GraGra247:


And you're there and so you know. Clap for yourself.

And how the heck did you reach the conclusion that I've not been there.

Are you me? Are me you? me you are?

Bros there's no research o, but when you know the how life is in Canada you will understand why that said so. It's both sided tho.

MYMINDER:
A lot of hate on that site by Black American women against Africans and Nigerians especially. Not all, but enough to cause concern. Africans there are relatively quiet outside of the Africa forum because the "bully network" is strong whenever anyone speaks against one of them. I see it as more of an emotional support site for black american women. More of comforting each other and less of telling each other the truth. There are good discussions from time to time once the trolls and hate-filled fonts are ignored.

I won’t say there isn’t tension between groups but I’ve never gotten an overall hateful vibe. The site isn’t perfect but I find it more conducive for certain topics to be discussed, especially as women

sassysure:

They are stained with bad reputation already.

Oh, the ego of our men
Even children are forming online warriors.
Make school start abeg.

bilulu:

Bros there's no research o, but when you know the how life is in Canada you will understand why that said so. It's both sided tho.

Ok. You win

Jim99:
We don hear

We go still pick white/latinas/asians over una

Nothing change

Not good tho.

I plan on relocating to canada soon, and i might still go for a Nigerian or African babe first, latinas will be second

Celepope:
I will be back to address this issue of loneliness of Nigerian ladies in diaspora
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Let me start. I may be out of point but you all should pardon me. Speaking from my observation of Nigerian ladies in America from my 10 years of living in the US, , many find it difficult to find husband because of many reasons thereby leading to depression and loneliness. First, many Nigerian guys in cities like Chicago, NY city and Houston are always searching for Nigerian ladies to grace their bed and many of them don't have a bearing. Secondly, many Nigerian ladies tend to be career driven especially those in hot pursuit of wanting to become Nurses to the extent of forgetting that they can also still date while pursuing their dreams. Many of them discover too late when they might have crossed into their 30s. I dated two in this category. Now they are both making money as Nurse Practitioners and they now discover that life is boring and lonely without a man (forget anything these fake feminists and their apologist might want to say). Many Nigerian ladies during their early years are always searching for already established guys in their careers and guys that make at least 6 figures. Without considering the facts that these guys are economic immigrant that have as their major goal the need to emancipate their family back home from their plight. Also many of the so-call guys don't have legal stay and these are the ones that mostly go to religious places of worship to scavenge for ladies to prey on forgetting that these ladies are wiser. Another factor that make these ladies not to find a man out there is because an average Nigerian lady in a place like the United states and i believe Canada tend to be saucy and lack manners. They feel they are better than an average girl back home. This is corroborated by even the way and manner this OP delivered her rebuttal. i.e such statement "Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport?" why does the OP think she is much exposed than the average Aisha, Bimbo or Ngozi in the streets of Nigeria? FYI Op you travelling out or living outside the country doesn't make you much exposed than an average girl back in Nigeria. I know ladies in Nigeria that can school you on things about Canada and they haven't even been to the international airport. My advice to ladies in Diaspora is that they should be lay back in their approach and set realistic goals in the kind of man they want. They should explore other race and people from perhaps other nationalities in Africa. They should also utilize social media in establishing contacts and if possible reconnect with friends and former classmates. Nobody knows where they can find true love. God help us all and you all should pardon my lengthy post. I don't even appreciate it.

What she meant by "less exposed" from my understanding is having a different perspective on life. Trust me, no matter how educated you are, when you leave the continent called Africa, you see life in a different manner. You'll want more from life, you won't live for just 3 square meals and a dick at night. That is the kind of thinking most retarrded Nigerian men expect most Nigerian women to have. Ask an average Nigerian man if he can ask same from a foreigner. They can't. But they see the Nigerian woman as a slave to their dreams and desires.

whizqueen:

My dear the matter weak me. The most disgusting thing is the same guys that are talking trash on here are the ones that sent me DMs already. All in the name of trying not to look vulnerable

Na their way.

I would have asked you to screenshot and shame them. But the vast majority of them are shameless. Poverty has so dealt with most of them they can only be happy when they think others are suffering as they are.

Don't take it to heart.

You too leave this babe alone naa. . You know am from anywhere?

searchng4love:

Of course.... Tramps attract tramps...

Powerintoxicate:
you spent time constructing this thrash. No man can cope with a talkative woman like you troublesome and uncouth. Rubbish

Hahaha. I guess you find those few paragraphs of English difficult to read. It's better you marry a mute from the village

TheKingIsHere:


Not good tho.

I plan on relocating to canada soon, and i might still go for a Nigerian or African babe first latinas will be second

SMH guy u no dey hear word. Nigerian babes na void for dat side. No go area

tyup:


even if u needed me I wount help you.....yen yen yen you don't even know how to construct a meaningful sentence on a Forum

the funny thing is If ur such block headed like this down here I do really think our reputation is such in doom when u get asslicking for a Visa

Jeez, ordinary 3 sentences you can't put together correctly.

