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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by HITMEUP4ANYBIZ(m): 10:03pm On Apr 16, 2020
any deal ? grin

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

Allow madame rest now, why you Dey do like she fit leave you tomorrow, inside this lockdown with a 3 month old baby and you still won Dey straff Her... fear God o
I support the second paragraph bolded

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Kobicove(m): 10:03pm On Apr 16, 2020
Liftedhands:
Oga have you had Cs before? Having a big wound on your stomach, caring for a newborn and still be interested in sex all the time? Try it and come back to ask this question.

Three months is more than enough time for the CS scar to heal.

This is not an excuse!

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by streetpaddy(m): 10:03pm On Apr 16, 2020
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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by OlawaleBammie: 10:04pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?


Oga if i were u i wil just leave her alone for like 8months to 1 year and see what she's up to.

1) just avoid her touching ur sensitive parts to avoid arousing u
2) provide watever ur family need as u hav always done.
3) smile to her always, pls with her, tickle her but dont let her tickle u back
4)plsy with her and take her out
5) Dont sound sissy while with her, sounds like a scary man at times
6) Dont always give deep details of ur whereabouts, just say i want to get to underbridge, final. What u want to do there, who h want to meet there is not much of her concern.
7) as i said earlier, PLS TRY TO B RESPONSIBLE AT HOME EVEN AS TWICE AS BEFORE. BUT DONT ASK FOR SEX
cool Dont ever report her to anybody
9)Try as much as posible to play out with ur niggas, wen u get home just take ur shower, go to her and peck her den go to bed straight..




In all u do just try as much as posible to confuse her with how u deal with tins, i swear she would call u for board meeting.

The pure thin is dat she wont have anything to hold against u grin but she would b feeling the sidelining terribly.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by HITMEUP4ANYBIZ(m): 10:04pm On Apr 16, 2020
ANY Deal? grin
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by QuickStandard: 10:04pm On Apr 16, 2020
That's what lockdown can cause.
Take and just bear till after isolation grin

On a more serious note, if your wife gave birth through CS, then I think you should understand her situation.

Having sex after just 3 months after going through the knife is no small feat.

Just be patient with her.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by scrolldown88: 10:05pm On Apr 16, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Exactly. Your advice will create a divide in this marriage. Marriage issues are to be handled with care and compromise not with logic. Ignoring her will drift him away from her and if she doesn't sense the problem on time, the marriage will crash.

Heart to heart talk would help a lot here. I heard pregnancy wanes sexual appetite for some women. Maybe she got fat during the pregnancy and doesn't feel attractive anymore. Maybe breastfeeding the baby tires her out coupled with maybe pains from the CS. It's just 3 months, Oga can wait.

If you read my post, you should see that I already assumed that since this is an issue that's been going on 7 months into the pregnancy, and now 3 months after the pregnancy, there's a high chance that the OP has tried the communication route.

I'm sure he has talked to her severally. The thing is his wife definitely has an issue with sex (with him) and has failed to communicate this to him.
I'm sure she always says 'it's nothing,' and 'there's no problem, nothing is wrong' whenever he ask. Now what do you want him to do?

May God help the OP

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Nobody: 10:05pm On Apr 16, 2020
Ignore her for now, she has to relax for a bit too, giving birth is not easy..

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by doitforyou(f): 10:05pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:


I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?
.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by weyreypey: 10:05pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?
Are you married to mzrapper?
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Oyindidi(f): 10:05pm On Apr 16, 2020
shocked
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Heineken(m): 10:06pm On Apr 16, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
BUT IF YOU TIDY SOAPY FOR THE NEXT 2-6 MONTHS YOU WON'T DIE.
THE CS WOMAN NEEDS A BREAK, AND THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS TO UNDERSTAND, TOLERATE, AND ENDURE.
capsbaba respect.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Enifolabi(m): 10:06pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?
Yes... She is experiencing post pregnancy trauma so you need to be patient with her

It affects most women

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Ubdavis(m): 10:06pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.
We
Is it the childbirth that caused this?

Just watch out to see if actually her behavior is as a result of child birth or not. If reverse is the case, my brother, if I ever ask her again, make my hand bend!

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Nobody: 10:06pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

get a spare tyre

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by xty50(f): 10:06pm On Apr 16, 2020
Check about postpartum depression. It maybe the culprit. Help her to seek for help.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by abike12(f): 10:07pm On Apr 16, 2020
You are an evil man and I'm very sure you're unattractive. Do you know that a c section is a major surgery? You're coming to report a new mother to a forum full of strangers because of three months of no sex after a c section. You're a vile and disgusting excuse for a human being and I hope she leaves you and finds a better husband.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by weyreypey: 10:07pm On Apr 16, 2020
Oyindidi:
shocked

Say something
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by PureGoldh(m): 10:08pm On Apr 16, 2020
Take it easy bro...No dey rush her...Her body no be firewood... sometimes I wonder why sex is this overrated......Get along with ur wife,Play and gist with her...Be supportive at all times and leave her to come back to her normal self jare.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Nobody: 10:08pm On Apr 16, 2020
weyreypey:

Are you married to mzrapper?

grin grin

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by PromiseHamza: 10:08pm On Apr 16, 2020
Simplyleo will do that.
Anyway, any Yoruba Demon can do it

Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Nobody: 10:09pm On Apr 16, 2020
This is why i will never marry. Women are idiots

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by BestNaija(m): 10:09pm On Apr 16, 2020
Remember: there is no professional marriage counselor on public forums. Be careful!
This is your marriage, your home you are talking about.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by DriggityDre: 10:09pm On Apr 16, 2020
MRbitcoin869:
She is stupid.....u have the right to rape her....if she doesn't submit herself to you

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by abbey621(m): 10:09pm On Apr 16, 2020
If you don't have sex for 6 months will you DIE? How selfish can you be? A woman can lose her sex drive at any time, so can men. It started before childbirth and continued afterwards, what are you doing to ease her concerns? Did you ask if she was still in pain? Did you ask whether she's feeling depressed? Do you compliment her daily on how great she looks? You are so concerned about physical gratification that you neglect the most important of all, MENTAL!

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by loadedvibes: 10:09pm On Apr 16, 2020
Most likely psychological and emotional issues

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by jasman1: 10:10pm On Apr 16, 2020
Avoid you even to play with her? Child birth may reduce sexual interest but it looks like there’s something else going on for sure. Some women don’t deserve good men, they’re happier with abuse relationships, so sad

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 10:11pm On Apr 16, 2020
maybe it's her fetish. just beg it wont kill you.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Nharncygrace(f): 10:11pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?
Something like that..maybe due to the way or stress she had the baby

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by CalabarPikin: 10:11pm On Apr 16, 2020
grin

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Liftedhands(f): 10:11pm On Apr 16, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.
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Is it the childbirth that caused this?
Oga fear God and hold body small! Your wife just had her stomach cut open to bring forty life, her wounds are still healing, she is still getting used to being a mom, pregnancy and child birth toll is telling on her . Have you asked her how she is feeling? Many women loose libido during and after pregnancy. Please give her time. You can engage in pre-intimacy and MouthAction till she's ready to dig in with you.

Help her out with the baby and let her rest alot so her weary body wont be cursing you whenever you ask for sex,

I'll suggest you watch a C-section video on YouTube to know exactly what your wife just went through.


Her puna is not running away, hold yourself a bit longer till she's ready.

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