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Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by 4ckz: 10:19am On Apr 14, 2020 |
QuinModah: I am sorry for what you went through, but the truth is, there is no betrayal in here. Non whatsoever! You just expected care from your supposed loved ones and they didn't act the way you expected. Do not confuse this for betrayal. 7 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by surgical: 10:19am On Apr 14, 2020 |
IyaTola:They will tell them from CDA who to vote for after they've been compromised Until Nigerians becomes educated voters,there can not be good governance 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by chiefoboh1(m): 10:20am On Apr 14, 2020 |
yomi007k:I hope u don't support wickedness o? 4 someone under ur roof u left him in d hospital 4 two weeks without words , I wonder if her mind was at rest all those 2weeks knowing fully well that someone in ur care is at d hospital 9 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by meneski(m): 10:20am On Apr 14, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by DonroxyII: 10:21am On Apr 14, 2020 |
QuinModah:Word of the Day, Nay! Word of the week. 2020 resolution !! |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by medolab90(m): 10:21am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Betrayal can come in any form but most times I don't take it as betrayal cos I might do the same especially if it is money issue. I never try to expect so much from people and I don't think anyone owe me anything. What ever comes in the other way around I just take it and move on cos pple would always do things that hurt you. And again don't borrow out what you know would hurt you if the person doesn't pay back. Just give out what you can't hurt too much. Same reason when I ask pple for financial help and they can't give out up to what I expect I don't feel bad about it cos I might do the same. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Noloss(f): 10:23am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Hmmm, where do I even start from. I was 7months pregnant in 2011 when my husband lost his banking Job. He decided not to tell his mum(FIL is late) so she wouldn't be devastated because he's being supporting the family as the firstborn. Few weeks after, MIL called to request for money, hubby declined for the first time and was forced to tell her that he lost his job. You know what, MIL did not call again till the following year April(close to 9months after, not even when I put to bed and we informed her) to ask how we've been faring. I can't even count many sacrifices we've made for her and the family. Our house was always full when things were rosy. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by MrMacinterchi1: 10:23am On Apr 14, 2020 |
bestabigaelever:o di egwu |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by bestabigaelever(f): 10:23am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Eberechi24:I never gossip sis If it was something I said, I would have see it coming I would have deserved it but sis my life is practically destroyed and I DON'T deserve that I'm a good person 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by MrMacinterchi1: 10:23am On Apr 14, 2020 |
bestabigaelever: o di egwu 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Holamilekan97(m): 10:23am On Apr 14, 2020 |
rapid101: Damnnn ![]() ![]() 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by rapid101(m): 10:25am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Holamilekan97:bro is not easy I swear coupled wit dis lockdown. god de sha 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Nobody: 10:27am On Apr 14, 2020 |
CoronaVirusPro:hahahahhahahahahaha. U must be joking. Is this wat u were asked to write about? 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by CsRockefeller(m): 10:27am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Lol. Have u guys seen how they feed Lions in a cage? You stand at arms length and throw the meat. That's what I do, I help people but try my best not to get too close to them, that way, they dont get too close to me, that way, they dont hurt me. If u think people wont hurt u in is life where God's son suffered humiliation and then death, then u are joking. What you can do is to prevent the hurt from occuring frequently like I illustrated with feeding the Lion. Lest I forget, people will only remember when they need help, dont get mad, help if u can but keep it mind that 80% of people you help wouldn't help you in time of ur need. Reason is another topic for another day. Kapish!! 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Nobody: 10:27am On Apr 14, 2020 |
I assisted a lot of people financially and otherwise...I'm naturally EMPATHETIC and a cheerful giver... i touched and blessed souls UNCONDITIONALLY with my talents (I'm a gifted artist/artiste) by grooming up folks ; young, old, known, unknown, irrespective of creed, colour or race... Few years down the line, tides turned against me, I fell seriously ill and my business crumbled, the people I helped are doing fine but they turned a blind eye to my plight..... I beckoned on some of them for help but they TACTICALLY declined....I slipped into depression, saw life from a traumatic angle, wept like a toddler and one constant question that won't stop ringing in my head is "NA ME BE THIS?.... but I'll be fine, God willing, I wish I NEVER MET THESE PEOPLE. # life lessons 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Nobody: 10:28am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Being betrayed several times by my younger bro we did a joint online business, he deleted d records, did a binary biz with him he was just collecting money frm me without proof, got in security issues because of him, another paining aspect of it all d guy is a loan freak, borrowed a huge amount of loans placed me as next of kin d money i was meant to use to sort out accommodation was cleared frm my acct by the people he was owning the loan. I personally told myself i'm nt gonna trust my family members again, till now i can't trust him, i rather trust a stranger that my family 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Holamilekan97(m): 10:28am On Apr 14, 2020 |
