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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 11:50pm On Apr 15, 2020
OutharryHIV:
I "accidentally" found out I had HIV in 2015... Worst year of my life.. I know you might be thinking that I'm a promiscuous person but I assure you, I'm very far from that... So this is how it all started?

I did my NYSC in my dad's company and finished in late 2014 and I was given a full year to go read a course I didn't even want. So I instead volunteered for Youth In Action Against HIV and poverty in Tanzania. My dad was furious but my mum understood.

It was 6months filled with lessons, tears, experience and a firsthand witness to the sufferings of others... We tended to the poorest of the poor in rural Tanzania.

I later came down to Borno and later North bank area of Benue state, I realized there were a lot of vulnerable people that are hungry and can't afford even cheap medical care thus they die of common malaria.

I didnt stay long in Borno before I started having this feeling of fatigue and blurry vision, I thought it was cuz of the stress that comes with what I do, so I decided to go home. Few days after getting home I started feeling this head splitting headache, I thought it was malaria/typhoid of which a lab test later confirmed.. Out of curiosity, I told the doctor to run a full check up.. Just to be on a safe side.. Which he did..

You should imagine my surprise when he told me I was HIV positive.. Nothing has ever prepared me for that moment.. It was funny how a malaria treatment could turn to an HIV nightmare.. I thought of just ending my life right then.

But i braced myself and took the drugs, I was surprised that it was free in Nigeria sef.

I rushed home and took my girlfriend to run the test and it turned out that she has it too...
We've been taking the drugs for the past 5years now with an high Cd4 count and a low viral load.. The virus is not detectable in our blood stream anymore and we are happily married and our first twin boys are negative.

If you're out there and you've been in my shoes.. Its not the end of your life.. Life just happens and its not entirely your fault.

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

So lovelies, Take your ARV drugs, take fruits, eat well, within 3-6 months you can still have unprotected sex throughout your life with your partner without infecting them or your children.. You can live your life to the fullest and more.

P.s: HIV patients do not look skinny and dried up.. That's just an archaic stereotype...
It is also not a death sentence.

HIV IS A SCAM.

Eating well n living a healthy life will always keep a human brings cd4 count high.

HIV CAUSING AIDS IS A SCAM
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by ifko: 11:50pm On Apr 15, 2020
Catchfirez:
, yes sometimes, only avoid raw whenever she is on her period. Been dating almost a year and I'm still negative . Her viral load is undetected so couldn't be infected.
I pity ur mama not uuu

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 11:51pm On Apr 15, 2020
lepasharon:


I'm a woman but they're right jo.. if he wasn't promiscuous..how else did he catch it?

from his wife probably.its not only men who are promiscious
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by dotcile28(f): 11:51pm On Apr 15, 2020
21cents:


you're right Sha. but nothing dreads me more than viruses like HIV.
Convid-19 ?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:52pm On Apr 15, 2020
MrMicholo:
Thank you 4 this OP. I discovered my status few months ago 2, I felt my life was over, it was a terrible period coupled with the fact that I had no knowledge about the medical evolution & breakthrough being done on the virus.. I thought it led to death like it was years ago.. My C.O noticed my always lost and confused state and just gave me leave to get my shit together and one Nurse (A Lieutenant) counselled me ehh, told me whatsup and cleared my doubt ehh. I realized there was hope.

Am stronger now, back to leading my men.
Do you belong to any support group, Op?
All the way brotherly! Permission to relax?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 15, 2020
MrMicholo:
Thank you 4 this OP. I discovered my status few months ago 2, I felt my life was over, it was a terrible period coupled with the fact that I had no knowledge about the medical evolution & breakthrough being done on the virus.. I thought it led to death like it was years ago.. My C.O noticed my always lost and confused state and just gave me leave to get my shit together and one Nurse (A Lieutenant) counselled me ehh, told me whatsup and cleared my doubt ehh. I realized there was hope.

