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Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:17am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Lol... I dont need to get hurt to know how some men can be. Don't be childish. 2 Likes |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 7:22am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: I am not childish. Ok, even if I was, I have come across you on numerous occasion make reference to that particular phrase or statement about men worshipping women when they are beautiful or extremely beautiful. Did he leave u for someone more beautiful? Even if he did, that doesnt make u less special. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:25am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: And if you've really come across my posts, you'll see lots of observations I've made. I even make lots of health posts and I'm not a doctor. I even made one on zodiac signs. But no, you had to relate it to being hurt. That's childish. Don't be like that. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:30am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: And again, I wrote those who they find appealing and attractive. And we all know what men find appealing varies. You may even be shocked at their choices. But no, because you've already set your mind in a certain way, you couldn't even read to understand before jumping into conclusions. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 7:42am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: Lol. What' wrong with being hurt? We all go through that pain, no one is immune, not even Christ. And relationship wise, even the best of counsellors and Psychiatrist go through emotional hurt caused by a heartbreak or rejection. Didn't mean to cause u pain though, just making an observation. Finally, to ur observation, men are more rational than emotional, that doesnt mean some do not display more of emotions than rationality. But, I disagree that that emotional side gets triggered when d Lady involved is beautiful, personally, I think it gets triggered when there is a connection, it doesnt matter if it is d looks that is that middle point. I have seen guys drop very beautiful ladies like a bad habit without even looking back. The last time I went emotional was for a lady who was highly intelligent and decent in character. Any man who cries at the feet of a Lady becos of her beauty is a fool and empty headed. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 7:48am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: That is why I didn't use the word beautiful in my post. I say this again, if you've really come across my posts, you'll know I pick my words. I'm not careless with words. Yes, everyone gets hurt when they involve themselves in relationship with anyone, whether it's with a stranger or a relative. My observation stands strong. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 7:56am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: Yes, you used the words "appealing" and "attractive" which can also be summed into one word: "beautiful" You said your "observation" stands strong, even when it is biased or lacking in research standards? But like you said, it is merely your observation, not a law, not a fact. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 8:03am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Lol. You like arguing sha. Are you a Taurean, Sagi or Gemini? Go back to my first statement. I said, those they find appealing and attractive. It's like the statement, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Not the general standard. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:12am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: Lol. Now I get. You have explained it in context. Well, as u said that you dont do those psychological stuff, I also dont do those Sagi, Gemini and co. Nothing explains behavioural pattern better than the those 4 points. If u are Sanguine, then anger is one of ur outward projections. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 8:17am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: I get angry like normal people. But it fizzles out quickly. I can't even be in a state of anger for more than a minute. I'll find something to defend the person who made me angry. Just so I can have my peace back. Did you study psychology? It's one course I'll recommend for everyone. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:24am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: That's good, you have anger management. I didn't but definitely a top contender for my MSc. For now, I just read books and materials and also study people (lol) |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 8:33am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: That's good. The two people who have been able to tell me exactly what's on my mind, and even predicted my future behavior (which I later experienced) studied psychology. That's masters in managerial psychology (business degree not academic). |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:38am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: Thats good. How is that future going? |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Predict my future behaviour not predict my future. But generally, my future is still full of uncertainties. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:55am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: We all. So, what is your specialty when it comes to writing? If there are available projects, I would like to join on a part time basis. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 9:07am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: I do more nonfiction. I write on health, business, social media, legal issues, self-improvement, etc. I can write on anything but will struggle when it comes to technology or finance. Right now, there are no extra projects I can give out due to corona ish. But you can find one for yourself. Just go to the search bar on nairaland and type "writers needed" you'll see some projects, though the pay won't be encouraging. But since you want to do it on a part-time basis, you might not mind. You can also do the same on Twitter. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:12am On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: Thanks but I thought u usually hire, saw one of your thread..... Anyways, its fine. Nice chatting with u Miss Nooil aka D Observer. Lest I forget, if u need a hand in Finance, I'm ur plug. Good day. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: On that post, I was helping someone out. On the finance note, there are actually lots of websites looking for finance writers, just do your research. Have a nice day too. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by ibuks12(m): 12:13pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: I thought I'm the only writer affected by the Coronavirus issue, I have been without any project for 11 days now... |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
ibuks12: My dear, everyone is affected one way or the other. If there is no work now, just start improving your skills so when the lockdown is over, you'll have something to offer. Learn how to write sales copy. That's where the money is now. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by ibuks12(m): 12:53pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: I'm even working on an ebook, a short motivational book = "The Mystery of Time and Money" I just want to use it to get myself busy until the whole lockdown is over... Thanks for your recommendations anyways, I will do some research on it... |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
ibuks12: Writing an eBook at this time is perfect. Stay safe. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by ibuks12(m): 1:41pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil: Thanks sis.. Have a safe day ahead... It's nice chatting with you.. Pls Can I contact you whenever I need advice on this writing profession? |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
ibuks12: Yes definitely. Just send me a dm |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by ibuks12(m): 1:52pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Nooil:Alright, thanks a lot sis.. So much appreciate your time |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
ibuks12: Uwc |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Grandamante: 3:46pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
People have hyped sex so much that they consider sexual infidelity as the only form of marital cheating. If your spouse, instead of spending time with you, spends all his/her time outside with friends, u re being cheated emotionally. If your spouse gives out family money to an outsider without a joint consent, u re being cheated financially If one is in charge of the kitchen, and he/she refuses to make or give u food, u re being cheated health wise. If one is in charge of the family wealth, and he/she refuses to release money for ur needs, u re being cheated economically. If ur spouse withholds sex, whether or not he/she is having it outside is immaterial, u re being cheated sexually. ETC Treat sexual infidelity how u would treat other forms of marital cheat. 1 Like |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by bolu96(m): 10:25pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Hi bro, do you have books on psychology? If you do, I would appreciate if you can share. Thanks. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by Hisincrease: 10:51pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Its a joke. Cheat on me even while dating, it is finished. Don't tell me I'm emotionally weak or it's a Nigerian men thing. Last time I checked in the bible the woman of adultery was almost stoned to death. Jesus Christ never told the man to forgive her. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by CsRockefeller(m): 4:14pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
bolu96: Sorry about the late reply. Few I have are in hard copy, the ones in soft copy is on my laptop and its faulty right now. You can find them on the web, there are lots of them but I advice that you start with "why you act the way you do" by Tim Lahaye. Don't look for Psychology books that are too academic in nature, reading the ones that have practical examples are best. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by bolu96(m): 4:57pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Can you give examples of these too? Thanks for getting back. |
Re: Men: Can You Forgive A Cheating Wife ? by robosky02(m): 8:36am On Apr 16, 2020 |
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