Wow. Check yourself maam. No friends, no fam..Maybe you are the problem.

I have bn betrayed once or twice by trusted peeps,even the ones I made great sacrifices for.
One went behind my back to blackmail me before my boss cos I was earning more than him by working in different places.
I have left him for God to judge

Wow. Check yourself maam. No friends, no fam..Maybe you are the problem.

QuinModah:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

QuinModah:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

OP in life, the lesser your expectations for people, the happier you are and people would never let you down because you always expect the worst from them.
That has been my mindset

Eulalia:


But does it mean that people cannot control their attractions or what? That's preposterous. I mean... I can never be attracted to somebody I know is dating a friend or to my guys friend. That's greed of the highest order.

It happened to me. Like my blood line today is married to a guy that chyked me for years.
This my blood line knows that this guy tried to date me. As in he kept coming to our house look for me for months. My mum and all my siblings knew him very well. It got to a point he threatened to harm me if he sees me with any other guy but luckily, we relocated to another place. Only for my blood sister to bring this same guy as a suitor. dang!
I just keep wondering, so she had been attracted to him all this while? Someone I dislike to the core? Hm! Fear human beings.

Till today, if I go visiting this guy will be telling me him and I have an unfinished business and some annoying silly talks. So most times when I visit, I'll hide away until I go back. Mehn... It sucks!

as you no gree he see another fine specimen. No crime in that na. Abi you expect him to chase you for ever ni. Any why will you even visit them. Smh

Many times, but the most recent on my mind is when I left CE church last year. I later declared that I wasn't a Christian on Facebook because of some posts I made which were true but which Christians didn't like.

Of course many insulted and even called me false prophet. What shocked me was even those close to me, I found making snide remarks and calling me end time false Prophet. Even more stupid was one guy who's life I had turned around by YAH's grace. He was jumping around my timeline making stupid comments. I introduced him to someone who gave him almost all his major engineering jobs. He even lived in one of the man's houses for free, got married and had a child right in that house. I gave him jobs to do and still had more waiting for him. Well that was it, I had to change him. I even found someone so good that it made this fool look like an apprentice. Christianity actually makes many people stupid.

Personally I haven't been betrayed yet as I don't even keep friends around,
I live a secluded kind of lifestyle and keep those that wants to come closer at arms length.
But in 2019,
I and my family witnessed the worst kind of betrayal ever,
My Dad, a very strong and compassionate man cried bitterly in his hospital bed because he was heartlessly betrayed to death by those he call his own.
I won't say much, as it's still fresh in my mind
I don't think anything will make me forgive those who drag my father to an early grave
Be careful of the people that eats from your table
They are the ones that will take the plate and smash on your face
The heart of Man is desperately WICKED

bestabigaelever:
An enemy disguised as a friend asked me about someone personally, I opened up to her
I never knew she was recording, she went to tell the person and told the person what I didn't say, telling him she couldn't record all the conversations....that shit changed my life forever
I can't heal from that but I will make sure I destroy temitope

Sister, you can always recover: with God. No lost opportunity is too big for God to recover for you. And, please, forgive Temitope, for vengeance belongs to Almighty God. Let God take charge of everything, and, with patience, you will see the move of His hands.

Things can be fine again, sister!

My life has been one of betrayal betrayal betrayal.

From family with my siblings, in school, offices and now in marriage. I am a very reserved person, I don't talk or behave anyhow, I am disciplined.

I keep wondering how this betrayals come about. I keep asking myself if I am operating under a curse or what.

One thing keeps me going, my inner strength.

One day they will all be a thing of the past.

In my place of work, everyone suddenly started starring at me somehow, I just keep asking myself what did I not do right until one day I came to understand that a girl went about telling people around that I had se,x with our boss in the office and a lot of people came and gathered watching us through the door.

The news spread like wild fire even across our branches. I decided to follow up the matter to the end to know it's source. Cos I was still a virgin then. I reported the matter to the higher authority during investigation this girl said her reason of saying that is because I am too beautiful, intelligent and loved by all. That she is so unhappy about this.

