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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Ybaby: 12:46am On Apr 17, 2020
Olofin2:


I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?

At this you were the one that got pregnant and is currently breastfeeding the baby

NL won't help you.... caress you wife with words starting 5 hours before the do.... tell her she is prettier now and stop acting like a cave man

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Poseidon000: 12:47am On Apr 17, 2020
crackkhaus:
The very first day you begged her before she had sex with you, was the day your problem began.
Shit-test score = F9


You must either quit begging, or simply continue begging.
The choice is yours and it ain't that complicated.
Nuff said

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Enyinnayajames(m): 12:48am On Apr 17, 2020
maybe but for now let her be
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by govetin: 12:49am On Apr 17, 2020
My dear your wife needs a lot of support right now, being her first time. Some ladies go through this stage, and sex is the last thing in her mind. I hope someone is @home to asisst her? Sex irritates her for now. Pls, be understanding she will come along, trust me. The stress is too much for her, her sleep is disturbed. I am speaking from experience. Cheers!!!

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Bolosiye: 1:02am On Apr 17, 2020
abike12:
You are an evil man and I'm very sure you're unattractive. Do you know that a c section is a major surgery? You're coming to report a new mother to a forum full of strangers because of three months of no sex after a c section. You're a vile and disgusting excuse for a human being and I hope she leaves you and finds a better husband.
Sister take it easy now, abi you plan wait dis man b4? Person like you cannot be a good teacher, let alone counsellor. You can be very temperamental
Even as s doctor you will send most of your patients to their early grave. See this man has done no wrong by coming to this forum seek foradvice and counsels. It only shows that he concern about his marriage. And if you have been following through with dis thread madam, you will agree that this man must have been well counseled. Judging from the various reactions and responses to his ordeal by some very sensitive members of this forum. No body is a repository of knowledge. Just as they say "marriage is like a school were you never get to graduate, cos you learn new thing everyday ".

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Happyguy201: 1:06am On Apr 17, 2020
oga shes your wife not your sex slave. talk to her and find out what the problem is .

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by iLegendd(m): 1:07am On Apr 17, 2020
Tony142:
Dr. iLegendd what is the likely cause of his wife refused for sex? And what are the medication or prescription for the Ops? grin

Lol.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by donbal: 1:08am On Apr 17, 2020
My brother I understand your pains but you need to give your wife time, at the same time you need to pet her by getting her gifts.
Then most times child birth comes with changes.
Ladies in their body are fighting with a lot of things hormonal and emotional change so you need to give her time and watch her closely don't depart from her she needs your attention more than anything.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by kenodrill: 1:16am On Apr 17, 2020
In the other room, no one does that better than I do, I think.[/quote]







Don't be too sure of yourself chief. she might be faking 'ven orgasm just to boost your ego.
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Biggers82(m): 1:18am On Apr 17, 2020
Leave alone and go for sidechicks nah or you look for another lady to give you more kids and stop asking her for sex before she know what is happening the sidechicks ho don give you like three More kids by den her eyes go clear lolz
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Awoo88: 1:22am On Apr 17, 2020
You no get sense!!! Let her be. Go do your thing else where until she is ready. But while doing your thing, don't ever slack in any of your manly/ husband duty
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by friendl: 1:24am On Apr 17, 2020
My brother ,no let your madam see you finish for sex matter ,....free her ,she will come and beg you instead ,...

That why sometimes side chic good
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by quickly: 1:30am On Apr 17, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?


Chicken wey Dey lay egg yansh Dey pepper am.


3months she just born u wan come Dey Fire am again.

My friend go soapy jor


Maybe e nor Dey sweet ur wife and na only u Dey cum

Once woman orgasm regularly they r more addicted to sex than men
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by NoToPile: 1:44am On Apr 17, 2020
At least the OP asked a question because he wants to know why this is happening.

What I dont understand is the posts some boys are making all over the thread, people that dont know CS is a major surgery and needs much time to heal.

Oga give her more time.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by 1stola: 1:45am On Apr 17, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?
Guy
U no go use your head?

Go lock your prick for cupboard jor.

She needs to heal up for the next 1 year.
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Kingsley123456(m): 1:46am On Apr 17, 2020
Were you even suppose to be disturbing someone who gave birth through CS just about 3months ago ? disgusting

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Nobody: 1:47am On Apr 17, 2020
scrolldown88:
Women!
I would have said talk to her, but since this has been going on for months I'm going to go ahead and assume you've already done that.

So ignore her for now.
If my calculations are right, she should come crawling back when she notice that you've ignored her.

Let me tell y'all a secret. It doesn't matter if you are married to her or not, when they want, women will always use sex as a bargaining chip. This is highly manipulative to say the least and it works everytime. Call it Powe play, call it whatever. She is using sex to manipulate you. Now she already has you begging.

My advice: don't beg her anymore. Give her the space she seem to crave so much. Ignore her even. That's the only way to swing the balance.

But let's pray she's not seeing someone else, because if she is, then there's little chance that whatever you do will change anything.

Then again I'm not married, so, what do I know?
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Emmanuelhector(m): 2:11am On Apr 17, 2020
Women wants themselves to be worshiped even when they have nothing to offer except sex.. Man, give her space and never go begging again.. Just try and reset her brain with attitudes.. Being soft every time will turn you to a pussy

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by babyfaceafrica: 2:14am On Apr 17, 2020
NoToPile:
At least the OP asked a question because he wants to know why this is happening.

