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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by akaahs(m): 6:09pm On Apr 13, 2020
donbogo:
It’s good to marry a virgin really really good
Talking from experience or people's perception
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:09pm On Apr 13, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
AS IN I CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND IT.

LIKE ONCE YOU GET DISVIRGINED IT COMES WITH GOOD CHARACTER
U can't trust a girl u never started the sexual journey with....her mentality will always crave variety and that is dangerous.....I will rather marry someone whom we both discover our innocence together....someone whom we both share a part of us that no other human being knows about....our love will be fortified in trust and we will both become someone special to each of us.......I pity people who marry public toilets and cumminity taps....were will the trust com from......ladies and boys..virginity has always been the best and anyone who was raped is also a virgin ......but for all thoes advocating for free for all sexual adventure ....sorry but u are a substandard wife or husband material whether u have good character or not

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Biglittlelois(f): 6:12pm On Apr 13, 2020
Rick9:
I don't have such time, i always look out for red flags, if i notice any ex shit we are done. No argument


kiss
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:13pm On Apr 13, 2020
VirginSearcher:
This is why I will only marry a virgin even if its 10 yrs old grin


Lwkmd.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:15pm On Apr 13, 2020
DonMekino:
it all boils down to discipline....those shouting Mary virgin marry virgin, it's ok for u to frolick around bcoz u are a guy, while the girls will keep their virginity waiting for u....or u will keep ur virginity too as a guy? if u r looking for virgin in this generation, u know it's not so easy bcoz both the male and female species are sexually active....when it's time to marry, understand what u are going into and have the decency to let go of old ways
any guy who is not a virgin does not in any way deserves a virgin as a wife.....when we say virgin we mean both sexes sir......I can imagine how a lady who has kept her self from her youth ends up marrying a pervet who goes around cheating on her...that is the worst mistake ever....ladies u too open una eyes well..most this guys saying they don't want virgins after sleeping around will pretend to be saints in order to get themselves a chaste virgin

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Candanyl: 6:15pm On Apr 13, 2020
The responses to this write up shows the level of immorality n moral decadence in our society .I t also shows why most marriages are sham n fraud in this part of the world.Most people no longer marry for love if not why would a bride / groom to be , be involved in such acts weeks before and even on wedding day.I'm repulsed.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Biglittlelois(f): 6:15pm On Apr 13, 2020
infogenius:
Real men let go. Weaklings go back to their vomit.
I never looked back anytime I moved on.

Wetin concern me with the last fling.


kiss
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:16pm On Apr 13, 2020
Holumhidey:

But, ese actually wasnt erigga's ex. She just happened to be his shepeele
Where in my write-up did i say that Ese was Erigga's ex?



Always learn to read and comprehend before you rush to quote someone.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by belcom10(m): 6:21pm On Apr 13, 2020
What is your point now.



MrPaul2:

85% Virgins go wild after been d flower grin shocked cool angry
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by larryking540: 6:21pm On Apr 13, 2020
Ochuksbaba:
WARNING

never fall in love or marry a lady that still has close contact with her Ex

it's always fatal

Some will not tell u ,but u can actually know when u girl keeps bringing home some type of funny gift claiming it's from her uncle or distant cousin
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:22pm On Apr 13, 2020
humilitypays:
majority of today virgins have done more abominable sexual activities you can only imagine except maybe vaginal penetration, which they carefully avoid to lure men like u into marrying them as virgins.




They are reading my words and they know I am right, so be careful with that I must marry a virgin, I doubt there are true pure virgins explained in the scripture in out today world cry
u are very right....many girls are sodomites...they understand everything about MouthAction,anal sex and every other acts from hell...I don't know how a women who have done all these will expect someone to respect her as A WIFE the only respect u deserve is as a person..except if ur husband too is a pervet.....but that rarely happens must bad boys will only use and dump whores but will never take them to the altar

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by MYHUBBY: 6:22pm On Apr 13, 2020
Amumaigwe:

Bros calm down. Don't drive some people to suicide.


what's left of human if dignity, value and pride is lost?
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by larryking540: 6:23pm On Apr 13, 2020
Chidorx60:
any guy who is not a virgin does not in any way deserves a virgin as a wife.....when we say virgin we mean both sexes sir......I can imagine how a lady who has kept her self from her youth ends up marrying a pervet who goes around cheating on her...that is the worst mistake ever....ladies u too open una eyes well..most this guys saying they don't want virgins after sleeping around will pretend to be saints in order to get themselves a chaste virgin

Is there a medical test to confirm if a guy is a virgin?

Because me na virgin o
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Lamanii22(f): 6:26pm On Apr 13, 2020
Erediauwa:
I am Jason. wink


Jason? Hmmmm where from?
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 13, 2020
larryking540:


Is there a medical test to confirm if a guy is a virgin?

Because me na virgin o
I don't think so...but every guy knows whether he is a virgin or not...by the way must virgin guys reason normally .
When most virgin guy sees a lady he sees a person,a student,a parent or just who she is...

But non virgin guys when they see a lady most of them tend to see a sex tool,a potential bed mate or just something that could give them pleasure.........
Now u see the test...

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 13, 2020
AFONAMARO:


Your wife will be in another silly guy's bucket list to smash.

Unam-ikot

All good. I’m not one of those male chauvinist who believe women must remain chaste while men are free to ravage everything in skirt.

