ovielistic:


have the men of other races finish eyeing their girls..Who told you they are interested..in most cases you will hardly see those men dating 9ja girls..they are not interested..they prefer girls in their own culture or race..lol its only 9ja guys that you see all manner of girls with them from white girls to Asian girls to girls from other African culture.

You are obviously not living in Canada. You have no idea what's happening under your nose. Create a fake Nigerian female profile on match.com and wait for the response.
Give me agency fees after getting the result. I still say it, if a Nigerian girl says she is ready to date outside her race, she can.

searchng4love:

Weeked guy

hahaha no mind me!

Jaspernubi:
In fact ladies generally are whores. Don’t ask me what Eve was doing talking to Satan when she should have allowed the husband to be the spokesperson
Women everywhere are hoe
Argue with your keyboard

Especially your MOM, the Head Hoe.

SweetCunt97:
After talking thrash?

hahaha! It's just common sense!

Fucsheetup:
Typical nigger. If the roles were reversed, you’d be yelling RACISM.

I don't care

No degree... I am an Auto-spray painter. Do you mean having a companion makes it cheaper, easier and faster ?... please sir/ma’am I am here to learn. Thank you

iammiracle1:


If you are serious and have a degree and work experience, look out for a lady that is interested in traveling, hook up and run the package together, better you guys genuinely like each other though, it beats wishful thinking and hoping for a woman to miraculously carry you to the abroad.

Jim99:



Must be fun watching them die in envy

#Teamwhitewomen

Team white women indeed.I should show my boo this thread..she go laugh tire..

Designerdollars:
how are your eggs doing? are they dried up already..

Below the womb blow

ovielistic:


Team white women indeed.

What's your issue. Let's make our choice

safarigirl:


Thanks so much sweetheart

I'm working towards Canada by next year. Once I've settled there, I will come to this same Nairaland and put up an Advert for a Husband, let me see if they will not drop their CVs.

Hahahahahahahahahahaha and i will be here to laugh again!

whizqueen:

Govt said we should stay at home and they would pay us $500 weekly. Please give me one reason why I should not have free time

Oh sorry, my bad, forgive me

Ladyhippolyta88:

They are lying to themselves.

Na only old mama's dem dey catch for there if dem manage find young babe they must have been behaving like perfect gentlemen not the animalistic display they show Nigerian ladies

u go shame when u go see them dey do houseboy to their old white wives.

whizqueen:

My dear the matter weak me. The most disgusting thing is the same guys that are talking trash on here are the ones that sent me DMs already. All in the name of trying not to look vulnerable

Honestly, you wowo o. How u go come be without make up?? Try and humble yourself so that you can find a good Naija man.

I remain Akpaamunsi Agwu

Designerdollars:
how are your eggs doing? are they dried up already..

Uncle, focus on the topic. All this ad hominem is stale. I am in my 30s, broke, ugly, eggs drying up, lonely...

What is new? Surprise yourself o.

gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny

Dem don reply you o...Waiting for your response

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

searchng4love:

I don't care

Okay Nigger.

iamloyalty:


u go shame when u go see them dey do houseboy to their old white wives.

LMAO and dem dey claim say white women dey rush them .
NL men dey lie sha

katyamizotta:


You are obviously not living in Canada. You have no idea what's happening under your nose. Create a fake Nigerian female profile on match.com and wait for the response.
Give me agency fees after getting the result. I still say it, if a Nigerian girl says she is ready to date outside her race, she can.

lmao..
I have lived in Canada since January 2015..so shut up..I know everything about living here..my profile is not fake..check my post on different thread's.

My own observation from reading this post
1, Even in marriage whether in Canada, Nigeria, Japan , USA, UK, SA or anywhere, you can still be lonely. Yes people get lonely in marriage and that is why some women or men cheat.
2., Do not generalized that most Nigerian men or most Nigerian women are this or that. There are some Nigerian men who support women's' right and have no problem with the Canadian laws that protect women and not all Nigerian women in Canada are lonely
3. Having a gf/bf or marry someone does not solve life problem, but it helps if you have the right person by your side
4. Whatever works for you only depend on the Grace of God, I have seen some people who migrated to overseas, work hard or not so hard and are doing very well and I have some Nigerian who work very hard and are still struggling in overseas. Some owe debt of $10000+ in credit card, loans but you cannot never tell until they tell you.
5. Loneliness is not permanent - Just because you have a lot of friends today or you are not lonely today does not necessary prevent loneliness tomorrow.
6. Always draw near to God because He cares for you

safarigirl:


Thanks so much sweetheart

I'm working towards Canada by next year. Once I've settled there, I will come to this same Nairaland and put up an Advert for a Husband, let me see if they will not drop their CVs.

Safarigirl, you have no meat on your bones oooo. You will freeze to death the first winter.
You will get bf by force or you will freeze to death without aso bora

searchng4love:

What's your issue. Let's make our choice

Bro he has already made the perfect choice a white gf

I have. You should too. Spread the word

pocohantas:


Uncle, focus on the topic. All this ad hominem is stale. I am in my 30s, broke, ugly, eggs drying up, lonely...

What is new? Surprise yourself o.

Such tired narrative, their obsession with women aging is extremely amusing.

omobaba1759:

You know you don't have to insult her or anyone before you pass your message.

I no insult anyone.. I'm just stating the obvious! Saying someone is tall short beautiful or ugly is not an insult.
Thanks

Fucsheetup:
Okay Nigger.

Niggress

Jaspernubi:
In fact ladies generally are whores. Don’t ask me what Eve was doing talking to Satan when she should have allowed the husband to be the spokesperson
Women everywhere are hoe
Argue with your keyboard

Calm down. This is a faceless forum. Be careful not to insult your mum, grandmas and sisters because of a Nairaland thread. Not worth it

Can y'all make better logical arguments or shut the bleep up?

90% of the males countering the OP's well structured rebuttal can't and haven't made any meaningful point so far. All I can see here are weak insults and sly digs targeted at the lady's physical appearance and manners, nothing reasonable.

pocohantas:


Hmmm. “Foreign women rush Naija men”

I finally found what I was looking for let me save this picture

[quote author=Jim99 post=88265815]

Must be fun watching them die in envy
#Teamwhitewomen[/quote
U mean #Teamgrannywhitewife

whizqueen:

IRCC is still processing applications. If you have your documents ready, submit it. Go to travel section to learn the process or check my YouTube channel, like is on my post. Goodluck

Any shortcuts with block funds in account for the 6 months period?

[quote author=Jim99 post=88265815]

Must be fun watching them die in envy
#Teamwhitewomen[/quote
U mean #Teamgrannywhitewomen