SmartyPants:


Didn't you see where he wrote this:

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

Be objective.

And I was being objective by saying he could have contracted it from the Idp camp, not rulling out the possibility of getting it from his girlfriend. Most comments here are one way : his girlfriend only. That's my take

Kinematics:


You think HIV is a joke?


Here was your post somewhere on this forum.

"even me wey I'm feeling some symptoms of HIV in my body go for test still negative I never think of killing myself , all.I'm thinking how to make heaven cos hell.fire is real"

bro. I'm still. Feeling some sore throat seriously. That's why I'm asking

oloriLFC:
And I was being objective by saying he could have contracted it from the Idp camp, not rulling out the possibility of getting it from his girlfriend. Most comments here are one way : his girlfriend only. That's my take

Okay... but objectivity says that being around people who have the virus is not a transmission route. In fact, there is no reason to contract the virus unless you are living recklessly or are otherwise exposed due to an extraordinary incident. Now OP has not told us of any such incident, such a needle prick.

Compare that to unprotected sex which is the major means of transmission. Objectivity tells that there is the 95% chance this is how he got it. I understand you were also being objective but this is more objective. Don't put it down to misogyny.

SmartyPants:


Okay... but objectivity says that being around people who have the virus is not a transmission route. In fact, there is no reason to contract the virus unless you are living recklessly or are otherwise exposed due to an extraordinary incident. Now OP has not told us of any such incident, such a needle prick.

Compare that to unprotected sex which is the major means of transmission. Objectivity tells that there is the 95% chance this is how he got it. I understand you were also being objective but this is more objective. Don't put it down to misogyny.

It's alright

West2019:
bro. I'm still. Feeling some sore throat seriously. That's why I'm asking

You better not conclude its HIV without any confirmation.
Remember sore throat is also one of the symptoms of COVID-19

Lostz:


or you want to marry me?

Women don't ask guys to marry them it's the opposite

Millenniumlady:
Women don't ask guys to marry them it's the opposite

you are no feminist?

some women ask men to marry them

Lostz:
you are no feminist?

some women ask men to marry them

i don't ask i know my worth

Millenniumlady:
i don't ask i know my worth

asking someone out have nothing to do with worth.

and I also have to be sure you won't say no, before asking you out

Randy100:
You didn't tell us the side effect of all those antiretroviral drugs that you have been popping since five years. My brother HIV is a dead sentence.

How many hiv patients do you know that died this year? But as we speak malaria is taking people's life even as we speak

There are more dead sentence sickness we don't care about while crying on the ones that does nothing

Lostz:


asking someone out have nothing to do with worth.


and I also have to be sure you won't say no, before asking you out

It depends on the individual if he meets the requirement of a self esteem lady

Millenniumlady:
It depends on the individual if he meets the requirement of a self esteem lady

just make sure he won't say no before doing it.


snipper is now expensive

Lostz:



just make sure he won't say no before doing it.


snipper is now expensive

Why are you bringing snipper here

Millenniumlady:
Why are you bringing snipper here

some people drink it after rejection.

you have to prepare for every possible outcome

Lostz:
some people drink it after rejection.

you have to prepare for any outcome

Real niggas let real bitches come first and real bitches been bad bitches from birth

Millenniumlady:
Real niggas let real bitches come first and real bitches been bad bitches from birth

I would be lying if I said I got the point

Lostz:
I would be lying if I said I got the point

A Real man would never turn a self esteem lady down

Millenniumlady:
A Real man would never turn a self esteem lady down

what if he is not ready?

girls turn down guys all the time

Lostz:
what if he is not ready?

girls turn down guys all the time

It is the duty of a man to be ready at all time

Kinematics:



Doctors advice abstinence. But for people like you that dont listen to abstinence hence they say use a condom.

I hope you do abstinence

lefulefu:
hiv cant survive in blood that is exposed and besides ur barbing clipper is not that sharp enough to spill blood on its blades.dont know why ppl keep spreading false news about the spread of hiv .u can get it from shared syringes,manicure,blood transfusion and sex.but u cant get it from kissing,sharing the same spoon with the person or barbing clipper .

What u said is right, but don't generalise, there are many kinds of viruses. While HIV virus is spread thru fluid contact, the SARA COVID 19 virus is different, while it can also be spread thru blood contact, it is also spread through surface touches when u touch ur mucus entry points. And don't use the word survive for none living things, u rather say it gets destroyed when not in human blood. But the Coronavirus still remains intact in surfaces

Kinematics:


You better not conclude its HIV without any confirmation.
Remember sore throat is also one of the symptoms of COVID-19

it started since 2 months ago

West2019:
it started since 2 months ago

So have you visited a hospital?
Has your throat been examined by a doctor?

