GreatResearcher1:



A research shows that 3 out of 5 black men in the US own a gun or more. Did the researcher go about asking every black man if he owns a gun? Probably not.

Medical scientists say that a woman reaches menopause at age 40. Did these go about meeting every 40 yr old woman and ask about her menses?

A research shows that 50% of road accident in 2009 was as a result of reckless driving. 30% was linked to DUI. Did the researcher(s) witness every road accident that occurred at that year ? Absolutely not.

See bro, in the research world, we researchers only experience or witnessed 20 to 40 percent of what we research about. The rest of the remaining percentage is a collection of data from people who experienced or witnessed it.

So to your question, no I did date all the single moms in Nigeria. in fact, I've never dated single moms and never will.
I collected data from those who have dated them and menhn 70% of them had a sad experience. (and remember in mathematics the approximation? So 70 would mean 100).

obviously you lack research skills.
you are comparing the results of a research paper published,vetted by a research institution based on a sample which represents a population being studied to your magic study which is based on word of mouth.
no go do this type of research for project o.
your supervisor will not even bother.

baralatie:

obviously you lack research skills.
you are comparing the results of a research paper published,vetted by a research institution based on a sample which represents a population being studied to your magic study which is based on word of mouth.
no go do this type of research for project o.
your supervisor will not even bother.

Why do NL people lack comprehension? What I wrote up there was just an instances I was trying to used in answering the question I was asked.

And for your info, the research I made on 'SINGLE MOMS' is not any paper bullshit published anywhere. I got my data from those who experienced it.

My team and I met random dudes online and offline from different countries and we asked them if they ever dated single moms and what their experience was.

what is the difference between sample collected and data collected?

baralatie:

obviously you lack research skills.
you are comparing the results of a research paper published,vetted by a research institution based on a sample which represents a population being studied to your magic study which is based on word of mouth.
no go do this type of research for project o.
your supervisor will not even bother.

was I supposed to collect data from those who never dated single moms?

Your logic ehhn

GreatResearcher1:
Why do NL people lack comprehension? What I wrote up there was just an instances I was trying to used in answering the question I was asked.

And for your info, the research I made on 'SINGLE MOMS' is not any paper bullshit published anywhere. I got my data from those who experienced it.


My team and I met random dudes online and offline from different countries and we asked them if they ever dated single moms and what their experience was.

what is the difference between sample collected and data collected?

meaning you should never even make mention or generalization at all about a research on single moms

GreatResearcher1:
was I supposed to collect data from those who never dated single moms?

Your logic ehhn

in research o!
what you are doing is called fraud

baralatie:

meaning you should never even make mention or generalization at all about a research on single moms

Get the fuvk off here. the person I quoted got the concept of my generalization.

GreatResearcher1:



A research shows that 3 out of 5 black men in the US own a gun or more. Did the researcher go about asking every black man if he owns a gun? Probably not.

Medical scientists say that a woman reaches menopause at age 40. Did these scientists go about meeting every 40 yr old woman and ask about her menses?

A research shows that 50% of road accident in 2009 was as a result of reckless driving. 30% was linked to DUI. Did the researcher(s) witness every road accident that occurred at that year ? Absolutely not.

See bro, in the research world, we researchers only experience or witnessed 20 to 40 percent of what we research about. The rest of the remaining percentage is a collection of data from people who experienced or witnessed it.

So to your question, no I didn't date all the single moms in Nigeria. in fact, I've never dated single moms and never will.
I collected data from those who have dated them and menhn 70% of them had a sad experience. (and remember in mathematics the approximation? So 70 would mean 100).

All right, I got your gist.

I suggest you still add 'most' women next time, it ain't gonna hurt you.

GreatResearcher1:
Get the fuvk off here. the person I quoted got the concept of my generalization.

as long as the generalization is based on your personal experience. ok

baralatie:

meaning you should never even make mention or generalization at all about a research on single moms

Assuming I want to make a research on a cockpit, I will ignore pilots who cockpits are their second home and go to taxi drivers and ask questions about cockpits abi?

baralatie:

as long as the generalization is based on your personal experience. ok

Do you even understand English? what do you mean by personal experience? Do you know the meaning of "personal experience"?

even when you saw where I wrote that I have never dated single moms you come here to talk about personal experience?

ARE YOU BLIND NOT TO SEE THE WORD 'TEAM' I USED?

GreatResearcher1:
Assuming I want to[b] make a research on a cockpit,[/b] I will ignore pilots who cockpits are their second home and go to taxi drivers and ask questions about cockpits abi?

go and get a research supervisor to help you

Ekakamba:


All right, I got your gist.

I suggest you still add 'most' women next time, it ain't gonna hurt you.

