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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 5:09pm On Apr 17, 2020
Gracefulhope:
It involves developing high standard in all lifestyle of any personality.
no specifics?
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by yemmit90: 5:15pm On Apr 17, 2020
Gracefulhope:
It involves developing high standard in all lifestyle of any personality.

This is a summary of everything.

Being classy is a choice or personal decision, one just have to develop him/herself to attain a particular standard in society.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 17, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
I want to believe there are no general precise parameters that indicates certain features for one to ascertain who belongs to the league of CLASS...

what do you think?

Is it their level of exposure?

Is it their portfolios?

Is it their academic achievements?

Is it their dress sense?

Is it their financial status?

Has it got anything to do with a persons demeanor?

Has it got anything to do with verbal or written expressions?

Is it sense of reasoning or maturity?





I threw open this question so I can understand the reasons of a friend who is seeking for a classy lady to marry despite having ladies in his circle who has all the feature questions I outlined above.

what else is the guy looking for, when he uses the term CLASS?

A person with class is one who is poised, graceful, mature, or exudes any of these qualities in dress, behaviour, mannerisms, language, and everyday life. They possess excellent self-control, gentle, soothing, and unoffensive.

Classy can also refer to someone who puts a high standard on the way he behaves. A classy gentleman open doors for ladies grin A classy gesture is something someone does that reflects this high standard of behavior. Giving up ur seat to a pregnant lady on the bus... a classy gesture.

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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by PrincessB1(f): 5:51pm On Apr 17, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
no specifics?

It can't be specified because the way I love to feel classy might be different from yours.

It's per perception of ones aptness to the world and how you think the world has welcomed your effulgent personality.
Self confidence spice it all.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by yomi007k(m): 5:55pm On Apr 17, 2020
Magnoliaa:


this is it

Yes o. Classy babe wink
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 5:56pm On Apr 17, 2020
yomi007k:

Yes o. Classy babe wink
like u identify them... how?
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 5:59pm On Apr 17, 2020
PrincessB1:


It can't be specified because the way I love to feel classy might be different from yours.

It's per perception of ones aptness to the world and how you think the world has welcomed your effulgent personality.
Self confidence spice it all.
not bad for a definition... I m glad u have it carved out.

ur boo must be classy too I guess. like begets like.

I can imagine a classy wedding.grin
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by yomi007k(m): 5:59pm On Apr 17, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
like u identify them... how?

From how they reason bro.

It's not about fake outfits but the contents of their minds. Their dressing is modest but not cheap.

This is my personal submission.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 6:02pm On Apr 17, 2020
yomi007k:


From how they reason bro.

It's not about fake outfits but the contents of their minds. Their dressing is modest but not cheap.

This is my personal submission.
not bad. Nice one.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by PrincessB1(f): 6:07pm On Apr 17, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
not bad for a definition... I m glad u have it carved out.

ur boo must be classy too I guess. like begets like.

I can imagine a classy wedding.grin
Oh yes! Classy classiness galore.

You are in the spirit of classiness I guess wink
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 6:12pm On Apr 17, 2020
PrincessB1:
Oh yes! Classy classiness galore.
You are in the spirit of classiness I guess wink
Indeed...

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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by femi4: 7:16pm On Apr 17, 2020
When you don't miss classes ....then you are classy
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by jawalis(m): 7:33pm On Apr 17, 2020
yemmit90:


I can tell you there is actually something called CLASSY which has more or little do with money. Though you can get all the money in this world and yet being classless.

No. 1 criteria of Classy people is INTELLIGENT/WISDOM. Another criteria is CHARISMATIC, WEALTH as well as BEING IN POSITION AUTHORITY. To some extent, BEAUTY AND HANDSOMENESS can give you class in socient.


1. INTELLIGENT/WISDOM. This group of people dont engage unnecessarily in what most stupid or classless people would rather mess themselves around with. This make many to respect and see them as role model.

2. CHARISMATIC. Some are just born this way, some learn to be one, No matter what this set of people do or say, you will always feel or admire their present. They are the product of grace.

3. BEING IN POSITION OF AUTHORITY. i dont need to say much about this, you dont expect people in position of social important to be like ordinary citizens.

4. BEAUTY AND HANDSOME; if you are intelligent and smart, this can actually elevate you the upper class in our society.

5. BEING MORALLY SOUNDED. This can also give you a good class in society.

6. WEALTH. Being very rich is a class on it own. no matter how stupid a rich man is, he can still dine and wine with elites and influential people in society.

FINALLY: In our attempt not to give a damn about wealthy people or classy someone, we become proud, bitter, jealous and eventually wants to be like them.
Your opinion
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 7:35pm On Apr 17, 2020
femi4:
When you don't miss classes ....then you are classy
huh?
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by 9japride(m): 8:01pm On Apr 17, 2020
yemmit90:


This is a summary of everything.