Let her fvkc every guy she wants, enjoy her life. As long as it’s done before our wedding I won’t mind. And maybe even with my permission after our wedding. See we just have different mentalities my guy.































































































Your daddy Unam-Ikot undecided
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 13, 2020
slyfoxxjoe:


All good. I’m not one of those male chauvinist who believe women must remain chaste while men are free to ravage everything in skirt.

Let her fvkc every guy she wants, enjoy her life. As long as it’s done before our wedding I won’t mind. And maybe even with my permission after our wedding. See we just have different mentalities my guy.


Your daddy Unam-Ikot undecided
hmmmmmm
.wow.. someone needs Deliverance
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Mreazi121(m): 6:33pm On Apr 13, 2020
I can't bring myself to committing such unfaithful, immoral and wicked act... once its over, its over.. what goes around comes around..
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Lamanii22(f): 6:35pm On Apr 13, 2020
Oxtertee:

Yeah, you are absolutely right! It also happened to me, I had sex with my ex gf few days to her wedding as she was in hurry to get married but I wasn't financially ready by then. She came that particular day to bid me farewell but we end up having sex I even suspect she's already pregnant by then & it didn't end their ooo, I also asked her to stop bye my house someday when she comes to visit her mum as her mum still leaves in my area & we end up having sex. That was after she had given birth to a daughter to her husband, & to my surprise, she named the girl after me & to God who made me, the girl realy resemble me. She has given birth to the 2nd daughter for her husband but we still communicate & promise to see one of this days.



Omg.... Emotions/feelings mehn...
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by larryking540: 6:35pm On Apr 13, 2020
Chidorx60:

I don't think so...but every guy knows whether he is a virgin or not...by the way must virgin guys reason normally .
When most virgin guy sees a lady he sees a person,a student,a parent or just who she is...

But non virgin guys when they see a lady most of them tend to see a sex tool,a potential bed mate or just something that could give them pleasure.........
Now u see the test...

If na to day talk random discussion with her ,to prove say I still be virgin ,I Sabi am well well,,,,the ones guy men day call out of point discussion .......I will not even talk to the sex side of boyfriend to girlfriend side
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by larryking540: 6:36pm On Apr 13, 2020
Lamanii22:




Omg.... Emotions/feelings mehn...


I just pray make someone know be come object of distruction in another person marriage o

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:39pm On Apr 13, 2020
larryking540:


If na to day talk random discussion with her ,to prove say I still be virgin ,I Sabi am well well,,,,the ones guy men day call out of point discussion .......I will not even talk to the sex side of boyfriend to girlfriend side
Be sure of the girls first some are on special missions to make u as sexual active as they are.....a girl I barely knew actually told she would laugh the day I get disvirgined ....lol from someone I could classify as a random person
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:39pm On Apr 13, 2020
Lamanii22:



Jason? Hmmmm where from?
Too many questions Lami... cheesy


Just enjoy the view and reminisce those sweet old memories.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by properties4sale: 6:40pm On Apr 13, 2020
Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

I can help you stop it, I'll take over the duty and she will totally forget you. Just send me a PM. We sure can make it work.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by larryking540: 6:45pm On Apr 13, 2020
Chidorx60:

Be sure of the girls first some are on special missions to make u as sexual active as they are.....a girl I barely knew actually told she would laugh the day I get disvirgined ....lol from someone I could classify as a random person
Lol
Probably u told her u are still straight in ur zip
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:49pm On Apr 13, 2020
larryking540:

Lol
Probably u told her u are still straight in ur zip
lol..I barely know her...we never discussed anything towards that angle
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by bigpriik: 6:49pm On Apr 13, 2020
Chidorx60:

I don't think so...but every guy knows whether he is a virgin or not...by the way must virgin guys reason normally .
When most virgin guy sees a lady he sees a person,a student,a parent or just who she is...

But non virgin guys when they see a lady most of them tend to see a sex tool,a potential bed mate or just something that could give them pleasure.........h
Now u see the test...

Wrong.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Kriss216: 6:58pm On Apr 13, 2020
Erediauwa:
I frown at this ugly and immoral culture we've copied from the Western world... This is not an African culture neither is the Bachelor's Eve or Baby showers ours.

These generation of ours tends to copy what I termed "Animalistic Behavior"


I don't keep an "Ex" contact, once you agree we're done, then we're DONE for good, that doesn't make us enemies, but keep your distance and don't come close.


I remember the ugly last fling of one Elohor at Ughelli, she thought it was just a last fling, but she didn't know she was taking her last breathe as her would be husband traced her to the foolish Ex place and sniff the life out of them.

You might think it's just one last fun, but there's no last fun.



Listen to "Long Story" by Erigga and hear the story of Ese.
You’re a true WARRIor!!
Effurun, Osubi road, Ekpan, down to Jeddo are my axis back then.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 6:59pm On Apr 13, 2020
bigpriik:


Wrong.
BIGPRIIK..You won't understand
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Lamanii22(f): 7:00pm On Apr 13, 2020
Erediauwa:
Too many questions Lami... cheesy


Just enjoy the view and reminisce those sweet old memories.


Awwwwn..... It put a smile on my face... My innocent face lol... Thank you so much Jason, you're too kind.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 13, 2020
Kriss216:

You’re a true WARRIor!!
Effurun, Osubi road, Ekpan, down to Jeddo are my axis back then.
Real Afieki and Udumovwori boy nai you dey follow yarn so.


You know the character.

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