All right bro.

baralatie:

go and get a research supervisor to help you

get the fvck off here. the person I was communicating with understood what I am saying.

don't come here and tell me that if I want to make a research on something I shouldn't meet those who have first-hand experience on the subject.

fuvck off here

Ekakamba:


All right, I got your gist.

I suggest you still add 'most' women next time, it ain't gonna hurt you.

And never will. PEACE!

baralatie:

in research o!
what you are doing is called fraud

My team and I met men (online and offline) who have dated single moms and asked them what their experience dating a single mom is/was.

And you say that what we are doing is called fraud? Maybe I've forgotten the meaning of fraud. Or is there any other fraud apart from the one in the screenshot below?

GreatResearcher1:
My team and I met men (online and offline) who have dated single moms and asked them what their experience dating a single mom is/was.

And you say that what we are doing is called fraud? Maybe I've forgotten the meaning of fraud. Or is there any other fraud apart from the one in the screenshot below?

What was the sample size of your team?

What and what races did they come in contact with?

And for how long?

GreatResearcher1:
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you are a sore loser bro...your ex wife may be enjoying her life,drinking chill ciroc why you wail day and night on threads..

Get a life and move on

GreatResearcher1:

Bro I am pissed. Even when you show them true love they misbehaved.


You see how illogical you are?

U sound damaged and relly bitter.

GreatResearcher1:
My experience is that every woman regardless of tribe, race, size, educational background, height, etc is a gold digger, a fair weather, a wh0re and a goddamn cheater

All these you said is not a problem. In fact I don't see any woman as a gold digger, yes there are few who are, but believe me there are a lot who aren't. When it becomes a problem is if you let them gold dig you.

GreatResearcher1:
Don't ever date or marry a single mother.

In fact, if she isn't a virgin, don't date.
Rather stay single than get yourself messed up.


Women are evil.

you have started again

Ekakamba:


All right, I got your gist.

I suggest you still add 'most' women next time, it ain't gonna hurt you.

menopause is 45-55, not 40

Ladylite:



Hmmmm, could it be those are the kind of women your energy attracts?

Could it be you are a magnet for slutsss and the good genuine women always elude you?

#thinkingaloud

Every woman lol he forgot his sister is a woman, his cousins, his aunties, his niece, if he ever gives birth to a daughter too. I just dont understand why you people just want to talk so people can clap for them as the trending topic. Yes some women her a shame to their gender and also there lot of good, hard working, brillant, single mother, single ladies out there. First what circle of people do you move or mix with, your level of education, etc? will show the kind of what you get.

Keemsleek005:



Every woman lol he forgot his sister is a woman, his cousins, his aunties, his niece, if he ever gives birth to a daughter too. I just dont understand why you people just want to talk so people can clap for them as the trending topic. Yes some women her a shame to their gender and also there lot of good, hard working, brillant, single mother, single ladies out there. First what circle of people do you move or mix with, your level of education, etc? will show the kind of what you get.

I hate to generalize too but let me tell you something. Except the single mother whose husband died we can separate those ones. I don't even see these ones as single mothers

But you see these ones that get pregnant out of wedlock guy it doesn't always end well if you have anything to do with them.

The problem with single mothers is not you it's them. They are fighting alot of battles you don't understand.

The problem with women is that they are emotional. Emotional beings react.

A single mother would always pick the father of her child over you. Even if you have a single mother as a relation and you should advice a single mother to choose between a baby daddy and a good boyfriend. You would choose the baby daddy why? if they get married it would seem as if nothing happened.

A single mother would always feel another man can't love her child like the real father why? It's simple the way a loves a child and the way a man loves a child is never the same thing. A woman love for her child is like a bond a man love for his child is quite different. No matter what you do she would still have that doubt.

Oga the list is endless.

What of societal pressure?



My advice for guys is if you really love a single mother try as much to tell d lady to keep the child with her people

Every human being always have this feeling like my case would be different but do you what it is the same story.

Genevieve was wise

Dangrace01:


I hate to generalize too but let me tell you something. Except the single mother whose husband died we can separate those ones. I don't even see these ones as single mothers

But you see these ones that get pregnant out of wedlock guy it doesn't always end well if you have anything to do with them.

The problem with single mothers is not you it's them. They are fighting alot of battles you don't understand.

The problem with women is that they are emotional. Emotional beings react.

A single mother would always pick the father of her child over you. Even if you have a single mother as a relation and you should advice a single mother to choose between a baby daddy and a good boyfriend. You would choose the baby daddy why? if they get married it would seem as if nothing happened.

