Alao046:
Seems you aren't a virgin. The d**k does not get weaker or wider, but a p***y ? Let's not talk abt that.
Weather I am a virgin or not, I can't marry a girl that is not a virgin. Infact if by mistake I will marry a non virgin, I swear I will not pay bride price. How will I pay bride price for a prostitute

You can't tell if she's a virgin, she can lie to you.

Rozz:
you will get married to the female version of you, you can't claim to want what you don't deserve.No promiscuous man should desire a virgin period

Thing is if the girl like that she's a virgin, he will still believe.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Las las you will still marry a used and dumped cargo

Na una dey make mouth pass
Are you sure you are not a prostitute too

LoL@ used cargo. If the girls want to outsmart him by saying she did sports, or born like that, to prove she's a virgin. Won't he believe.

Grandamante:
Of course that is the dictionary and the societal meaning of a virgin. Good. But I am talking about nature, about biology

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And who told you that what you stated is nature and biology in biology were you told that the hymen is meant to indicate who a virgin is?You only stated religious and cultural connotations

Nature, in its infinite wisdom thought, concluded and decided that a girl would, should and must have something that can differentiate a virgin from a non-virgin

If it is indeed what nature thought why is it that not all ladies have an hymen and an hymen can be broken without sex if that is the main purpose why did the hymen break before sex happen since the hymen is specifically meant for sex,

even if, as u said, that the same thing may not be present in every girl or can be lost arbitrarily.

The same nature in its infinite wisdom thought, concluded and decided that a boy would, should and must not have anything that can differentiate between a virgin from a non-virgin.

You don't know who a virgin is unless that person tells you.No part of the body is an indicator of knowing whether one is a virgin or not.As long as you have not had sex you are a virgin and this includes males.In some conservative countries even men marry as virgins(no form of sexual interscourse) not just women alone because they consider fornication a sin.

Why do you think this is?

U as a girl, u may wish to marry a tall man. No man can pretend and deceive u that he is tall. U see, u believe.

Now, u wish to marry a virgin man. Every man can pretend and deceive u that he is a virgin. U don't see, but u will believe. Heck! That's what Jesus Christ recommended. U will live with because u cannot know otherwise

Same way a lady can tell you that she is a virgin and you will still believe without knowing

A man who wishes to marry a virgin can say, "no hymen, not interested, every other story is bull shit." He can know otherwise. He sees, he believes.

Anyman that thinks that because there is an hymen intact therefore sister is a virgin then he is a myopic fool some virgins don't even have an hymen it is not BS but fact.How can he know when he is yet to have sex with the lady?Also what if she does a reconstruction have you heard of hymenorrhaphy also called hymen reconstruction surgery?So what if a lady who has had sex before goes back and does a surgery to deceive you into thinking that she is a virgin because you are looking for hymen.Does that make her a virgin does it mean she has not had sex before?Even the lady can still play him and come up with another story or another means to deceive the guy that she is a virgin.Believe me when I tell you that some ladies have played boys into thinking and believing they are virgins or were virgins when they met

Sirvingeo:
My own is I can never use my hard earned money to marry a slut .

What if she had been with only one guy

Stephenmoka4:
LoL@ used cargo. If the girls want to outsmart him by saying she did sports, or born like that, to prove she's a virgin. Won't he believe.

My brother the thing tire me oo.

The girl can even lie that she does not know the meaning of cum or giving head in sex self.And will just lay down like a dead wood pretending not to even know where her vagina is self

baralatie:

There is this joke that was shared by a pastor.
God : young man! I am happy about your level of commitment to me,in prayers and giving your all.I want to reward you for all your efforts,tell me what you want and I will give it to you.

young man : Oh God!Thank you so much for this.God you know I am scared of boarding aeroplanes. God can you build a bridge from Lagos to new York,so that I can just drive down.

God : young man! Be realistic.Think of all the resources.logistics and all other stuff.young man come up with something I can do for you.

young man :OK God! You know I have problem with women.Lord I want you to give me the power to understand women,to know what they like/dislike.when they are happy/sad.to know the deepest parts of women.

God paused) young man how wide do you want the bridge.do you like 10 lanes or 12 lanes

Hahahaha very funny at the last part I had a good laugh.Thank you

Ladyhippolyta88:

My brother the thing tire me oo.

The girl can even lie that she does not know the meaning of cum or head in sex self.And will just lay down like a deas wood pretending not to even know where her vagina is self

If the girl is honest with her status they will slut shame her, if she lie they will slut shame her and find every means to disprove her.

