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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Centcanada: 10:39pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Issue of love here on nairaland is too complicated. Anyway, I feel your pain sha but in everything, give thanks to God because she is not ur wife. Move ahead with life because you have a brighter future than her. Though is very painful but as far as you re the a man, hold urself and move ahead. This show that you re beginning to know the different between men and boys. Heartbroken are part of journey to become a man. Good luck. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by lexy2014: 10:41pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Spaceclenzy1: He did it because he thought he could buy love not because he thought he loved her. They are two different things |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:41pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
IloveToMess:Are you done? |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Baffupdrizz(m): 10:41pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
There are so many things wrong with your story/experience, that of you don't learn and correct now, the next one might be worse or end in suicide. I will not comment publicly. Quote this comment with your contact details if you like. (Terms and conditions apply) |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by JasonBoss: 10:41pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: She use you cash out.. Choi Fear woman.. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:41pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Whenever the excitement about marriage is one sided, abort mission. You won't say you didn't see the handwriting on the wall, you foolishly didn't wanna read it. You are lucky you haven't married and taken her abroad. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by lovenavigation: 10:41pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Bros, go find another woman, the girl doesn't like you as you mumu too much. How can you as a student be taking care of another student just because of stupid love? Ebonyi people used to be deadly, this i know too well. Just leave the girl and walker pass.. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by seunmsg(m): 10:42pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Some men really mumu o. What the fvck, OP 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by UKBobo(m): 10:42pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Na so. Lesson 195 in life. Move onto next module. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Treborblue(m): 10:42pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
missimelda01:Fvvk what a damn comeback damnn |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Mrlouis: 10:43pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Women are fickle especially young women. Unfortunately, due to this, many young men are left in the lurch. There's no rule book to love. You loved and lost. Lick your wounds and move on!! You're young hence such heartbreak will shake you to your core but afterwards, you'll be strong and wiser. Many of us have been there REGARDLESS of some of the commenters sounding very high handed. Never initiate what you cannot sustain Never Ever Beg Love. NEVER!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by uthlaw: 10:43pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Na God catch you....when we tell you not to love,you will all said love is sweet when you meet the right person....he don finish eye don clear! 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 10:43pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Chi59:It seems you are from Ebonyi or Abia, i get why you want to include IMO by fire by force. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni:she's confused. It's all her loss. Finish your studies and go and abroad you have a very sure future which she could have benefitted from but foolishly, out of youthful exuberance decides to leave and chase shadows |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by frozen70(f): 10:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: My dear, you are such a wonderful person and a humble guy, keep it up I want you to understand one thing, you know people from Ebonyi are always underrated and you know why it's so, let make it a topic for another day I was glad to read your post as you are from Ebonyi state, that's a good one form an intelligent amd brilliant person As for your girl friend, she has been using your head since day one of rhis relationship and he took your simplicity and gentility for being stupid and being a fool Now I want you to brace up and man up yourself Pls and pls forget about her and move on From your write up, you may end up with a bitter marriage with her or her puppet and must dance to the tune of her dictate There are wonderful girls out there looking for a caring man like you to build walls around I know as a medical student, you want to marry a fellow profession but you can always get that in your field Don't think about her, she is in her own lane and you will keep on be disturbing yourself if you keep on waiting for her approval and even when that approval will come, it will come with a condition that before she can marry you, you guys ha e to relocate to over seas Relax yourself and move on, stopping disturbing her and stop taking care of her You have done enough for her and let her go with that, you will get another one and she will get her match As for your brother, don't allow him to put you under pressure for marriage, you area still young and lack some experience of marriage, get a job or relocate and further your studies as you grow you understand the nitty gritty of marriage Your profession makes you unavailable at home all the time and you need a woman that will understand you so that she can take care of the home front even if she is a doctor Time will cone she will look for you and by then you will tell her you have found someone else and won't risk leaving her for anybody She is forming because she is into medicals and hope to get a big fish that will take care if her and hers not a bigginer like you Pls relax and fashion away of dropping her gradually without being hurt Even the money you do give her, reduce it *She can't be rejecting to eat dog meat yet she wants to share the meat with her teeth* |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 10:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Chi59: Imo women ARE too choosy to be ignored. A lot of men from Anambra have Imo wives and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by annyz: 10:46pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
