| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by justclinton(m): 9:00pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Kiss someone who has covid 19 |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Nobody: 9:00pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
drmikeadams:
 . When I advice men to leave polygamy them no go hear the OP father don remarry,step mother don use otumokpo cook food for am so tey em brain don comot
So if I give birth to a girl and she gets married ,and my daughter and her husband has an accommodation ish?
My daughter has every right to come back to my house till the husband gets back to his feet.
Make men no dey reason with their prick come scatter their family
The family dey divided already
Op papa don turn vegetables and wimp,,
And for what? Na bottom power. It's very potent Daddy don chop come quench. Step mothers. They can scatter families. Very few are good. The rest . Girl, u are waiting for your husband to give u money next week b4 u will take your child to hospital? Must u take your child to hospital to administer proper first aid locally? Let me blame everything on corona else I will ask u what u are doing staying idle at home? Your husband is broke. Tie your child for back and hustle like millions of Nigerian nursing mothers like u. We have daily market, u can sell tomato,pepper food stuffs. These are stuffs u can easily sell with your child with u there. Or haven't u seen mothers doing so? Help your husband so he will have less to worry about. U 2 can join hand and rent a room. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by articlewriter: 9:01pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Have you tried to talk with your husband on how you can support him to get back on his feet, is he willing to get back on his feet?
It is better you start working with him to stand up and be a man so you can have your own home, it is more peaceful in your own home.
Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by West10(m): 9:01pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister Go and stay with your husband at his sister’s place because one day your stepmom would cut off your baby’s hand and everyone would say accidents happen, kukuma carry your things and move over to your husband’s and manage with him by God’s grace things would get better just have faith but first comot for that house if you love your life 1 Like |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by grandstar(m): 9:01pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
crackland:
I don't know which of you two women is more silly.
Is it the witch who poured hot water on a baby, or a grown-up you who feels entitled to getting fed in a house you're squatting in.
Her own level of fvckery is definitely higher than yours though, that much is certain. She's not happy she's in her dad's house but circumstances dumped her there. She's penniless. 5 Likes |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Obrigardo: 9:01pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? In times like this, you approach the horse and take it to the stream. Don't approach like you want to fight or cause quarrel. Know that everything is time and next year you will not be in this position. So take it calmly, smile and bring love back to your life. There is a way to approach even the most wicked person and you hash out a compromise, call a truce or have a deeper understanding with mutual respect. I hope you understand me |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Avalancheman: 9:02pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Go back to your husband's house!  |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by 9jaRealist: 9:03pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Ahmed0336:
Most Women are naturally wicked.
Op just leave her nemesis ll surely catch up with her in the future.
It is well.. The crude MISOGYNY is totally uncalled for... > 2 Likes |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by 9jaRealist: 9:03pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
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OP, I know Nigeria Police svcks, so perhaps try a human rights CSO...
But please do not take matters into your hands - like pouring hot water on her.
If you 'retaliate' in kind...
Trust me, her daughter's testimony will change and you will be looking at prison time (I suspect people already know you hate her).
GOOD LUCK....
And hopefully you can get away from her as soon as possible.
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| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by toinbeatz(m): 9:03pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
REPORT TO NAPTIP IMMEDIATELY. |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Nobody: 9:03pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? Do you believe in KARMA and REPERCUSSION? if YES, then just RELAX 1 Like |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Kingrefreshed: 9:04pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? Get her arrested. But first bribe the police men so they can beat hell out of her first. I do that always. They will report that she is resisting arrest with a weapon and they had to overpower her the best way they can. When she's out she'll be in terrible pains. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by safarigirl(f): 9:04pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
I will never understand how people get married and have kids in certain conditions
OP, why are you waiting for your husband to give you money for everything? Didn't you have a means of making money before marriage?
I'm so sorry if I sound harsh, but do you people think marriage can run on vibes and Inshallah? At the end, the only victim here is an innocent baby.
Why will you birth kids you can't sufficiently care for?
At first, I was wondering why you wouldn't be with your husband, but even he, is living at the mercy of his sister, why won't your stepmother do anyhow, when she knows neither you nor your husband are capable of bringing hail and brimstone upon her?
This is the worst time to be stuck in the same house with an evil witch.
I pray your daughter heals, and I pray God protects her, from whatever harm that witch will want to further inflict on her, but you cannot protect your child, when you live at the mercy of the tormentor 12 Likes |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Ladycewhy(f): 9:04pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister na wah o. I feel for you o  |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Ohomem: 9:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this U made a very big mistake taking your child to ur step mother house. Step mothers are usually wicked especially as second wife.they are diabolical.....crafty when it to comes to family matter |
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| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by clemmonce(m): 9:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
.Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her.
Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.
which conscience be that... Some people are PSYCHOPATH, they dont have conscience. Na to deal with her. Some people need to be taught a lesson |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Nobody: 9:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
 No matter what, avoid physical retaliation. Why not move back with your husband. That's the only sensible thing to do. Your father's house is clearly hostile territory. Why did you even separate from your other half?  |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Greatzeus(m): 9:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Fake story.
Someone poured hot water on your baby,next thing is to pick up your phone log into nairaland and ask foolish questions.
As a true mother,that suffered the pain of child birth,you would have either gotten her arrested or stabbed her or return the favour. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by safarigirl(f): 9:06pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Kingrefreshed:
Get her arrested. But first bribe the police men so they can beat hell out of her first.
I do that always. They will report that she is resisting arrest with a weapon and they had to overpower her the best way they can.
When she's out she'll be in terrible pains. Bribe them with which money? Who even told you people police is arresting alleged abusers these days? 1 Like |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by 2oby: 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? U r risking ur life n ur baby's life in that house n u r here talking about revenge. I dont want to question y u left ur husband's house but leave that place u r currently asap. Don't even involve police just leave n avoid ur step mum. |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Ayemileto(m): 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy:
My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital Don't you have anything you are doing to support your husband? In all your statements so far, it seems to me that you're not working and a the financial responsibility is on your husband. Better get something doing to support your family. 1 Like |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
ChoCho54:
Go and report this matter to the police immediately even if your dad would be offended. The woman would surely do more in future if you don't make it official.
It's your father's house and she's in her husband's house. Everyone should leave in piece. She has no greater claim to the house than yourself whether you are married or not. Mama G I hail o |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by nhurhetee(m): 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Madam, pls pour the water on her back!! In fact, add acid join. |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Kalm4life: 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
My dear life is all about sense and patience just wait don't react now. |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by meetme01: 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Op, to be mothers and mothers have advised. Just let go. Take heart dear. Trust in your creator that this too shall pass. Patience has lots to do when issues like this happen. Ma'am, let go and let your creator handle vengeance.
Once again, I say unto you, this too shall pass in no distant time. You will sing a new song and your enemies will take the chorus. It will end in praise. Be strong for your baby and little brother. |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by toolate2fail(m): 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Anty she said no money help her to do dat the the best advice u can give her now pls merahki:
Babies can get really hurt from having seemingly small areas of burn/scald injuries though. An example is immediate kidney shutdown (I will not use medical terms) with can lead to death.
So while you are pondering what to do, you have to take her to the children emergency of the teaching hospital near you. They will rate the degree of injury and treat accordingly. She will likely need fluid therapy, ointment, maybe antibiotics and or other supportive therapy.
This is very very important dear poster.
After ensuring the baby is okay (or after starting therapy if it’s not), you can come back and negotiate how you have to go back to your husband. How you can help your situation. How to fight your stepmom, etc
The immediate need is to ensure your child is all right .
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| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Madam u and yur husband shud rent a face me i face you apartment its affordable. and move in till when it all gets better, it will definitely get better. you have to stay with your husband  , bt you women sef ehh bt why wont the guy crash down when u are also a liability to him. I don't know why nigerian women are like this always looking for an already made guy to settle down with and dey even cant develop dem self to be financially stable always waiting for the man. dats gold digging. you beta look for something to do |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by Lota007: 9:07pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Pls forgive,God of innocent children will fight for u |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by KoolSpade: 9:08pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Really you guy believe this crap Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by safarigirl(f): 9:08pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
West10:
Go and stay with your husband at his sister’s place because one day your stepmom would cut off your baby’s hand and everyone would say accidents happen, kukuma carry your things and move over to your husband’s and manage with him by God’s grace things would get better just have faith but first comot for that house if you love your life It is the sister's place, not her husband's house. You don't know if the sister has space for an extra person, even less two. What if it is a self-con? What if the sister doesn't want more people? She can't just move into someone's house with a baby. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by grandstar(m): 9:08pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Tiarababy
I don't think you should keep quiet.
Your baby may be scarred for life. Either you go to the police or embarrass her thoroughly in front of the neighbours and expose her wickedness. Even her daughter knew what she did is bad.
You on your own part, pick yourself up! It's your condition that's put you that way. If need be, go back to your husband's house and manage. Don't nag him. I'll advise you to learn how to manage social media accounts. It's a moving business. There's someone teaching it here in the business subforum.
You should be contributing to your dad's wallet. That'll earn you respect from your stepmom. Don't hate her kids.
What of your own mum?
Tiarababy |
