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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Canberra55: 9:18pm On Apr 13, 2020
Just cut your silly dickk off. Or you use iron press am flat. Ozwor.



Hausaboy239:
Am qstill caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by MYHUBBY: 9:22pm On Apr 13, 2020
Ziky491:
i dnt havd time to spend with your type



Spend it with those you're riding their diicks anyhow, I don't need a wayward girl time
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by MrColdsweat: 9:25pm On Apr 13, 2020
MYHUBBY:



I'm not even preaching celibacy here because I'm not saint but if you see the way ladies are now becoming useless


15yrs old girls lost their hymen so quick just because they're looking up to those slay Queens


how many of married men here met their wives a virgin? we can't continue managing marriage like that abeg, though every men with his own choice

You are blunt with the truth.

By getting married a virgin, a woman has shown that she possesses one of the most important ingredient needed for not just long term romantic relationship but business and even human relationships. By keeping her virginity till marriage, she's shown that she's capable of giving commitment.

How can a woman who has a habit of jumping from one man to another commit?

The bible said, thou shall not fornicate, she didn't listen.

Society said "Abstain, AIDS is real. She didn't listen."

Is it now in your house she'll stop the habit of sleeping around?

We're not fools!!!!


The modern woman has lost it.

Check social media, they are all about uploading semi-nude pics, they have vibrators, they think of sex all the time.

If e no be virgin, we no dey marry.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Karmaisme(m): 9:43pm On Apr 13, 2020
BlueBanana:

Virgins date and have exes before they marry and some sleep with their ex before marriage.

She's no longer a virgin if she had slept with her ex.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by pellummy(m): 9:44pm On Apr 13, 2020
Abi kofe da fun awon mejeji ni, why can't people just try to put their finger in fire b4 putting others.... If get to know such info a second to my the ringing and declaration....i am going to break such marriage.. Even the old testament allow me to divorce a cheating gf/wife

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by placeofallure(f): 9:45pm On Apr 13, 2020
Slyjay1:
Are you sure you are not that your friend?



I know this much cause we were course mates and room mates in school. She's really close to me and we're still friends till tomorrow.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Hightser: 10:12pm On Apr 13, 2020
Chi59:
I once liked a guy on nairaland. He stated his interest in me and we started getting to know each other. I noticed that this fellow was fond of uploading pics of his ex almost every other day. I called his attention to it. He flared up. Na so everything scatter. Good riddance.
I never keep contacts or memoirs of exes. Once we're done we're done. I don't know the kind of spirit that possess many young people of nowadays.
Once I found out you're still attached to your ex, I'm out. I'm not your rebound girl.

Nne, imakazi, can at least follow you on Instagram? wink smiley
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Eisenhower(m): 10:28pm On Apr 13, 2020
loschivatos:
First advise to my son, do not ever and never plead any woman into marriage. Especially 'little kids' of today who thinks having 2 balls in between their thigh is enough to make them a man. I have seen a situation where husband called wife's ex to settle their matrimonial issues.
This is bizarre...
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Eisenhower(m): 10:30pm On Apr 13, 2020
Hisincrease:

I agree with you, sir.
The problem is the children-boys or girls that marry these days.
We claim to be digital and wiser now but in reality, people are more foolish now.
I can't have my girl come up with nonsense male besties, ex-voice notes, hidden med-history and all those emotional conjunctions.
If we agree to marry, then we must stick to the rules.

My marriage must work by God's grace. No room for nonsense.
"We claim to be digital and wiser now but in reality, people are more foolish now."
God Bless you... People are more foolish now than ever.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Eisenhower(m): 10:38pm On Apr 13, 2020
ibkonekt:
All these girls defending marrying non virgin have probably slept with 896 men and still counting...#no to used up second hand vag....they have been emotionally wrecked and cannot pair bond properly anymore....Monk mode until you find a pure bride
MA niccur... God bless your soul
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Oxtertee(m): 10:48pm On Apr 13, 2020
Lamanii22:




Omg.... Emotions/feelings mehn...
we are so much into each other. I know it will happen again if we are both alone in a secluded place

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 13, 2020
I prefer a Christian God fearing virgin to a repentant Christian non virgin ....we got to always aim for the best oo...
.but honesty which jazz did this generation drink self..

