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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 7:02pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
tyup:Who is this girl? Don't let me talk about her facial attributes I think she embodies what I was talking about. 7 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by yassinattah(m): 7:03pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Mstick:Madam or Mr I assume you are a lady,We are no longer slaves to the white man,So if I see it fit to marry a white lady,Its not because of inferiority complex or I consider myself lucky or socially stratified below the white man,Its because I know we are out of the ice age of thinking a white man is or a white lady is above a black man,Madam the world is evolving and marrying trans race and having biracial kids,There's absolutely nothing bad about that,Its a thing of choice. Wake up, I have a son from a Ukrainian lady and I see nothing wrong about this. 2 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by whizqueen(f): 7:03pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
usfreshen:It’s quite unfortunate you find my use of the f word distasteful but I use that word unapologetically to stress my point. You’re welcome to unsubscribe as well. Naija is home everyday, good or bad my family are still there any it would never stop been home to me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by ibkayee(f): 7:05pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
sassysure:I won’t say it’s completely sane lol but the discussions are a lot more diverse and mature. It’s a majority African American female forum but there are handfuls of subgroups who also participate e.g. Nigerian females Lipstickalley (dot) com |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by whizqueen(f): 7:07pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Timijo:Thank you! I’ve been on Nairaland long enough to know how these people reason. None of the responses so far moved me. If I’m confident in my looks enough to go on YouTube, who them be?? 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by ibkayee(f): 7:07pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
safarigirl:If I ever start a topic there (I’m more of a lurker) or see one I’ll definitely call your attention to it Lool! 1 Like |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MYMINDER(m): 7:08pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Your express entry application cannot proceed beyond the 1st stage without your official test score. Go and read on the internet and gather all the facts you need. Turning her into a personal consultant really does not help both of you. Once again, it is not rocket science. xavuv: |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by iammiracle1(m): 7:08pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Burgcudi: I meant it in the sense that you both can pull resources and increase each others points if applicable, that's why I said someone also interested in migrating, w/o a degree i don't know much about migration, but I do know Aussie has PR options for artisans and they actually get it faster if their job skills are in need. |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by whizqueen(f): 7:08pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
xavuv:If you have the sufficient points to get ITA only the PA is required to write the language test. 1 Like |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by TheManOfTheYear: 7:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Dem create reply thread I knew it! Our Nigerian ladies cannot just keep mute and let it slide. But truth be told, majority of them are lonely. (hits gavel) 6 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 7:11pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
ibkayee:Thank u. 1 Like |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Coolabbie: 7:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
UKBobo:Ditto for the grannies interested in naija men. They just see them as human dildos devoid of intelligence 3 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MYMINDER(m): 7:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
A lot of hate on that site by Black American women against Africans and Nigerians especially. Not all, but enough to cause concern. Africans there are relatively quiet outside of the Africa forum because the "bully network" is strong whenever anyone speaks against one of them. I see it as more of an emotional support site for black american women. More of comforting each other and less of telling each other the truth. There are good discussions from time to time once the trolls and hate-filled fonts are ignored. ibkayee: 1 Like |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by drnoel: 7:13pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
whizqueen: Ur opinion!! |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Silla007: 7:13pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=whizqueen post=88260129]My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go. I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread. Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with. Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg. I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future. Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it. Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing. White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether. Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing. All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women. Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here. There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish. A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly. I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today Very reasonable and objective rejoinder. |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Ayohbk(m): 7:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
tyup: I can assure you the O. P is a beautiful, well packaged, independent lady. One that from your post you can't get. You are a ball-less and spineless man who think bringing down a woman with words would make you better. But the joke is on you. To even think you use another man's picture on your profile says a lot about you. I'll state clearly without mincing words, the O.P IS WAY OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. Get of the keypad now, boy and make something out of your miserable misogynistic life 5 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Ayohbk(m): 7:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: It's not about rebuttal or not. It's about making sensible and valid points. Not just massaging a gender's ego. |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by ambo1: 7:16pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
orunmila144:I dey tell you...kai |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Burgcudi(m): 7:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Please Sir/Ma’am can I get your phone number iammiracle1: |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
ibkayee:They are stained with bad reputation already. Oh, the ego of our men Even children are forming online warriors. Make school start abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Coolabbie: 7:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
northvietnam:Are you the one with the pregnancy or the other one that looks like a dirty cultist? |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Kolping: 7:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Ayohbk(m): 7:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
princealexndre: LOL..... I see reason why girls like her would rather be lonely than go for guys like you, if you think typing a few paragraphs is so much work. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 7:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
TheKingIsHere:I no even know her before. But she is a concrete example of what I'm talking about. And she is just one of the thousands! 5 Likes |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 7:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Burgcudi: Thought naija babes are undesirable? Most of the m3n here are looking for abroad connections Enough pm. Babes,be careful o Stories that touch 1 Like |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Ayohbk(m): 7:21pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
whizqueen: Hahaha..... Don't mind him. He's probably on a queue waiting for buhari's bread to reach him and he made that comment with the last percent of battery life on his phone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by tyup(m): 7:21pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ayohbk: ion have the Energy to deal with jealous mf like u is......Lmao i'm sure u went to my profile to see how I look inorder to cast me but cuz ur disappointed ur bowed in shame to think pple steal pictures like ur family does I'm sorry bout ur dissapointment sir it shocked u to see an Hausa guy looking so clean I'm way outta ur league bro incase ur looking for employment to beat ur joblessness up Sokoto is down North ima get u one any day 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by yassinattah(m): 7:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=dreamwords post=88262616]Nigerian ladies have a particular mindset which makes it difficult for Nigerian men over there to marry them, because those men have seen better options[/quote I will leave Naija and still go to US or Canada or Carribean Islands and still be dating or courting Nigerian Ladies again,Tor why did I leave Nigeria in the first place apart from the greener pastures,I ll rather come back to Naija and marry a decent Nigerian lady than be dating Nigerian ladies in Mini Skirt in a white mans land again in a level playing field full of different races,That's no sense of belonging but a misplaced priority.Its one kain now,think of it,When Mulatto,Latino, Kpekus dey dia,In short akwai mix,because one has to dilute the African blood atimes because am tired of seeing our ladies fixing Brazilian Hair when I can have daughters and sons with natural Brazilian hair. Well can call this post insensible but its the truth. |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by dfrost: 7:24pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Chai thread 48 pages vs Reply To: Chai Thread 30 pages 48-30 Me na scores I come count. 1 Like |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by benji93: 7:24pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
You once inserted your manhood into the evil forest. gypsey: |
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Jim99: 7:26pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=yassinattah post=88269240][/quote] Walai bro I still dey talk am, guys if u reach dat side still dey look black woman. U need spiritual beating lol U go see clean and drop dead gorgeous latinas, caucasian, asians, ur eyes go nearly fall comot 3 Likes |
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