I am 25 and she is 20.
I am leaving with my brother and she is leaving with her parents,I dated her and she got pregnant then abort the baby without telling me,but the baby didn't go after 6 months she told me I accept the pregnancy cause it was not even showing she is 6 months pregnant time goes on she gave birth peaceful.but before she told me about the pregnancy I have lost my job but still accept her with the pregnancy because of the love I have for her I paid every hospital bills like atnental etc the little I have I give her.after she gave birth i got a job on the march 14 before the COVID-19 outbreak that made the government to tell everyone to stay at home, they paid everybody and I was paid 25k for the half of the salary.I quickly bought diaper for the baby and also buy tea items for her she still complain that her stomach is paining her that there is a drug they proscribed for her to buy which is 1k+,and I gave her 2k and inside the money I will still pay agent that got the job for me half of it,later she requested for money to buy diaper I told her that I don't have money that the one I have naw is for my transport to go work if the lockdown stop,that she should collect from her parents later I can balance her behold the junior sis was their and started to insult me and be putting mouth in our discussion and I was like when did you start to put mouth in my matter I left there house and went to my own house after like one hour I received a call and it was one of her friend that called and started tell me am a useless man that I can't buy ordinary diaper,my dear my blood shake.i approach my woman and ask her if she was the one that gave my contact to her friend and she said no,I also told her what her friend told me on the phone and she heez and said "and so" that was the last day i stop going to their house.
Have I done any thing bad to accept you and the pregnancy you carry for six months before letting me know,don't I deserve a respect from you and your family,
Did she think 95% of guys will do what I did to accept you and pregnancy you carried for six months before I know
I even took my people to come and see your parents.
What have I done to deserve such insult from her friend, especially her friend insult and she wX backing her friend

Please I need a good advice to this cause I can't go there again,God in heaven knows that I didn't ignore her from the beginning the little one I saved from my formal work was what I used for her
Please what advice can you give me

"What have I done to deserve such insult from her friend, especially her friend"



Lemme first of all answer this question by saying that you're the one that brought it upon yourself.... N100 quality CONDOM would have prevented this insult, but NO, you were carried away by her wetness and dived in RAW.

I know you feel embarrassed by the actions of her family and friends, but i want you to see it as a way of motivation... Keep on hustling, ignore their shameless behavior for now, your time will most definitely come.


And as for her friend that is "Putting mouth" in your discussion, may Amadioha put his ever erected penis in her mouth.

Bro find a good job and just continue to take good care of the baby
She go get sense last last

Is this an advise
He need an advise stoping adding sugar in the garri

Erediauwa:
"What have I done to deserve such insult from her friend, especially her friend"



Lemme first of all answer this question by saying that you're the one that brought it upon yourself.... N100 quality CONDOM would have stopped this insult, but NO, you were carried away by her wetness and dived in RAW.

I know you feel embarrassed by the actions of her family and friends, but i want you to see it as a way of motivation... Keep on hustling, ignore their shameless behavior for now, your time will most definitely come.


And as for her friend that is "Putting mouth" in your discussion, may Amadioha put his ever erected penis in her mouth.

adewumiopeyemi:
Is this an advise
He need an advise stoping adding sugar in the garri

You still don't want to have sense Opeyemi Collins?

At the ripe age of 37, one is expected to be very matured, but no, your own case is different.

Because I whipped you seriously in your own turf (thread) that's why you're following me around like a randy he-goat?

https://www.nairaland.com/5765578/name-something-corona-virus-ruined#87943818

Be careful.


Stay Safe.

Get something to do with your life stop stalking me

Erediauwa:
You still don't want to have sense Opeyemi Collins?

At the ripe age of 37, one is expected to be very matured, but no, your own case is different.

Because I whipped you seriously in your own turf (thread) that's why you're following me around like a randy he-goat?

https://www.nairaland.com/5765578/name-something-corona-virus-ruined#87943818

Be careful.


Stay Safe.

adewumiopeyemi:
Get something to do with your life stop stalking me

Obarà Jesus!!!!

See who dem dey stalk on...

Wetin Lazarus nor go see for grave.

Bro from experience nothing good comes out of people like that. The only thing you need to do as from this moment is calculate the whole expenses for the baby and be paying her weekly or monthly. Then ignore her totally. If she comes up with any attitude then stop any effort or privilege towards the baby and request for a DNA.

...many ladies are too emotional....they only understand privacy when it com's to their watsap and Facebook acct..but don't realize that privacy also means from their immediate family..............

Most gals family instructions rule their ideas in relationship.....that's all I can say b4 I enter trouble..lol

Bobo, do not take a foolish step by either ignoring your woman or abandon her, she is just 20years hold and you expect her to act mature in every actions, go n see how mothers of 30years above even messed up in marriage n their husband never reject them. You have to face your cross and embrace it, you have to grow beyond your age right now cuz you have done what men does and you have to start acting like real men. Start encouraging her and assuring her that you wish to do more and by the time you have more money you will do more. Reality has set in, I am sure you wouldn't take offense if she acted like that when you were dating but because baby has entered now, you can quickly pick offence. She is bound to do that, you can only reduce her horrible behaviours now by talking to her n not take her wrong actions as offense all the time.

God bless you

Bros, go and buy six or twelve pieces of cloth napkin, rubber pants and napkin holders. Tell her to manage it, that after lockdown you will buy diapers.

egopersonified:
Bros, go and buy six or twelve pieces of cloth napkin, rubber pants and napkin holders. Tell her to manage it, that after lockdown you will buy diapers.

Bros say him no get money

Nothing concern me with the baby mama,her sister and you but her silly friend that believes she sabi yab person.

She's very stupid