Kinematics:


So have you visited a hospital?
Has your throat been examined by a doctor?

I just went for HIV test but negative

OutharryHIV:
I "accidentally" found out I had HIV in 2015... Worst year of my life.. I know you might be thinking that I'm a promiscuous person but I assure you, I'm very far from that... So this is how it all started?

I did my NYSC in my dad's company and finished in late 2014 and I was given a full year to go read a course I didn't even want. So I instead volunteered for Youth In Action Against HIV and poverty in Tanzania. My dad was furious but my mum understood.

It was 6months filled with lessons, tears, experience and a firsthand witness to the sufferings of others... We tended to the poorest of the poor in rural Tanzania.

I later came down to Borno and later North bank area of Benue state, I realized there were a lot of vulnerable people that are hungry and can't afford even cheap medical care thus they die of common malaria.

I didnt stay long in Borno before I started having this feeling of fatigue and blurry vision, I thought it was cuz of the stress that comes with what I do, so I decided to go home. Few days after getting home I started feeling this head splitting headache, I thought it was malaria/typhoid of which a lab test later confirmed.. Out of curiosity, I told the doctor to run a full check up.. Just to be on a safe side.. Which he did..

You should imagine my surprise when he told me I was HIV positive.. Nothing has ever prepared me for that moment.. It was funny how a malaria treatment could turn to an HIV nightmare.. I thought of just ending my life right then.

But i braced myself and took the drugs, I was surprised that it was free in Nigeria sef.

I rushed home and took my girlfriend to run the test and it turned out that she has it too...
We've been taking the drugs for the past 5years now with an high Cd4 count and a low viral load.. The virus is not detectable in our blood stream anymore and we are happily married and our first twin boys are negative.

If you're out there and you've been in my shoes.. Its not the end of your life.. Life just happens and its not entirely your fault.

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

So lovelies, Take your ARV drugs, take fruits, eat well, within 3-6 months you can still have unprotected sex throughout your life with your partner without infecting them or your children.. You can live your life to the fullest and more.

P.s: HIV patients do not look skinny and dried up.. That's just an archaic stereotype...
It is also not a death sentence.

Two questions...why didn't you use PEP the hiv drug?.

how much did you spend in all

Emaprince:
Am I supposed to be surprised?

A LovePeddler will always attack whoever that tries to say the truth about her type. Girls like you are the reason we don't have any good woman in this country again.

You can never keep your legs closed and stay faithful for once. You just jump from one dick to another. Idiot.

Why should I care about his nonsense travels. And the modes of HIV transmission. He is a simp..and even makes excuses for her.....and those are the type of unfortunate mugus that you whores likes to tie down for marriage after being used and washed up by street urchins. The truth must be told and it hurts tramps like you.

Was he sharing sharp objects with them?

It's not your parent's fault that you turned out like this. You certainly needs medical evaluation. My prayers are with you.

Pearl05:



It's not your parent's fault that you turned out like this. You certainly needs medical evaluation. My prayers are with you.

Your type never get their prayers answered. Get lost from my space.

Emaprince:
Your type never get their prayers answered. Get lost from my space.

So you agreed that you are lost and needed redemption. Dont worry you will be saved.

Enough of dignifying you with a response crab.

Pearl05:



So you agreed that you are lost and needed redemption. Dont worry you will be saved.

Enough of dignifying you with a response crab.

You are a big FOOL. When was the last time you prayed? LovePeddler.s like you will acquire one worthless gadget and claim its God when a place is already reserved for you at the deepest part of hell.

I don't need prayers from those God doesn't listen to.

So you married the girl that gave you the virus in the first place. You are a nice guy. You will make heaven next week.

Avalancheman:
@Evercurious

Why are you ladies just supporting OutharryHIV's wife up and down

If OutharryHIV is very happy and doing well, he won't bring his story here at all.

That he is sharing this shows he may be desperately trying to heal. Forget all the "I'm trying to encourage somebody" story. There are enough counsellors out there for PLWH. Every time, they go get their drugs, they are counselled.

How can someone who has never been promiscuous suddenly come down with HIV having known only his then girlfriend cum wife

So unfair!!!

And what makes you feel that HIV is only contacted via unprotected sex?

Lostz:

you are allowed to trust me because I will protect myself from any disease

Trust you say who die..