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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Chisco2212(m): 11:08pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni:My ebonyi brother, move on nwannem because she doesn't even feel a shit for you. Even though i am not a cheerful giver like you, a girl did the same to me (parents not in support of an ebonyi man for marriage). I manned up and skipped her like sliced bread, and after one year plus, she came back begging and i threw her out. Know your WORTH bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ledamaster(m): 11:10pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Anambra peps prefer marrying themselves, to make matter worst you from Ebonyi, which some Igbo folks see as not Igbo enough. I for one pity folks dating them, i dont, they will use you and then use the "my mama say" line to break up, after they are done with you. Had this Anambra girl who tried it with me despite how good i was to her, i left and moved on. 3yrs down the line she wants back, problem is it already late. I found me a kick ass Asaba queen. My advice? This is your cross(pain), use it to become someone in life. She is not the one for you. Moment you resume, be by yourself, give her a safe distance and concentrate on your studies, as soon as you finished, travel out to conclude your study and make a success of your life. Believe me bro, one day she will dm you, or you wil bump into each other or you will look at the beautiful queen by your side and wonder what in this world your saw in her in the first place. Not an easy thing, I mean leaving her, but its the best. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Favourite001: 11:11pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
IloveToMess:Forget dat tin Bros,igbos have d issue of compatibility,anambra can't marry imo especially. And leadership,anmabra always claiming deir r better Dan d other igbos. Allowing one state to b president is going to b serious problem. Well let's not deviate from d main post 2 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Henrygood: 11:13pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
adecz: 1 Share
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 11:13pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Op na maga the girl na scammer you paid for the sins of other men who used her |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by googie2shoes: 11:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I don't believe her mom told her she can't marry Ebonyi. Thy didn't have any issue milking an Ebonyi student all these years. I think she's lying & into someone else, cos it doesn't seem she fought to defend you. My parents fought me taya but had to give in after several months cos I was sure of what I wanted. I'm from Taraba and married a Delta man. Back to your issue. Please from TODAY make up your mind to no longer give her a kobo, abeg. Snap out of the slavery and move on. She and her mother should find another cash cow to handle her transport, training, feeding and education. What nonsense. You're young and have a good heart and will meet a deserving lady, but you need to pluck the leech out of your life IMMEDIATELY. 5 Likes
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by maasoap(m): 11:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
missimelda01: That's it. BTW: many ladies have nothing to offer in relationship except that one thing 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by elhafeez(m): 11:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
They will be shouting Biafra upandan and Anambara can't marry Ebonyi. They are not even United. May tunder fire the next man that shout Biafra republic. no wonder na those once wen dey leave for diaspora carry the matter for head pass. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Uwavee(m): 11:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I feel for you. I did my nysc, I got to know how people of anambra hate ebonyi people. I question one of them, he told me ebonyi people are servants to them who work in their farmland and go on errand for them etc. so they treat them like leprous people. he also said they Don't marry them. right from the start, that girl knew she could not marry you. she took you for a fool and mugu. she's evil. just let her go, you will get a better girl that appreciate you for who you are. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by emmaitive(m): 11:15pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Guy please forget this girl..there s danger waiting for you, I know it hurt but move on.you are going to tank God later |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Lipscomb(m): 11:15pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Definitely she has connived with her mother to marry rich man...very shameful of a thing... Nigerians ladies deserve no respect many of them are animal you must treat them like one. I hope you can waste her time just like she wasted your time. Don't say God will judge her Because you will not there when God will judge her. Judge her by yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 11:15pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Favourite001:Whatever you dont know just keep quiet instead of exposing your foolishness and ignorance here. Anambra that are dying to marry Imo women. Maybe E-money married from Afghanistan i guess. Like i said it is a thing of choice boy. If you dont know how serious issue of marriage is then you had better shut up till you are grown enough to understand. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Giwoni: 11:17pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Atteraino:mostly she tells that she doesn't have and cannot give me what she don't have. The highest she have done for me was to get me four pieces of boxers and three singlets plus one one belt. Remember, I have not gone quarter of what I have done for her. I don't even want to mention they one I took the risk to represent her for an examinations which her classmates vindicated me but it was only God's grace that saved me from being expelled from medical school. Let me just stop here because if should have included everything as regards to both to each other, I would have been even insulted the more... 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Briller: 11:18pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
