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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by JasperVII(m): 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Ubunja Your help is needed |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by zinodizt: 10:01pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Sam119:Gbam! |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Realfrankie(m): 10:01pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
If na your fellow guy you for say you no get |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: You be Classic text book maga, d highest I have spend on any one girl na 1k
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by emmanuelpopson(m): 10:02pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
move on with your life.. she aint yours from day one.. in yoruba parlance.. u be abeleja yan// her mind is with someone else and she may see that u are weak and cant make her loved you in return. when u stick too much to a growing girl and your emotions are controlled by just passion and nothing else.. she sees that u are not gonne be able to make decisions that may help her due to d intimacy.. u shd let her be..also.. guys shd make an end to sponsoring ladies to any lenght except she is married or engaged to u and marriage is around d corner.. wen u invested lots of money and she elope with another.. u will be bitter and this may affect you emotionally in d next relationship.. FIND ANOTHER GAL.. SHE DOESNT DESERVE YOU.. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by yommen: 10:02pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Spaceclenzy1: Should he now accept her if she comes back? @Op I understand how it will hurt you. Everybody went through it at some points. It will only make you a stronger and better person. Someone better is waiting for you outside there if you two don't end up together. Moreso, If you've been spending on her and her mum and it's at this time her mum is saying you can't marry her, both mother and daughter are dangerous, Bro. Run for your life, Bro. I tell you. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Sarah20A(f): 10:04pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Spaceclenzy1:so after all the Enugu abi na Anambra guys don chop her finish then she go come carry her liability come dump for the op? That girl is not only self-centered but she's an enemy of progress. If I had a boyfriend whose family wanted to sponsor his education in London I would have encouraged him to go for either one of this reasons ,"for our betterment in the future as a couple .or, I know am not going to marry him so I won't want to hinder or delay his progress". but instead she kept him for her Monetary wants. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by DoubleEngine007: 10:04pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
missimelda01:How will you even think of comparing women of those days to our present day girls?? Women of those days were disciplined ,but today we see the opposite among our young women .. I expected the guy your replied to give you a perfect reply to this insult ,your poured on his mom..But d guy didn't impress me at all. Missimelda01 how could you compare women of,60s,70s,to these 90s/2000 set of ladies walking nude everywhere. Giving out their pussies,like the normal hand shake to anything that has deek,they come in contact with daily? How could you compare our mothers to this generation of girls ,who sell their destiny over a plate of pepper soup ,plate of rice or front seat of a car? Missimelda01 don't make that mistake again,because you just can't compare them. Op ,ur matter just tire me seriously..Even if it was actually her mom's opinion to breakup with you,then her action would have even helped you a little to recover fast. But it's obvious the girl was using you all those times,but don't cry too much. She will get even worst of this same thing she did to you. Hand go meet her,cux what goes around.... For all those saying she paid with sex.. Didn't she enjoy the sex more? Small time they will say they r not oloshos,but they collect money for sex on code. Any female who collect money for sex can be referred to as an...Olosho....also known as an.....Okpo......... Now tell me ,who is deceiving who? 3 Likes
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by okeyben10: 10:04pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Non indigent person?? We like to speak big English too much on ds nairaland. Chi59: 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by saracen: 10:05pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
OP, learn from the great tai2. You suffer from artificial control. Please read this thread and save yourself in future. Never sacrifice yourself for a woman. Save yourself first. https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman/ |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by poweredcom(m): 10:06pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Wicked parents have influenced her mind Tribalism amongst the same tribe Shame to de.mothers |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by otaik: 10:06pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Bro move on with your life. She doesn't love you as you do. Even if you marry her you won't be happy in that marriage. Your wife should love you more or at least 50-50 at the beginning cos once kids comes in the family, women begins to push some of their love to their children. For men, they continue to love their wife. If really she loves you, your state wouldn't be a problem or she would put up a fight at least. It's obvious she can't marry you. Forget her n what you spent( it's little cash compared to what is ahead). 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ISellAll01: 10:06pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Bros eh, come and marry me. I'm single and ready to mingle. One man's meat na another person poison. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Dan809: 10:06pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