Meanwhile, a lot of people where abusing me for soiling my name with my level of exposure. The worse is that she said if she did not see it let God punish her, truck crush her to death, that the university she is attending may she not graduate. She faced the sun and made this swearing.
This girl pleaded that I should forgive her and all the senior officers should help her beg me.


What really caused me depression in the whole saga is a "FRIEND" my best friend then, who new me for over 10years. She knows so much of my secrets even those asking for my hand in marriage, to tell me in the midst of people that I should search my conscience that the girl cannot bring such curses to herself if she is lying she distant herself from me. But when the truth was finally revealed she started coming g closer again. I have forgiven her but can never take her to myself again.

She was a fake friend. Since then I don't even have any friend again.

I was betrayed at work by my superior and it cost me my job, there's a document called P.T.W. " Permit to work document ". It's a written legal document that grant permission and authorization to commence a task. Usually high risk task, my immediate boss and i are both signatories to that document, i.e. I have to sign and my immediate boss as well. I did my part. Inspect work areas, got authorized by the PM and only needed my direct boss to sign to commence operation. I called him on radio as I was on the site. I.e an high rise tower of 34 floors and we were on the 34th level, My boss gave me a verbal permission to tell the guys to commence work even without him signing the permit. I was adamant and reluctant saying it's was against ethical practice, but he insisted that there isn't any problem. So I gave the go ahead only to be called that the companies "HSE Manger" is on site and on her way to supervise our activity, I was worried but not bothered as I was only following instructions from senior supervisor beside he is to take the blame. How wrong was I, to my uttermost surprise my boss denied me and claim he wasn't even aware of the designated task. I was shocked, I couldn't even say a word other workers came to my aid and said he was lying but all fell on deaf ears. This is a man I trusted so much as I have never in my life thought that this man can do such, my appointment was terminated for incompetency. It's painful but I have forgiven him. My only mistake was TRUST.

Even some of us telling our stories must have betrayed someone else....

QuinModah:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

Bro.. family first and only.

Eulalia:


But does it mean that people cannot control their attractions or what? That's preposterous. I mean... I can never be attracted to somebody I know is dating a friend or to my guys friend. That's greed of the highest order.

It happened to me. Like my blood line today is married to a guy that chyked me for years.
This my blood line knows that this guy tried to date me. As in he kept coming to our house look for me for months. My mum and all my siblings knew him very well. It got to a point he threatened to harm me if he sees me with any other guy but luckily, we relocated to another place. Only for my blood sister to bring this same guy as a suitor. dang!
I just keep wondering, so she had been attracted to him all this while? Someone I dislike to the core? Hm! Fear human beings.

Till today, if I go visiting this guy will be telling me him and I have an unfinished business and some annoying silly talks. So most times when I visit, I'll hide away until I go back. Mehn... It sucks!

Ehn ehn and so what?? So because motor kill person make the remaining people no enter motor again?? You no like person and another person see am like am. Worst is if you're still single..

SexytorresE:
Can’t type

speak my friend

bestabigaelever:
An enemy disguise as friend asked me about someone personal, I opened up to her
I never knew she was recording, she went to tell the person and told the person what I didn't say, telling him she couldn't record all the conversations....that shit changed my life forever
I can't heal from that but I will make sure I destroy temitope

No need to destroy temitope, learn to stop gossips. You betrayed your personal someone by letting out information that concerns her which you ought to treat with discretion.

ubcandid:


do you know what he himself was passing through. The fact you see people in fancy, doesn't mean their pocket is sooo rich.

True that...
People dont get this part

ednut1:
as you no gree he say another fine specimen. No crime in that na. Abi you expect him to chase you for ever ni. Any why will you even visit them. Smh

You dont get it...this is my my blood line!!!!! My other half!!!!
So I should not visit my sis again?
For your Info, I don't like the guy from here to there.

Now, I could remember when similar thing happened but in reverse this time.

I was crushing on one guy then. So along the line, this guy went for her. The day I discovered, he was interested in her, I zeroed my mind immediately and tried to avoid him like a plague. That is...the feelings just died cos I hate nonsense . Even the day she asked me to accompany her there, I didn't want to. She had to force me.