Am stronger now, back to leading my men.
Do you belong to any support group, Op?

HIV is a scam
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 11:53pm On Apr 15, 2020
Zakarisammy:
I need to run a test
wise choice also invite ur girlfriend or girlfriends to also run test with u cheesy
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by lepasharon(f): 11:54pm On Apr 15, 2020
lefulefu:
from his wife probably.its not only men who are promiscious

That's what I'm saying..she gave it to him
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 15, 2020
lepasharon:


That's what I'm saying..she gave it to him
thought someone was insisting op got it from barbing saloon cheesy
anyway churches that insist that couples go for hiv test b4 they get married know what they are doing.me i cant marry a woman i dont know her status.cant take that risk.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Semaj77(m): 11:57pm On Apr 15, 2020
LedRock:
This girl goes around insulting people.

The guy actually is brainless for saying people with HIV and Sickle cell disease are walking corpses and you have to understand that she's a sickler ( SS ) too.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:58pm On Apr 15, 2020
Thanks for sharing this, I need one of those volunteer jobs though, that's where my heart and life belong for real, nothing I do in this world can give me joy then helping those in need. Can you suggest and how I can get one please?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by lepasharon(f): 12:00am On Apr 16, 2020
lefulefu:
thought someone was insisting op got it from barbing saloon cheesy
anyway churches that insist that couples go for hiv test b4 they get married know what they are doing.me i cant marry a woman i dont know her status.cant take that risk.

That's nonsense lol. HIV is mainly transmitted sexually..ppl who say that crap are bullshiting.

The virus can never be transmitted through surface cuts
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 16, 2020
Lostz:



a woman I married with my own money will cheat on me and still infect me with HIV?

I will just smash your head against the wall in anger

E fit even be say na u give am
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 16, 2020
Naslow08:
Yes they are free in most government hospitals that are accredited

Okay that's good to know. Maybe there should be greater public awareness on TV, social media, etc. by Ministry of Health about the accessibility of these drugs.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 12:01am On Apr 16, 2020
lepasharon:


That's nonsense lol. HIV is mainly transmitted sexually..ppl who say that crap are bullshiting.

The virus can never be transmitted through surface cuts
read the comments biko...many are insisting barbing clipper can give u hiv grin
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by lepasharon(f): 12:03am On Apr 16, 2020
lefulefu:
read the comments biko...many are insisting barbing clipper can give u hiv grin

grin leave them
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by micflo28(m): 12:04am On Apr 16, 2020
Thank God is not Covid-19
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by CAPSLOCKED: 12:04am On Apr 16, 2020
lepasharon:


That's what I'm saying..she gave it to him

HE HAS EDITED HIS STORY, AND I CAN SWEAR HE DID SO TO COVER HER UP. HE GAVE OUT THE CLUE THE FIRST TIME.
I THINK BECAUSE OF LOVE HE FORGAVE THE CHEATING CROOK THAT'S ALL.

THERE'S NOTHING THAT LOVE CAN'T DO TO A MAN.

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 12:04am On Apr 16, 2020
lepasharon:


grin leave them
some ppl will dive in raw when having sex but when they see clipper dem go dey run insistin clipper wil give them aids.funny grin

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Catchfirez: 12:06am On Apr 16, 2020
ifko:

I pity ur mama not uuu

Your ignorant mama I dey pity for giving birth to you.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by lepasharon(f): 12:06am On Apr 16, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


HE HAS EDITED HIS STORY, AND I CAN SWEAR HE DID SO TO COVER HER UP. HE GAVE OUT THE CLUE THE FIRST TIME.
I THINK BECAUSE OF LOVE HE FORGAVE THE CHEATING CROOK THAT'S ALL.

THERE'S NOTHING THAT LOVE CAN'T DO TO A MAN.

