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Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 2:44pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Good day to you all Nairalanders. I'm new here a friend I cried to asked me to join Nairaland and beg Nigerians for help. I am a married woman with 2 kids my first daughter is 3+ and my son is 1+. My shop was demolished when I was pregnant they said is on the pipeline lane. And since then I have been struggling while carrying my child with me when my daughter has gone to school because I had to beg one aunty to allow her to join in her lesson while I face any odd jobs to feed my kids. My husband was duped through a friend I trusted and introduced to him through my elder brother for traveling document since then he has never been his real self. As I am typing this in tears I don't even know he's way about since August 10th, 2019 till now. He has abounded me and the kids because his family never wanted us together right from day one. And after this predicament, he abandoned us I have contacted all the family members' friends and everyone I know, but they are all coming up with different and almost the same topic that they are all waiting to hear from him. My kids are really hungry and the worse of it all is that right now we are homeless. My landlord has asked us to pack out of the house as the rent expired since and the 3 months he gave us will expire by the end of this April 2020 which I don't know where to face with my children. I never believed that even the Church where I used to be a choir and full-time strong member will also turn back after their little feeding of an assistant. Though is not a big church. All my friends and family have been assisting in feeding my kids and now everyone is tired since my husband is nowhere to be found. Please Nairalanders I really need your help with house rent as I don't know where to take my children too. I am a baker but I have no material and items as I have sold almost everything I have in feeding my kids. My husband rented this place we are when things were okay and I used to make use of 1 room to do my baking and business not until everything turned down on us. Now I want us to move in a cheaper location like Ogun state and let me start-up in a place that I can be able to afford and also have something to do to feed my children. I know God has a purpose in everything and only him in Heaven knows what he is doing. I love my family so very much and depression, thinking, sleepless nights and hungry really want to collect my kids and I. Now house rent issue and I have until the end of this month to pack out of this house please Nigerians. Help my children and me in any way you can please. I was advised to be very careful about an online advantage taking but I'm left with no choice. You can call text or WhatsApp me for more clarification. I have no other choice, please. This is my number +2349034519640 |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:53pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
dont you believe in god no more?!?!? go back to your church and sit there with your kids, they MUST help you....if not, just pray on it, your solution is near. |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 2:58pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Since earlier 2019 till now. I have been praying but still. Even if I'm to fast and bear it what about my kids Now house rent is another biggest problem with just a few days to get kicked out. MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:07pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
victoriaify1992: NEWSFLASH: in these difficult times, everyone is broke and yahoo yahoo are upgrading their scams.... only the church will help you, they HAVE TO. go camp in front of church with your kids. if you get thrown out, bring your belonging to the church! |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Graysons: 3:14pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Nawa it is well. |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by HarunaWest(m): 3:35pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
The person didn't tell you the truth. Which is Nairaland isn't a Charity Organisation. So if there wasn't social media ou will just sit down with your kids and do nothing. Africans are actually very lazy if given the opportunity. Damn..What of your family members, in-law, relatives, friends, customers et Al. You are talking of rent and moving to Ogun State. You can Imagine. Do you know I once resided in Lagos before, when things no make sense, I park my load enter my village. Am still there and am Hale and hearty. If it was money for lunch you wanted which has become a scam thing on NL, people might assist you. But you can't come here and request for hustle and rent at the same time. Many of us still dey even try handle our various family problems sef. and like someone said below your post, go to your church speak to the clergyman there..Begging online doesn't pay mehn.. Have some pride 1 Like |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 6:22pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
victoriaify1992:Hows your situation ma'am?. Are you getting any help yet especially from church?. What are they doing to help in their little capacity?. Also i think you should ponder on what last post said about relocating to rural area near family. Food is very important. everything else is secondary. |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Nobody: 6:31pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Empiree:Church that is a scam, all religious Nigerians begging for money wey dey go church no fit go for this time, what is then the usefulness of the so called church that can't help them during trying periods. Even church members can't help, this should show Nigerians that church is a waste of time 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Acmepreneur:This should be a wake up call for her if only she can reason. I hope she's getting help |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 10:39pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Thank you so very much for checking on us. No help yet but I still believe that God will do something so soon. And as for church since the church where I do worship could turn back just because I couldn't afford to place pledges and offerings like before. I swear down I have given up on churches and believe that the real church is just my heart and my Bible. I'm still hoping that God will send a helper to locate us as soon as possible. Even family members and the little friends who have been assisting all this while are tired already even when some people are trying to take advantage of me but I promise myself and my children that I will never mislead them or do what they will regret when they grow up. I gathered a lot of courage to come down here to ask for help because the load is more than heavy on me already. And I am ready for any form of verification from anyone as long as I will get the help I'm asking of Empiree: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 10:40pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Still hoping because nothing yet. And I pray God provides us some soon. Empiree: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by GreatResearcher: 11:01pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
victoriaify1992:Get the fvck out of here. You hoes and the same everywhere. Just fvck off please! 1 Like |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 11:45pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
victoriaify1992:You have just librated yourself, if truly you mean it. We have always tell christians to stop going to church. There is no evidence in the bible to go to church. Congratulations, you have just one step liberated. I'm still hoping that God will send a helper to locate us as soon as possible. Even family members and the little friends who have been assisting all this while are tired already even when some people are trying to take advantage of me but I promise myself and my children that I will never mislead them or do what they will regret when they grow up. I gathered a lot of courage to come down here to ask for help because the load is more than heavy on me already. And I am ready for any form of verification from anyone as long as I will get the help I'm asking ofI PMed you. try to get back to me. 1 Like |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 11:46pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
GreatResearcher:Calm down, pls. If you can't help, at least say good words 1 Like |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 11:50pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Okay let me check and thank you so much Empiree: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 11:52pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
It's Okay thank you so much. Just leave them we have so many bitter heart people out there willing to add more to someones depression. But I do ignore them when I see one. I leave them with their thoughts. Empiree: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 11:57pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
victoriaify1992:Your NL pm is frozen so i realy cant send you msg. You can just reply automated msg you received |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 12:01am On Apr 15, 2020 |
I was just reading about that and I have just replied, I got it on my email then I replied also. Empiree: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 12:05am On Apr 15, 2020 |
victoriaify1992:ok. i will check my email as soon as i can |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by GreatResearcher: 12:16am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Empiree:I can't believe you're falling for this. SIMPs everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by victoriaify1992: 12:17am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Okay thanks Empiree: |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 2:27am On Apr 15, 2020 |
GreatResearcher:I am adult |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Empiree: church can offend someone but not Christ, as church is a means to serve Christ. she should not forsake fellowship but she can change denomination if were she worships does no longer feeds her spirit. Proverbs 19:17 Good News Translation (GNT) 17 When you give to the poor, it is like lending to the Lord, and the Lord will pay you back. lets support her in our own little way knowing full well God is the one to reward us back |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Empiree: 10:36pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
ilofy:There is nothing any church on this planet today practice that is in line with Jesus 1 Like |
Re: Good Day To You All Nairalanders by Jas80: 10:46pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
GreatResearcher: If you can't help, abeg try and mind your business na, wanna-be alpha 1 Like |
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