Let be sincere....your opinion is really needed.
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My female neighbor told me series of things she had encountered with her boyfriends financially and told me how a guy asked her out recently.
But she is feeling somehow when he told her,he earns #20,000.
She asked me what I will do if I was in her shoes

a guy that earns 20k should look for side hustle to do. i won't allow my sister marry a man that earn 20k monthly.
abeg 20k too small abeg

unibenakpos:
a guy that earns 20k should look for side hustle to do. i won't allow my sister marry a man that earn 20k monthly.
abeg 20k too small abeg

20k is small amount of money truly but why will you stop your sister from marrying someone she cherish? Haven't you seen/read/heard of GRASS to GRACE testimonies?

But las las me I no go dash shishi to any married man/woman wey dey beg for money.

A friend of mine updated her WhatsApp status today with "_{If you're waiting until you are ready, you are likely to wait for the rest of your life}".

Could this be for OP

Marriage should be the last thing on your mind , if your monthly income is #20000.

kowade:
Marriage should be the last thing on your mind , if your monthly income is #20000.

This pple are also human beings and the fact that they are rich today doesn't mean,they are not going to be wealthy tomorrow I think

Who is earning the #20,000?

The man or the woman?

Ekakamba:


20k is small amount of money truly but why will you stop your sister from marrying someone she cherish? Haven't you seen/read/heard of GRASS to GRACE testimonies?

But las las me I no go dash shishi to any married man/woman wey dey beg for money.

Guy have you watched Acrimony? If no,pls do make a bit out of your quarantine time and watch because is like you are stingy.So basically what you are trying to say is you can't borrow your sister's husband money talk less of giving

tpiar:
Who is earning the #20,000?

The man or the woman?

The man.....and besides the question should be for both gender what will you do as a man.Will you agree to marry a girl that earns #20,000 monthly

HammedOlanaija:

The man.....and besides the question should be for both gender what will you do as a man.Will you agree to marry a girl that earns #20,000 monthly

How much is the woman earning in your scenario (for the rhetorical question).

As per your second question, that's up to the individual.

tpiar:


How much is the woman earning in your scenario (for the rhetorical question).

As per your second question, that's up to the individual.

No one is fighting you davido,OBO the fact is pple are hustling but doesn't seem to be earning real quick money.Do you know what it takes a bricklayer to work alongside is mate and still come home with chicken change

Ekakamba:


20k is small amount of money truly but why will you stop your sister from marrying someone she cherish? Haven't you seen/read/heard of GRASS to GRACE testimonies?

But las las me I no go dash shishi to any married man/woman wey dey beg for money.

i wont stop her from marrying him, i will stop her from marrying him if he earns 20k per month. if he really wants to marry he should hustle hard a bit

HammedOlanaija:

Guy have you watched Acrimony? If no,pls do make a bit out of your quarantine time and watch because is like you are stingy.So basically what you are trying to say is you can't borrow your sister's husband money talk less of giving

My money, my stinginess. How much I get wey I go borrow multi-millionaire?

Guy if you like no hustle wella before you marry, go become husband wey be serial begger like some people here/in the street.

I rather give a single guy money to feed than a married man who got married knowing fully well that he can't even feed himself talk more of 2 mouths.

How does Acrimony relate to my post?

I've seen a girl who got pregnant for a guy that doesn't have a job.

But before now a guy that had a job of 20k was asking her out but she refused.

Now this same guy that doesn't have a job beats her up so many times. When she wants to collect school fees from the guy, it's like a Royal rumble at home, she needs to start the fight like one month time before the guy's mother borrows money to pay for the guy.

The guy doesn't even care if the child eats or not.

That's life,

Charleys:
I've seen a girl who got pregnant for a guy that doesn't have a job.

But before now a guy that had a job of 20k was asking her out but she refused.

Now this same guy that doesn't have a job beats her up so many times. When she wants to collect school fees from the guy, it's like a Royal rumble at home, she needs to start the fight like one month time before the guy's mother borrows money to pay for the guy.

The guy doesn't even care if the child eats or not.

That's life,

So are you saying his character was as a result of his inability to be wealthy...haven't you seen rich pple that who neglects their family and doesn't even bother to look back.Even some celebrities in Nigeria such as mercy aigbe,iyabo ojo and others.I think this is a complicated issue at first until I didn't realize which one is right or wrong.Am thinking if she had agreed to marry him.....she might suffer


And on the other hand am thinking what if she rejects the guy and later on...God decide to show his mercy and blessings on him and if finally the guy becomes rich.What will be the fate of the lady

Many Girls are gold diggers