My friend! Who does that now? After all these true life stories & you still fall victim because of blind love. This is no news ok? You fetched insects infected fire wood so you should expect lizard ok? No man staying away from rivers or pools ever get drawn you know? But never mind! There is law of karma ok? |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Alwaysachick: 10:47pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Normal Anambra behaviour, they are very stereotyped about other states and don't marry from other Eastern states. Most not all...hopefully. Very uncivilized peeps. Sorry for your loss and heart break, move on! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nwaonyishi69: 10:48pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Cock and bull. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:48pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
IloveToMess:Not at all. I'm from Imo state 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by razible5384(m): 10:48pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
missimelda01:you lots will always device means to side ur likes,by trying to shift the goal post and playing the blame games, this is someone that has just been emotionally jilted an all u could do is to ask silly questions.... What else can she do for her order than sex which she does at her own volition |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:49pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
missimelda01:My guy na true talk oo. You know say i no reason am sef. How abt the things she did for you 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 10:50pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: I dont have issue with that myself because i as an Imo man will not marry from outside Imo state. I cant leave those beauties and brains to go seek wife elsewhere. So its a thing of choice, no hard feelings. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by andyanders: 10:50pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Op sorry, she has allready gotten somebody from her place who is allready comfortable hence her action. Most Nigerian ladies has fish brain and do not want to build up their life with a man who is not settled. You only wasted your money taking care of her !cus she is from a poor home. you have nothing to loose cus you read good course. Just years to come she will regret her action and be looking for you, but that will be too late. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 10:50pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Chi59:I knew you would say that. But i know you are from Abia. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Tonymegabush1(m): 10:51pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Well i really gotten nothing much 2 say @ op enuf advice has been given out already and all seems spot on but i will say one thing never let a lady call the shot in ur r/ship or treat you as if without her you are gone.... Let me tell u a story A lady once told how she lost her supposed suitor a well to do man that was even into importation travelling outside the country this said man in each of his travels do come bck with gift for her which she always collect [babes like collecting 9va 4get that] they became best of frnd, the guy was nursing the intention of marrying her but was taking everyth gradually, one faithful day they both went out, the stylishly ask her questn bothering on marriage, her preferred state to married to, the mumu open mouth begin yan nonsense she said a lot of no good thing about ebonyi state that she can never marry a man 4rm there esp Abakaliki, guy was left hrtbroken because he happened to be 4rm there as well. After that day the guy withdraw 4rm her 100% that she even start getting worried why the silence she leta got to know the guy is 4rm Ebonyi, [the mumu gal never marry ooo 33yrs and counting ] To those asking why ladies turn ebonyi men down as regards marriage. A good number of ladies cum mothers believe that ebonyi men dnt take care of thier women but in the end bad ppl full everywhere.. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by HopeSpencer: 10:51pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: Let me tell you one thing, every man experienced the same thing you experienced in their own way. Women are deadly creatures... you will get the best among them by you becoming a part-demon, part-angel. In all, God is the giver of every good and perfect gift. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Utiii: 10:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
1.Well it's start with your mindset,from giving her money this way to looking desperate even if you meant something in the beginning you are basically nothing now. 2. People in love don't sick advice even if they hear the advice the do what's on theirmind if they suspect fowl play they turn a blind eye and continue 3. The earlier the better it seems you have not experienced what love is if you have you will know this doesn't come close a girl with conscience won't swallow your money like this or ask you for too much she may ask but will be considerate. This one is a heartless gold digger. She is eyeing some fatter pockets. In all run away, try to ask your niggas what it means for a girl to be in love go to a nigga you know has the experience or open the thread or ask some ladies, you can ask your mom start educating yourself relationship wise it's not all about book. The lady is not in love with you, haven't you heard love is blind all decisions for love non against when it exist, if you are one of the no sex guy this girl probably cheated on you with a magic wand and considering you are a book warm is ready to let go of your money as you will never satisfy her in bed. But op you mean since year 2 you did birthday for the mom and she is doing this behind you if this is true even the mother is a heartless gold digger, daughter will be worse trust me you don't want to leave in a home with this so called girlfriend, if you are not planning to marry while dating you are preparing for a heartbreak she was prepared since, this is so sad, I can see you are all book start talking to matured niggas ladies your mom about relationships. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:53pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Bush2013:my penis Wil never rise in front of a woman that said that to me. My ego is way too huge for that kind of talk from a woman. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by zuto4u(m): 10:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Bro, it is very clear that u guys are not meant to be. Listen, everyone on earth has a special life partner specifically created for him or her. The greatest mistake any man will make in this life is to marry a lady meant for another man, u will never find peace in such a marriage. It is only God that can direct u to your real prospective wife, so go to God in prayer, and he will guide your heart. If I tell u how I met my beautiful wife, u will marvel. And today, I am a fulfilled and happiest man on earth. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 10:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
at a point in time, everbody make mistakes and I'm sure u've realised how gullible you are, try to be careful next time, and I'm sure ion need to tell you dat dat gal is gone forever, she can never marry you....You should have travelled outta d country when u had d opportunity, u fvcked up bro, maybe u never had anyone to advise you Sha. |
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