LadyGCrueDKilaB:
me na

Galactico4ever:
I've dated a poor girl and that was the best girlfriend i've ever heard. Apart from other qualities,she was super appreciativee even for a #100 card or just calling to say goodnight.

pweeryambre:

Guys from poor home feel unnecessarily entitled too, why guys from Rich home are very appreciative and supportive. My experience.

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

Alexaonfleek:
Thanks for sharing this.
People generalize a lot, forgetting that there are always exceptions.
In the end,it all boils down to home training and exposure.

Myer:


Oshey Sigmund Freud.

The truth is there's no generic answer in this kind of survey.
Some girls/guys from poor homes are appreviative while some aren't.
However, we could find that majority of girl/guys from rich homes are more appreciative.

But no general consensus.

faithugo64:
If you have not been in a relationship with at least 100 women, then your assumption is wrong.

faithugo64:
If you have not been in a relationship with at least 100 women, then your assumption is wrong.

Vulcan24:


oh boy u dey decieve urself o!

no come near babes from Rich homes if u no chop belleful... u wan ridicule urself unless she is ready to brush u up

middle class - it depends, those ones na friends and over ambition dey kill them

lower class- ur best bet, just put ur nose to the ground and look for the humble one , I say humble" and ya good to go

purpinkx:
The problem most humans have is seeing things in extremities, black and white, no middle ground.

[Some] Rich people [I've met] are greedy.
[The] Women [I've met] are wh°res.
[The] men [ I allow into my life] are dogs.

Etc.

We don't like to use the words in the brackets because it exposes something about us, and it makes our argument invalid.

I saw a research on coaches and training facilities.

According to the research, when a coach, for some reason, likes a player and ‘thinks’ that they can go far in life, the coach gives them more training opportunities, corrects them constructively, freely offers useful tips and tricks, as well as become interested in their progress.

The player feels encouraged and, most times, becomes successful.

However, if the coach, for some reason, doesn't like a player and ‘thinks’ they don't have what it takes to be successful, he doesn't invest( or ’waste’) his time on the player. After all, they'll be no good.

Subconsciously, the player picks up on this and behaves accordingly. A few see it for what it is, do all they can to prove the Coach wrong, and they succeed.

A real life scenario. There's this shop I usually Barb at. There are two barbers in the shop, but I like one more than the other.

Even if the barber I like makes a mistake in my hair, I still feel dope AF. But, the other barber could give me a clean hair cut, maybe even better than that of the barber I like, and I'll feel my confidence drop until the hair grows back. I even had to get the barber's number so I'll schedule a haircut with him before going to the shop.

It is what it is, we are humans and we all have biases.

Could it be that you are projecting your expectations of these people on them? Or that you're attracting what you think of?

Frankenstein:
Why did you say thanks? Are you from a poor home?

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

Alexaonfleek:
Ehn?
What does it matter if I say thanks?
So what if I'm from a poor home?

PotatoSalad:
Doesn't have to be girls from rich homes. It's synonymous with rich people. They give out but hardly receive, so they appreciate the smallest gesture.

Sorry, we, not they. Sad life

akaahs:
Op, U may be right though my experience is from two girls. One, her mother was representing their constituency in the National Assembly. This girl is simple from head to toe, the way she talked to everyone working in their house, the way she treats me without any subjugation. The girl is just good to everyone she comes in contact with. Sadly, we aren't together now but she always wish.
The second one, her dad is into oil and gas business. I meet her around their residence in villa. So humble too but into drugs which I was able to her get out of it. She demand, appreciate my effort no matter how little it is. She cheerful giver but sadly, she died last year from stomach complications.

akaahs:
Op, U may be right though my experience is from two girls. One, her mother was representing their constituency in the National Assembly. This girl is simple from head to toe, the way she talked to everyone working in their house, the way she treats me without any subjugation. The girl is just good to everyone she comes in contact with. Sadly, we aren't together now but she always wish.
The second one, her dad is into oil and gas business. I meet her around their residence in villa. So humble too but into drugs which I was able to her get out of it. She demand, appreciate my effort no matter how little it is. She cheerful giver but sadly, she died last year from stomach complications.

kamez:
i disagree totally... ladies from rich homes are ass**holes (at least from the few that i have dated)...


broke girls are liabilities and always feel entitled..always on the lookout for that heaven sent guy to lift her and her entire family out of poverty....

after all my dating experiences thus far, i have come to the conclusion that the best type of babes to date are the ones who work and hustle for their own money...

these are the real wife material...not some daddy's girl hiding behind her fathers wealth

traihit:


What a sensible analyses you've made here!
I'll call that 'Preference Bias' and it happens in the world of education too.
If a teacher sees a child and assumed that the child will be intelligent, he/she gives the child more attention, asks more questions and expects more from the child. The child notices this and adjusts accordingly.
Meanwhile, the ones that have been ignored take cue from that and also act accordingly. They assume in their head that their lives isn't to any good, they're bad etc and this will in turn make them all the negativity they've thought of.

We have a natural tendency to be biased towards something or someone instead of another and this shapes our view of them and ultimately, the results we get from them. Even our experiences on life is full of biases which eventually favours or disfavours us. It's all about being unassuming and opening one's mind. Give everyone a chance no matter who they are. I've met someone I didn't like at the first and second meeting but by the year ending, he was closest neighbor, friend and confidant. Let's give all at least two chances.

eni4real:
Sigmund Freud

Frankenstein:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, I was just curious. A good number of wealthy people around the world came from poor backgrounds.

djon78:



It might shock you to know that girls raised in rich, affluent, middle class homes are some of the most behaved women you will come across.

It's even the boys that misbehave most times.
Why do you think the rich marry the rich?
You will see big men insisting that there sons marry from affluent homes too?

Girls raised from poor homes may turn out good but it's rare. Most behave improper.
Guys raised from poor homes are the ones that behave proper and hence get themselves out of poverty through education and landing good jobs.

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.