It is possible her people won't approve of her marriage to an Ebonyi man. I can relate with to that cause I am from Anambra and when my senior brother informed us he wants to settle down with an Ebonyi lady, we all kicked against it because of their primitive behaviour and violent attitude. This might be a stereotype but owing to our previous experiences with neighbors who were from Ebonyi, it wasn't easy for us to accept his marriage to the lady in question. And guess what, he is done for. This lady can fight naked on the street, she steals, is diabolical, goes around sowing seed of discord, etc. Plenty demonic characters in one person. So if her parents have had such an experience, it can make them reject you. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Johntitus: 11:19pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Sarah20A: Bae I really respect you shouldering the responsibilities of a man. You try. One thing you or the OP should know is, 'Love' is a fluid concept. As for him moving on like that, lol, my guy needs therapy. He should be grateful Nairalanders are giving him that. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by opineflu(m): 11:20pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
This op just escape from an unrepentant cheating gold digger,go thank your creator for such an unfortunate heads up. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Giwoni: 11:20pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
callmeRichie:I said late 20s meaning that I'm getting to 30 years very soon. Thanks |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Faithful23(f): 11:20pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I wonder why people give or do anything in a relationship with the hope that the person will stick with them or marry them. Not everyone will come across are meant for us. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by James150: 11:21pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: Please don't be too hard on yourself bro. Dont loose your sanity for a girl who never saw talkless of appreciated your love and effort. you sacrificed so much. I know this can be so painful to some extent if she really loved you and not having another person in mind all these wont happen. See if she wants to spend her life with you she can even get pregnant for u and then forced to marriage everything will be over in no time. Besides you have a promising future not like you can't care for her. This is not a generation where parents influence their children any longer. They don't brother you can always find a way out if she really wanted to. You have a bright future ahead of you and trust me the best is yet to come you may feel you cant love another girl like her but trust me these kind of girls are the easiest to forget when u start to mingle and get to see you are worth more than that ill treatment u will look back and laugh at her stupidity and yours too. Think of the bright future ahead of you bro think of God grace in your life think of your family after your medical school leave for the UK as soon as possible make money ball d more. KARMA will always find its victim |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Favourite001: 11:22pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
IloveToMess:I c!!!! U don't only lack oneness u also lack manners. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by nkemdi89(f): 11:22pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I don't know why you refuse to read the handwriting on the wall? It will be easy for odumeje to lift abba kyari from the grave , than for an anambra girl to marry an ebonyi man. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Giwoni: 11:22pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
callmeRichie:My brother never rushed to get married rather I was the one who told him when I wanted to get married which we discussed exhaustively. Okay. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ledamaster(m): 11:23pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Chi59:Lol, reason I wonder why some ladies don't learn. They will shine your Kongo, then say my mama say, bla bla bla, . me anytime I hear an interest is from.a na bra, I just chop and wake. No time 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by caylakays: 11:23pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Lol....same with me... I can't marry and ebonyi man. Even my parents won't support it. U guys have a long way to go in reviving ur image |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by IloveToMess: 11:24pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Favourite001:Kai who is this one abeg?. This oneness of a thing is really giving you sleepless night, you strongly wish for it to be true i can see. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Insectkiller: 11:24pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I like d way u ended ur story.. From ur story, I could deduced that she doesn't want u in d first place. I mean she may need u around as a financial back up and fling (intimacy gadget) as usual but deep down inside her she never see her future in you.. because with d way u painted her, she must be from an average or below average home. And I knw ppl like that parent can't dictate for them, they will negate it. So, if she see any future in you, she would have fought it with her parent. One Advice: You are a good guy with bright future. Don't waste your time. Just move ON! because, if u force urself on her, she will cheat on you without respect. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 11:25pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
OP after I read your writeup and saw the image you attached this was my reaction :
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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 11:25pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
IloveToMess:Whatever helps you sleep well at night |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by airminem(f): 11:26pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Foolany better than these people sef. Mtcheeeew |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by callmeRichie(m): 11:26pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Giwoni post=88673451] I said late 20s meaning that I'm getting to 30 years very soon. Thanks Ooh, my eyes skipped that bro... Anyways, take your time man. It's never too late. Make yourself valuable first, as you are in no competition with anybody into marriage. You're different from any other person, you're you. So the dream first and see how better, independent, stable babes go dey follow u around. Goodluck bro, one love... |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
nkemdi89:your analogy is lit! 1 Like |
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