Being classy is a choice or personal decision, one just have to develop him/herself to attain a particular standard in society.
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It might not be necessarily true. You can't buy or develop class, it's inbuilt. If you fake it, it will always raise its ugly head unexpectedly.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MXD5050: 8:04pm On Apr 17, 2020
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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Stillthebest: 8:21pm On Apr 17, 2020
kiss

Unfortunately you didnt add it. People might not agree that some ppl act and appear classy. But it is the truth. There are classy people.

And the only things that make one looks classy is "packaging". But must be backed with exposure and dress sense.

Anyone that has exposure will sure have a good dress sense and won't interact anyhow. And anyone who dresses well would at least have some lil money.

You can have all the academic excellence and still appear rowdy.

You might have all the money in the bank and still dress like Mr. Aro in my street who has 17 trucks and still dresses and talks like "puruntu"

And you might be A Chief analyst of a company and lack tastes.

All boils down to how you package yourself.

But all in all, I run my own race. Give no Bleep!
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 17, 2020
In simple tenses I define a person as classy when he/she minds his/her business
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Opekebaiby(f): 9:32pm On Apr 17, 2020
undecided undecided
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Opekebaiby(f): 9:33pm On Apr 17, 2020
Masonkaycares:
In simple tenses I define a person as classy when he/she minds his/her business


Well....
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Presidential007: 8:48am On Apr 18, 2020
Guys are more classy jare, most girls depends on guy's classiness to be classy
MadeINchenzen2:
Indeed...

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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by PrincessB1(f): 8:59am On Apr 18, 2020
Presidential007:
Guys are more classy jare, most girls depends on guy's classiness to be classy
grin

The thread is talking about explanation of what classiness is all about ( to both male and female).

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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Nobody: 9:02am On Apr 18, 2020
Personally I think attitude, self respect and respect for others plus financial independence makes anyone at all classy.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Yxxx: 9:04am On Apr 18, 2020
Classy my foot.
Society sets some crazy standards and you want to belong /identify with at all cost.
Classy is simply buying a gucci dress that doesn't fit to a mama chika's wear that fits so you can be seen as classy.
Buying that Gucci umbrella over idumota's own which may eventually spoil just in two outings.
My point.
If you have it to spend please do at your comfort.
If you don't ,use what you have at your own comfort.
Don't outdo yourself in the process.
Be happy and forget that damn society inconvenience definition of classy.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by Presidential007: 9:05am On Apr 18, 2020
Thanks, new to the site and still haven't got a hang of how things goes here. Well, I support what you said. Each to his own level of classiness as one deems fit.
PrincessB1:
grin

The thread is talking about explanation of what classiness is all about ( to both male and female).

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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by PrincessB1(f): 9:40am On Apr 18, 2020
Presidential007:
Thanks, new to the site and still haven't got a hang of how things goes here. Well, I support what you said. Each to his own level of classiness as one deems fit.
Exactly.

Welcome to the league

Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by laughitall(m): 11:09am On Apr 18, 2020
Goodmarlian:
Absolutely nothing nobody is special I was standing next to wizkid last year and I felt nothing why are people crazy about another person who shits and piss just like you.
The fact that you still remember standing next to wizkid last year .. there's a significance.. u stand next to the guy that sold fuel to u yesterday u didn't remember that .. but last year experience is still in your head ...

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Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by ThierryJay: 12:11pm On Apr 18, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
no specifics?

Classiness is something intangible. You know it's there but it's difficult to pinpoint what it is exactly.

Being classy is about being able to demonstrate high standards EFFORTLESSLY in every facet of one's life. It's about having CONTROL over one's attitude to life as opposed to being all over the place or trying too hard to attain excellence. It's connotes all-round comportment.

A classy girl is elegant, fashionable without being flashy, mature in mentality, knowledgeable enough to hold intelligent discussions, has excellent taste, comported and courteous, exposed, firm, self-dependent and gracious to others.

If classiness was a football player, it would have the face of Zidane or Iniesta, rather than Ronaldinho and Messi who are explosive.
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 10:30am On May 13, 2020
ThierryJay:


Classiness is something intangible. You know it's there but it's difficult to pinpoint what it is exactly.

Being classy is about being able to demonstrate high standards EFFORTLESSLY in every facet of one's life. It's about having CONTROL over one's attitude to life as opposed to being all over the place or trying too hard to attain excellence. It's connotes all-round comportment.

A classy girl is elegant, fashionable without being flashy, mature in mentality, knowledgeable enough to hold intelligent discussions, has excellent taste, comported and courteous, exposed, firm, self-dependent and gracious to others.

If classiness was a football player, it would have the face of Zidane or Iniesta, rather than Ronaldinho and Messi who are explosive.

interesting
Re: What Do You Think Makes A Lady Or A Guy Classy? by MadeINchenzen2: 6:50pm On May 29, 2020
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