Stephenmoka4:
If the girl is honest with her status they will slut shame her, if she lie they will slut shame her and find every means to disprove her.

You are a smart guy

You know them well they are confused lots

Ladyhippolyta88:

You are a smart guy

You know them well they are confused lots

Okay see, it's going to be difficult cuz virginity is not written on the forehead. Let's say he meet girl one, he can't just ask if she's a virgin and if she's not, he will start doing a search party, from girl two to three to 999. If he finds one, is she interested in him. (shrugs)

Ladyhippolyta88:
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Even the lady can still play him and come up with another story or another means to deceive the guy that she is a virgin.Believe me when I tell you that some ladies have played boys into thinking and believing they are virgins or were virgins when they met

I'm a virgin but, there are too much bash n hatred on a deflowered person, are they not humans too.
I know one special story, a small percentage of women knows it and the average guy have no choice than to believe. Are you thinking what I'm thinking,

Rozz be honest with urself..can u marry a virgin boy?
i know most ladies here will say no they prefer a man that is experienced
so how can a virgin boy be experienced.
a virgin boy that dont know where the vagina is located

This is what you see from OP that got admission in Nairaland year 2020.... Useless article

More reason why the female should be more on guard.
Theirs can easily be put to some doubts, unlike the Man's.
Why settle for used product when you can have new?

Don't worry not all men have that strong mindset of marrying a virgin.
But we... the elites do.

But come to think of it, if all the unmarried ladies men have sex with and call whores chose not to have sex till marriage, who will unmarried guys be having sex with? It's a common thing for a guy to wanna brag about having multiple sexual encounters but fail to realise that they themselves are as guilty as the ladies they have the encounters with... We all need each other biko, it's your vag1na/d1ck... just use it wisely regardless of ur gender... I repeat, We need each other

Chi59:

What a fo.ol.

hope you are not referring to the op and not me.

Paxie55:

I'm not sure if you were taken or not, but nnpc pays 70k for graduates trainees.
Hahahah, stfu f00l.

I am just reading what u wrote up there and laughing.

I applied for that job too, offer letters were sent in Feb.

Dont talk on matters you dont have any clue on.

Ladyhippolyta88:

You are embarrassing him oo

She is deceiving u, that dude is 100% correct.

That job aint a small pay, its a life changer, I applied too. Offer letters were sent in Feb.

The offer is good enough to start a family comfortably.

Sirvingeo:

I really do not have your time . I will never disclose to you what I do but with every energy in me I'm very certain I'm far productive , resourceful and financially buoyant than you and your partner. Someone that have time to dig people's post what is more jobless than that ?

Bros leave them, what do most women know anyway. Imagine someone saying NNPC pays 70k for graduate trainee.

You sef y u go dey argue with such primitive mind?

lefulefu:
Rozz be honest with urself..can u marry a virgin boy?
i know most ladies here will say no they prefer a man that is experienced
so how can a virgin boy be experienced.
a virgin boy that dont know where the vagina is located

sir,i will marry a virgin man over and over again.All I'm saying is a man who has tasted numerous ladies should not seek or search for a virgin woman for marriage, it is not fair,female virginity is equally as important as male virginity.If you are not a virgin(male or female) you should not be out there looking for a virgin for marriage.

Rozz:
sir,i will marry a virgin man over and over again.All I'm saying is a man who has tasted numerous ladies should not seek or search for a virgin woman for marriage, it is not fair,female virginity is equally as important as male virginity.If you are not a virgin(male or female) you should not be out there looking for a virgin for marriage.

thought ladies said they dont like male virgins .so now u like virgin guy..issorait .hope u will have the patience to teach him about the female anatomy oo .

Rozz:
sir,i will marry a virgin man over and over again.All I'm saying is a man who has tasted numerous ladies should .

the thing is that even the virgin girls are running away from virgin boys.u hear them say they want a man who has experience.so even if a guy who is not a virgin said he wants a virgin its left for the virgin girl to say yes or no.he no force her to date am nau.