rapid101: Ọmọ Dis shiiii sucks asf. I would have loved to do something broda. But this lockdown shiiii get as e be ajé. You fit drop me your WhatsApp digit nothing wey no fit happen overnight ![]() 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Saintinoo(m): 10:28am On Apr 14, 2020 |
QuinModah:That was not betrayal, they didn't owe you a visit.... Just that they didn't act as expected. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by IghravweIG(m): 10:30am On Apr 14, 2020 |
zionmde:Something like this happened to me too. Nigga was my roommate back in service year, we were so close like brothers. So a year after youth service, things were so hard, I didnt have a job and I was so broke to the extent i couldn't even afford a 100naira to recharge my line. I can't count the favors I have done this gee while we were together in service year meh. Abi na when I give am 5k make him take travel to lagos? He actually asked to borrow the money so I gave him but between God and man when he came back, I never for once made mention of him giving me back to money and many others I can't remember. Being that I really don't like asking people for stuffs, I had to gather mind and call him one day and told him my situation and that even if it was recharge card sef he should send me becos he was already working then. Dude said i should call some minutes later abi na hour, I don forget sef. I did call him back about thrice or so but he did not pick and he never did call me back till this day. Meh, I was so pained to say to least. As in, the thing pain me to my bone marrow, becos I became depressed for some days sef. But we thank God for life. 12 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by ypeace: 10:31am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Pascopele: I must use this opportunity to commend dagr8, my nairaland friend, who is now dead. I lent him some money and he returned it as promised few days before he passed away. May his soul rest in peace 38 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Ogaonos: 10:31am On Apr 14, 2020 |
ubcandid:wat are u saying.if he was passing through challenge he for let him friend knw DT he side get as e b.but promise go call back Nd refuse to pick e call like one lady did me Wen I was looking for funds for my dad burials. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Briller: 10:31am On Apr 14, 2020 |
yomi007k: It's very difficult to deal with such level of betrayal. I mean, the OP was in a life,-threatening situation and not even a visit. Even if you were having your own personal problems and couldn't pay the patient a visit, the children would have stood in for her. If not for anything, to bring meals once in a while. My conclusion is that probably the OP doesn't mix well in the society. I used to be like that at the circular sphere but family is key for me. So I really round family members cause I know I need them last last. However, the OP's stand on existing as if alone is wrong. This is when he needs to network. If a Christian, team up with groups in your local church. They act as a support group in such situations. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Ayo25: 10:33am On Apr 14, 2020 |
SteveOfu:If you will not help anyone, you too will not get help na. Nobody has the monopoly of helping others. 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Briller: 10:33am On Apr 14, 2020 |
ubcandid: Then the onus was on him (as a friend turned brother) to let the other party know. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Sniper101(m): 10:33am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Well, other than the usual "relationship betrayals" I don't think I've had any other kind of betrayal that really got to me. |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by MrSly(m): 10:34am On Apr 14, 2020 |
yomi007k:The above question didn't add up. They were aware that she had such problem. Even if she had her own challenges too she should have explained to her niece knowing her condition. This is pure wickedness just just betrayal. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by MRAKBEE(m): 10:35am On Apr 14, 2020 |
rapid101:Its well bro. You will be restored. |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Eberechi24(f): 10:35am On Apr 14, 2020 |
bestabigaelever: Just learn to place value on information. Don't let it out easily especially if the source is alive. When next you meet a detective aka gossip, direct her to the doorstep of right source(original owner of the story) That friend you gave her bio don't deserve that. She deserved better either. Your comrade added oil and maggi to the story you gave her because you gave her the leverage. Remain a good person and stay safe 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by madridguy(m): 10:35am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Sister, first i want you to know that only God Almighty gives and take life. I know how its feels to lost a love ones. Because of family issue i would have say some things here. I will conclude that our late fathers face same fate before they passed away. In few days will make exact a year my dad passed away, at first i felt exactly like you but later erase everything on mind and put all trust on God. Take heart sister. humblemikel: 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by Jaysleeves(m): 10:36am On Apr 14, 2020 |
WUdec:Yes work at height, but not on scaffolding. Task entails removal of monorails and external trusses with aid of a tower crane. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by mukthar2000(m): 10:37am On Apr 14, 2020 |
When my blood best childhood friend that we both went to the same primary ,secondary and high institution gave my future partnered to his neighbor guy becos of money during our secondary days. But thanks Almighty God, I have my own wife, but married to another girl and kids and also had his own families too and we still maintain our friendship till now.But very very painful the way the betrayed me then to affecte my education. |
Re: Have You Been Betrayed Before? Share Your Story, You Might Heal by okrikaboi: 10:37am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Guy I finally go the class o we write test sef. I been wan write for you but I forget your mat number. You know how the pressure dey be na? Me: (smokes my Marley kush with transparent rizzla) We adapt we move 7 Likes |
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