My brother, my advise to u is let her go, any lady that place u on second choice, she did not worth u. Never become an aption for a lady be a choice. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by 1vid(m): 10:07pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree... Na this line u for Bleep up big time. May God give u brain nxt chance. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by grandstar(m): 10:07pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni( You are a blessed man! You are truly blessed! That liability is now going to be off your back. Be jumping for joy. You didn't even need a cunning way to get rid of her. She got rid of herself. My friend, stop throwing pearls before swine. With what you've written, there's nothing special about her. She's just an empty full-of-herself-parasite that had been leeching off you. You get married to that type, even N10 pocket money for junior will be "go and ask your daddy". You deserve better! Say to yourself "I deserve better!". If it is true to spent so much on her as you said, it shows you'll treat your wife like a queen. You need someone that'll treat you like a king. You don't need someone who looks down on your tribe. So what if you're Ebonyi? Is it because you guys don't love money? You guys are simple that is all. You're different from other Igbos does not mean you're not human. At least, I know you'll not use me as a sacrifice or when names of those on death row in Cambodia are mention for drug trafficking, your kinsman name won't be there. You're from a fairly rich background. You have a bright future in front of you. After finishing uni, don't be too quick to rush into marriage o! Marriage may mess up many plans. You may want to further and probably settle in the US for example where you can easily earn $200,000+ a year as a doctor. Further your studies, get a good job and then settle down. She'll be filled with jealousy later. Apostle Paul said, "He who thinks is something when he is nothing is deceiving himself". Don't you think Apostle Paul was right? You too, stop lavishing money on women. Many girls will love you without spending a dime on them. What if you don't have? 4 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by valnd: 10:07pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Chi59:Ebonyi is worst, they see them as bush people and you won't blame them because a lot them full Anambra and the way most of them behaves. Hmm.... Imo and Abia is not really a problem for Anambra. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by frank41(m): 10:09pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Johntitus: Exactly! |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by flokii: 10:09pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Why do some guys feel it's okay to shoulder responsibility of a girl they are not married to? For Christ sake, what happened to her parents or family members.. @OP If you want my honest opinion, the lady has right to choose whoever she wants to spend the rest of her life with regardless of your expenses/investment (that one na your cup of coffee). You better dust yourself up and move on with life, complete you medical degree programme, look out for other beautiful ladies and start a relationship and forget about the ingrate. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Dearlord(m): 10:12pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
fattprince: Guy , you better respect yourself, shey to cry done dey hungry you? Where did you see him mention Enugu? 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by snilyung(m): 10:12pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I knw there are sum men going tru this kind tin right nw....y'all should learn una lessons oo |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 10:13pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
yesloaded:Anambra men marry Imo women more than their own women because Imo women are more or less the prettiest set of Igbo women and they are too classy and educated to be ignored, even Imo men dont marry outside Imo state because they want to marry Imo women... The problem is that Ebonyi people are seen as primitive people that is why people reject their marriage proposal. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Emekaossai(m): 10:13pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
RonaldoVido: Well said. Most poor people are ingrate. Instead of showing appreciation, they will look for a way to bring you down 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Joshforeal: 10:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni:Dear Nairalanders is there a way I can upload that song. Anyway it goes thus. Omo see Broda, Broda, Broda wey mumu... |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Pickieox(m): 10:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: This guy no be for here o. U don whack aswear... 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Lawrencestix(m): 10:15pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Surfacebaba: 10:16pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
bro move on man a lot of fish in ocean ,,,keep ur head up.but u self Bleep up ooo u dey gv babe money,? |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by donaldfafree(m): 10:16pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Igbo girls. So predictable 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Rutherford2019: 10:17pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
OP she's not meant for you even though you may not know When you finally meet your wife, guy you will start laughing at yourself 95% of young people always act mumu in their first relationship I'm from Enugu and I know that it's a difficult thing for Anambra girl to marry Abakaliki man. You will meet your dream girl as time goes on 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Giwoni: 10:17pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
[quote author=callmeRichie post=88670184][/quote] Late 20s |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by boxer022(m): 10:17pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
My brother I am not going to insult you but will tell you the fact in black and white. That girl in question never loved you, she only used you as a school provider and maybe school boyfriend. You made a lot of mistakes while you were with her. How can you do all those things for a girl who never loved you in the first place? You made nasty decisions which I know you might be regretting now. One of them is that you would have been outside the country studying and gathering your studies. What I want you to do now is dust your ass and move on with your remaining studies. Forget about her completely, focus on what you want for yourself and don't allow this to distract you. Take heart my brother. |
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