Chai !
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by nairalandbeast1: 12:07am On Apr 16, 2020
lefulefu:
shut up! if u dont like what i said u can scroll over.is it my concern if u having unprotected sex up and down.u will have aids wether u get hurt over the comment or not.if u dont want to get infected then strap up or practice abstenience.look at u getting all hurt just with the comment i made cheesy.

U sound like a kid insulting

You re a very insensitive person

Funny thing is that u might have a terminal disease and know what it feels like

Mark my word
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by lepasharon(f): 12:08am On Apr 16, 2020
lefulefu:
some ppl will dive in raw when having sex but when they see clipper dem go dey run insistin clipper wil give them aids.funny grin

Lol leave them with their ignorance

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Osonddu: 12:09am On Apr 16, 2020
STOP SLEEPING AROUND:

What Are the Real Risks of Condomless Sex? What Everyone Should Know

STI risk:

Condoms and sex;
Condoms and dental dams help prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, from being transmitted between sexual partners. STIs can be transmitted between partners during different types of sex without a condom, including anal sex, vaginal sex, and MouthAction.

Having sex without condoms can carry certain risks depending on how many partners you have and the type of sex you’re engaging in.

The risk of STI transmission is higher with condomless sex, Using condoms during sex reduces the risk of transmission of most STIs, including HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and certain types of hepatitis.

It’s possible to contract an STI and not see symptoms for days, months, or even years. If left untreated, some STIs can cause significant health issues. This can include damage to major organs, infertility issues, complications during pregnancy, and even death.

STI risk varies with number of sex partners
The risk of contracting an STI is higher for people who have multiple sexual partners. Individuals can reduce the risk by using condoms consistently and by getting tested for STIs before each new partner.

When sexual partners decide to have condomless sex or “barrier-free” sex exclusively with each other, they are sometimes referred to as “fluid-bonded.”

If fluid-bonded sexual partners have been tested, and the test results show no STIs, then engaging in sex without barriers is considered to carry little to no risk of STIs. This depends on the accuracy of STI test results and all fluid-bonded partners only having sex with each other.

Keep in mind, certain STIs, such as human papilloma virus (HPV), aren’t always included in a standard STI test. Planned Parenthood suggests that people who are fluid-bonded still get tested regularly for STIs.

Your doctor can tell you more about how often it makes sense for you to get tested for STIs.

Having an STI increases the chance of contracting HIV
The risk of contracting HIV is higher for people living with an STI, particularly syphilis, herpes, or gonorrhea.

STIs cause inflammation that can activate the same immune cells HIV likes to attack, and allow the virus to replicate more quickly. STIs can also cause sores that make it easier for HIV to enter the bloodstream.

The risk of HIV transmission is higher with condomless sex, HIV can be transmitted via the mucous membranes of the penis, vagina, and anus. It can also potentially be transmitted through cuts or sores on the mouth or other areas of the body.

Condoms and dental dams provide a physical barrier that can help prevent HIV transmission. When people engage in sex without condoms, they don’t have that layer of protection.

Condoms are highly effective at preventing HIV transmission as long as you use them every time you have sex. Latex condoms offer the most protection against transmission of HIV. If you’re allergic to latex, the CDC says that polyurethane or polyisoprene condoms also reduce the risk of HIV transmission, but they break more easily than latex.

There’s a window period for HIV testing
When a person contracts HIV, there’s a window period from the time of exposure to the virus until the time it will show up on an HIV test. Someone who has an HIV test during this window may receive results that say they are HIV-negative, even though they have contracted the virus.

The length of the window period varies depending on biological factors and the type of test being used. It generally ranges from one to three months.

During the window period, a person who has contracted HIV can still transmit it to other people. That’s because levels of the virus are actually higher at this point, even though HIV tests may not be able to detect it yet.

Some types of sex carry a higher risk of HIV transmission, The likelihood of HIV being transmitted during sex varies depending on the type of sex involved. For example, the level of risk is different for anal sex compared to MouthAction.

