My fellow nairalanders I greet the house ohh,am a graduate jobless but am not searching for a job because i have a place in the family business which am occupying.I said am jobbless because I don't earn a salary but am not poor because am a hustler and i take good care of myself,please I have this girlfriend and we started dating late December last year 2019,she keeps telling me she doesn't care about my money because am just starting life but she asked me to change her phone the first week we started dating which I vehemently refused,last week she asked me if I was going to marry her but I told her I can't promise anyone marriage that I don't do that moreover am not ready because am still in my father's house,her attitude changed a little bit and she started telling about random guys who promised her heaven on earth,meanwhile we have been taking care of each other since this lockdown/isolation period because she stays with her parents close to my house so she really keeps me company since my family traveled.
Sometimes I take her out buy her I surrender chicken (roasted chicken)cake,ice cream etc despite the lockdown I still manage to give her money in case she wants to eat something outside so she can buy whatever she wants.On Saturday she said I should give her money to make her nails which I did despite the rumours of the lockdown extension then on Sunday(easter) she told me she felt like going out and I told her am not interested then she said she wants to lick ice cream then I told her I don't have money for that and she kept her cool,she met me in a restaurant where I called her to meet me while eating dinner that evening and she ordered a drink she couldn't finish and then she asked me to finish it but I refused she even tried to force me by putting it in my mouth but i rejected it this pissed me off because she told me she had taken several drinks at home that day so maybe she just wants me to spend money,this morning I called her to come over and we had breakfast together then she said she wants to drink malt and milk I told her she should learn how to manage because we don't know when our normal lives will resume,this is our third week at home or is it because i tell her am broke and then i will take her out to flex?please I don't know what's up with her attitude although she washed my bedsheets and pillow cases this morning moreover she's very hot.
NB:When the going was good sometimes we spent the weekend in a hotel with all the bills on me and i do send her money when she was in school before this coro baby issue.
Please I need your advice.

Dump her ass bro, if you have to pay for sex go to a brothel

Anybody that gives you any advice contrary to dumping that bitch doesn't mean well for you.

Also, if you've still got more money to spare, please share some Nairalanders here. People are hungry.
Leave The Bitch And Save The Poor

Well, sit her down again and talk this over... And my brother, please minimize your spending biko!
I am not saying you should be stingy to yourself re your gal but please conserve a lil bit

Give her d matching order

dawnomike:
Well, sit her down again and talk this over... And my brother, please minimize your spending biko!
I am not saying you should be stingy to yourself re your gal but please conserve a lil bit

There's nothing to talk over with her. Ditch The B*tch!!!
Any girl that keeps comparing you to with other guys mean no good for you.
The earlier you leave her, the richer you become

Go straight to the point please

"Moreover, she's hot "bruv, it's obvious you've been pussyy-whipped. That lady is using you to satisfy her financial needs. I wont ask you to dump her , at the same time you should take dz moment to reflect on ur life. God-forbid if you go broke and u cant spend on her anymore, would she still stay with you? Think about that.

P.S: beards don't make a man, his ability to be firm and disciplined does

Bro make a decision.

ONLY PREGNANT WOMEN HAVE RIGHTS TO MAKE CHOICES, SELECTIONS.

Well...

Needless mincing words...
You're simply an !d!ot.

DonBenny77:
Dump her ass bro, if you have to pay for sex go to a brothel

He needn't go to a brothel. There are good girls out there who mean well for guys and understand that even roses have thorns.
They are hard to find but keep trying.
Once you get one, don't waste time to exert your dominance and train her to your type. It will be tough but finally, it will be a win win situation

when she told u she's not into ur money u go happy thinking she the one not knowing she wont be ur last. she dey play u with irony.. if she write book she go don collect award for use of suspense. shes good at it. if u like ur self fly, jump or run from the relationship as fast as u can

you are wasting your marriage investment on dating.
you may not have to understand.

mofeoluwadassah:
Go straight to the point please

if you can't see the point then keep quiet so that those who can see the point can talk!

Gideoniteprime4:
if you can't see the point then keep quiet so that those who can see the point can talk!

welcome...we’ve seen you

mofeoluwadassah:
Go straight to the point please

are there restaurants that are open for biz during lockdown? becoz it seems like op fab this his love story

mofeoluwadassah:
welcome...we’ve seen you

Speak for yourself!
#dumba$$

biko how much is roasted chicken?
how much is ice cream?
for u to be even mentioning that u buying icecream and roasted chicken for your gf means its a big deal to u
and for your girlfriend to make it a big deal when u dont see money to buy junk food for her means she has a lot of growing up to do
Stop dating jambitos and secondary school girls about to write waec and neco
but una no go hear
always arguing that smallies are the easiest to nurture than the older ones
so nurture her and keep buying chocolates and fried chicken for her since na fried chicken be una ultimate in life

This one no go allow you get savings oo... You wey just start your life...

Sojiboi:
My fellow nairalanders I greet the house ohh,am a graduate jobless but am not searching for a job because i have a place in the family business which am occupying.I said am jobbless because I don't earn a salary but am not poor because am a hustler and i take good care of myself,please I have this girlfriend and we started dating late December last year 2019,she keeps telling me she doesn't care about my money because am just starting life but she asked me to change her phone the first week we started dating which I vehemently refused,last week she asked me if I was going to marry her but I told her I can't promise anyone marriage that I don't do that moreover am not ready because am still in my father's house,her attitude changed a little bit and she started telling about random guys who promised her heaven on earth,meanwhile we have been taking care of each other since this lockdown/isolation period because she stays with her parents close to my house so she really keeps me company since my family traveled.
Sometimes I take her out buy her I surrender chicken (roasted chicken)cake,ice cream etc despite the lockdown I still manage to give her money in case she wants to eat something outside so she can buy whatever she wants.On Saturday she said I should give her money to make her nails which I did despite the rumours of the lockdown extension then on Sunday(easter) she told me she felt like going out and I told her am not interested then she said she wants to lick ice cream then I told her I don't have money for that and she kept her cool,she met me in a restaurant where I called her to meet me while eating dinner that evening and she ordered a drink she couldn't finish and then she asked me to finish it but I refused she even tried to force me by putting it in my mouth but i rejected it this pissed me off because she told me she had taken several drinks at home that day so maybe she just wants me to spend money,this morning I called her to come over and we had breakfast together then she said she wants to drink malt and milk I told her she should learn how to manage because we don't know when our normal lives will resume,this is our third week at home or is it because i tell her am broke and then i will take her out to flex?please I don't know what's up with her attitude although she washed my bedsheets and pillow cases this morning moreover she's very hot.
NB:When the going was good sometimes we spent the weekend in a hotel with all the bills on me and i do send her money when she was in school before this coro baby issue.
Please I need your advice.

Listen to your stupid self.. You brought this upon yourself..

There's nothing wrong with her. It's you that has a problem. If a girl you can't maintain is your priority then take whatever comes with it. In this harsh period you haven't yet been able to survive well but you feel a girl must join in your suffering because you feel love must be above all abi? Or you are the one stupidly in love but expect to keep her without been able to provide for the things she wants? While some girls are greedy, a man must first be able to provide certain basic things for his woman. These basic tungs are relative based on individuals. Thes things you are struggling to give her some men will and they will say she doesn't take anything from her. So whether she's greddy or not you should first work on yourself before carrying woman.

How do you guys cope in a relationship where you are the only one footing the bills? Please learn to turn down her requests and see her true colors

i need sumone to be eating my money like dis