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Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Biancah(f): 1:35pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
I saw a post on where Ajimobi wife said she caught him cheating two times and forgave him and men are hailing her saying she is a good and wise wife. Men can you also forgive your wife that cheated on you ? Or is forgiveness of spouses only applicable to women ? 4 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Yes of course I can forgive a cheating wife. If a man cheats and can be forgiven why not a woman. It's the actions I will take after that will be important. Tell a woman about the body count of a rich, handsome man. Do u think she will care? Tell a man about how many men have slept with a beautiful, sexy woman and the story changes. Why do you think you ladies here on NL never want to reveal your body count e.g. fountainofyouth? Even you ladies know subconsciously that sex with men and women are 2 different things and can never be equated as just sex. A man finds it easier to sleep with a woman even if he has no feelings for her. But for a woman to do this without being forced or raped it's a totally different issue. Our African women are becoming more liberal about sex now as seen in the western world. But we haven't gotten to that stage yet where an African woman who is married will claim she can sleep around with different men but is still in love with her husband. Except of course she's a lying LovePeddler. Such women are dangerous. And like Ajimobi's wife said he's doing it just for sex. Nothing more. D u think he will trade any of those whores for his wife? Never. In summary a lot of men are dogs but will still not want to lose that one special woman. As with all things in life, my position will not always be correct. This merely represents a vast majority of what happens when a man or woman is cheating. There will of course always be rare exceptions as will be pointed out by those who quote me to dispute what I've just typed. 7 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by madridguy(m): 1:40pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
There's nothing like cheating in men, we are polygamous in nature. We are free to marry as many as possible. 3 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Oyindidi(f): 1:41pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Who born them to forgive? 9 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Cheat no wahala. I'll forgive you totally. In Yoruba parlance o ma de ile gbo. Meaning You go hear story. Better continue that cheating o Don't stop. In fact ask me say you wan go nack outside I go drive you with better car go there, wait till you finish and bring you back home. If you even need me to fan you while collecting the kondo I will But O ma de Ile gbo |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by jacquincy: 1:50pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
i will because no one is perfect, but i prefer not to catch her in the act 5 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Telling naija men to forgive cheating wives would be like telling them to drink sniper. Even the one that has numerous side chicks won't like their wives to cheat on them. When they cheat they remember men are polygamous in nature and preach forgiveness, when a woman cheats they label all Nigerian women sluts and irresponsible. The glaring hypocrisy though. 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by josen16322(m): 1:57pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
4give my ass i will destroy and vanish her in d face of d earth and nobody we kno dat she as disapear becos am a menace and i dont like judas iscariot ![]() |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by pocohantas(f): 1:58pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Is it not what you know of, that you will forgive? Toor! 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Mustack: 1:58pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Biancah: I did forgive my woman. But what pained me the most is that she decided to leave the relationship |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Oluneutral: 2:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Men are too emotionally weak to forgive their cheating wives. 16 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by faithfull18(f): 2:25pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
No, cheating is exclusively for the men as most Nigerian men say. Well for me, cheating isn't in the exclusive preserve of anybody, nobody should cheat in the first place. 6 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:58pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
josen16322: Hahahaha this one is already spitting fire and brimstone ![]() 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by okongo(m): 3:02pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
It is tough to make the decision especially when kids are involved. Odds is that I will forgive. 1 Like |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Biglittlelois(f): 3:03pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
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Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
In the days of Joab the son of Zeruiah (2754 BC to be precise) my beloved Nwanyioma cheated on me with King David (the man after God's heart.. How I Wan take fight that kind person ![]() [img]https:///view/blackish-sad-crying-depressed-down-gif-5698182.gif[/img] I was knocked down so hard that it took me about 3.6years to recover and go fight at the war front again. But I still feel the hit till date even in my reincarnated self. Truly She knocked me so hard ![]() [img]https:///view/slap-hit-chase-nope-bully-gif-5625933.gif[/img] Anyways I had to pick up my shattered pieces and carry on with life..She later turned out to be the mother of Absalom... Absalom later betrayed his dad. So sad ![]() You see how girlfriend betrayed me...girlfriend pikin betrayed his daddy ![]() ![]() Bottom line na afonja day cheat pass... Can't forgive no Afonja Spits ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by bukatyne2: 3:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Biancah: Is a husband obligated to forgive a cheating wife because an average Nigerian wife would forgive her husband? 2 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by yeyeosoronga: 3:23pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Every mallam with him kettle. Both men and women that want to cheat will continue to do so. Women will forever remain secretive about their escapades and many men will continue to raise bastards Men will also continue their trysts with side chicks et al "Everyone is a thief, and only the person caught red handed in broad daylight is called barawo" .... african proverb 23 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by mejai(m): 3:46pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Man and woman are not equal simple. God knows why. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Don't be deceived, the male ego is not mocked. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
It is difficult. Even imagining it is getting me angry on its own. Nonetheless, I will try and forgive her but things may not remain the same. 1 Like |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by crackland: 4:48pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
I can forgive her ONLY if she's the one paying the bills and providing for me. Any other thing besides this arrangement, then it's who will kill her she's looking for...not forgiveness. How can I be taking care of you and providing for you, then you will cheat and still be expecting forgiveness? ![]() Na jazz? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Greatzeus(m): 5:37pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
YES I Can. But ....Should I, would I, could I? |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by oyoolima: 5:41pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Yes they forgive and they continue their marriages aka 'because of the children ' syndrome. They just won't talk about it because others may call them weak ![]() ![]() Do not be decieved by internet boasting.. 12 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Of course not. Because she has then cast down on his paternal certainty, and is threatening to defraud him of his resources by secretly bringing home a child not his own. If men do it, it is not forgiveness that is expected from their wives, but acceptance. The man never uses her resources, nor does he secretly bring another woman's child home for her to bring up. So his extra maritak affairs cannot be shown to hurt her in any way. It is only his own business. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Sixfeetbelle: 6:52pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Biancah: ![]() ![]() ![]() Do you want the earth to burst up into flames? 1 Like |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
madridguy:And u want to port?
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Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Come to think of it, I only read about cheating wives on social media or newspapers. Yet to meet one ![]() ![]() Women knew how to run their affairs since the time of our ancestors ![]() Very easy to catch a cheating husband( unless u decided to look the other way) but cheating wives, nay ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by madridguy(m): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Your question remind me of lady i met through this platform few years ago. She's a daughter of one the billionaire of this country. She sent me PM and immediately i saw the surname i was like ![]() ![]() She wanted me to come over but she want two assurance from me, first when i come over i won't marry second wife and also i must introduce myself to her father as a Christian so the man can get me paper. I weigh the matter and i told her it would be hard. sassysure: |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
madridguy:U no wan port na ![]() Muslims do marry one wife you know. U are not smart. Say yes, and marry her. Then u can have a change of heart. Who knows, if u are good, she may join u in your religion. U carry religion for head in this 21st century ![]() A girl can do anything, even defy her parents for the man she love. |
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