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Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by tk4rd: 8:17pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
The final decisions of any man is being influenced most of the time by the opinions of the women in his life. At every stage in life, the order of importance of the opinions of these women vary a lot. With this topic, I tried to pinpoint these stages in a man's life and the order of importance of the opinions of these women in his life. .. 1. Long Before Marriage. a. Mother b. Sisters c. Girlfriends .. 2. Close To Marriage. a. Mother b. Fiancée c. Sisters .. 3. Immediately Into The Marriage a. Wife b. Mother c. Sisters .. 4. When The Children Are All Grown a. Wife b. Daughters c. Mother ... ... 5. Randy Husband a. Wife b. Girlfriend c. Mother .. 6. Crazy Husband a. Girlfriend(s). ... Ok.. This now brings me to the argument about why mothers have a very big opinion in the choosing of life-partners of their sons. .. Assuming that it was a decision that would affect the man alone such as business, place of work, investments, projects and so on, he has the liberty Not to involve anybody, nor seek anybody's opinion, and nobody would say anything about it. .. But in the case of choosing a life partner, the man's family will definitely be involved. Both families will be involved. Kindreds are involved too. The man in an attempt to carry his family along, would go to seek his father's opinion. His father would then discuss with his own wife and his other grown children (that is, the man's mother and brothers and sisters). After that, the man's mother (wife of the man's father) who now knows what the problem of the son is, would now make out time to talk to him in a language he would understand better, which includes knowing more about the lady in question, and having her invited over at the house once or twice for series of one-on-one interactions with her. And trust me, if the fiancée had not done her homework well, and it happens that the man's mother doesn't like what she sees in the lady, the mother can easily talk her son out of it, and the fiancée's opinion cannot do much at this point because the man's father will support his own wife (the man's mother), and the man in question wouldn't want to be against his father. .. Meanwhile, a woman's family can also reject a man they don't like too., but there must be strong reasons for that to happen. If a woman's family happens to reject a suitor and the woman went ahead to bring him home, they would reject the bride price openly, and there would not be any marriage rites performed again. This particular topic about women would be discussed another day anyway. I am more interested in the men for now. 53 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Tpave(m): 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Hmmm 4 Likes |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by tk4rd: 8:19pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Tpave:Wetin dey smell u over there?? Abi I lie?? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Tpave(m): 8:20pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
tk4rd:Wey men own nah? Abi we too no dey important? 2 Likes |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by ojun50(m): 8:22pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by tk4rd: 8:23pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Tpave:Let's finish eating rice first before we start eating swallow.. Or abi u wan great the thread already? Then tag my moniker when you do. |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by tk4rd: 8:24pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
ojun50:Why did you say so? |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by ojun50(m): 8:27pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
tk4rd:Order of importance of the women in a man's life 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by tk4rd: 8:35pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
ojun50:What I wrote is the truth naa.. Or abi you no read am? 5 Likes |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by BluntNigerian: 10:41am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Hmmmmm.. |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by PureGoldh(m): 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by mofeoluwadassah: 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by NOETHNICITY(m): 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
I know that most of the weak gutlless guys on NL will coming here and be pretending that thier mothers are important to them, whereas in real life most of them are pussiesss 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by ozoebuka1(m): 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by NaijadrivaCars: 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
To most Mommy's boys/HALFMEN, it is one stage all their lives: a. Mother b. Sisters c. Girlfriends/wives And their moms be like... 74 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Digitiminimi: 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Nnemuka(f): 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by missimelda01(f): 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
True to an extent. It still bothers me how a mother can reject a lady her son has spent time knowing, does it mean that she doesn't trust his judgement or something. Obi is gonna be a man someday and would need a mind of his own, women should know where to draw the line. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Nobody: 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
ojun50:since 1900 1 Like |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Miracle4Sure: 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by visijo(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by etrange: 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
It is not by labels. You don't automatically assume the position of "most important" simply because you happened to be the mum or the wife. The man places you in your position based on where you place him in your own life.... 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by LoySupremo: 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by Nobody: 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Order Of Importance Of The Women In A Man's Life by kalufelix(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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