wonder