Every boy carries their manhood like a usb cord looking for were to plug it and every girls leg is wide spread with reckless abandon.
While growing up sex used to be treated as a sacred something..but nowadays even kids who are just getting weaned from their momma's milk are expect in matters concerning lovemaking God help us

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by CsRockefeller(m): 11:06pm On Apr 13, 2020
placeofallure:


I know this much cause we were course mates and room mates in school. She's really close to me and we're still friends till tomorrow.

She is really ur friend indeed. Birds......

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Eisenhower(m): 11:06pm On Apr 13, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
i swear, u view a vagina positioned in doggy style from behind and you can see gaping hole (of at least 3cm) while you are yet slide in. cum no go gree come cos there is little friction and you will rush and pay bride price on top woman that is bringing all her responsibilities for you to foot with a gaping vagina to offer.

the guys that left it that way how much did they pay?
This comment is very funny yet revealing deep sitted truth.
The guys that left the gapping hole of at least 3cm knew from the start what they wanted and they brutally attack the hole. It's left to the guy that want to take the whole package home to see the hole and make assessments of the situation if he really wants to go ahead with such hole.
Lol

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Eisenhower(m): 11:23pm On Apr 13, 2020
humilitypays:
majority of today virgins have done more abominable sexual activities you can only imagine except maybe vaginal penetration, which they carefully avoid to lure men like u into marrying them as virgins.




They are reading my words and they know I am right, so be careful with that I must marry a virgin, I doubt there are true pure virgins explained in the scripture in out today world cry

I agree. Virginity is not just about unbroken hymen alone but also about the purity of soul and spirit.
As you well said, there are ladies who have done all sorts of sexual craze like BJ, et al but refuses penetration from the front to still sell their virginity story.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by placeofallure(f): 11:24pm On Apr 13, 2020
CsRockefeller:


She is really ur friend indeed. Birds......

In every written text, there's something we call "implied meaning" otherwise known as innuendos. What is written being loaded with undertones, meanings not written in the actual text for reasons best known to the writer.

You must have missed the part where I wrote: "They said they can't stop..."
Now this part can only mean one thing, people in the know, including me, must have asked them to stop.

Back to your mention,

Everybody is entitled to his or her opinion.... so whatever!
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Purifiedsoul: 11:40pm On Apr 13, 2020
Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

E no go better for you.
Adultery!!
God will punish You.
Be rest assured that Karma is always benevolent in returning the Favor.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by drmikeadams(m): 12:14am On Apr 14, 2020
[quote author=MrColdsweat post=88411902]With the way women have gone crazy, it's only rational to want a virgin.

Society keeps forcing us to see the bodycount of a woman as nothing but they won't tell you that 100% of women who trick their husbands into raising another man's child, married their husbands as non-virgins.

Once a woman has a high bodycount, she loses the ability to pair-bond. She ends up comparing you to the numerous men she's slept with. Little things which shouldn't be problems become issues that can break the marriage. She'll complain about the size of your penis and will likely go outside to get sex.