A single mother would always feel another man can't love her child like the real father why? It's simple the way a loves a child and the way a man loves a child is never the same thing. A woman love for her child is like a bond a man love for his child is quite different. No matter what you do she would still have that doubt.

Oga the list is endless.

What of societal pressure?



My advice for guys is if you really love a single mother try as much to tell d lady to keep the child with her people

Every human being always have this feeling like my case would be different but do you what it is the same story.

Genevieve was wise

how?
she was not able to get over her fears?

V

Dangrace01:


I hate to generalize too but let me tell you something. Except the single mother whose husband died we can separate those ones. I don't even see these ones as single mothers

But you see these ones that get pregnant out of wedlock guy it doesn't always end well if you have anything to do with them.

The problem with single mothers is not you it's them. They are fighting alot of battles you don't understand.

The problem with women is that they are emotional. Emotional beings react.

A single mother would always pick the father of her child over you. Even if you have a single mother as a relation and you should advice a single mother to choose between a baby daddy and a good boyfriend. You would choose the baby daddy why? if they get married it would seem as if nothing happened.

A single mother would always feel another man can't love her child like the real father why? It's simple the way a loves a child and the way a man loves a child is never the same thing. A woman love for her child is like a bond a man love for his child is quite different. No matter what you do she would still have that doubt.

Oga the list is endless.

What of societal pressure?



My advice for guys is if you really love a single mother try as much to tell d lady to keep the child with her people

Every human being always have this feeling like my case would be different but do you what it is the same story.

Genevieve was wise

How was Genevive wise? Someone left her stranded on the alter. Hmmm have you not seen were a child will ask his step father to adopt him. You also generalizing, Not all single mother still have bond with their baby daddy. Cos you see one mess up or betray the man that loves her for her baby daddy does not mean all will do so. Like i said there are still some good, God fearing single mothers out there. A single lady can also dump you for the man that disvirgined her or for that ex she still loves.

Another thing again is any man that abandon the child is irresponsible. If a girl was attracted to an irresponsible man to the extent of getting pregnant for him. It says alot the lady. The lady has questionable character that must be dealt with before dating a responsible man. If not na time bomb oh. Except you want to also chop and run. Not advisable

Keemsleek005:
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How was Genevive wise? Someone left her stranded on the alter. Hmmm have you not seen were a child will ask his step father to adopt him. You also generalizing, Not all single mother still have bond with their baby daddy. Cos you see one mess up or betray the man that loves her for her baby daddy does not mean all will do so. Like i said there are still some good, God fearing single mothers out there. A single lady can also dump you for the man that disvirgined her or for that ex she still loves.

Of course there are God fearing single mothers out there and is good though because if they are truly God fearing not using God as cover up for bad behavior they have dealt with their underlying problem.

You are trying to equate nigerian single mother
and nigerian girls are d same. I don't agree one is a problem one is a bigger problem

baralatie:

how?
she was not able to get over her fears?

I believe she was wise because she didn't get married.

She picked up and moved on

What if her fears were valid?

Dangrace01:
Another thing again is any man that abandon the child is irresponsible. If a girl was attracted to an irresponsible man to the extent of getting pregnant for him. It says alot the lady. The lady has questionable character that must be dealt with before dating a responsible man. If not na time bomb oh. Except you want to also chop and run. Not advisable

you are overcondensing the issues here.
so where on a man/woman forehead do you have it written "responsible and available".
there instances I would like to drop here but I cannot because it is not I my place to do so.

Dangrace01:


Of course there are God fearing single mothers out there and is good though because if they are truly God fearing not using God as cover up for bad behavior they have dealt with their underlying problem.

You are trying to equate nigerian single mother
and nigerian girls are d same. I don't agree one is a problem one is a bigger problem

Maybe there are bad single mothers and also bad single ladies.
Pls can you just say 10 bad behaviours of single mothers. Because the got married out if wedlock does not make them bad people, its guys like us that messed up thier life or been divorced makes them a bad woman.

There a lot of single ladies that have worse baggages than single mothers. There lifestyle are crazy, cos they didnt get pregnant does not mean they are good.

Dangrace01:


I believe she was wise because she didn't get married.

She picked up and moved on

What if her fears were valid?

not getting married or finding herself getting does not reflect her wisdom.
she was severely stunned by the reality being left to hang.
that fear and the challenges,variables that she had wrapped around her mind is what formed a large chunk of her decision.
compare her to omosexy (both women,started on the same block but very different experiences with men)

StrongandMighty:
Date a single mom or a lady raised by a single mum at your own peril... They always have this ill feeling or resentment towards men and most especially they are whores!!

You are right.
My parent told me not to marry a lady raised by a single mom, though there are exceptions sha but the risk is high. So why take the risk?