Crispels:


Lol. No vex. I’m only trying to share my experience. I know a lot of people will find it helpful. I also found the previous threads helpful - so I decided to also add to the conversation.

RuudVanNisteroy:

How can you generalize like that?You are exposing your ignorance and repeating talking points made by racists.

missimelda01:
But wait, why is love and relationship this complicated? If you're in Nigeria, problem.. out of Nigeria, problem

In the midst of all this brouahah, there's still someone out there meant for you.

leonard002:
The truth is relationships are the most complicated things ever.

Nobody has a straight foolproof theory about relationships and how they work and how to make them work.

Relationships are not science or math.

In reality, even if you follow a hundred percent all the advice written by the author and by millions of other authors on relationships, dating and marriage there is no guarantee that you're going to get the best of results.

There is no guarantee that the other party will be in the same reasoning frequency with you and cooperate with you.

It's just how complicated human beings are in interacting with one another.

Sometimes we get lucky and find the best but a lot of times we are unlucky and all we get is a big bucket of heartbreak.

The truth is we should keep trying. We learn from our lessons and move on with all hope and optimism. We should keep being good and nice without prejudice.

With a bit of luck and a bit of preparedness, perhaps we may meet the 'perfect' person and live happily ever after.

That's life for you.

IHate9jerianss:

The guy is a weakling.
Didnt you see the part in his silly write up where he insinuated successful Nigerians in the US should be apologetic to worthless black Americans for being successful?
He also wants Nigerian men to treat their cunty,arrogant female counterparts like qeens when those same women treat Nigerian men like poo both at home and abroad

IHate9jerianss:

The guy is a weakling.
Didnt you see the part in his silly write up where he insinuated successful Nigerians in the US should be apologetic to worthless black Americans for being successful?
He also wants Nigerian men to treat their cunty,arrogant female counterparts like qeens when those same women treat Nigerian men like poo both at home and abroad

IHate9jerianss:

Go away!
You are a boring attention seeker

nurric:
We are over tired..Canada and American people. We never see Visa go those countries. Make una deal with una loneliness.
This Topic don do abeg una..because say una way travel. Edakun

Meeyankee:

This is how you Nigeria ladies behaves in the western world now.. I experience same thing in Russian.. when one one try wan talk one Nigeria lady she go Dey form but even the Russian girls were very free with us they will even be the first to talk to you.. cmon Nigeria to Dey form abeg.
I am still waiting for you to come
And feed me and my family remembered what you told me
Last week on nairaland here just because I was correcting you over one comment you made. Typical example of your behavior is what we are talking about here .

Dearlord:


lol, you made me laugh so hard.
my sister I think it is high time we overlooked relationship and just live our life as a normal human.

5thcolm:


Ahah, drop your CV

ODB2:


I keep saying that if you can not man-up in Nigeria you can never be a man anywhere in this universe.

I speak my heavy 9ja ascents to Oyibos and they have to keep asking me to pardon them.

What the stupid OP doesn't know is that oyibos will only respect you when you hold your ground and carry your head up.

White Americans do not need you to be another nigger. They know all about niggers in America, from the ghetto to the house nigger types. What they want to know by interacting with you is your Nigerianess [sic].

You are intriguing alone as an African to them. They naturally will flock to you to get to know and understand where you are coming from and who you are.

These inferior goat of an OP showed his low self-esteem from the very first paragraph by stating how he was snobbed by other Nigerian girls. Does he think him being a Nigerian makes it mandatory for every other Nigerian to nurse him? The very thing he is condemning Nigerian girls is what he was promoting with his nonsense equality b.s.

I fck all these white feminazi girls when I am in the US and they are the ones that shout DADDY FCK ME!

Nonsense.

shortgun:
Why are girls abroad trying so hard to make us believe they are not lonely

nurric:
We are over tired..Canada and American people. We never see Visa go those countries. Make una deal with una loneliness.
This Topic don do abeg una..because say una way travel. Edakun

ODB2:
leftoid crap. U might as well castrate yourself

White girls are dating black guys now over the skinny beta white cucks because of this sissy pandering

Women are looking for a second daddy figure in a man and you are here spewing your sissy campus indoctrination

You just showed how insecure you are and how desperate you want to fit into your Liberal crowd

cuck sucker

RuudVanNisteroy:

We would get more respect if our countries were well functioning societies. They also have ignorant stereotypes about us.

Dearlord:


lol, you made me laugh so hard.
my sister I think it is high time we overlooked relationship and just live our life as a normal human.

Kweensavvy:
Lol OP this issue has been over flogged okay?

Ariza:
It is getting too much abeg, talk something else.

vikkimimi:
As much as I would love to say this matter has been over flogged.... I'd like to say it's educating and an added info.
Your points are valid, and as a Nigerian girl, I've learnt one or two from the three threads today. THANKS

kimjessey2019:
I don't know how one of my uncle managed to raised those humble daughters of his here in Nigeria while the other one of my uncle raised porn stars actresses in US. If them come Nigeria every mama go luck their sons and husband inside house. Tufiakwa

SweetCunt97:
Yes! Nigerian men need to drop that male dominance bullshit. You both can't be working and you expect her to slave away in the kitchen all by herself while you watch television.. No no no.

Anyways, we'll get there some day, afterall the west had male dominance some decades ago before the rise of feminism breaking their women free from the shackles of male dominated oppression.

Crispels:
ON A FINAL NOTE:

Dating abroad is totally different from dating in Nigeria. There are lots of cultural differences and you must really understand these differences before shooting any shot - otherwise: you will make terrible mistakes that may ruin your reputation, mental health and growth. You may even be hated and ghosted by certain people. In America for instance, dating apps is a big deal and things happen so fast - compared to Nigeria where on the average, things take longer.

If you are a Nigerian guy and you think it is the sole responsibility of your girlfriend(wife) to cook and take care of the family - then your stupi**d patriarchy mentality will fail you big time abroad.
Most Nigerian - American girls dislike some Nigerian guys (particularly those who grew up in Nigeria) due to this kind of patriarchy and “male dominance” mentality. Many Nigerian - American girls as a result of strong upbringing by their families can cook really well(even our egusi and other Naija food) but they will hate you if you make it look like it’s their responsibility to cook for you all the time. You must also get to the kitchen - do the dishes, wash the meat, clean the tables and even cook some food as well! Everything is 50-50 in America!!! Your wife(or even girlfriend) is not your slave and it’s high time most Nigerian guys(even those based in Ibadan, Uyo, Kano and Enugu) start realizing this.

WE NEED TO TREAT OUR WOMEN LIKE QUEENS, JEWELS AND SUPPORT THEM IN THE KITCHEN, THEIR CAREERS AND IN EVERY OTHER AREA.