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Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by rosamaris: 9:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
This story teaches us that we should mind how we lay our bed in the morning because that is where we will lay down in the evening whether we like it or not. Secondly, what you don't want others to do to you, don't do it to them; the law of sowing and reaping is still very strong and it doesn't accept excuses. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by 24kmagic: 9:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Some people are already quoting the Bible about training up your child bla bla bla. This is not about the Bible, this is about common sense. Most of the things we call spiritual things are just common sense. So you need the Bible to tell you that it is wrong to watch your father do house chores while you're around? SMH |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by jaggabban: 9:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Fortissimo502:...and ppl like u hardly mind their own business. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by rolams(m): 9:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
What is your business with that? You should be too busy to care about other people's affairs. 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by ipobarethieves: 9:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
There’s one landlord that do similar thing like this.Laat last,The man quietly sold the house, Micky002: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Pearl05(f): 9:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
An enemy has done this, maybe they even beats the man up if he try to caution them. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by nextstep(m): 9:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
I don't understand it, but consider: Most of the people ruining Nigeria today did chores in their houses as children. Senators, police, kidnappers... all were very good chore doers, brought up with "good values", "discipline", and so on. That should tell you something. But to OP, please paddle your own canoe and leave your landlord to run his affairs as he sees fit. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Deepthoughts: 9:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Oluneutral:you thought well, it's certainly beyond the ordinary. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Nobody: 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
You are one of the problem we have in Nigeria. Gossipping around about what doesn't concern you or affect your security. And I'm sure you have never confronted any of those children or their father about that situation. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Odani: 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
donbachi: Hahahaha aswear |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Memyselfu2009(m): 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
MIND YOUR BUSINESS... |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Chidonc(m): 9:23pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
lielbree:If you don't see anything wrong in this, I pity your husband. My dad used to cook for us, fetch water etc, but when we started coming of age, he transferred fetching of water to me and cooking to my sister. Till today he still cooks when he wants, but carrying kegs to find water, God forbid. May I never be in a house and my father carry kegs to fetch water I will use while I am in good health. 2 Likes |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
rolams:I wonder o. It is joblessness on his own side too 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by ZooOga: 9:23pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
how many fvckin mumus does it take to ask or tell op to mind his business? did he say he approached the landlord or grown children and opened his mouth and protested? no, he's just made an observation about a dysfunctional custom and is sharing it with NL. Jeez, some pple need to get a few minutes of sunshine/vitamin D. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Stillthebest: 9:27pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Won ti fi Ori man yen gba paaro! 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by skillzbae(f): 9:28pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
starbuck: You are so right. 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by SirBunky85(m): 9:29pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Bluehill1051:lol,u make small sense anyways |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by ngwababe(f): 9:29pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
OP, shebi the children fine? |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Egypt209: 9:30pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Do what i do sometimes ago. Toast one of the daughter and start sleeping with her. She'll clear your curiosity by leaking all the family secrets to you, since staying there don tire you. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Bluehill1051: 9:33pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Chidonc:It is your father and his father that are very stupid. Doesn't really matter, cuz you're also very stupid. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by patwilly(m): 9:35pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Micky002:The answer is a capital NO! I'm idoma by tribe and I can assure you I'm astonished reading this piece. If you weren't so lucid in your narrative, I'd have said you were lying. However, I must state here, very clearly that this situation is a major character flaw of the man alone and in no way, shape or form does it reflect the culture of the Idoma tribe. The idoma's are trained from birth to be very respectful, very courteous and to exhibit discipline in all areas and I can assure you, this sort of character would have earned condemnation, spite and rebuke if the man's relatives or larger extended family are in the know about this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Nobody: 9:36pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
lielbree: I guess I have to say thanks for sharing details of your life with me I wonder why though? Then there was/is absolutely no need for the fuu.ck, or is it something you need to use for emphasis? Even when you clearly do not understand a post? 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by matrixme(m): 9:36pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
if you have any of the children you're close to, why not simply ask such in a carefree manner? It's not exactly an offence that will warrant your eviction from the house... We are all Africans and that's not an ideal behavior there... Bluehill1051:Are you for real? Someone with full grown children that are up to the task? What if there are diabolical undertone? Well done, Mr undiscerning good Samaritan. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Realfrankie(m): 9:37pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Papa wey mumu |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Emotionss: 9:37pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color] Oluneutral: I think the children have something the are using to blackmail their father. Maybe he tried to sleep with one of his sons/daughters and they are using it against him. 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by aalangel(f): 9:40pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Micky002: Maybe he's paying for some unpardonable sin... 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by okenwa216(m): 9:42pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Mind your business |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by idonhammer: 9:42pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Chidonc(m): 9:43pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Bluehill1051:Omo see Uncle, uncle wey Stupid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Shizzy1994(m): 9:44pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Dis one weak me o |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Owiii(m): 9:44pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Micky002:OP, I'm idoma by tribe. What you describe above is neither our culture or our tradition. The possible scenario is see here is maybe the wife has instigated the children against the father reason why he fetches water and the children are all around and the wife says nothing. The man must have lost his respect among the children and the wife due to financial constraints, maybe he lost his job and he he is not financially buoyant as he used to be. Some women are very manipulative. I can even imagine my dad or mum going to fetch water when I'm around. This is a serious tabooooooo 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Onlyonebuhari: 9:46pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Micky002: Blame the man for over pampered his children when they are small thinking he was taking care of them. Imagine a 4 year old girl dictating for a 60 year dad that whenever she is watching cartoon they mustn't change dstv channels. Whenever they cook, they cook her own food separately, buying pad and put all sort of music. Giving a teenager Android to watch rubbish in the name of stupid unsupervised assignments. Blame the man cos he didn't bend them till they become hardened. He who neglects his parental role will bear the brunt at old age. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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