I'm in my early 30's and as long as there's no way to find out how many men a woman has slept with, I'd never settle for less than a virgin.[/quote





grin grin]. U mean as long as there is no barometer or thermometer or prepaid meter to read how many pennises passed thru a 3cm wide ttoto,,u will never settle for less

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by drmikeadams(m): 12:21am On Apr 14, 2020
Abdul10234040:


I totally agree with u my guy. It is only a fool that will spend his hard earned millions to marry a non-virgin girl. One a brusher, always a brusher

grin grin grin I remember one ex like that ,,we don ,bang from Lagos ,enter ogun ,bang for aba ,come back to Lagos,bang for branch office, grin grin Las Las one Charley pay bride price marry am keep for house with happiness cheesy


I just tell my self "son it's either u marry a virgin or remain single"

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Opekebaiby(f): 12:28am On Apr 14, 2020
Hmmn.....well cool
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by drmikeadams(m): 12:29am On Apr 14, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
i swear, u view a vagina positioned in doggy style from behind and you can see gaping hole (of at least 3cm) while you are yet slide in. cum no go gree come cos there is little friction and you will rush and pay bride price on top woman that is bringing all her responsibilities for you to foot with a gaping vagina to offer.

the guys that left it that way how much did they pay?
cheesy grin grin grin
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by MrColdsweat: 1:45am On Apr 14, 2020
[quote author=drmikeadams post=88416647][/quote] I stand by what I said.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by mercyland93(m): 3:58am On Apr 14, 2020
Misterdhee1:

How many real virgins do you actually think you can find in Nigeria? Females are exposed to various kinds of temptations every other day. It takes something above their natural capacity to stop them from committing.


My friend, there are still marriageable single virgins. Just try to beam ur search light the more, u will surely find one...
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 5:35am On Apr 14, 2020
Eisenhower:

This comment is very funny yet revealing deep sitted truth.
The guys that left the gapping hole of at least 3cm knew from the start what they wanted and they brutally attack the hole. It's left to the guy that want to take the whole package home to see the hole and make assessments of the situation if he really wants to go ahead with such hole.
Lol
They will tell you it’s in her past, some will even claim they were raped.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Rick9(m): 5:37am On Apr 14, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Some girls are good at keeping secrets
Something must reveal the secret. Observe patterns. Nothing hides forever.

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by CsRockefeller(m): 6:26am On Apr 14, 2020
placeofallure:


In every written text, there's something we call "implied meaning" otherwise known as innuendos. What is written being loaded with undertones, meanings not written in the actual text for reasons best known to the writer.

You must have missed the part where I wrote: "They said they can't stop..."
Now this part can only mean one thing, people in the know, including me, must have asked them to stop.

Back to your mention,

Everybody is entitled to his or her opinion.... so whatever!

Thanks for the lecture though.

Back to your mention.

You keeping a wild animal as a pet. (my opinion though)
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by revolt(m): 7:15am On Apr 14, 2020
placeofallure:
My friend from university days, she had this bf, he didn't marry her cause it was a few months to his wedding when they started dating, though he'd been pestering her for long, she no gree. Her excuse? he's a bit elderly - 8/9 years, not sure.

A relationship started and it was hot. My friend, according to her, didn't know he was that close to marrying his girlfriend, she wouldn't have agreed to date him.

They made love on his wedding day, dunno how the guy managed with that. He hid it from her. She got to know later that that was his wedding day.

It's been years now, they're both married
and they still see. They said they can't stop. I wonder if the two of them are not crazy, they would've just married each other.

So, so for a match made in heaven.
when they catch her the guy will run o......loool
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by mhisbliss(f): 7:28am On Apr 14, 2020
Erediauwa:
Lol, the year has been categorise with all sorts of bad things...


I am just entered into mine.
smiley
Lol good to know, happy new year too.
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Greatview: 8:02am On Apr 14, 2020
Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

It's a terrible fire you are playing with my friend. It could cost you your life. The best way to stop is just stop. Change your location and don't let her know then delete her number and block her. Move on with your life while you still have it. That's my take

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Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by donbogo(m): 8:04am On Apr 14, 2020
Experience
akaahs:

Talking from experience or people's perception
Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Nobody: 8:16am On Apr 14, 2020
mhisbliss:
Lol good to know, happy new year too.
Hope you're back for good this time.... My eyes are on you sha..smiley

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