As much as she may have omitted some facts, which you pointed out, she made a valid point with are Canada-Nigeria comparison. Specifically regarding N-power. Besides, even if you deduct the tax you specified, you should still be left with over 60% of the gross. Is it not comparably better than what's happening in Nigeria?

ovielistic:


oh please...I have been filling tax for 5 years in Canada and know the rules..the CERB you are getting..are you trying to say you are not away that you will pay back $600 in tax when you file tax in 2021 for this year..
Infact you are way more ignorant than I thought..I don't fall in the category of those who lost their job due to covid 19 yet..but I tell you ..it's not free awoof money that you are getting from Canadian govt..you will pay some portion back..

Ayohbk:



Jeez, ordinary 3 sentences you can't put together correctly.

i'm not responsible fr ur joblessness n misfortunes bro or the reason u get mad at ur sorry life

I've given u a cure come down North if u need a job I'm a real philanthropist i'll help ur generation outta poverty for real

You are right

Coolabbie:
Are you the one with the pregnancy or the other one that looks like a dirty cultist?

that was funny ...

Well I’m the “one that looks like a cultist”

Feel free to check the photo again , u will see my face more clearer Ode

As a man, I even pass fine pass the bitch

tyup:


ion have the Energy to deal with jealous mf like u is......Lmao i'm sure u went to my profile to see how I look inorder to cast me but cuz ur disappointed ur bowed in shame to think pple steal pictures like ur family does

I'm sorry bout ur dissapointment sir it shocked u to see an Hausa guy looking so clean I'm way outta ur league bro

incase ur looking for employment to beat ur joblessness up Sokoto is down North ima get u one any day

������. Wow, you've got no shame. The dude you have on your profile, I follow him on Instagram and I'm damn sure it's not you. Can you imagine and you dey come here come bash Canada babes . No be only balls you no get, I sure sey you no get preek too.

I missed Whizqueen

Savage

tyup:
Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe

mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh

Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done

Godbpraised:
you actually did not need to respond this way, you should have responsed on the on the orginal thread, the tone in your response depicts you are proud and have an issue of submitting to a man. If you are confident of yourself then find a white man.

Does a woman submitting to you make you feel better? Is that your goal in life? Tell us and we'll find a solution to that for you

northvietnam:


that was funny ...

Well I’m the “one that looks like a cultist”

Feel free to check the photo again , u will see my face more clearer Ode

As a man, I even pass fine pass the bitch

Fine?
With that square shaped head and dirty dada that is growing in the middle of your head. See you see balding

If this is you, then that was a serious uppercut.

Jim99:


Whatever makes you sleep well at night

Ayohbk:


������. Wow, you've got no shame. The dude you have on your profile, I follow him on Instagram and I'm damn sure it's not you. Can you imagine and you dey come here come bash Canada babes . No be only balls you no get, I sure sey you no get preek too.

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chine yazo kibeni bankã

cr7lomo:
Feminists will go back to status quo in the end... U can't force or cheat nature

OLODO!!!

Coolabbie:
Fine?
With that square shaped head and dirty dada that is growing in the middle of your head. See you see balding

That’s not Dada Oooooo... that’s a hair style .

Still on still, I still fine pass the babe

I don't know if nigerian guys are good or not, responsible or not but what i know is that, if you want to see a clear picture of things, look at other african countries - ghana, kenya, south africa etc.
They value and talk more about our men than women. Infact, it looks as if nigerian women are not in those countries.
Looking from the abroad angle may be a bit influenced due to the need to get papers but on a normal ground and playing level, nigerian men make more impacts in relationship and the life of their partners than the opposite gender.
That, i know for sure

@alexpetra ..what do you want? Is it Good life or Good relationship? ...
I, I, I don't know again Sir/Mar.
I sorry for you.

Thank you sis! Just look at how they were gloating in that thread at the thought of women being lonely, they truly overestimate their importance. Nonsense upon rubbish

Ayinke93:
You should know Nigerian men to overestimate their importance in the lives of women. See them wanking over the thought of their absence being the reason for the loneliness of someone who just started a new life a in far away country.some of them on that thread are even advicing the women to drop their imigration plans so as to be someone's wives.

They all sound very threatened at the thought of not being able to control a fellow human being. I really do not blame y'all, I blame the society that made you so entitled in the fist place. For the gender that claims to be superior, they worry too much about women and there choices and the thought of not being the center of a woman's life give them headaches.

If there's any woman here nursing the thought of travelling abroad, if that is was you solely desire, face it squarely and build yourself. When you are complete on your own, you'll find love on the way.

@whizqueen, you are doing an amazing job and I admire you alot. Working on starting my immigration process already, sadly everything had to wait for know. All the best to you in Canada.

ibkayee:

The portion of Hispanic and white women that are fetishising ‘rushing’ black men are not thinking of Nigerians. Yes, Nigerians are technically black but Nigerian men in particular are not necessarily a ‘category’ being targeted

that's the funny part but Nigerian men equate themselves as part of them to massage their ego

northvietnam:


That’s not Dada Oooooo... that’s a hair style .

Still on still, I still fine pass the babe

Grandpa your hair don dey chop goooo

Can you share some links to their groups and WhatsApp please?

benji93:
If this is you, then that was a serious uppercut.

Not me

Just look at how many likes this misogynistic comment got, Nigerian and black men are just useless. Please ladies keep marrying white men, black men ain't shit

tyup:
Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe

mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh

Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done