Sirvingeo:
My own is I can never use my hard earned money to marry a slut .

only if you are not a man slut

LedRock:
Maybe that would be possible when women start proposing to men and start paying groom's price. You can't expect a man to pay bride price for a community pussy.

and a virgin lady should accept a manwhore kos he's a man and will pay one useless brideprice?Societal discrimination at highest level,so annoying

lefulefu:
the thing is that even the virgin girls are running away from virgin boys.u hear them say they want a man who has experience.so even if a guy who is not a virgin said he wants a virgin its left for the virgin girl to say yes or no.he no force her to date am nau.

where did you get the misconception from that virgin ladies do not want a virgin guy,it is just your own assumptions.It is for this reason that men wander about and at the end they start looking for a virgin lady to settle down with, don't you think it's unfair?God was very fair in all his books but the male version of human started this discrimination right from time immemorial.I repeat no non virgin man deserves a virgin lady,let everyone marry their kind and if anyone so much desire a virgin then he/she should keep himself/herself chaste as well.

Ladyhippolyta88:

^{Not every woman burst or bleeds during the first sex so enlighten yourself and it may burst even without having sex but by doing sports or streinous things.Attaching hymen to virginity is nit a 100% correct.A virgin is someone with no form or history of sexual intercourse the issue of hymen or bursting is not the main thing those are just cultural and religious connotations}

Less than one percent do not bleed on first penetration. Bleeding is a very reliable indicator of a womans virginity.

Bleeding is not just "evidence" of chastity and value but also symbolic; a seal that metaphysically unites a man to a girl.
Some also believe it is akin to "lifting a viel to access hidden (secrets)"; where the stream of blood prooves that what
one has gained access to is in fact - a secret.

InfinityFabric:
More reason why the female should be more on guard.
Theirs can easily be put to some doubts, unlike the Man's.
Why settle for used product when you can have new?

Don't worry not all men have that strong mindset of marrying a virgin.
But we... the elites do.

i hope you are a virgin as well else you shall marry your kind.Fairness is a Godly attribute and discrimination is of the devil

UncleJJ:


Less than one percent do not bleed on first penetration. Bleeding is a very reliable indicator of a womans virginity

Where is your statistics to back this up about the %.As long as bleeding can happen at anytime even before sex or after the first it is not an 100% reliability to know who a virgin woman is.

Bleeding is not just "evidence" of chastity and value but also symbolic; a seal that metaphysically unites a man to a girl.
Some also believe it is akin to "lifting a viel to access hidden (secrets)"; where the stream of blood prooves that what
one has gained access to is in fact - a secret

I have read extensively on this and these are just religious and cultural colourations and value for an exposed or enlightened person you should know that those are misconceptions and myths that we were taught while growing up but has started to be recently debunked.I cannot share a link on this forum I don't know how to,but I screenshoted something about it(read below)you can go to google and check out verifiable stats regarding that.Someof the things we relay or link virginity to are just misconceptions.

[b]You cannot argue with a man for his desire (a virgin); same way you cannot argue with a man who bought a brand new car from
the dealership only to find it does not have the new car scent.

I am just annoyed at the fact that these ones after deflowering themselves with different women will open their gutter mouth to yab these lasies that they sleep with and will even choose to shame them and insult them of they are not virgins forgetting that many of them will not even be able to stay in a relationship without sex in the first place.
That is hypocrisy.

Stephenmoka4:
I'm a virgin but, there are too much bash n hatred on a deflowered person, are they not humans too.
I know one special story, a small percentage of women knows it and the average guy have no choice than to believe. Are you thinking what I'm thinking,

That's nice.
I like your line of reasoning
I know there are male virgins don't allow some boys to deceive you

What are you thinking?

Stephenmoka4:
Okay see, it's going to be difficult cuz virginity is not written on the forehead. Let's say he meet girl one, he can't just ask if she's a virgin and if she's not, he will start doing a search party, from girl two to three to 999. If he finds one, is she interested in him. (shrugs)

You are very informed and sensible than some on this thread
See them shouting up and down about virgins like as if they will know and will even wait to marry such lady a virgin.They will even pressure the girl self to do it before marriage and they will open their mouth and be shouting virgin for marriage when they cannot confirm

Nor be wetin the girl tell them them go believe

lefulefu:
Rozz be honest with urself..can u marry a virgin boy?
i know most ladies here will say no they prefer a man that is experienced
so how can a virgin boy be experienced.
a virgin boy that dont know where the vagina is located

Honestly yes oo.Who says ladies don't like male virgins I like them oo
I want a virgin boy nor be today forget experience

Rozz:
sir,i will marry a virgin man over and over again.All I'm saying is a man who has tasted numerous ladies should not seek or search for a virgin woman for marriage, it is not fair,female virginity is equally as important as male virginity.If you are not a virgin(male or female) you should not be out there looking for a virgin for marriage.

Loud it sis