I saw a post on where Ajimobi wife said she caught him cheating two times and forgave him and men are hailing her saying she is a good and wise wife.
Men can you also forgive your wife that cheated on you ?
Or is forgiveness of spouses only applicable to women ?

Yes of course I can forgive a cheating wife. If a man cheats and can be forgiven why not a woman. It's the actions I will take after that will be important. Tell a woman about the body count of a rich, handsome man. Do u think she will care? Tell a man about how many men have slept with a beautiful, sexy woman and the story changes. Why do you think you ladies here on NL never want to reveal your body count e.g. fountainofyouth? Even you ladies know subconsciously that sex with men and women are 2 different things and can never be equated as just sex.
A man finds it easier to sleep with a woman even if he has no feelings for her. But for a woman to do this without being forced or raped it's a totally different issue. Our African women are becoming more liberal about sex now as seen in the western world. But we haven't gotten to that stage yet where an African woman who is married will claim she can sleep around with different men but is still in love with her husband. Except of course she's a lying LovePeddler. Such women are dangerous. And like Ajimobi's wife said he's doing it just for sex. Nothing more. D u think he will trade any of those whores for his wife? Never.
In summary a lot of men are dogs but will still not want to lose that one special woman.

As with all things in life, my position will not always be correct. This merely represents a vast majority of what happens when a man or woman is cheating. There will of course always be rare exceptions as will be pointed out by those who quote me to dispute what I've just typed.

There's nothing like cheating in men, we are polygamous in nature.

We are free to marry as many as possible.

Who born them to forgive?

Cheat no wahala.
I'll forgive you totally.

In Yoruba parlance o ma de ile gbo.
Meaning You go hear story.

Better continue that cheating o
Don't stop.
In fact ask me say you wan go nack outside I go drive you with better car go there, wait till you finish and bring you back home.
If you even need me to fan you while collecting the kondo I will
But

O ma de Ile gbo

i will because no one is perfect, but i prefer not to catch her in the act

Telling naija men to forgive cheating wives would be like telling them to drink sniper. Even the one that has numerous side chicks won't like their wives to cheat on them. When they cheat they remember men are polygamous in nature and preach forgiveness, when a woman cheats they label all Nigerian women sluts and irresponsible.
The glaring hypocrisy though.

4give my ass i will destroy and vanish her in d face of d earth and nobody we kno dat she as disapear becos am a menace and i dont like judas iscariot

Is it not what you know of, that you will forgive?

Toor!

Biancah:
I saw a post on where Ajimobi wife said she caught him cheating two times and forgave him and men are hailing her saying she is a good and wise wife.
Men can you also forgive your wife that cheated on you ?
Or is forgiveness of spouses only applicable to women ?

I did forgive my woman. But what pained me the most is that she decided to leave the relationship

Men are too emotionally weak to forgive their cheating wives.

No, cheating is exclusively for the men as most Nigerian men say.

Well for me, cheating isn't in the exclusive preserve of anybody, nobody should cheat in the first place.

josen16322:
4give my ass i will destroy and vanish her in d face of d earth and nobody we kno dat she as disapear becos am a menace and i dont like judas iscariot

Hahahaha this one is already spitting fire and brimstone

It is tough to make the decision especially when kids are involved. Odds is that I will forgive.

pocohantas:
Is it not what you know of, that you will forgive?

Toor!

They are coming for you

In the days of Joab the son of Zeruiah (2754 BC to be precise) my beloved Nwanyioma cheated on me with King David (the man after God's heart.. How I Wan take fight that kind person ) ... I cried like a baby
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I was knocked down so hard that it took me about 3.6years to recover and go fight at the war front again. But I still feel the hit till date even in my reincarnated self. Truly She knocked me so hard
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Anyways I had to pick up my shattered pieces and carry on with life..She later turned out to be the mother of Absalom... Absalom later betrayed his dad. So sad
You see how girlfriend betrayed me...girlfriend pikin betrayed his daddy Hmmm now it's Starting to look like betrayal was prevalent in my ex's lineage. In modern age she can only be likened to an Afonja, cos they are the only ones capable of transferring such hereditary traits to offsprings even to the 7th generation

Bottom line na afonja day cheat pass... Can't forgive no Afonja


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Biancah:
I saw a post on where Ajimobi wife said she caught him cheating two times and forgave him and men are hailing her saying she is a good and wise wife.
Men can you also forgive your wife that cheated on you ?
Or is forgiveness of spouses only applicable to women ?

Is a husband obligated to forgive a cheating wife because an average Nigerian wife would forgive her husband?

Every mallam with him kettle.
Both men and women that want to cheat will continue to do so.
Women will forever remain secretive about their escapades and many men will continue to raise bastards
Men will also continue their trysts with side chicks et al
"Everyone is a thief, and only the person caught red handed in broad daylight is called barawo" .... african proverb

Man and woman are not equal simple. God knows why.

Don't be deceived, the male ego is not mocked.

It is difficult. Even imagining it is getting me angry on its own.
Nonetheless, I will try and forgive her but things may not remain the same.

I can forgive her ONLY if she's the one paying the bills and providing for me. Any other thing besides this arrangement, then it's who will kill her she's looking for...not forgiveness.

How can I be taking care of you and providing for you, then you will cheat and still be expecting forgiveness?
Na jazz?

YES I Can. But ....Should I, would I, could I?

Yes they forgive and they continue their marriages aka 'because of the children ' syndrome.
They just won't talk about it because others may call them weak

Do not be decieved by internet boasting..

Of course not. Because she has then cast down on his paternal certainty, and is threatening to defraud him of his resources by secretly bringing home a child not his own.

If men do it, it is not forgiveness that is expected from their wives, but acceptance. The man never uses her resources, nor does he secretly bring another woman's child home for her to bring up. So his extra maritak affairs cannot be shown to hurt her in any way. It is only his own business.

Biancah:
I saw a post on where Ajimobi wife said she caught him cheating two times and forgave him and men are hailing her saying she is a good and wise wife.
Men can you also forgive your wife that cheated on you ?
Or is forgiveness of spouses only applicable to women ?

Do you want the earth to burst up into flames?

madridguy:
There's nothing like cheating in men, we are polygamous in nature.

We are free to marry as many as possible.

And u want to port?

Come to think of it, I only read about cheating wives on social media or newspapers.

Yet to meet one


Women knew how to run their affairs since the time of our ancestors

Very easy to catch a cheating husband( unless u decided to look the other way) but cheating wives, nay

Your question remind me of lady i met through this platform few years ago. She's a daughter of one the billionaire of this country. She sent me PM and immediately i saw the surname i was like Allah don butter my bread
She wanted me to come over but she want two assurance from me, first when i come over i won't marry second wife and also i must introduce myself to her father as a Christian so the man can get me paper.

I weigh the matter and i told her it would be hard.

sassysure:

And u want to port?

madridguy:
Your question remind me of lady i met through this platform few years ago. She's a daughter of one the billionaire of this country. She sent me PM and immediately i saw the surname i was like Allah don butter my bread
She wanted me to come over but she want two assurance from me, first when i come over i won't marry second wife and also i must introduce myself to her father as a Christian so the man can get me paper.

I weigh the matter and i told her it would be hard.

U no wan port na

Muslims do marry one wife you know.

U are not smart.
Say yes, and marry her.
Then u can have a change of heart.
Who knows, if u are good, she may join u in your religion.
U carry religion for head in this 21st century
A girl can do anything, even defy her parents for the man she love.