OBelz:
It was my birthday so I had a few friends around.

So I used the opportunity to introduce my best friend (she was my padi to the bone marrow) to my fiancé (now ex). She was so happy to meet him and I felt good because she had always wanted to meet with him. The party ended well and we all went home.

But after few days, kept getting calls and messages from this friend asking if I really want to settle down with this man. I wondered why she was really concerned and asking. So I asked her what is it that she isn’t telling me.

She said to me “Nothing was wrong”, I said, "are you sure?" She replied yes, she wants the best for me and she was just looking out for me. I didn’t bother asking again.

One very hot afternoon, my man(now ex) were together and he decided to tell and show me everything my supposed "best friend” said/wrote to him.

Firstly I was surprised how she got his number and I was so devastated.She told him I was no good for him because my family had issues and he would want that for him self.

Well I was flabbergasted to say the least now though �

The worst kind of hurt is betrayal, because it means that someone will willing to hurt you just to make themselves feel better.

Ever been betrayed? Tell us what happened and let's learn.

Ladies never introduce your friends to your man either ex, present or future.

Right. I met a guy at a wedding ceremony, It was an elite wedding but I was there to serve food to the guests there. When I was washing the plates, there was this guy that came to me to ask for fork unknowing to me that he was the groom's brother... What a cute guy lol! So I gave him...



He asked for my number he said I was really nice, so I gave it to him, we got talking, he said he's got cousins around where I live and that he'd come check Me whenever he comes...


He fulfilled his promise, he started coming to my house with lots of gifts, he was nice, a perfect gentleman I must say... He asked me out properly, I was 18 at that time, still very shy, I was still trying to do shakara I didn't want to be cheap and all...


Unknowing to me that my step sister that's younger than me had fallen for the guy, she had already started visiting the guy at his house... There was this day he invited me over to his cousin's I asked my sister to follow me, when we got there, we were gisting and all, then my sister said she was coming, few minutes later he said he was coming too they went outside, I was left alone so I went outside too and I caught them kissing....


I felt betrayed, I was hurt... I agree with what you said "never introduce your friend/sister to you man either ex, present&future"


That pain really hit different.... I have forgiven though... She seem like a good person now but I can never trust her again.

[quote author=yomi007k post=88417826]The question i want to ask Op is;
1. Where were your parents during this event?
2. What sort of job did your do at that time? Do you know if she was having some problems of her own?

Atleast you should be grateful she took you to the hospital? Did she foot the bill too?

Just try and forgive them. Life is not easy. Im sure you know that by now.



Hmmm, I hope u don't support wickedness? 4 two weeks u left someone under ur roof in d hospital without words to him chai.............hmmm
God help us

Lost tens of millions because I chose to financially help a friend. Yet to recover till this day. Crashed from over ten million to less than 100k






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Jaysleeves:
I was betrayed at work by my superior and it cost me my job, there's a document called P.T.W. " Permit to work document ". It's a written legal document that grant permission and authorization to commence a task. Usually high risk task, my immediate boss and i are both signatories to that document, i.e. I have to sign and my immediate boss as well. I did my part. Inspect work areas, got authorized by the PM and only needed my direct boss to sign to commence operation. I called him on radio as I was on the site. I.e an high rise tower of 34 floors and we were on the 34th level, My boss gave me a verbal permission to tell the guys to commence work even without him signing the permit. I was adamant and reluctant saying it's was against ethical practice, but he insisted that there isn't any problem. So I gave the go ahead only to be called that the companies "HSE Manger" is on site and on her way to supervise our activity, I was worried but not bothered as I was only following instructions from senior supervisor beside he is to take the blame. How wrong was I, to my uttermost surprise my boss denied me and claim he wasn't even aware of the designated task. I was shocked, I couldn't even say a word other workers came to my aid and said he was lying but all fell on deaf ears. This is a man I trusted so much as I have never in my life thought that this man can do such, my appointment was terminated for incompetency. It's painful but I have forgiven him. My only mistake was TRUST.

I am guessing your job entails working at height and using a harness.

So what sort of job was it? Scaffolding, Insulation etc?

