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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Angelfrost(m): 11:38am On Apr 14, 2020

Honestly, I don't even know what the big deal is... Is it that she has no way to get back to where she came from, or this is more than mere cohabitation??!

Sigh... So, you were man enough to open your house, and I'm sure your bed and her pants, for a chick, but no longer man enough to send her on her merry way!!! Mr. Op, your are not yet man enough to be in a sexual or mature relationship... The same goes for that leeching dullard of a lady!!!

Any way, you have not really had enough... Not by a long shot... When you truly and fully wreck, One of 2 things will certainly happen: Either the hunger that will reign supreme in your house chases her dumb ass out, or it resets your brain, compels you to grow a pair, and man up to show her the damn door!!!

When we say relationships, especially emotional ones, are not for kids, you people will say we are being condescending... Just negodu people forming couple, doing things their parents never tried!!! grin

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by PaAdu02(m): 11:38am On Apr 14, 2020

Since u don't even see a future with her, my brother ,don't mind how or whos ox is gored,tell her u need ur privacy.I understand the part u wish she can come and go,obviously, after few days u will miss her, not her soul really, the sex.The prob is that she's likewise a fool,a lady ,a wise one must know when the ovation is loudest

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by AmKen(m): 11:38am On Apr 14, 2020

dairykidd:

Bro we are going thru the exact same things.. I'm tired of the sex and the burden too. I cherish my private time in prayers when things are getting out of hand but this girl no dey let me focus.. So i have stopped touching her and this morning she complained. Because she went searching for apartment and was staying at her friends place which is closer to the location since Sunday. She came last night i just ignore her n now she no let me know peace. That i don't miss her, i have been carrying other girls.. I just told her this morning no more sex for the next 7 days and i do pray whether she's around or not. Lemme see how she will cope because me done taya honestly.... mind u this babe no mind everyday fvcking and I'm not talking 10 mins ooo real one where she would cum multiple times otherwise i no go rest.. I feel used and tired

Just try the no sex thing but do not fight with her... My own go soon leave my neck.. I'm only just leaving her because she dey search for apartment too and some of her things are here.

Congrats for your new roomie.

E go shock you she wont wanna leave.

Las las she will be collect d outside while you feed her.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Beress(m): 11:39am On Apr 14, 2020

Ladylite:

LOL... E pain am

U're a damsel

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Westernlove: 11:40am On Apr 14, 2020

Ladylite:

Hypocrite, You have smashed her finish then you are now bored.

I don't think you will ever have sense again In this life. How many times will I correct you to change this your backward mentality hun. You are too stoopid for my liking. I Hate stoopid people....

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by mrpaedo(m): 11:40am On Apr 14, 2020

Martinez39s:
You are a weak man just like many men of this generation. A lady is in your house, she is draining you in your house, and she is also dragging the remote from you and changing TV channels against your will in your house What exactly is stopping you or making it hard to send her away? You are too weak jare.

Men have a soft spot for women & are highly considerate towards them.Consideration wey women no send men at all grin

Infact if it were the OP staying in the house of the lady,she would have thrown him out of her house a loooong time ago cool

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Joshforeal: 11:41am On Apr 14, 2020

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

. Seems like the only person who needs this information is the one you refused to give the information. Use your medulla Sir. Peace

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by ngwababe(f): 11:41am On Apr 14, 2020

jawalis:
What kind of men is this generation breeding. Fools and weaklers? you are here seeking public opinion on how to send a b!tch away in your own house. Is that funny?
Fiustly; did you seeked advice when she came in and everything was rosy? When you guys was having fun and everything seems to be good. Did you asked for public opinion?
Secondly: what exactly is your relationship with her. Cos your message is not detailed.
And lastly: you need to man up and start taking responsibilities for your actions. If you had not allowed her in the first place. She wouldn’t have been comfortable to the extent of staying for days till you are exhausted. My advise is to sit her ass down and air it to her. There’s no point in putting a pretentious act just to pass your message. Be straight and blunt enough while telling her. So she knows you aren’t whatever she’s taking you for. (Mumu). She just wanna pass the lockdown expenses on you. So do not be a victim. !

You must not call a lady "bitch", that's too bad. Please be gentle with your words.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 14, 2020

BabaJoe001:

It's not the women. The problem is you. How on earth do you reason? You are very senseless. Why would a Guy invites a woman in the first place when he knows he love his privacy. And the fool is even saying he loves to pray . And having sex at the same time ? You all have seen sex before marriage as a normally thing that's why you don't think anymore. And am very sure the idiot is deceiving the lady he is going to marry her. Because if it's just parol things and the lady is aware it will be easy to tell her to go. But because he is deceiving her it's difficult to tell her to go. So you Mr defender it is you and the OP that is very foolish. Am a Guy in case you want to open that your dirty mouth. Ode!!

Upon all the grammar You still mumu pass Bros weh dey complain about babe ...

