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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by BarrSly: 4:18pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
You’re not Alone... Sly my guy slyfoxxjoe: 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Asour: 4:20pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Erediauwa: What exactly is not African Practice (didn't want to say culture ). Polygamy? Immorality ? Marrital Recklessness ? All these and more have been practiced in Africa behind the curtains of public discussions. The only thing that may not be our practice IS the ease with which these things are now being discussed in public unlike before. On that note How then are we better than the 'Westerners'? By continuing to hide these practices? 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by IghravweIG(m): 4:20pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Hisincrease:Gbam! I can't tolerate a cheating partner moreless one I'm to marry soon. Just pass there dey go. |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 4:20pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Misterdhee1: Those ones are not virgin they are fakes 3 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by twhy111(m): 4:20pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
M00N:Your argument is logical, the same way a non-virgin can behave herself and come back to her senses all in the name of 'I've seen it all' Stop attaching too much importance to being a virgin. It doesn't mean they're the good girls out there, you're virgin doesn't mean you can't turn to a LovePeddler within the blink of an eye. 4 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
adanny01:I put it to you that there is no "friend" anywhere. You are the one. What do you take us for? Anyway, what goes around, comes around. Prepare to care for a child that's not yours. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Misterdhee1(m): 4:22pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
M00N:How many real virgins do you actually think you can find in Nigeria? Females are exposed to various kinds of temptations every other day. It takes something above their natural capacity to stop them from committing. 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by VirginSearcher(m): 4:22pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
This is why I will only marry a virgin even if its 10 yrs old 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 4:22pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
twhy111: I am not attaching too much importance to it, am only saying it's an important thing 3 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by OChimex: 4:23pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
bigpriik: You think so? Let me tell you bro, most virgins, whether men or women, always think there is something outside which they didn't taste before marriage... After that long wait for sex, and they had it the first time, they are like "is this the sex that I had been dying to have or does it mean that out there there must be someone who is sweeter?" That is the irony of life..... human wants will always be insatiable as Economics puts it. It takes God's grace for all things to work out for you not really because you are this or that way... 7 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 4:24pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Misterdhee1: I belive strongly there still are. 2 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Ziky491(f): 4:25pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
MYHUBBY:Bro but u'r not one so y loking 4 one?! |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Lamanii22(f): 4:28pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by membranus: 4:29pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
bmdmixer: Record the one you wrote up there for a starter. We'll luv to listen to it. 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by tete7000(m): 4:29pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
What is an 'ex' self. A person or a goat? |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by pk2me: 4:29pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Hausaboy239:u are risking ur destiny. 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 4:30pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Lamanii22:You've seen it right? |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by MYHUBBY: 4:32pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Ziky491: does men have hymen? God doesn't sealed pussy for nothing, it was sealed to protect the female gender dignity, pride and value, so why give it to men that has not pay your bride price? most of you self now use it to make money, that's the weird thing some men will still pay Bride price on beside I'm not looking for one, I've found one already. why are you worried about what I want? let me add that, no lady paid men groom price. bride price wasn't just Africa culture for nothing, it existed because of how ladies were created before most of you ladies with grandma vagina now misuse it face the man that's managing yours like that OK. thank you 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Tkash01: 4:33pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
It's so funny how many people think virginity is all about having your hymen unbroken, some "virgins" have engaged explicitly in sexual activities that if you hear you'll be shocked, in this world where their is anal sex,MouthAction, sex machines, and you are there believing it's only virgins that will assure you of cheat free marriages, virginity is no test of personality, some virgins can be there husband/wife's worst nightmare, with there bad character, so when it comes to getting a partners just ask God for guidance, because if you think you were celibate before marriage and you feel you are guaranteed to get a good wife or husband, then I don't think you are even prepared for marriage at all 8 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Mariangeles(f): 4:34pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