But this is not betraying nah.
This is a no love and care attitude.

bestabigaelever:
An enemy disguise as friend asked me about someone personal, I opened up to her
I never knew she was recording, she went to tell the person and told the person what I didn't say, telling him she couldn't record all the conversations....that shit changed my life forever
I can't heal from that but I will make sure I destroy temitope

dont do dat leave the rest to the Creator to judge

lyriclekidd:


Ehn ehn and so what?? So because motor kill person make the remaining people no enter motor again?? You no like person and another person see am like am. Worst is if you're still single..

OK.

Eulalia:


You dont get it...this is my my blood line!!!!! My other half!!!!
So I should not visit my sis again?
For your Info, I don't like the guy from here to there.

Now, I could remember when similar thing happened but in reverse this time.

I was crushing on one guy then. So along the line, this guy went for her. The day I discovered, he was interested in her, I zeroed my mind immediately and tried to avoid him like a plague. That is...the feelings just died cos I hate nonsense . Even the day she asked me to accompany her there, I didn't want to. She had to force me.

if i was you. I wont ever go there. What if he rapes or frames you up onto unfinished business

there was this lady I met when she came for post utme in my school, we exchange line and we started dating along the line, I helped her with her admission but after she gained admission her parents divorce during that period and her dad pay no attention to her and her siblings again, their mom too wasn't financially buoyant.


she was at the edge of losing the admission but as a committed lover I tried all could to rescue her from the admission but all efforts to no avail, so I used my 400l tuition fee for her since my sch don't disturb for tuition fee until during final clearance, I risk it but this bitch had to played me out, she was double dating with me after she resumed, she was pregnant for the guy before she could even tell me that she can't move on with me again


I was traumatized, I felt used, deceived and ridicule after her friends told me she was pregnant and her traditional marriage was days ahead. it was a sad experience since then I change my principles of choosing



my advice for men, don't attempt to marry a lady from a broken home, they're always emotionally and psychologically traumatize forever

seanwilliam:
Hhmm, dont know If we can call this betrayal sha.
Well my first salary ever after I finished my ND, was handed over to my sister.. as in she was in financial mess, so I had to lend her the WHOLE FIRST SALARY.. she swear and promised to return it the following month... it is not that I had enough when I lent her , but I could not stand the shame and mess she was facing..

My people, she didnt pay this money back oo, after 6 month , my dad later roughly settle the money ... I couldn't do what I wanted with the money on time and that made me lose some opportunities..that thing pain me gan... as in my first salary oo..
I love her though but i can never do that again for anybody no matter how close except my mum( the reason I fit do that for my mum self was because of what she did some years back.. she sold her land to save me from ' SHAME and STIGMA ').


.

Second one was when I dey school, I invited a girl from oou, and I don follow my guyman reason say I go use him room ooo.. the girl don reach park, na him my guy travel go lagos.. he later told me he had something urgent to attend to.. mehn I just weak


Another was the day I booked hotel , waiting for one girl like dis.. as in I wait wait wait, I don drink action bitter tire.. she tell me say she don dey road oo and true true I could hear noises in the background.. my people gbam, naso her phone offf( maybe she did that intentionally) .. oboy , I tried mastubating, cum no come atall .. I was disappointed and curse her and the cum...

Last I could remember was still when I dey school, my roommate don already told me say e don cook ( we had nothing to eat, I was having lecture that morning and he was at home).. I asked him where he got money and he said he go tell me later.. bros , come see as I dey shine teeth for class..

Well when i reach house, he don go school base on say na afternoon lecture he get..oboy na so I meet him friend for house( that my room mate had a friend who no dey go class , I no no how he take graduate ).. and I know the kind of person this guy is oo, he no dey shame for food.. when I greet am, na the pot my mind go straight... haha.


Las las I was right .. I open the pot and alas...
....

Clown

sammyscholar:
Sister, you can always recover: with God. No lost opportunity is too big for God to recover for you. And, please, forgive Temitope, for vengeance belongs to Almighty God. Let God take charge of everything, and, with patience, you will see the move of His hands.

Things can be fine again, sister!

You saying it like it's easy....I'm not a sister ooo
are you a pastor?