HIV is most likely to be transmitted during anal sex without a condom. That’s because the lining of the anus is more prone to rips and tears. This can allow HIV to enter the bloodstream. The risk is higher for the person receiving anal sex, sometimes called “bottoming.”

HIV can also be transmitted during vaginal sex. The lining of the vaginal wall is stronger than the lining of the anus, but vaginal sex can still provide a pathway for HIV transmission.

MouthAction without a condom or dental dam carries a relatively low risk of HIV transmission. If the person giving MouthAction has mouth sores or bleeding gums, it is possible to contract or transmit HIV.


For some, pregnancy is a risk with condomless sex
For couples who are fertile and engaging in “penis-in-vagina” sex, having sex without a condom increases the risk of an unplanned pregnancy.

Condoms are 98 percent effective at preventing pregnancy when used perfectly every time, and around 85 percent effective when used normally.

Couples who have sex without condoms and wish to avoid pregnancy can consider an alternate form of contraception, such as an IUD or the pill.

Birth control pills don’t protect against STIs
The only forms of birth control that prevent against STIs are abstinence and condoms. Birth control methods like the pill, the morning-after pill, IUDs, and spermicide don’t prevent the transmission of viruses or bacteria.

Condoms only work if used correctly
Condoms are highly effective at preventing the transmission of HIV and other STIs — but they only work if they’re used correctly.

To use a condom effectively, always start to use it prior to sexual contact because bacteria and viruses can be transmitted through pre-ejaculate and vaginal fluid. Make sure only to use water-based lubricants with a condom. Oil-based lubricants can weaken latex and cause the condom to break.

If you and your partner are having sex in multiple ways — such as anal, vaginal, and MouthAction — it’s important to use a new condom each time.

The takeaway
Sex without condoms increases the risk of STI transmission between partners. For some couples, pregnancy is also a risk of condomless sex.

You can reduce the risk of exposure to an STI by using condoms consistently every time you have sex. It also helps to get tested for STIs before sex with each new partner. Your doctor can provide guidance about how often to get tested for STIs.

ABSTINENCE IS THE ONLY PREVENTION FOR HIV/AIDS

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by lepasharon(f): 12:10am On Apr 16, 2020
nairalandbeast1:


Lost respect for you today

You are disgusting

Lol what's wrong with that comment?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by ifko: 12:10am On Apr 16, 2020
Boujemay:
@ op

This is very brave of you to come out and share your story. I saw this tread and Instantly knew that I had to speak to you, so I joined this forum.

I would like to know you and if possible we could start a support group so people can know that they are not alone in this, and its not the end of the world.
Are u positive
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 12:10am On Apr 16, 2020
nairalandbeast1:


U sound like a kid insulting

You re a very insensitive person

Funny thing is that u might have a terminal disease and know what it feels like

Mark my word
if u follow the necessary procedure u wont have it.and as for any terminal disease i am quite healthy.negative to herpatitis,hiv and co.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 12:13am On Apr 16, 2020
nairalandbeast1:




Funny thing is that u might have a terminal disease and know what it feels like

Mark my word
u not God so shut up.i never mocked the dude i just asked him if he caught it from his wife.aint his fault if he caught it from his wife so how i was i judgemental? u just acting like a little kid who woke up from the wrong side of the bed .

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Carlyboi(m): 12:13am On Apr 16, 2020
Kanye west already said it all bout 15 years ago that you can live through anything if Magic made IT!

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by hahn(m): 12:13am On Apr 16, 2020
OutharryHIV:
I "accidentally" found out I had HIV in 2015... Worst year of my life.. I know you might be thinking that I'm a promiscuous person but I assure you, I'm very far from that... So this is how it all started?

I did my NYSC in my dad's company and finished in late 2014 and I was given a full year to go read a course I didn't even want. So I instead volunteered for Youth In Action Against HIV and poverty in Tanzania. My dad was furious but my mum understood.

It was 6months filled with lessons, tears, experience and a firsthand witness to the sufferings of others... We tended to the poorest of the poor in rural Tanzania.

