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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Roseey0(f): 9:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I am Anambra and I married Ebonyi. Aunty doesn't see you in her future. If she does, she knows how to turn her parents to like you irrespective of where you come from. I can make my parents like even Hausa sef. It's all in her hands. But Truth be told. Anambra parents have lots of reservation about Ebonyi but you can always convince them if your heart and mind is truly there. And if they know you can take the right decision for yourself in life. They will accept anything you accept. Op, time to move on. We all invest in relationships, be it financially or emotionally. when it doesn't work we have to still move on. At least, you non-pay school fees. Na normal boyfriend errands you run. Move on. It's better a broken relationship than a broken marriage 5 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ikorodureporta: 9:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni:
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by fashionale(m): 9:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
You have proven to her that without her, you're finished.. You've displayed all your cards to her and there is nothing she is seeing again... You've made mistake but you can turn back and be The Man |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Olude193: 9:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
tomju: Couldn't have said better |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Dara30(f): 9:53pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Giwoni post=88616841]My Love Experience Good day NLanders I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l). It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents. Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully. Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back. In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k. I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State. She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other. In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree... This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country. This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback. Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything. Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision. In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me. Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally. thanks Maybe she does not love you to marry you.please I have a beautiful sister who is a level 3 law student.if ur interested hit me up. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Punchline33: 9:53pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
How to know u are inc charge of ur woman, if u can fart (mess) carelessly in her front and she doesnt complain but laughs over it, then she loves u. Bro, when it comes to women matter u have to be an authoritarian like Benito Musolinni, Robert Mugabe, or Donald Trump 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by AgentGoat: 9:53pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Don't allow woman control your relationship next time abeg. The lady no like you right from time how could you miss that? |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by AreaFada2: 9:53pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Dude, you had no experience with ladies before you met her. You also seem to have been cocooned a bit. She was always a fake ass girl, depending on you to finish her degree. I am shocked by how much discrimination exists within Igboland. Especially against Ebonyi people. Dude you deserve a better girl and a better MIL than them. If you do not meet another good girl before you go abroad, do not worry. Maybe it's your fate to marry abroad. You will go abroad without any baggage behind at home. It will give you enormous freedom. Forget about the money you spent on her. You Will probably remain financially better than her always. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by potent5(m): 9:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni:Your mumu Don do. You beta sever all ties with this parasite of a gal before she ruins you for life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ikorodureporta: 9:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Verdict: She Never Loved You.... Your Cash Held The Relationship! |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ugomakas(f): 9:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Since she don't love u definitely because of ur state, marrying her will be d worst mistake u will make in life. forge ahead and look for someone that truly loves u |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by seyenko(m): 9:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better. The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools. She was never yours runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn! Giwoni: 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by naijaman2225(m): 9:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
FEMALE UNDERGRADUATES NORMALLY SHINE THEIR EYES FROM 300L. NA DAT TIME DEM DEY START TO LOOK FOR PROSPECTIVES. U WEY BE MALE JUS GO CARRY WAHALA FROM 100L. NOR COMPLAIN, NA YOU CAUSE YOUR OWN PROBLEM. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by chiefolododo(m): 9:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
THIS IS IRIRI-AYE THIS IS A STRANGE THING THIS STORY SHOULD BE TRANSLATED TO AN INDIAN FILM |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by SavageBoy: 9:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
In as much as this guy is a medical student, he still needs to be taken to the ICU where he would be properly treated by Dr Ubunja ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by wifeesnatcher(m): 9:56pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Op, keep your head straight, you haven't done something wrong and please delete that girl in your memory because if you still accept her back eventually, she will never be loyal to you. she must have seen someone her parents want to matchmake her with perhaps someone richer than you you just count your loses and move on, you will be fine |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Sharatan(m): 9:56pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: You dey yarn like better jew man.. Sharp guy nor dey fall mugu like this. The babe suppose dey die for you not the other way round. Na your coordination from day 1 cause am. Anyways, you and her chapter don end., Because if she really does love you, she will make it a point to convince her parents no matter what the situation maybe. Brood over your lost love and move on. There's always better lovers out in the real world. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Bayoibee: 9:56pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
You don’t know what destiny awaits you, what if you were never meant to be, Oga don’t force it before everything start going sideways for you, at least now things are going well for you, if she was meant to be yours she’ll stay or comeback, just accept the truth and move on. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by limpopo: 9:56pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Till date I have not seen any man that successfully sponsor a girl through tertiary education and ended up marrying her !!! It's not possible , it can't happen ..either you marry her and impregnate her twice before sponsoring her or sponsor her as charity or forget it.. There is something about sponsoring a girls education that will end up making them hate the fool that sponsored them . Don't try it you are not her father or uncle or brother . #Copied 7 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by naijaman2225(m): 9:57pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Spaceclenzy1:IF SHE COMES BACK, SHE SHOULD BE REJECTED. NO MAN SHOULD BE SATISFIED WITH SLOPPY SECONDS. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Giwoni: 9:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
safarigirl:Yes, she was my first love. thanks |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by mrLj(m): 9:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
MARX77: It's hard and I understand but this is just perfect. Forget her for now and focus on your future. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Mayohl: 9:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
you've already dull yourself
you are on your own bro (oyo) don't dull yourself next time... take heart |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Taiwojon(m): 9:59pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
them don cast this one waster investment |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Invogue(m): 9:59pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Giwoni post=88616841]My Love Experience Good day NLanders I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l). It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents. Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully. Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back. In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k. I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State. She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other. In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree... This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country. This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback. Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything. Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision. In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me. Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally. thanks Bro..i understand how you feel but dont let it weigh you down, just manup, girls plenty na just say u neva too open eye na why d girl beat u home nd away..she is just ur babe cos of d gains..dt girl self no even love u..just maintain as if nothing happened..try to hangout with friends and find your self again after sometime..Bleep other girls, infact this is a time to explore, next time if u even wn fall in love when u see somekyn doings u go decode what the future holds..am sorry..from me to u..just be a man!!! |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
valnd:Not just ebonyi, add Imo and abia. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Please explain why we're getting all worked up after your day to day philanthropic Deeds?! Guess you're new to the Game: Next time,make sure you break one of her legs while in bed so you don't start catching feelings when she starts showing Wings.
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by kingsleyds(m): 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
My brother take heart.. I am from Anambra and I can gladly tell you that she lied when she said that someone from Anambra can’t marry from Ebonyi.. my sister got married to someone from River States. That babe never loved you. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by naijaman2225(m): 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
fattprince: WELL SPOKEN. YOU ARE GOOD TO GO. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by fashionale(m): 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
MARX77: You're very correct MARKX77 He has to end the relationship now before she end it. -Stop all forms of financial assistance what so ever.. -find another girl asap to avoid loniness which will make him to go back to her again 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Homeboiy: 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
fattprince: How far bro Wetin bring Enugu come this matter na We are not Anambra pls 5 Likes 1 Share |
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