Lamanii22:




Right. I met a guy at a wedding ceremony, It was an elite wedding but I was there to serve food to the guests there. When I was washing the plates, there was this guy that came to me to ask for fork unknowing to me that he was the groom's brother... What a cute guy lol! So I gave him...



He asked for my number he said I was really nice, so I gave it to him, we got talking, he said he's got cousins around where I live and that he'd come check Me whenever he comes...


He fulfilled his promise, he started coming to my house with lots of gifts, he was nice, a perfect gentleman I must say... He asked me out properly, I was 18 at that time, still very shy, I was still trying to do shakara I didn't want to be cheap and all...


Unknowing to me that my step sister that's younger than me had fallen for the guy, she had already started visiting the guy at his house... There was this day he invited me over to his cousin's I asked my sister to follow me, when we got there, we were gisting and all, then my sister said she was coming, few minutes later he said he was coming too they went outside, I was left alone so I went outside too and I caught them kissing....


I felt betrayed, I was hurt... I agree with what you said "never introduce your friend/sister to you man either ex, present&future"


That pain really hit different.... I have forgiven though... She seem like a good person now but I can never trust her again.

Do you agree that the guy in question played a part in the betrayal? You should be grateful he no use your congo shine. He came for the cookies and nothing long term fortunately your sister was first to offer.

Let your sister be abeg.

donnie:
Many times, but the most recent on my mind is when I left CE church last year. I later declared that I wasn't a Christian on Facebook because of some posts I made which were true but which Christians didn't like.

Of course many insulted and even called me false prophet. What shocked me was even those close to me, I found making snide remarks and calling me end time false Prophet. Even more stupid was one guy who's life I had turned around by YAH's grace. He was jumping around my timeline making stupid comments. I introduced him to someone who gave him almost all his major engineering jobs. He even lived in one of the man's houses for free, got married and had a child right in that house. I gave him jobs to do and still had more waiting for him. Well that was it, I had to change him. I even found someone so good that it made this fool look like an apprentice. Christianity actually makes many people stupid.

The truth is if you place much expectation in the present Church, you will be greatly disappointed. Rather our expectations should be Christ Jesus.
In addition what kind of Engineering job are you referring to?

ednut1:
if i was you. I wont ever go there. What if he rapes or frames you up onto unfinished business

Like I said, I hide away from him most times. And sometimes when he calls me to come close for a discussion, I just bone him.

He doesn't even have my active number. Gave him a fake one and warned my sis not to give him.
Though I was shocked when he called during this lock down and said the son wants to talk with me. Guess he collected number from her recently with excuse of this lockdown. ** yinmu*

well,
mine was wen I was in Benin
I ran laundry and to some extent it was successful. I had 3boys working for me . I had a keke which I use in delivering to my customer who re in far distance. then I had a friend who told me about a business which he ll like use to go into. the business was into phone accessories coupled with phone parts. I agreed, I rented the shop at oba market, did furnishing and other body works. during this time I borrowed money from lapo microfinance 300k, borrowed money from money lender about 580k. then I gave osas my friend to come to Lagos to buy the goods we re going to sell in our shop. osas come Lagos, osas no come back. I was so worried I had to go to his family house to know if his back but they said they didn't see him. I called his number and his number was switched off. call his gf and she said she doesn't know his were about. after a month I heard osas don go Malaysia. I ran back to his family house to ask his pple if it true. low and behold osas don travel and he knew I borrowed almost all those money for the business. I almost died. the pressure started coming in as to pay the loans I collected back. I had to sell my two washing machine, my dryer, and my keke and other tins from my shop and house to pay some of the debt. I had to let go of my two staff till I cud pay the money. but after every tin I found Benin uninteresting again cus I Ve lost every tin I Ve built over the years because of one person. I had to move from my room and palour selfcon to a one room, face me I face you, cus I cudnt afford it. my gf left me cus I too de complain money no de as b4. after the whole gbas gbos I relocated to Lagos for a fresh start as not kill my self cus of too much tinking and pressure. till today I pray for osas were ever he is, he ll find good in all he does. but I ll never trust any body again not even my family member. note trust is very expensive