Bruh it depends. If I take her out today and tomorrow she buzz me for let's say recharge card or cooking gas filling, I will oblige her and afterwards study her to see if that's her habitual attitude before concluding she is a leech or not..

The reason for my position is that Some ladies will like to test if you are stingy or not. So if she asks you something and you know you can afford it, give her. But if you cannot afford it, be open to her and make her understand

Samakus:


A woman that you take out and tomorrow she's already buzzing you for things is a leech. Don't sugarcoat it

Samakus:






Modified!! Lol unquoted

Thanks for unquoting. Tell Lalasticlala this one big pass anaconda.

In my opinion and from the experience I have, most if not all ladies are worried and desperate about marriage when they are aging, regardless of being goals getters or something.
My advice has always been ladies should be patient to build relationships and balance them with pursuit of life and career goals. Don't pause one for the other. Pursue the two simultaneously.

IAMBlesssed:


Exactly.. A woman should is not less a human.She should have her life goals and plans, the husband is meant ro be a partner. All she needs from a husband is love and support.

That being said, my point is that most women with this kind of mindset are not desperate/will not bait for marriage even tho they sincerely desire to be married because men who desire her would come for her.Above all,wise women know there's no happiness in such union..

cerpvad:
Bruh it depends. If I take her out today and tomorrow she buzz me for let's say recharge card or cooking gas filling, I will oblige her and afterwards study her to see if that's her habitual attitude before concluding she is a leech or not..

The reason for my position is that Some ladies will like to test if you are stingy or not. So if she asks you something and you know you can afford it, give her. But if you cannot afford it, be open to her and make her understand

What stupid test? A girl that has started begging you for this or that a day after your date is a leech! Ordinarily, begging should be shameful. I feel ashamed begging my guys for something, let alone an opposite sex. There should be an element of self worth for any human. Begging takes away your prestige

BrilliantGigolo:


Thanks for unquoting. Tell Lalasticlala this one big pass anaconda.

His love for anaconda won't allow him see engaging topics

BrilliantGigolo:
Nigerian ladies are generally amazing women.
Ladies from wealthy homes are caring until you marry them and can't provide more luxury than they had under their parents. It is that time nag, yell and tell the whole neighborhood how they sponsored their wedding to a low-life like you. Op, you lost nothing.


The ones that twerk nude on Instagram don spoil the good ones rep.

If you need a goal oriented lady in Nigeria. Catch those that major in the following while they're still young :

Finance (Accounting, Economics...) more women dominate the finance sector despite gross misogyny in this country. You tend to make wise economic decisions and channel your investment to the right sector with these groups of ladies.eg. Okonjo Ngozi Iweala and her peers.

Health: (Medicine, Pharmacy and Nursing) . American Nursing industry is saturated with made in Nigeria nurses. With these groups of ladies you may even get the opportunity to migrate to a developed country. Notable mention is Prof. Dora whose achievement at NAFDAC cannot be repeated.

Law: You get free legal advice and will never pay 10 percent to an agent for any purchase. You will get your power of attorney free of charge. If she is focused you'll be riding government cars 15 years after her graduation. The Nigerian Bench is dominated by women. Notable mention is Mary Odili.

Never go near a babe reading Theatre Arts because even their Papa and Mama know say na Olosho Dem be. No parent for this Naija go gree make better pickin go do Theatre Arts.

Never go near a babe who intends to play politics (Not referring to technocrats like the last two predecessors of the Minister of Finance) because Dem go scatter her kitten all the days of her life.

Cut ties with any lady that shows you her uncle before father or mother
Cut ties with any lady that doesn't call your phone without you recharging her phone. She lacks both ambition and wisdom.

This doesn't mean you should be a Simp for her.
May God deliver us from women that will turn us into Simps.

that politics part is a lie

Glo4issy:
that politics part is a lie

It isn't. You wanna try politics?

Lolz, bruh if she is a girl that really has my specs, I prefer to pass her test if she asked for something though it should be something that I can afford ohhhh. Otherwise, na only she waka come.

Samakus:


What stupid test? A girl that has started begging you for this or that a day after your date is a leech! Ordinarily, begging should be shameful. I feel ashamed begging my guys for something, let alone an opposite sex. There should be an element of self worth for any human. Begging takes away your prestige

LedRock:
I read your post on that thread about poor girls not being appreciative, I was angry with you because you left something special.

For your question the answer is No. To meet sensible and goal oriented ladies is really hard, like 1 in 500 girls.

I don't think they're that scarce. I believe it's a function of environment. Them dey where them dey jaree

Mobree:


I don't think they're that scarce. I believe it's a function of environment. Them dey where them dey jaree

Really? Dem dey hide inside cave?

LedRock:
Really? Dem dey hide inside cave?

Hiannn...cave fah!?