https:/www.nairaland.com/5792125/been-betrayed-before-share-story

Bestinstinct:
The thread

by QuinModah got me thinking. I have been betrayed countless times but all of the times I got betrayed, it brings unexpected blessings. I most times become grateful after most betrayals that I forget who or why I was betrayed in the first place. Every significant developments in my life were borne out of being betrayed. I noticed I've been fortunate about been betrayed but I realised I equally betrayed people who might never forgive me. I will like to share two pressing ones and I pray I find peace after sharing. Feel free to bash me but share yours too. Nobody holy pass.

While in JSS3, I had two friends namely Bee and Ade (Not real names). We do virtually everything together. Walk home from PWD, Ikeja to Oshodi on daily basis. Always in same football team, the three of us will board Molue with five naira and get sent down by Sogunle Bus Stop by stubborn conductors while some gentle ones will just abuse us and ignore (people who grew up in Lag during Molue Era can relate). Growing up with them remains the best part of my childhood. I was a good footballer and I am always the highest goal scorer then. Our friendship was boundless until we noticed Bee no longer leaves the school with us after closing. He gives series of excuses until we got to know he has a GF who’s equally in JSS3 (love letter kinda GF). He confided in Ade that he doesn’t want anyone to snatch his GF that’s why he's keeping her. Being a kid, I careless until he started bringing her to field every afternoon during break and after closing hour. Being a slim cute boy, coupled with my superb football skill, B’s GF started cheering me extraordinarily during football matches and that was how we became friends. I innocently got very close to her and she joined our long walk home every afternoon. From there she came to my house once or twice and Bee got furious and stopped talking to both of us. It remained like that till we finished our Junior WAEC. My family relocated to another state during the holiday and I changed school. About 10years later, I reconnected with Bee on FB. I was so happy to redeem my image and was quick to apologize for what I did as a kid and we both laughed it off and admitted that it was just kids’ stuffs. Few weeks after we reconnected, I accepted a friend request from a beautiful lady. We got chatting and we became FB lovers (when Facebook love by Essence ft. Jaywon was a banger) till we agreed to meet. She came down to my state for the weekend and we had awesome sex. While gisting, she told me about her BF who’s very serious with her but not as cute and adventurous as I am so she decided to open another FB page to chat me up since he’s my friend on the other profile. To cut long story sha, Bee was her real BF. I told her my first act of betrayal towards him and she told me this isn’t my fault that I should ignore. She went back after our splendid time together and started flaunting and posting my pics on her wall. Bee saw it and sent me series of messages. Before I could reply, he blocked me on all platforms and I’ve lived with the burden of being unable to explain for almost 10years now even though my relationship with the lady didn’t last for 2months. Each time I remember how I ruined our friendship, it hurts me badly. Will share the second one later, I still can't find the courage to let it out. Like I stated earlier, feel free to share yours…nobody holy pass.

Tina001:


This is not your fault except there is something you are not telling us. If this is the true story then find a way to tell your friend how it all happened either through calls or text messages or through some1 maybe a mutual friend instead of living with guilt. He should beware of the Lady because it's the Lady that betrayed him not you unless you knew it was his gf then you both are the betrayer. What sort of gf is that?

Lamanii22:
Lol... You are bee's adversary... What a twist.. He'd hate you for life... It's not your fault though, just try and explain it to him either way, via text or email...

Bestinstinct:

I wish I have the chance to reach out to him. He's a cool headed guy sha, very very simple. I pray he outgrows the hurt.

SavageResponse:

You betrayed him twice?!
How would you feel if you were on the receiving end?

SavageBoy:
Seems like your enmity with bee is a destined one

Bestinstinct:
The thread

by QuinModah got me thinking. I have been betrayed countless times but all of the times I got betrayed, it brings unexpected blessings. I most times become grateful after most betrayals that I forget who or why I was betrayed in the first place. Every significant developments in my life were borne out of being betrayed. I noticed I've been fortunate about been betrayed but I realised I equally betrayed people who might never forgive me. I will like to share two pressing ones and I pray I find peace after sharing. Feel free to bash me but share yours too. Nobody holy pass.

While in JSS3, I had two friends namely Bee and Ade (Not real names). We do virtually everything together. Walk home from PWD, Ikeja to Oshodi on daily basis. Always in same football team, the three of us will board Molue with five naira and get sent down by Sogunle Bus Stop by stubborn conductors while some gentle ones will just abuse us and ignore (people who grew up in Lag during Molue Era can relate). Growing up with them remains the best part of my childhood. I was a good footballer and I am always the highest goal scorer then. Our friendship was boundless until we noticed Bee no longer leaves the school with us after closing. He gives series of excuses until we got to know he has a GF who’s equally in JSS3 (love letter kinda GF). He confided in Ade that he doesn’t want anyone to snatch his GF that’s why he's keeping her. Being a kid, I careless until he started bringing her to field every afternoon during break and after closing hour. Being a slim cute boy, coupled with my superb football skill, B’s GF started cheering me extraordinarily during football matches and that was how we became friends. I innocently got very close to her and she joined our long walk home every afternoon. From there she came to my house once or twice and Bee got furious and stopped talking to both of us. It remained like that till we finished our Junior WAEC. My family relocated to another state during the holiday and I changed school. About 10years later, I reconnected with Bee on FB. I was so happy to redeem my image and was quick to apologize for what I did as a kid and we both laughed it off and admitted that it was just kids’ stuffs. Few weeks after we reconnected, I accepted a friend request from a beautiful lady. We got chatting and we became FB lovers (when Facebook love by Essence ft. Jaywon was a banger) till we agreed to meet. She came down to my state for the weekend and we had awesome sex. While gisting, she told me about her BF who’s very serious with her but not as cute and adventurous as I am so she decided to open another FB page to chat me up since he’s my friend on the other profile. To cut long story sha, Bee was her real BF. I told her my first act of betrayal towards him and she told me this isn’t my fault that I should ignore. She went back after our splendid time together and started flaunting and posting my pics on her wall. Bee saw it and sent me series of messages. Before I could reply, he blocked me on all platforms and I’ve lived with the burden of being unable to explain for almost 10years now even though my relationship with the lady didn’t last for 2months. Each time I remember how I ruined our friendship, it hurts me badly. Will share the second one later, I still can't find the courage to let it out. Like I stated earlier, feel free to share yours…nobody holy pass.

FitCorper:


So na because of childish mistake make una no de talk? “Foolishness is bound to the heart of a child”