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by ngwababe(f): 11:42am On Apr 14, 2020

But there's no movement na? grin

Bros, free babe until the lockdown is over biko. Na wetin you cause, endure cheesy

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Joshforeal: 11:42am On Apr 14, 2020

Ladylite:

Hypocrite, you have smashed her finish then you are now bored.

Let me smash. I promise I won't be bored.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by cray91(m): 11:43am On Apr 14, 2020

You Damn Right

Ladylite:

Hypocrite, you have smashed her finish then you are now bored.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by priscaoge(f): 11:43am On Apr 14, 2020

Iranian:

You need your privacy... Simple! Don’t drag religion in it for empathy..

Lastly I don’t think You own your own balls Bruh.. The lady seems Manly enough than You

He just want to paint the girl evil, like she's the reason why he stopped praying. Did the girl force herself on him or into the house? Trying to gather sympathy with flimsy excuses undecided

It's clear he doesn't love the girl or want to be committed to her. He's not with the girl for actual dating either. He should stop leading her on, simple

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by safarigirl(f): 11:43am On Apr 14, 2020

Why won't you have spiritual problems, when you pray to God after your fornication sessions? You think God is a joke?

Nonsense, enjoy your fornication quarantine

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by jahlove4jah: 11:43am On Apr 14, 2020

Is she aware that you are not seeing future with her? This question is important so that you don't waste her time assuming she is seeing future with you. Secondly since you don't see her in your future, just speak up instead of dying in silence.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by mike272(m): 11:44am On Apr 14, 2020

just so funny how this guy prays wholeheartedly and seems passionate about it, yet he is smarching and housing an unmarried girl. Inside this life

...God will help us.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by cray91(m): 11:44am On Apr 14, 2020

mofeoluwadassah:
so Lol I Wonder ooo we should come and help you send her away ba...are we a joke to you

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by fatymore(f): 11:44am On Apr 14, 2020

Biingoo:
Come visit me na make we do our own lockdown

Mind you, I'm based abroad

You really be bingo aswear tongue

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by joepepsy(m): 11:45am On Apr 14, 2020

You want to pray and Bleep thesame time..hypocrite.

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by josh1998(m): 11:46am On Apr 14, 2020

Just leave prayer out of this

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by vaca1: 11:47am On Apr 14, 2020

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

Don't mind those condemning. As I grow everyday, I've become bold and better.

Just tell her the situation of things right now. Not like she's homeless.

C'mon, take control of your situation and not the situation controlling you.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Nobody: 11:47am On Apr 14, 2020

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours.

Nothing is new under the sun. Deal with the issue as you deem fit. But consider the aftermath so that you don't live with guilts/regrets (like me) later.

And, are you sure the current movement restriction is not contributing to her stay?

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by jawalis(m): 11:47am On Apr 14, 2020

ngwababe:

You must not call a lady "bitch", that's too bad. Please be gentle with your words.

And must you quote me? I chose my preference of words and I do not need your opinion on it.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Adeebiwa09(m): 11:47am On Apr 14, 2020

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

Sorry I'm curious about something, are you having sex with her if you are then I am surprised you could he talking about praying to God. That's absurd.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by walexy06(m): 11:47am On Apr 14, 2020

MadeBoy:
I don't like anybody listening my prayers not even my family members. I have not been praying since she came and the first time this year I miss church service.

How can you pray when u Dey get steady undiluted puna? You think you are doing me. You no fit job God now.
I Dey zero prayer once I know say I Dey do bad bad thing

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Martinez39s(m): 11:48am On Apr 14, 2020

mrpaedo:

Men have a soft spot for women & are highly considerate towards them.Consideration wey women no send men at all
Infact if it were the OP staying in the house of the lady,she would have thrown him out of her house a loooong time ago

You've said it all. The girl can even throw him out just for saying something she doesn't like, or if her more precious fuçk buddy is coming over. cheesy

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 14, 2020

I send my girl home before lockdown thank God

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by cray91(m): 11:50am On Apr 14, 2020

bonnyhope:

lol abiooo
Pussy don tire dis one

Na fever go catch u nxt

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by AlphaT1(m): 11:50am On Apr 14, 2020

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

Are you praying to Amadioha or Ogun? If na Almighty God then na only prayer of repentance/mercy/forgiveness go pass ceiling/roof now...if not na vain words you d utter....

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by walexy06(m): 11:50am On Apr 14, 2020

The wise man once said "He who know how to invite a lady over to spend days should also know how to tell her to leave"...
Take it or leave it, don't subscribe your DStV, go disconnect ur light... Let everywhere be boring.

Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Yungmil: 11:51am On Apr 14, 2020

walexy06:

How can you pray when u Dey get steady undiluted puna? You think you are doing me. You no fit job God now.
I Dey zero prayer once I know say I Dey do bad bad thing

my guy u are wise, u can't deceive God. Btw I thought we are in isolation, why all the visitors?

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by AmKen(m): 11:52am On Apr 14, 2020

mofeoluwadassah:
advice for more knacking abi

I feel his plight but he also brought it upon himself.

How hard is it to tell someone to leave your house?

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