What I dont understand is the posts some boys are making all over the thread, people that dont know CS is a major surgery and needs much time to heal.

Oga give her more time.

Is it also the CS that doesn't allow her to communicate with her husband that she needa time to heal?... Muat he always beg
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by EzecProperties(m): 2:18am On Apr 17, 2020
Please,its the childbirth,you are not alone in this matter,its painful especially when you are not used to a side chick.Take it easy on her,there libido is usually low during this period.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Saao(m): 2:22am On Apr 17, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?
EVERYTHING YOU GUYS WILL BRING ONLINE. A CHILD OF 3 MONTHS YOU WANT START TO START TO NACK HER AFTER CS, BRO ALLOW BREEZE PASS HER FIRST. AGAIN IS LIKE U DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE YOUR WIFE. SAYING YOU WONT DO AGAIN NA BE LIE, KONJI GO SOON HOLD U U WILL RUN BACK TO HER BUT IN THE SERIOUS NOTE U NEED TO CHILL. ME AFTER 4 MONTHS OF CHILD BIRTH I DONT EVEN TOUCH MY WIFE HERE U ARE COMPLAINING 3 MONTHS, BECAREFUL SO U WONT IMPREGNAT HER.
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by EzecProperties(m): 2:22am On Apr 17, 2020
She is not seeing someone else,the main issue is that she needs more money and appreciation. Believe me,I have been in this situation before.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by mysteryman2014: 2:42am On Apr 17, 2020
Hope the issue with ur wife is not postpartum depression.
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by mysteryman2014: 2:52am On Apr 17, 2020
MRbitcoin869:
She is stupid.....u have the right to rape her....if she doesn't submit herself to you
It under the law..... Remember you paid her bride price



See my signature for something nice

Mad man

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by middlebelter(m): 2:55am On Apr 17, 2020
I have been married for about 12years and I will responding from the point of my experience.

Three months after child birth through Cs is too early for you to allow a misunderstanding because of sex. Apart from the biological adjustments her body will be going through because of her condition, remember it also has some emotional impacts on her. This is a woman you love and you love her not only because of sex? So, if she's not submitting to your sexual request for now, allow her to be, breastfeeding and the healing process of the CS may be taking its toll on her.

Even after several years of marriage my wife will just simply tell me she's not in the mood and sometime when the process is on she will just decide she not doing again. On the average any man will be upset with such treatment but that is where maturity come to play and that is why people regards married men as responsible men. It takes a real man to manage a woman and not misbehaving.

I will therefore implore you to give her a break for sometime, then call her express your pain and ask her to tell you what exactly was happening then. Tell her you know that on a good day she won't behave that way but you need to understand her better so that you will know how best to relate with her. Remember you people are still in the learning stage even after 10 years, you are still learning to understand each other.

Love her, she is taking care of your baby.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Cheechy(f): 2:58am On Apr 17, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


what has the above got to do with refusing sex with your husband AND/OR giving husband no reason or explanation whatsoever?!

to say u r daft, is putting it very mildly.

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Cheechy(f): 3:00am On Apr 17, 2020
babyfaceafrica:


Is it also the CS that doesn't allow her to communicate with her husband that she needa time to heal?... Must he always beg


shocked ......brain cells dying fast

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by chccho(m): 3:04am On Apr 17, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?
Your wife had a baby through CS 3months ago and u want to climb her already Na wa o!!

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by chccho(m): 3:08am On Apr 17, 2020
Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

Your wife had a baby through CS 3months ago and u want to climb her again Isn't she still breast feeding?? Why do u have to even bring that to us here Of all things to be worried about now, na pussy be your problem. U never hear of corona virus?

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Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by Churchgeh(f): 3:10am On Apr 17, 2020
@ OP, every woman goes through this phase after childbirth, maybe earlier fro third trimester(like your wife's case).

I'll like to ask you about your sexual history, how adventurous and open has it been?

Have you guys always communicated about your sexual expectation and satisfaction?

If not, its time to build an intimidate sexual life with your wife.

How? Go online, read, digest, and share resources with your wife.

She needs validation, a reassurance of your love and affection for her.

If you have had a great sexual history, and she changed then it's time to deploy all tactics to make her feel sexy again.

Assist her as much as you can, tell her how beautiful she is and so on.

May I add this, seek counsel from the right source when it comes to your home, she is the wife of your youth, cherish her.

You can send me a DM if you want.

Cheers


Ybaby:


At this you were the one that got pregnant and is currently breastfeeding the baby

NL won't help you.... caress you wife with words starting 5 hours before the do.... tell her she is prettier now and stop acting like a cave man
Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by sharone21(f): 3:11am On Apr 17, 2020
Casemiro:
shocked




It is either childbirth made her treat you so... or,




or someone else is shining that place for her...


Just pray it's childbirth and she isn't seeing someone else secretly


shocked


Whether CS or vagina delivery, a woman needs to be HEALED of any tear or scar then later sex.

She may be afraid of pregnancy as condom isnt reliable, and if she takes pills it might affect milk quality unless u prefer sex & your personal gratification to your baby health( she may stop breast feeding @ 3 months If u don't mind).....these are one of many sacrifices that FATHERS make that makes their wives cherish them.....If u still want 6 months breast feeding of your baby then now should be a time for BONDING, TRUE LOVE, CARE and pre-intimacy.

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