BlueBanana: You made no sense with this your comment. Real virgins date but don't have sex before marriage, that is why they're virgins. 5 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Mariangeles(f): 4:36pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
BluntNigerian: With a woman you married as a virgin, it is very less likely. You people should stop stating what you don't know about virgins, to discredit them. THEY COMMIT WITH THEIR SOUL, AND NOT THEIR BODIES! Forget the trash you read here on nairaland, if you're blessed enough to find a virtuous virgin, you're the most fortunate man. You become her world the day you make her yours! It's not just a communion between two bodies, it's a ritual, a covenant. Nobody else will ever matter to her as long as you live and love her. She'll live to please you. Even when you become sick and too frail to fulfill your obligations, she'll still be by your side, taking care of you. 7 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by MYHUBBY: 4:36pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
[s] Tkash01:[/s] any lady that give her pussy out to a man that has not show commitment are all corporate olosho, no one is a saint here but we are talking about dignity and value here so your theorem is just a mere consolation and nothing more 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by adanny01(m): 4:36pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Chi59: What's there to say. That I was a married man thats why I wasn't the bestman or confess that I am the one or that I gave my room key to my friend, my 5yr university roommate, my tribe guy, fellow Engr, later flatmate and my closest friend ever. It was never his plan. He just happened to have the greatest temptation on the worst day ever. He regrets the action and has confessed the secret is a burden but his wife will surely leave once she knows. I don't blame her. 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by lawrykings(m): 4:36pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
the truth is ... you've got to tame this flesh for meaning to life. |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Rosarie(f): 4:38pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Ochuksbaba:must it be just lady,both the men and women.stop this gender biased judgement |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by olumide4christ: 4:42pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Misterdhee1: There are real virgins out there...you just think there aren't many because of the circle you move in. Move in the right circles, you will find genuine virgins who will not become wild in marriage. And I don't mean those virgins in your village or my village... usually, those are the ones that become wild after you marry them & take them to the city or abroad, simply because they are not godly. They don't have godly character or nature in them, they are just virgins because of the community where they live. But people who are Christians and have the spirit and fear of God in them decide to remain virgins till marriage because God's word says so & they believe it's the right thing to do. Thus, no matter the location or situation, they will stick by their convictions. This is how people like me, my wife and so many others that I know went through the journey of virginity till marriage. Some that I know in their 20s and 30s are still in that journey as we speak. 6 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Janosky: 4:44pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
placeofallure: All the personal narratives on this thread, points to a fact often taken for granted in a world that despise morality and godliness , It's gotten so bad that adultery& Fornication have been turned to sports. People today, especially the youths, don't seem to realize that sex , better still,fornication or adultery is a physical activity with deep spiritual implications.... You form a spiritual tie with anyone you sleep with.... 1 Cor 6:16-20. The consequences are not to be trifled with. 1 Cor 6:9-10. Proverbs 7:1-27. 5:3-11. Self discipline is very very important. The story of Joseph teaches big lessons.. Genesis39:7-23. 2 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Ziky491(f): 4:44pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
MYHUBBY:u'r not serious, am stil one but dat dosnt giv me d rit to cal other wo are nt names ok so take note n enjoy d privilage god gav u bc i knw uv been a bad guy b4 u found dat god fearing lady. |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Mariangeles(f): 4:44pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
[s] Tkash01:[/s] Trashed! Virginity is more than a hymen! Virginity is chastity! 4 Likes |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Ginalex(f): 4:45pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
bigpriik:God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Tkash01: 4:46pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
MYHUBBY: I agree that it's a theorem, and consolation it is, because if you still think dignity and value is all about a lady's virginity status, then I can only wish you good luck in your way forward, and in your search for virgins whose dignity and value is intact |
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by olumide4christ: 4:46pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
OChimex: Well...thank God you said MOST, not ALL because I have no regrets for being a virgin before marriage. The problem a lot of people have is the flesh and it's lust. Mind you, the virgins you mentioned in your post cannot be true Christians. No true Christian will long for something he or she previously counted as dung/rubbish)/vomit. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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