I later came down to Borno and later North bank area of Benue state, I realized there were a lot of vulnerable people that are hungry and can't afford even cheap medical care thus they die of common malaria.

I didnt stay long in Borno before I started having this feeling of fatigue and blurry vision, I thought it was cuz of the stress that comes with what I do, so I decided to go home. Few days after getting home I started feeling this head splitting headache, I thought it was malaria/typhoid of which a lab test later confirmed.. Out of curiosity, I told the doctor to run a full check up.. Just to be on a safe side.. Which he did..

You should imagine my surprise when he told me I was HIV positive.. Nothing has ever prepared me for that moment.. It was funny how a malaria treatment could turn to an HIV nightmare.. I thought of just ending my life right then.

But i braced myself and took the drugs, I was surprised that it was free in Nigeria sef.

I rushed home and took my girlfriend to run the test and it turned out that she has it too...
We've been taking the drugs for the past 5years now with an high Cd4 count and a low viral load.. The virus is not detectable in our blood stream anymore and we are happily married and our first twin boys are negative.

If you're out there and you've been in my shoes.. Its not the end of your life.. Life just happens and its not entirely your fault.

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

So lovelies, Take your ARV drugs, take fruits, eat well, within 3-6 months you can still have unprotected sex throughout your life with your partner without infecting them or your children.. You can live your life to the fullest and more.

P.s: HIV patients do not look skinny and dried up.. That's just an archaic stereotype...
It is also not a death sentence.

Did your girlfriend give it to you?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by IJOBA2: 12:14am On Apr 16, 2020
merahki:



Judgemental, sanctimonious and nosy
What a cocktail!
I don’t roll with your kind of person angry
ARE YOU HIV + MERAHKI shocked
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by darfay: 12:14am On Apr 16, 2020
OutharryHIV:
I "accidentally" found out I had HIV in 2015... Worst year of my life.. I know you might be thinking that I'm a promiscuous person but I assure you, I'm very far from that... So this is how it all started?

I did my NYSC in my dad's company and finished in late 2014 and I was given a full year to go read a course I didn't even want. So I instead volunteered for Youth In Action Against HIV and poverty in Tanzania. My dad was furious but my mum understood.

It was 6months filled with lessons, tears, experience and a firsthand witness to the sufferings of others... We tended to the poorest of the poor in rural Tanzania.

I later came down to Borno and later North bank area of Benue state, I realized there were a lot of vulnerable people that are hungry and can't afford even cheap medical care thus they die of common malaria.

I didnt stay long in Borno before I started having this feeling of fatigue and blurry vision, I thought it was cuz of the stress that comes with what I do, so I decided to go home. Few days after getting home I started feeling this head splitting headache, I thought it was malaria/typhoid of which a lab test later confirmed.. Out of curiosity, I told the doctor to run a full check up.. Just to be on a safe side.. Which he did..

You should imagine my surprise when he told me I was HIV positive.. Nothing has ever prepared me for that moment.. It was funny how a malaria treatment could turn to an HIV nightmare.. I thought of just ending my life right then.

But i braced myself and took the drugs, I was surprised that it was free in Nigeria sef.

I rushed home and took my girlfriend to run the test and it turned out that she has it too...
We've been taking the drugs for the past 5years now with an high Cd4 count and a low viral load.. The virus is not detectable in our blood stream anymore and we are happily married and our first twin boys are negative.

If you're out there and you've been in my shoes.. Its not the end of your life.. Life just happens and its not entirely your fault.

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

So lovelies, Take your ARV drugs, take fruits, eat well, within 3-6 months you can still have unprotected sex throughout your life with your partner without infecting them or your children.. You can live your life to the fullest and more.

P.s: HIV patients do not look skinny and dried up.. That's just an archaic stereotype...
It is also not a death sentence.


When you say it is no longer detectable, do you mean you now test negative?

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